I Can Spot A Narcissistic Person More Easily Now, Thank God

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    WAS IT REAL? WAS I EVER LOVED?

    Did the Narcissist Ever Love Me? Was It Ever Real? These are the most commonly asked questions from those who have given their hearts, and souls to a narcissist. At first the relationship is very intense and romantic and it seems perhaps you have finally found “the one...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    CAUSES OF NARCISSISM Researchers today don’t

    know what causes narcissistic personality disorder. There are many theories, however, about the possible causes of narcissistic personality disorder. Most professionals subscribe to a biopsychosocial model of causation — that is, the causes of are likely due to biological...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    look for anyone with a uniform.

    ..... cops.....soldiers.....clergy..
    bluegill80 bluegill80
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    DIAGNOSIS OF NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY

    DISORDER Personality disorders such as narcissistic personality disorder are typically diagnosed by a trained mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist. Family physicians and general practitioners are generally not trained or well-equipped to make this...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    Nov 5, 2015

    Courtesy of my ex husband.

    Thank you ever so much you crazy abusive lying cheating stealing FKER!
    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    41-45
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    Yes. I am learning. It's funny they tend to

    make you feel that they are not. Hahahaha.
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25

    HOT VS COLD NARCISSIST- They come in all

    flavors! THE SHY NARCISSIST Covert Narcissism (also known as: The Shy Narcissist, The Closet Narcissist, The Stealth Narcissist) What is a Covert Narcissist? When most people think of narcissism, they think of the public face of narcissism: extraversion, aggression, self...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    Nov 5, 2015

    I love the way you say you love me then you

    will tell me that we cannot be together because you believe there is no forever. wow
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    Feb 26

    NARCISSITIC TACTICS: COGNITIVE DISSONANCE: By

    definition, cognitive dissonance is the psychological state that keeps us clinging to a narcissistic partner even when we know he is completely incapable of ever loving us. By most definitions, cognitive dissonance is the psychological discomfort or torment a person feels when...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    Nov 5, 2015

    Berangere posted this blog "How the Narcissist

    Projects his/her Behavior onto You" and I thought it was golden and worth reposting because it's insightful. http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissist-projects-hisher-behaviour-onto-you/
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Feb 24

    These people usually tend to take advantage of

    me, so I shut them out before they use me for all they can get.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Nov 5, 2015

    -He's a liar in too many ways to count.

    - Any time he talks about something that has emotional significance for him, it's a fair bet that he's lying. Lying is one way that he creates conflict in the relationships and lives of those around him - he'll lie to them about what other people have said, what they've done, or...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    Ahhh, the love letter.

    When love is a LIE. Rule number one, they don't love and are completely incapable of love! This is why their actions do not match their words. LOVE LETTER: WHEN I SAY I’M IN LOVE WITH YOU When I say I’m in love with you, I mean I love the way I feel when I’m with you. I...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Psychology says: The narcissist form of self

    love is not a healthy one, as they are really full of self-hatred and self-loathing, which they must disown. Unable to love their True Self, they fall in love with a reflection of themselves (False Self). It is through this projected image that a narcissist is able to generate...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

    Stretching my patience

    until my patience level bursts..
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    Feb 26

    I noticed people like these are showing to

    everyone that they are selfless. They strike hurtful words in your mind and when you feel emotional. They will say "this is for your own good, because I know attitude". WOW. JUST WOW.
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25

    Narcissists hinders you freedom of expression.

    Moreover, lower your self esteem and leads you to depression
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 27

    - He's selfish and willful.

    - He always makes sure he has the best of everything. He insists on having his own way all the time and he will ruthlessly, manipulatively pursue it, even if what he wants isn't worth all the effort he's putting into it and even if that effort goes far beyond normal behavior. He...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2014

    Psychology says: Narcissists cannot handle

    being upstaged in any way; you must not be seen to be more powerful, more successful, more beautiful, more intelligent, in fact “more” anything. To do so renders you to becoming the narcissists arch enemy, an instant rival to be spoken of in an irreverent or impious manner...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    SYMPTOMS OF NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY

    DISORDER In order for a person to be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) they must meet five or more of the following symptoms: Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    Nov 5, 2015

    Psychology says: The narcissist needs money to

    maintain the false image and keep them on the pedestal they put their selves on. Money is the enabler that allows them to surround themselves with symbols of wealth; the flashy car, the big house, the clothes etc. Wealth to the narcissist portrays both psychological and...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    WHY NARCISSISTS SABOTAGE RELATIONSHIPS: The

    relationship with a narcissist is always complicated and torturous. A few red flags are frequently apparent from the beginning, though you’re apt to overlook them. When asked what kind of relationship the narcissist is looking for, the answer is typically evasive. Something...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    If you have had a relationship with one then

    you know the private hell that becomes your life. I have been reading up for a while now but came across some really good information and the many different types of Narcissists that can infiltrate your life and leave it in ruins. I am here to share as much as possible for this...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    Psychology says: A person

    who is headstrong is one that is determined to have their own way, and often this is achieved through willfulness and obstinacy. Headstrong types are not easily restrained; they are ungovernable, obstinate and stubborn. Narcissists are driven by this type of impulsiveness, even...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    GASLIGHTING: Oh this is

    where the fun begins! These sick f'res literally take pride in trying to make you lose your mind! All to protect their false worlds in which they dwell. This piece will cover the many stages of the Narc's agenda. The idealization Phase, The Devaluation Phase, The Discarding...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Psychology says: The narcissists inflated

    pride convinces them that they are superior to everybody else. In such a place of pridefulness, the narcissist is overly sensitive to any form of actual or perceived criticism that could threaten their self-image and cause them shame. They will react harshly and haughtily to...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    I think each has a measure of narcissism

    for ego protection. However, if you are unable to look in the mirror and take responsibility for your own issues, you may have too much of it.
    notPC notPC
    56-60, F
    Nov 28, 2015

    Psychology says: The narcissist needs money to

    maintain the false image and keep them on the pedestal they put their selves on. Money is the enabler that allows them to surround themselves with symbols of wealth; the flashy car, the big house, the clothes etc. Wealth to the narcissist portrays both psychological and...
    rcp10 rcp10
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    Thanks dad. The only thing you taught me

    besides to not deal with abusive alcoholics like yourself.
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2015
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