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I Can Get Jealous

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    But

    but after i know is just me being stupid..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Yeah..

    That was a real issue for me when I was younger. Caused me a lot of pain, but I made sure to direct it at myself and no one else because I knew it was a personal problem I shouldn't be putting on others.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Oct 6, 2010

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    I even get jealous of the fact

    that my roommate has a fwb. I don't want one, but I'm jealous of the fact that she's not alone and I still am.
    ChiaXUno ChiaXUno 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It Really Is Bigger Than Jealousy…

    I am a jealous person, not to the crazy or destructive extreme, but it’s an emotion I’m willing to acknowledge.  I feel the need...at times...to justify to myself what is a normal human reaction. I think it’s a bigger issue than just simple jealousy.  Although I’ve...
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws 36-40, F Feb 8, 2013

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    Boyfriends sisters are just

    so ugh. She really wears booty shorts and no bra on around the house. I just find it so disrespectful. I mean am I wrong?
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F Aug 25, 2014

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    The Beast

    Yes, I admit it. I can be the jealous type. I'm sure it's the Scorpio in me, I can't help myself. Really though, this is a trait I'm working to remove from my repatoire. I don't like myself when I become possessed by jealousy. It has a horrible effect on me. I...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F May 26, 2011

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    So how are u supposssed to react

    when the love of your life is giving u the silient treatment when your not even fighting while telling one of her guy freinds to move in with here WOW!!!!!!
    TlovesLouise TlovesLouise 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    Okay so I tried really hard not to be the

    jealous girlfriend while dating my ex boyfriend. But when my bf is sleeping over at my friends house, who btw is a girl and admitted to me that she likes my bf, how the hell am I not supposed to get jealous. Am I just supposed to be okay with that?
    JenMarie97 JenMarie97 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2014

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    I'M In An Open Relationship But Sometimes I Get Jealous

    I don't act on it, and I also feel guilty about it. When I think that she's going to have experiences without me, or I think that she is able to have better experiences than me, I get a feeling somewhere between shame and jealousy. I hate it. Part of it is a fear of getting...
    thedeepend thedeepend 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    This doesn't always happen to me

    but sometimes... if I really like someone and I know they like me too, I get jealous if their attention is on someone else. A girl I'm kinda with is sexually open like I am which is really great for us because we work well, but she is getting attached to a man she is having sex...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    Not a Jealous Person...

    But when one messes with my man (mainly girl flirting with bf IN FRONT OF ME), or if the situation is just right, I feel that little green monster screaming "MINE" creeping up behind me... Good to know that I am secure enough with myself to know that I can trust him...
    hae hae 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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    Sometimes, it takes a little bit of jealousy

    for you to figure out how much someone really means to you.
    LetsAllGoToHell LetsAllGoToHell 26-30 Jan 11

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    My boyfriend is in the military

    and I haven't seen him in about 6 months. He has a group of guy friends he always hangs out with but there's this one girl that decides I tag on. It makes me feel uncomfortable and it's inappropriate since all the guys are in a committed relationship. I don't know if it's just...
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F Jul 8, 2014

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    I have once and it was a receptionist at a hotel checking out my man. OH HELL NO!!! yes, it pissed me off and made me jealous, VERY jealous.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 15, 2010

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    I hate getting jealous over nothing

    but sometimes now it's over every thing😭
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F Apr 19, 2014

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    I can admit I do get jealous at times.

    Sometimes it motivates me and other times I let it go to my head and beat myself up about it. I'm not the type of person to hate just because I'm jealous. I keep it to myself. I don't condone bitterness. That's just not me. I can be happy for someone and still feel indifferent...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2014

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    Jealousy

    i can be the jealous type, i know that at times it is needed, you know, protectiveness. . . but other times it the thing i hate the most about myself.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22, 2013

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    I have few words for this,

    I don't like admitting to jealousy but I can admit it drives me crazy. If someone ever tries to make me jealous on purpose then they can kiss my *** as I walk away.
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F Jul 2, 2014

