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I Can Only Change Myself

Focussing on what is really the issue, what is really lying underneath all the fighting and being proactive about it. Changing yourself to bring a changed result in relationships, situations and life. 6,850 People

    Should I Go Blonde?

    Should i? or should i not?-Destini
    LuvDestini LuvDestini 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    Because I know for sure

    that my desire to change is real, you will never really know if someone else has the desire to change unless they prove it to you everyday.
    alycia12 alycia12 26-30, F Jun 14

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    Phases Of Life

    The last 7 months were times of rest and spirituality.Through rest and spirituality i am transformed.I began to see life in different perspectives. Though my past traumas and sufferings took a big chunk out of my life,I felt the experiences from them made me wiser. I began to...
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F 10 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Today I have taken the challenge.

    New horizons and a new hope... Anybody want to join?
    purelaughter purelaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Your Past Doesn't Define Your Future

    I believe one of the main things that saved my life was being so scared of how it could turn out. My life growing up was very unstable, my mother and father are both drug addicts, We moved from home to home, had little to nothing, and each year it just got worse. The younger...
    HannahGraceS HannahGraceS 22-25, F 21 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Honestly it's time for me to be happy :) I'm

    tired of making others happy which ends makes me miserable. So good-bye to those fake smiles, and hello to my new happy life. Those who walk out of my life I'll appreciate them, those who stay I'll love them. It's never to late to be happy.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Ungrateful sacks of ****,

    you try helping them and its better that they come with a warning label...moving on is the only thing I can do...thanks
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M Aug 21

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    I promise myself not to masturbattee

    for one month. I wish i could make it. Yes! I can do it! I can!! :))
    lwh98 lwh98 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    is it too late to change

    and start over new?
    dove9 dove9 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    no you cannot change yourself you cannot just

    go back to the birth shop and change what god gave you ...you can only live life to the best of your ability and also to the best you can be .thats not changing yourself you are who you are ....but live life to the better you !
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 3 Responses May 14

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    Feeling Much Better

    Have you ever looked at an undone puzzle. Only half of it done and you still cant really see the picture. Thats how I've been doing things lately. I've been trying to see a picture that wasn't there. I spoke to someone for 4 hours yesterday and i can't believe how much that alone...
    Grizzly007 Grizzly007 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    Changing My Life Is Changing Me.

    When I was young I thought I could change the world.  My idealism took over my life.  The day came when I married and thought with my love, my husband will become all he can be.  It took a couple years for me to see, he is who he is, end of story.  All I had...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 21 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Okay so I figured out that

    if I want people to view my livestream I would have to post more information about it.. So here goes :D I want to make a livestream where I show people how to become superheroes. Obviously super powers don't exist, but it is possible to become a superhero through realistic...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Why Don't More People Get This?

    I live near a major international airport and I laugh when there are people who moved into their neighborhoods when the airport was already established, decide years later to complain about the noise. Are you f-ing kidding me? Today, I commented on a story about people wanting to...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere 41-45, M 5 Responses May 7, 2012

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    In Search Of Clarity ..........

    When we see people and situations as they really are, without any false perceptions, we experience clarity. As we live life from a place of clarity, we experience a peace that comes from being guided by the still voice within. Clarity is the first step in taking appropriate...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    I don't like when other people to change

    something about myself Like I have nothing to change about myself I'm not perfect but yeah
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm sick of this world.

    I wish I could go back in time to before humanity took the wrong turn that made everything like this. Eeh.... Whatever. To hell with the system. I guess ill be a backpacker to wherever the wind takes me till I figure something out lol hope you guys have a good day ❤️
    CaliPoppy CaliPoppy 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    So I need some feedback.

