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I Can Only Change Myself

Focussing on what is really the issue, what is really lying underneath all the fighting and being proactive about it. Changing yourself to bring a changed result in relationships, situations and life. 6,528 People

    A Delicious Steak With A Hint Of Testosterone - I am on a journey. I whet my skills to become better, to become more complex, to become useful and lovable. You know how people are...
    Slysmile Slysmile 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    That's So True - I can only change myself. I can change myself in to a better person. A more caring, loving, compassionate, positive and respectful person. I also can change...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    In Search Of Clarity .......... - When we see people and situations as they really are, without any false perceptions, we experience clarity. As we live life from a place of...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Change? - you can only change yourself when you're ready. it's not something you can force it just takes time. time is all it takes for anything to happen because literally...
    Spilled Spilled 18-21, F Mar 26, 2013

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    Changing My Life Is Changing Me. - When I was young I thought I could change the world.  My idealism took over my life.  The day came when I married and thought with my...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 21 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Go Within - Recently, while having a rare conversation with my wife that I love very much I suggested that she “Go within”. I did not realize the importance of what I was...
    BarryOne BarryOne 51-55, M 10 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Why do I feel that I always have to be somebody I'm not around other people, when I'm with myself, that is the one time that I can relax and be myself, or when I'm talking to...
    Takeitfromme Takeitfromme 13-15, F Jan 22

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    It's Time I Start Living This Life That God Has Given Me! - I'm done letting the world get to me. I'm done letting people get under my skin. It's about time I be the person I was...
    MKM17 MKM17 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Women Changing Me - I wanted to tell a story about dating my one and only GF in college. I hear a lot of stories about women wanting man to change or seeing the potential in them...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    I stare into the darkness of my room and I know only I can change me. Not fearing death. Not fearing loneliness. I'll survive another day, without you. No more overbearing...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Jan 31

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    Timely Change, Paralyzed-fear Of The Unkown, Irreversible Damage! - I'm at a point in my lifes journey where I've reached crisis levels in a majority of the challenges that have...
    libra604 libra604 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    When night falls, I'm a completely different person, how I feel, how I see. How I act. By midnight I regret it all.
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Mar 30

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    Ashes - Tears no longer fall,I no longer see your face in every stranger.I don't look for your text or wait for a call that I know is not coming.I don't have hatred or malice for...
    BrokenFairytale BrokenFairytale 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    Oh, when people accuse you of "changing" as though you have done something wrong. Ask yourself why they feel the need to point it out? To help you? Or to serve themselves? Will you...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Well let's just say I have a problem I need to talk about it. And you might call it attention but until you go through what I have you won't understand
    hannaaaaa hannaaaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Thoughts and feelings really can change someone whole life . In a good way or bad .
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Jan 23

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    I was just sitting at a meeting talking and I said something like the only person I can change is me. And maybe if I let go of the illusion that I can change other people by shear...
    sara50 sara50 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    They say you must hit rock bottom before you can rebuild yourself from the bottom up. I have turned into the kind of person that I hate. This is because of the need for attention...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Mentoring - One of my childhood issues that stayed with me up till my 50s was loneliness.. And being secretive. In primary school my school district had coping with all the kids my...
    HollywoodBob HollywoodBob 46-50, M 8 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Free Will - It's Free will. Only you can Work on Changing yourself. You can't Force someone to do what they don't wanna do. I mean I learned it's best to just Try and do what is...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Phases Of Life - The last 7 months were times of rest and spirituality.Through rest and spirituality i am transformed.I began to see life in different perspectives. Though my past...
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F 10 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    In the beginning, you will either be completely intrigued by who I am, or you don't care for it. Doesn't matter. I don't stress about that part. It either is or iI isn't. But for...
    kbetweens kbetweens 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Everyone asks me if I'm doing ok... I truly don't know what to say. Everyday is different. Somedays I'm empty others I'm sad. So many questions I have to answer. Many decision to...
    Loveuloveme Loveuloveme 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I feel good that I am changing a lot of bad habits. My will power feels strong. It never has before. Starting with small things and building my way up. Building up the courage to...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F Mar 31

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    My Mom is quite ill, but also quite manipulative. I never had good boundaries, but I'm trying to build them now. But it is really hard against a steamroller. So does anyone have...
    Lucreziana Lucreziana 22-25, F Feb 13

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    Keep your expectations for the world and people low so that you aren't always let down or disappointed. Keep expectations for yourself high because those are the only ones you can...
    mythirdeye72 mythirdeye72 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    I have a love/hate relationship with my bf. he put me on this pedestal which I never wanted. I'm in love with him and I'm comfortable enough with him that I can talk to him about...
    Kelsey1111111 Kelsey1111111 18-21, F Mar 10

