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    My boyfriend is in the military

    and I haven't seen him in about 6 months. He has a group of guy friends he always hangs out with but there's this one girl that decides I tag on. It makes me feel uncomfortable and it's inappropriate since all the guys are in a committed relationship. I don't know if it's just...
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I have once and it was a receptionist at a hotel checking out my man. OH HELL NO!!! yes, it pissed me off and made me jealous, VERY jealous.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 15, 2010

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    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    This doesn't always happen to me

    but sometimes... if I really like someone and I know they like me too, I get jealous if their attention is on someone else. A girl I'm kinda with is sexually open like I am which is really great for us because we work well, but she is getting attached to a man she is having sex...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F Oct 26

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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Sep 21

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    Not a Jealous Person...

    But when one messes with my man (mainly girl flirting with bf IN FRONT OF ME), or if the situation is just right, I feel that little green monster screaming "MINE" creeping up behind me... Good to know that I am secure enough with myself to know that I can trust him...
    hae hae 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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    The Beast

    Yes, I admit it. I can be the jealous type. I'm sure it's the Scorpio in me, I can't help myself. Really though, this is a trait I'm working to remove from my repatoire. I don't like myself when I become possessed by jealousy. It has a horrible effect on me. I...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F May 26, 2011

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    Boyfriends sisters are just

    so ugh. She really wears booty shorts and no bra on around the house. I just find it so disrespectful. I mean am I wrong?
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I'M In An Open Relationship But Sometimes I Get Jealous

    I don't act on it, and I also feel guilty about it. When I think that she's going to have experiences without me, or I think that she is able to have better experiences than me, I get a feeling somewhere between shame and jealousy. I hate it. Part of it is a fear of getting...
    thedeepend thedeepend 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    But

    but after i know is just me being stupid..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I hate getting jealous over nothing

    but sometimes now it's over every thing😭
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F Apr 19

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    Yeah..

    That was a real issue for me when I was younger. Caused me a lot of pain, but I made sure to direct it at myself and no one else because I knew it was a personal problem I shouldn't be putting on others.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Oct 6, 2010

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    Jealousy

    i can be the jealous type, i know that at times it is needed, you know, protectiveness. . . but other times it the thing i hate the most about myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22, 2013

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    It Really Is Bigger Than Jealousy…

    I am a jealous person, not to the crazy or destructive extreme, but it’s an emotion I’m willing to acknowledge.  I feel the need...at times...to justify to myself what is a normal human reaction. I think it’s a bigger issue than just simple jealousy.  Although I’ve...
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws 36-40, F Feb 8, 2013

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    I have few words for this,

    I don't like admitting to jealousy but I can admit it drives me crazy. If someone ever tries to make me jealous on purpose then they can kiss my *** as I walk away.
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I can admit I do get jealous at times.

    Sometimes it motivates me and other times I let it go to my head and beat myself up about it. I'm not the type of person to hate just because I'm jealous. I keep it to myself. I don't condone bitterness. That's just not me. I can be happy for someone and still feel indifferent...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Okay so I tried really hard not to be the

    jealous girlfriend while dating my ex boyfriend. But when my bf is sleeping over at my friends house, who btw is a girl and admitted to me that she likes my bf, how the hell am I not supposed to get jealous. Am I just supposed to be okay with that?
    JenMarie97 JenMarie97 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I hate that I get jealous so easily :/ I don't mean to. Sometimes just the right thing said can cause me to get jealous. I just....I'm in a long distance relationship and my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I wish i was like her! she's outgoing, sociable, bubbly, open and she is never shy. she gets so much guys and she gets asked out a lot, she will literally go up to anyone and say...
    juliac123 juliac123 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I need to learn to control my jealousy issues but I don't know how. I'm pushing my boyfriend away but I can't keep my mouth shut when something is bothering me. This is going to be...
    mbroderson mbroderson 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I have these friends who are a couple and theyre moving into their own place soon with one of their cousins. And now that theyre moving out, and hes getting a job at the police...
    lillysmith1102 lillysmith1102 18-21, F Nov 13