    My mom and sister have been fighting since may this year because she didn't tell my mom that she switched churches. I do not think it was lying when my little sister who is 23 and doesn't live at home didn't let my mother in on that part of her life. Last time my sister switched...
    ilmafam ilmafam 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    A Delicious Steak With A Hint Of Testosterone

    I am on a journey. I whet my skills to become better, to become more complex, to become useful and lovable. You know how people are jerks? How they are careless, thoughtless, merciless, greedy, mean, harsh, vicious, cold-hearted? Well, I thought to myself. Why should I settle for...
    Slysmile Slysmile 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    I Am Learning To Love Myself

    I don't love myself enough to surround myself with goodness, because I don't believe I deserve it. I think that people are always going to hurt me. This is because I don't feel good enough. Yet most people live in admiration of me. Most people dot believe I have low self esteem...
    Elizahrose Elizahrose 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2012

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    I Use To Be A Worm But Now I Am A Butterfly I Changed Me!

    I have found this statement to be true! I can only change myself. One time in life I use to feel like I could change others if I tried hard enough stop people from their bad habits and poor manners. Up until this past year I felt that I could move people in compassion by...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jan 27, 2012

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    That's So True

    I can only change myself. I can change myself in to a better person. A more caring, loving, compassionate, positive and respectful person. I also can change myself into the real me, a woman inside and out. A real person who has a lot to offer and a lot to learn. I can only...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    I get really disgusted

    and mad at my boyfriend when I feel like he's being weak or pathetic. I feel bad about being mad then too.
    bengalis bengalis 22-25, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Me

    So I'll tell you the short story of my life. I'm 16 years old, I go to a small town school, live in a big house, I have plenty of friends, had a fair share of boyfriends, I have a job, and I get good grades. What more could a person ask for? The truth. I have plenty of friends...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2011

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    Feeling depressed on Mothers Day is how I'm

    starting off my day. I can't even get up to celebrate with my baby girl. I'm such a loser. I have no friends to call.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses May 11

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    My friend stole forty dollars from me

    and then tried to lie and say she didn't. I know because after she did it,she asked me can she borrow it.
    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    So let's change. Let's move on.

    Let's forget the past. Let's remove people from our lifes who make us feel bad about ourselves.
    spacemonkeyea spacemonkeyea 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I have changed alot threw the past 3 months!

    I did have an old account that I forgot my information on but I made this one to help others like some people helped me. I was a wreak in the last 3 months. I wanted attention, I sent nudes. I was very depressed, I cut... I don't anymore tho! I was hanging out the wrong type of...
    xXMacKenzieXx xXMacKenzieXx 16-17, F Aug 13

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    I think my life is ok

    but sometimes do feel that is this what i wanted. I have to start thinking positively and Hope for the best
    Sonakshi1987 Sonakshi1987 26-30, F Jul 14

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    The Only Reality

    I need to be a different person. I need to get real. I shouldn't let anyone think i'm weak or vulnerable or an easy target. I'm too nice to people and they think its weakness. NO. I'm done being nice. When people have bad intentions, you can't read them at their faces, its...
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M 16 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Women Changing Me

    I wanted to tell a story about dating my one and only GF in college. I hear a lot of stories about women wanting man to change or seeing the potential in them to be a great person, and I have an experience like that. All through our dating, things were the most part wonderful. So...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    It's Time I Start Living This Life That God Has Given Me!

    I'm done letting the world get to me. I'm done letting people get under my skin. It's about time I be the person I was meant to be all along. My whole life people have let me down but now i'm just not going to expect much anymore. My thinking is all screwed up, and I just...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Care & Feeding Of The Mind

    The care & feeding of the mind is just as important as the care & feeding of the body. The mind unfed weakens just as the body does. The mind not sustained by the continual intake of something that is capable of feeding it well or nourishing it, shrinks and shrivels. And it all...
    purpleparrot purpleparrot 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    "Everyone thinks of changing the world,

    but no one thinks of changing himself." ~Leo Tolstoy
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    They say you must hit rock bottom

    before you can rebuild yourself from the bottom up. I have turned into the kind of person that I hate. This is because of the need for attention from men. From this day foward I will change myself for the better. I am a good person, I have just gone haywire lately.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Go Within