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    im1whoknocks im1whoknocks 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I don't get jealous of people, I get jealous over people (not sure I am using the right words here to convey the right feeling). I don't get jealous because she is prettier than...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    You'd never be able to tell I'm jealous. It actually embarrasses me to show it I feel ashamed almost. So I try my absolute best. Heres the thing I'm really pretty, I get told on...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hmm. Depends on what they're jealous about. Like, if a girl acts like a snob to me because she is jealous or something I have or the way I look, I find it kind of funny. Like...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I don't know why some people don't get jealous at least once from a situation with their girlfriend/boyfriend. you never know what could possibly happen. I'll be honest, I'm cold...
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i have been with my fiance for a year. we have a baby on the way our first child together but third for us both. my problem is i resent that when he was with his first wife whom...
    srnyers srnyers 26-30, F Jan 2

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    Before I met my Marine all the guys I dated before cheated on me. Now that I have been with my Marine he has never cheated but when I see a girl or a guy looking at him I get...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F Jan 11

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    This is not about me being jealous over a girl that likes the same guy or anything. It's more that I'm jealous of my sister. I feel like she is more wanted than I am and I shouldn...
    pinklimeliz pinklimeliz 16-17, F Dec 27, 2014

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    My boyfriend got jealous because a coworker of mine wanted to take me home after work tonight. Is it healthy for jealousy to be in a relationship?
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M Jan 2

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    I'm extremely jealous of even female "Facebook friends" of my bf's, we originally met there since we had a mutual "friend", began talking, a lot of times for hours, he'd always...
    justme2151981 justme2151981 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    My ex married a beautiful Latina girl he met online who is over 10 years younger than him. We had a really toxic relationship for 7 years and I'm so glad its finally over but for...
    SilverSkies88 SilverSkies88 31-35, F Jan 10

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    my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. we broke up for a few months, then he showed up at my house and bawled his eyes out telling me he was sorry, that it was a mistake. he said...
    boombop7 boombop7 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    ..I don't know why maybe it's the thought of not being able to have something someone else has..I just get too jealous over one little thing and then it just turns me around and...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    The other day I had a chemistry exam and I fail the exam. My friends were all saying what they got 90, 80, 84, and I was like well, I failed. I got jealous but you know it was my...
    lucy1010 lucy1010 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    My story is same as most. But I wouldn't say I'm jealous of my boyfriend's daughter, it's the 'firsts' and mother of his daughter I'm pissed off about. They were never really...
    kxxym kxxym 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Im for sure the jealous type... It's something I really can't help it takes alot for me to find myself attracted to someone and once that happens it's almost like I don't want...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    No matter how many times I hear people telling me to get over my jealousy and insecurity I can't do it. It feels like a vast, solid wall that has taken years to construct so that...
    Incognitobae Incognitobae 18-21, F Jan 7

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    Yesterday I was texting with an ex college classmate and he told me that his girlfriend was jealous of me. How is that even possible? She doesn't know me or even know how I look...
    almasolitaria312 almasolitaria312 31-35, F 11 Responses Jan 16

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    what do you think? why would he lie about her to me if he say he has nothing to hide? he lied to me that they are not talking and he don't even say hi to her then I figured out...
    dc0d3 dc0d3 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    So jealous of those girls that are pretty,play guitar and can sing!
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    its really cute when a guy gets jealous XD especially when his girl best friend calls some other guy as 'dear' XP lol
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F Dec 27, 2014

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    This might sound stupid, but I'm jealous of women. They get to have these amazing bodies, and experiences. While guys just sit by and watch. I would love to be a woman, and...
    Eikenmaster Eikenmaster 22-25, M Dec 28, 2014

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    well not low self esteem i may not like myself but i still think im better than mist people... i have a wierd mindset. any way jealousy? yeah i guess i am, same old story girl i...
    Idioticnerd Idioticnerd 13-15, M Jan 6

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    I'm so scared that my crush will fall out of love with me. He likes me back too. But I get jealous when I see him with other girls. I'm always comparing them to myself. What should...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F Jan 10

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    I'm jealous of my cousins girlfriend and I hate it.
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    So...I met this guy at a chorus concert. I gave him my number, which i don't usually do. We talk every once and a while now. Today he put a picture on snapchat with some girl. I'm...
    KDshea KDshea 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    So my boyfriend is asleep rn just saw his post on ep about how he hates his life and him just saying those words just broke my heart he's an amazing guy and im trying so hard just...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 2 Responses