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I Can Disagree With You, And Still Love You

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    I wish more people saw this.

    It seems that most people who realize that someone disagrees with them, they instantly see them as their enemy....
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M Oct 15, 2014

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    Because You Are A Human Being And You Deserve To Be Accepted And Loved

    It's okay if we disagree. Our unique experiences have led us to form opposite opinions on the matter at hand. But you are a human, a living creature with thoughts, feelings, needs, and a right to be accepted and loved unconditionally. And I will be happy to give you that. Even if...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2011

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    Well if someone loves you,

    they should accept any decision you make.
    slashy11 slashy11 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    You are wrong, yes you are.

    I know it's selfish to ask you for things and get angry when you don't do it but that's where you have to take a step and show me that you love me. Don't just say but prove it by doing what I asked for or at least convince me why you couldn't. I don't ask for everything all the...
    chotajhakass chotajhakass 22-25, M Nov 23, 2014

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    Opinions are simply opinions,

    nothing more. Just because I disagree with you on something, doesn't mean I shouldn't love and care about you like I did before then. Besides people who are close to each other should have disagreements every once in awhile. If not then something's being hidden.
    FromAntoinette FromAntoinette 22-25 Jan 26

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    John Wesley And George Whitefield

    The term "agree to disagree" was first put into print by John Wesley in 1770, in a memorial sermon for his friend George Whitefield. Wesley and Whitefield were very good friends but had many philosophical differences concerning Christianity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 22, 2012

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    Agree To Disagree...

    For me personally, this statement is very true. I really don't have to make everyone agree with me to be happy in this life. But this story is going to focus mostly on my wife. The one thing that has killed me throughout our entire marriage (12 years) to this point has been...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M Dec 18, 2012

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    Not you. Or you. Or you.

    Good lord stop crowding me yall.
    JustBipolarMe JustBipolarMe 46-50, M Nov 23, 2015

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    So true. Adversarial love doesn't exist.

    Patience is something real love intructs. Understanding is the ultimate reward. Love sophisticates perspective. We learn seeing through anothers eyes. Errors in the stucturing of beliefs take time. Having an epiphany or eureka moment in one or both. In togetherness we learn that...
    Actactualaredy Actactualaredy 51-55, M Jan 24

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    So, I go to church and my boyfriend doesn't.

    People typically say this is bad. I'm working on it though. We do believe in the same things. Which is good. My boyfriend finally agreed to let me take our child to church. I'm really happy about this, to be honest.
    mkmoore mkmoore 18-21, F Oct 14, 2014

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    Disagreement is a good thing.

    It makes the world versatile and interesting. I love to learn from others. If I don't agree entirely with someone's opinion, the parts I do agree with can be inspiring. And the parts I don't agree with enforce my own opinion because it reminds me that the other options don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 23, 2014

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    Oposites Attract? True!

    we are different in so many ways. yet the exact same. sure we do't always agree but just becouse we don't agree doesn't mean i don't love you.
    LoveISHateHateISLove LoveISHateHateISLove 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Yeah, I Still Do..

    I disagree with everything a lot, I don't know, for the sake of argument I think, or maybe I just love having my own opinion....I diagree with my mom a lot, with my brothers, and friends but that doesn't mean I love them less... my affection for them is something unchangeable...I...
    jazzME jazzME 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2011

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    My Friends And I...

    I'm a conservative, non-denominational Christian. You'd think my friends and family, and I, wouldn't get along, would you? Wrong-O! I get along with them all, no matter what I think about their decisions. One of my aunts is lesbian. One of my aunts puts WAY too much stock in...
    angelsofhope2008 angelsofhope2008 26-30, M Feb 28, 2011

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    I will disagree with you from time to time

    but one thing will never change is how I feel about you I love you wvcountrylady
    justmyself11 justmyself11 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2015

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    I Still Love You, Man

    I may love the hell out of a person, but I may also disagree with them.  My brother and I are like that.  We disagree all the time, but I still love him.  Just because we disagree doesn't mean we love each other any less.I think disagreeing is fun sometimes. It would be so...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Factually....if it doesn't happen now

    and then, there's some truth missing.
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    I lean left, he leans right.

    Not necessarily a dealbreaker. Remember Mary Matalin and James Carville? . He believes, I'm skeptical. Not necessarily a dealbreaker. Mark Twain was a skeptic and his wife was a believer. . I like rock, he likes rap. OK....NOW we might have a problem, ha ha!
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 14 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    And I think that this doesn't have to be the case. I think that someone can intentionally or unintentionally show you what they love about you. They can give you an uppiffony and...
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    InspireMeZilly InspireMeZilly 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's tough to find people that can debate and disagree without it turning ugly and personal. I love a good debate and like any "sport" I can walk away and have no issues with the...
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    "Time, it needs time To win back your love again I will be there, I will be there Love, only love Can bring back your love someday I will be there, I will be there I'll fight, babe...
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    I gave you all of my heart. I did everything to make you happy and safe. I made you eat more so you didn't starve. I made you be careful. I gave you everything I could. And now you...
    CutieBear23 CutieBear23 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    You are overbearing, I'm not in love But I don't wanna tell you We've been contemplating how to give it up But I can't convince you We've been hopelessly holding too tight When we...
    SweetDreamsRubi SweetDreamsRubi 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Hi everyone and welcome... to my crystal lair. Haha :) Before you message or add me please consider this: 1. I am here to vent in the environment that is ultimately non...
    AmethystCluster AmethystCluster 26-30, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just talking to you soothes me. You're the reason I want to be the best woman I can be. I love you
    ZenGrrrlLioNESS ZenGrrrlLioNESS 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It is not God's job to control out thought's. The dark need's your energy to coexist here. When you have a thought you know is not what you see as love, or good. Immediately get...
    lullabywolfeh lullabywolfeh 51-55, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I said what ? You said I said I loved you ... That was before you broke my heart... You said, I said I would stick with you through thick and thin, and never leave you... That was...
    lullabywolfeh lullabywolfeh 51-55, F a week ago

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    Kimmy159 Kimmy159 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    RosenFlight RosenFlight 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I have a tattoo of a beautiful rose, with thorns and bleeding on my shoulder. Why? To remind me how beautiful and how painful love can be. And yet I still long for love.
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    and he still loves me but I'm scared to ask him out since he broke up with me then he asked me back out again and I turned him down but today he said " np anything for my ex" and...
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    1. I'm not a feminist. I'm not a meninist. I support "human rights". -What does this means? That I do not follow feminist ideology, nor this frankenstein online joke of meninism...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Love to me is everlasting, evergreen, unconditional and forever mine. Love is real it has all shades of you with a little me, forever free. All of me within you, you're my favorite...
    sabzi2 sabzi2 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I hate that I love you It hurts to love you I never wanted to lose you But you gave up too soon Who are you to tell me to not give up on you Who are you to lie straight to my...
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    And I can feel myself becoming jaded about love. Never in my life had I thought I'd be in this ridiculous situation. I've never felt this pathetic or this much anger towards anyone...
    SweetDreamsRubi SweetDreamsRubi 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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