    Recently, while having a rare conversation with my wife that I love very much I suggested that she “Go within”. I did not realize the importance of what I was saying. Heloise was talking about her interest in healing with the aid of crystals and her intention of practicing...
    BarryOne BarryOne 51-55, M 9 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Well i don't like sharing my personal

    inconsistencies with people, but here i go so in February i went to Sydney Australia for a little visit seeing that I'm from there, that same night my best mate, his sisters and i went out for dinner.... So during dinner all i thought about was this one girl who meant more than...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 18-21, M May 14

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    You can't help a man

    who can't help themselves.
    Chrysanthemummarie Chrysanthemummarie 16-17 1 Response Jun 4

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    “You’re under no obligation to be the same

    person you were five minutes ago.” Grow every second
    Bound2 Bound2 22-25, F May 15

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    Now, safely in my own world,

    I can change. I can expect more, because I need more. I want a certain life and it has me in the center. I'm done with compromise and fulfilling others wishes. I refuse to mold myself into anyone's trophy for a shelf and I will give my heart the chance of happiness and...
    breathtakingyou breathtakingyou 26-30, F Jun 21

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    The relationships we pursue

    as adults have their foundation in our childhood. We form our idea of what romantic relationships should look and feel like based on the relationships we lived as children; primarily by the way mom and dad treated one another and how they treated us.
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Mhm but I'm not going to.

    .. For the first time in like forever I don't completely hate myself, and I have only one person to thank for it :) except old habits die hard and he isn't a fan of my old habits haha I'm not going to say who though Becuz I want him and only him to know who he is :) lol I'm weird...
    JustKeepSpinning JustKeepSpinning 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    treebopper treebopper 18-21, M Jul 26

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    "Any change, even a change

    for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts." ~Arnold Bennett
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 17

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    Changing Me

    i am angry. i can be very blue. so easily i come unglued. i self distruct and cause my self to bleed.i always feel alone, and i cant stand to see my self in a mirror.change is what i reach for. a new me is what i pray for.i struggle to grow new skin and long to shed my sin.ive...
    glasswalls007 glasswalls007 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Excerpt from Ch. 17 of OnenessIt will take much

    courage, on the part of some of you who consider yourselves to have a great deal at stake, to make a radical deviation from your anticipated life script and forge an alternate plan. For what may appear ill advised when priorities are based on the amassment of material wealth...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I prefer to change myself

    than losing someone.
    StupidWiseGuy StupidWiseGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    i am 25 yr old a dropout with no ged

    or high school diploma, started working since i was 16, but i wasn't able to save any money, started using drugs the addiction i got is esctasy/molly i started using it because of stress and slowly it became a habit, gotten out of a 5 yr relationship then i started using it at a...
    thatlostone thatlostone 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    Free Will

    It's Free will. Only you can Work on Changing yourself. You can't Force someone to do what they don't wanna do. I mean I learned it's best to just Try and do what is best For me. And let people Be who they are. If they see they need to change they will. If I Can't Compromise or...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Modesthijabiigirl Modesthijabiigirl 18-21, F May 11

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    I'm done talking about the big problems in life,

    at least I'm done talking about them so much, because I've learned that people are either going to agree with my opinion or they are going to disagree with my opinion, and I really just don't care whether they do or not. Everyone has their own beliefs and I accept that. So all I...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Iv Changed For The Better

    Two years ago I had everything I could want out of life. But I Only saw what I didn't have, and I wasn't happy. Then we moved. I lost my friends, my own room, my favorite pet, I even lost the majority of my contact with my grandmother. I was fat, depressed and I had no...
    Spittlebug1 Spittlebug1 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    Timely Change, Paralyzed-fear Of The Unkown, Irreversible Damage!

    I'm at a point in my lifes journey where I've reached crisis levels in a majority of the challenges that have been effecting my life since I was a pre-teen. My days are filled with one appointment or another with a slew of various of healthcare professionals, addiction counselor...
    libra604 libra604 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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