I Can Not Stand People With Rude Manners

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    Did You Forget Your Manners?

    Or do you just not have any? I seriously don't understand what is wrong with some people. Just a few examples of rude behavior that I find completely unacceptable; People that cuss loudly in public. Cuss words don't offend me, hell I use them too, but I think its just plain rude...
    explainit2me explainit2me
    26-30, F
    Mar 21, 2011

    Ever hold a door open

    for someone that didn't say thank you? SLAM THAT SH!T
    Flawlless Flawlless
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    (This doesn't really fall under this experience,

    but I NEED to vent). I cannot stand people who constantly "one-up" everything you say. Me: "I placed second in the local race this weekend!" Other person: "Nice! I won the Boston Marathon 5 times in a row, despite being held up by a herd of elephants momentarily"
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    Or just rude attitudes.

    There are certain things that should never be said. YOU SHOULD NEVER - EVER - point out a flaw. N E V E R. Yet people never misses the chance to make you feel bad about yourself. I don't like doing it cause I know the feeling and I always ask myself how do people do it and...
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever
    22-25, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    In Response To "saggy Pants"

    and i say there is a difference in how you dress for work or a job interview VS you on your own time are you telling me you would refuse to sell products to a customer dressed that way ? (why do i get the feeling you are) i am not worried about an ounce a pound or 5...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2011

    What Was That?!

       Why do some people think it is ok to make bodily noises in public ? Why do some people lick their fingers while they are eating in front of others? How hard is it to say please and thank you? It just blows me away when I am teaching my childern how to be polite...
    akaaka akaaka
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2008

    What Was That?!

       Why do some people think it is ok to make bodily noises in public ? Why do some people lick their fingers while they are eating in front of others? How hard is it to say please and thank you? It just blows me away when I am teaching my childern how to be polite...
    akaaka akaaka
    1 Response Jun 11, 2008
    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913
    22-25, M
    Oct 12, 2014

    Courtesy, Courtesy, Courtesy.

    Maybe I ought to preface this by saying that both my granddaddies were military men, and my daddy was a preacher.No way in hell was I gonna turn out to be a disrespectful little brat!But still.  It takes no time at all to say "please" and "thank you".  You're not gonna get to...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2011

    Where Did They Go?

    It seems like manners have almost totally disappeared as well as respecting your elders.....love the saying from John Wayne in his movie Big Jake ( if you can't respect your elders then you should respect your betters) at which point he knocks out his two sons.....rudeness...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012

    COP LIVES MATTER Thanks to those

    who wear that badge and risk their lives to uphold the law
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    My parents and I went on a trip to see family.

    And of course, we had to make stops for bathroom and making sure to eat.We stopped at a Burger King. Mom and I had to use the women's room. When I came out of the stall, there was this female worker just standing there staring at her cell phone (the one piece of technology that...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    I´ve just had another "nice" experience with a

    man here...someone pretending to be nice and cool...he first pretended to apologize, because he didnt believe me when I said I hadnt understood one phrase he used...I accepted his apologies but suggested him to be careful in the future since people on the site are from many very...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    Rude Manners

    I feel the same as you do on this matter! The biggest problem these days is TV and the lack of discipline in society.Some of the prominent celebraties on teli have the majority of support of their viewers who appear to have become immune to the ofensivity of ignorance and as a...
    tartito65 tartito65
    56-60, M
    Oct 5, 2011

    there's this girl in my research group with

    zero manners. she annoyed me enough to make me write this. she interrupts when someone is talking, she throws brainless opinions before knowing the whole story, she name drops, talk about other peoples lives and its all negative, Gossips and has zero contribution to the research...
    Mateom93 Mateom93
    22-25, M
    Aug 26, 2015

    Don't Like Plastic Either

    To be civilized and cultivated is a choice everybody can make.  In the most desperate countries and even in war zones, I've met courteous people.  It's a delight to deal with well-mannered people.  Just the same I get instantly furious when people are rude. ...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2010
    Hhvfubnk Hhvfubnk
    70+, T
    Oct 12, 2014

    Ugh, common courtesy will get you

    so much further than rudeness. I hate to see people treat others with such ugliness. What happened to please and thank you?
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi
    46-50, F
    Oct 12, 2014

    Excuse Me???

     I don't get why some people are so impolite.  I mean, it takes an extra millisecond to say "Please" and "Thank you" so why not do it? Also, why on earth would anyone think that ugliness would get them faster service???  I used to be a tech...
    Geode Geode
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Sep 17, 2009

    Is This Rude To You?

    I was raised to believe that it is EXTREMELY rude to bring takeout food home and eat it in front of people.  I wonder if other people feel this way.  It is just customary in my family to stop and get everyone something, or eat it while you're out that way no one has to...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    Rudeness: Quickest Way To Make Me Avoid You!

    I simply can't stand rude people and rude behavior. I will go out of my way to avoid rude people, thats just how much they annoy me.
    weirgagacrazy weirgagacrazy
    26-30, F
    Oct 9, 2011

    Pleasantries are always appealing.

    Hello what's your name, before, I bet you like it rough! Civility is more captivating.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    I Don't Care Don't Talk 2 Me That Way.

    I really dislike when adults don't correct their children. One day when I was @ the park a child called me an "Afro-Spic. When I went 2 tell the childs mom she said, "Oh that's just something he picked up. Please don't mind him he is a kid you know they just say...
    daysofourlivesfan daysofourlivesfan
    22-25, F
    Aug 12, 2008

    Manners are everything.

    The art of relationship. So many people forget these sensibilities these days and are wilfully selfish. It's a tragedy.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    The rude sumbitches alt to have their nuts

    jerked out and shoved up their *** !! Rude muthafuckas
    deleted deleted
    Aug 26, 2015

    The Bane Of Society

    I have come across many rude people in my life, and I am unsure why there are so many of them in the world today. What happened to being courteous, polite, and friendly? I'm not saying be proper to the point where you drive everyone crazy, but a little politeness wouldn't...
    dramaqueen82 dramaqueen82
    3 Responses Dec 19, 2009

    Newsflash: Folks In The Service Industry Are Human Beings!

    While I've never worked as a waitress or manned the register of a fast food joint I am still very appalled by the way some customers talk to these people as though they are subhuman. It disgusts me that people think it's perfectly acceptable to be uncivil to anyone with a job...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2011
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