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    I am my own worst enemy. I so want to get out of this mentality that I have being inadequate. I want to find the courage and strength to accept who I am and hopefully be accepted...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 18

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    My life is a lie. I taken this **** far to long. If making myself crazy is what it takes I'll do it. I'm not tied down. I will get out of here and be me. I can't get my inspiration...
    JakeSuspence JakeSuspence 16-17, M Feb 8

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    Care & Feeding Of The Mind - The care & feeding of the mind is just as important as the care & feeding of the body. The mind unfed weakens just as the body does. The mind not...
    purpleparrot purpleparrot 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Okay so for the people that play Vedic games they may know this image from imfamous the second son, but this picture is a great message for people. The white side represents good...
    laia120841 laia120841 13-15, M Apr 2

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    Today I have taken the challenge. New horizons and a new hope... Anybody want to join?
    purelaughter purelaughter 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Don’t change because someone wants you to, change because you want to. If you have to change for someone then they aren’t worth it. The one that don’t want you to change...
    serachii serachii 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Feeling Much Better - Have you ever looked at an undone puzzle. Only half of it done and you still cant really see the picture. Thats how I've been doing things lately. I've been...
    Grizzly007 Grizzly007 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    I Use To Be A Worm But Now I Am A Butterfly I Changed Me! - I have found this statement to be true! I can only change myself. One time in life I use to feel like I could change...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jan 27, 2012

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    I am starting to realize a few things. Just in the short time I have been a mother, I have seen who I've become in the last year. Jackson is 1 month old tomorrow. He is a very calm...
    PandorasDream PandorasDream 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Change Is Good... - I know recently that I have caused some hurt to others. Concern, worry.......however you look at it, there is no positivty in those emotions so they are going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    The Only Reality - I need to be a different person. I need to get real. I shouldn't let anyone think i'm weak or vulnerable or an easy target. I'm too nice to people and they...
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M 16 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Now that I'm grown, nobody is changing me but me! I'm not crazy about the idea, I can't find anyone to change me. After a while it becomes an unbearable stank!
    TheGreatOzzie TheGreatOzzie 26-30, M Feb 12

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    Now that I'm grown, nobody is changing me but me! I'm not crazy about the idea, I can't find anyone to change me. After a while it becomes an unbearable stank!
    TheGreatOzzie TheGreatOzzie 26-30, M Feb 12

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    I'm a pretty petty person when it comes down to it. Somedays I get so worked up about how ignorant and ****** the world is I forget that a lot of issues are just my own. Most of...
    threestepsback threestepsback 18-21, F Feb 3

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    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. You can't change anyone because everyone is different in there own way..
    dede9090 dede9090 16-17, F Apr 1

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    Changing Me - i am angry. i can be very blue. so easily i come unglued. i self distruct and cause my self to bleed.i always feel alone, and i cant stand to see my self in a mirror...
    glasswalls007 glasswalls007 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Now that I'm grown, nobody is changing me but me! I'm not crazy about the idea, I can't find anyone to change me. After a while it becomes an unbearable stank!
    TheGreatOzzie TheGreatOzzie 26-30, M Feb 12

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    Me - So I'll tell you the short story of my life. I'm 16 years old, I go to a small town school, live in a big house, I have plenty of friends, had a fair share of boyfriends, I...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2011

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    A man found an eagle's egg and put it in a nest of a barnyard hen. The eaglet hatched with the brood of chicks and grew up with them. All his life the eagle did what the barnyard...
    Rayablue Rayablue 22-25, F Feb 4

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    is it too late to change and start over new?
    Dove9 Dove9 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    *Everything that ever caused a tear to trickle down my cheek, I ran away and hid from it. But now, everything is unwinding and finding its way back to me. And I don't know what to...
    shafizri shafizri 18-21, M Apr 7

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    My Life Story: I Made It - My name is Lauren Quirk, I'm 18 years old, and this is my story. I grew up in one of the most loving families I ever could have been born into. I had a...
    looloolemons looloolemons 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Changes! - I've learned a lot about myself here lately. For instance, I don't like being accussed of things I don't do, I don't like others assuming that "sorry" fixes everything...
    ThatGirlAriel ThatGirlAriel 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Say you had the opportunity to restart your life... Would you accept yourself for your faults and mistakes or would you just rather retry? Would you miss the people that surround...
    anglesanddemons anglesanddemons 18-21, M Mar 21