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    I am in a relationship, & I love my boyfriend. I am the jealous type & its starting to affect my relationship. He is jealous as well but we react differently. I love him, & I know...
    janaeannette janaeannette 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I'm jealous Of course I'm ******* jealous While I'm here spending my time without you Lonely Missing you Someone's there sitting right beside you Talking to you Listening to your...
    nicoulle nicoulle 18-21, F Nov 9

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    Yesterday my classmates and I went to a Halloween party with another kids. My boyfriend and some friends got in a contest and won 1st place (so proud of my bby :3) and then a girl...
    HandaGabriella HandaGabriella 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I like to feel wanted, so when a friend or crush gets along better with someone else than me, I get jealous, and I hate myself for getting jealous.
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    Snow falls and lays on the floor, a taste of a snowflake is mine to endure. This heavy sky snowing so lightly, wind off dancing with every vessel but me. This I of jealously...
    XnOXnO XnOXnO 22-25, M Nov 3

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    I had my daughter when I was 15 years old. I lost friends, and had that 'stuck' feeling of never being able to do things that young adults would normally do. I met my husband when...
    miseryred miseryred 22-25, F Nov 9

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    I hate getting jealous, but it shows people tht I care for them, so be grateful tht I am jealous n care bout u!!
    Chipmunk1023 Chipmunk1023 16-17, F Nov 9

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    I am stalking my boyfriend's ex. He dumped her for me, and the first month of us dating he was unsure about his decision and wasnt ready to be with me so we ended it. He started...
    bluesdetoi bluesdetoi 26-30, F Nov 16

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    Yesss I'm jealous and I'm not afraid to say it I'm jealous of everyone that gets to see you everyday while I'm just here waiting wondering when will I finally see you again
    soccerislife14 soccerislife14 18-21, F Nov 18

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    Ok I'm not jealous to the fact that it's controlling uh uh no way , but as my own saying goes, "you call it jealousy , I call it the fear of losing you"
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I don't know why guys will be so lovely when they get jealous, like "hi dude that's mine so don't even dare to touch" :p p.s: I like most when you get jealous :p x
    cassxandra cassxandra 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    The above I didn't know where else to post this. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him to pieces, he is everything I ask for accept he has a daughter with an ex...
    Mistygemma92 Mistygemma92 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i have just one male friend and i know about his all other female friends even though i'm also just a friend to him but i can't stand the other girls i want to kill all of them i...
    meety12 meety12 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    Jealousy is one of the things that can destroy you from within. When you are in love, love with everything you have! Don't try to love with limits on trust!!! You can only truly...
    Serfyboy Serfyboy 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 31

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    why can't I ever like someone, and let them have friends... idk... I don't trust easy, and when I do... the slightest, I guess threat... just sets me off... I don't wanna be like...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 12

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    Yes I am. Don't get me wrong. I love my sister. She is my best friend, my everything. She is my baby girl. I love her with all my heart and I will take care of her. She is prettier...
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I need someone to help me please ! I've been thinking about committing suicide a lot and it's all because a small thing , which is my sister she's prettier and everything !! It...
    Snowwhite5424 Snowwhite5424 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    How do I stop being jealous? I constantly worry if I'm being better than my boyfriend's exes. I'm beating myself up and no matter how hard I try, I can't stop!
    julianclaire julianclaire 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    I don't mean to be as jealous as I am. I just am and it's a problem. I try SO hard not to go overboard with saying things, but sometimes I just kirk off fr the simplest things. My...
    thisgirl92 thisgirl92 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    To make long story short. I was a very confident young lady during college, had nice friends, fun and a good time. I met my ex, married and stay together for over 8 years. During...
    Mynameisloneliness Mynameisloneliness 26-30 1 Response Nov 19

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    I don't even know what to do about my jealousy, it takes over me. Angry, and wanting more attention from him than anyone that has his. Does anyone have this problem when you have...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    so i've been with my boyfriend almost two years and i love him a lot and respect him as a person. hes never given me any problems or any reason to make me upset. the only thing...
    eminor92 eminor92 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    How do I control my jealousy?
    heavenmescud heavenmescud 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I get jealous over people who are pretty AND smart, since when did we allow people to have BOTH!? (haha). I wish for both....
    CharlesMansonism CharlesMansonism 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    My jealousy is outta control
    heavenmescud heavenmescud 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I feel i have jealousy which is above average level. Just wondering how to get over it???
    yashwith yashwith 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 3

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