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I Cannot Fix You

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    Only You Can Fix You

    There have been many times in my life when I have loved someone so much and so selflessly, that I was willing to sacrifice my life and my happiness and my time and even my health to "fix" them. I felt that these people just needed someone to really genuinely care about them, and...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    I Wish I Could But I Can't

    This does not just apply to one person. There are many people around me that are struggling, all in different ways, some in more extreme ways than others. And if I could fix you I would trust me. I would take your pain away, I would make life easier on you, make you healthy...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi 18-21, F Dec 11, 2012

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    That Is Up To You

    As much as I want to "fix" you and make all your problems disappear, I can't. That is just simply out of my control. This is something that you have to do, but you must first accept that you're not alright. If you can't accept that, then nothing is going to change. I can no...
    SavedByHim SavedByHim 18-21, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Push & Pull

    you push me away with cruel words and actions you push and push until I break until I’ve retreated and hid until I’m distant and cold then you pull me closer with gentle words and touches you pull and pull until I’m in your arms until I feel safe and assured until my heart...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Your Mighty High On Yourself

    why would i want you to fix me your the one who assumes im broken. trust me you have way more problems that i do or i ever will. i do not rely on a "god" or any other supernatural mumbo jumbo. logic and common sense work for me
    promethius50 promethius50 46-50, M May 18, 2012

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    So let's leave it at that. Yeah sure you might not be perfect and I might not be perfect, but no one is. You can fix yourself and I can fix myself. But I don't need you telling me...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    If you cannot be your self....your totally cheating your self..... I make a lot of friends on here....and I say be your self...I do not want you to try and impress me or any of the...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    1. SHE put the kids in there... 2. Nobody has checked 1 profile yet on this end 3. If I hack I cannot sue you 4. Your a hacker 5. The scam is dead 6. We're the best ...your...
    KIDSINFAKEPROFILESDONE KIDSINFAKEPROFILESDONE 51-55, F 1 day ago

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    Chapter 78 Prevention of leaving the accompaniment of devotees 355). 5th June, 1979. Tuesday. Early morning dream: In the residence of one senior devotee Raghunath...
    Dipakda Dipakda 66-70, M 5 days ago

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    I read the opposite of love isn't hate, it's fear. We have all felt "damaged" in some way, holding onto our fears like a suit of armor, protecting us. It takes time to heal from a...
    IlovePinkpanties IlovePinkpanties 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I wish i knew what was wrong with me. I wish i knew how to fix me. I am scared of what life is bringing me. My world is going crazy. I feel like im always messing everything up. No...
    live2love2laph2always live2love2laph2always 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I cannot let him go nor do I want to.Why would I let someone go who makes me so happy? I tell him everything. He knows my worries and fears. He knows my joys and jealousies. He is...
    KuriosityKills KuriosityKills 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    one thing ive learn the hard way is notting can wait to be fixed the time you have is dependent on everything else, saying one day ill resolve it could mean you never get that...
    kittycat1598 kittycat1598 18-21, F Apr 10

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    Luke 14:25-35New International Version (NIV) The Cost of Being a Disciple 25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 “If anyone comes to me and...
    bhaktagerald bhaktagerald 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been posting a bit in the more "depressed" part of Experience Project more because i have unsaid things I don't feel too comfortable sharing with family. So I look towards...
    xxRaindrop xxRaindrop 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    It is A Tragedy. A loss TO THE WORLD; for a Female to SO Hate "femininity" (and Being feminine). She CANNOT find Pleasure in BEAUTY.... Because she is "so afraid" . It is...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 61-65 Apr 23

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    I'm trying to be positive . I have so much I hate about myself ,I'm done sulking and now I'm ready to start fixing . I'm starting with my weight and education !!!
    prettyboo711 prettyboo711 18-21, F Apr 26

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    feel in a bad place again. drink isn't enough i need a fix. need drugs to give me the high to lift me and make me feel better. cos right now i see dark i want to cut myself. can't...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 17 Responses Apr 27

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    Dad and I fixing my car at 11:17pm haha look at us go:p why would we ever try to do this at night I have no idea lol maybe it's cause we have been doing it half the day already so...
    JylisaKnull JylisaKnull 18-21, F a week ago

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    I wish I was determined and smart enough to fix me. I have all the tools but I don't know how to use them, or I don't want to know how to use them.
    eleftheria90 eleftheria90 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    inside me. You cannot see it on the outside only. CRYING AND CRYING WISHING FOR DEATH.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    i met someone a guy when i was just 19yrs old, he was my first love and my first in everything. i've loved him and still too dearly.... the kind of love when you put the other one...
    emma3105 emma3105 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Who's to determine what cannot change? What about hope, possibility, and chance? Everything is energy and it all has its force. Life was born from 1 simple source. Change is...
    lonelee13 lonelee13 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I am trying to accept that the father of my child and I, do not work well together. But it's difficult when you fell in love with the person they use to be.. There were very good...
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Just trying to vent my emotional baggage :) Ever since I noticed, I've never felt at ease spending time with another person. I've never had friends whom I felt was reliable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 22

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    My wife admitted of having an emotional affair of a co-worker after I have caugth a txt message and a picture with an email account made for them.She works on nigths and the guy in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I cannot make myself write this application form. How am I supposed to sell myself when I hate everything about myself?
    Quellerosiel Quellerosiel 26-30, F Apr 14

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    NEED A TICKLE FIX! HIT ME UP IF YOU LIVE NEAR DC
    TickleLover188 TickleLover188 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I feel like I'm exactly where I was before I met her except I'm older and fatter now. The fatter part I'm fixing as I have in the past, just a pain in the ***. And I could give a...
    JimmyLogan JimmyLogan 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    When your luck is down not one of your so called friends are around. You go to them for help but their not really showing concern. It seems to me like when you've got lots to offer...
    Moonshadowrising Moonshadowrising 41-45, F Apr 14

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    HAL 9000 Upgrade - A Problem in the Making A fictitious (and malicious) plan to transform (via update) the intelligent "voice" interface of HAL 9000 into something more compatible...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    When I'm in a relationship. I don't leave until I'm sure there's nothing left to give or do to make it work. I walk out. I never ever go back. There are no more words to be...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I have a fondness for the aspirations that this site has, to connect people based on their experiences so that the sense of perpetual loneliness that's a side effect of just being...
    BriImani BriImani 18-21, F Apr 19

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    I like you a lot..You work so hard.You are always busy..I think about you a lot..We don't chat much.. but...I can wait for the right day...and omg what a Mother you've...I love her...
    BlurrednBlack BlurrednBlack 26-30, M Apr 23

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    This morning, like he has every morning for the last decade, my 86-year-old grandfather picked a fresh wild flower on his morning walk and took it to my grandmother. This morning...
    cluemisa cluemisa 18-21, F Apr 27

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    but im prerty sure I am tonight. its my fault n im sorry. I guess your stuff will go in a box like all the others who left... i think ive proved that nobody will stay. do you see...
    Bigcat1697 Bigcat1697 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Chapter77 Experience of Jibankrishna’s realizations 349). 9th April, 1979. Monday. Early morning dream: I saw the house of Indranath Mukherjee, a devotee situated...
    Dipakda Dipakda 66-70, M Apr 10

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    I really screwed up and it did not just affect me, it affected my loved ones. I can't take it back, but I'm having a hard time forgiving myself for my mistake and moving on because...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I lost my virginity at a young age and i regret it soo much...it kills me everyday.. I just wanna die sometimes...
    ami101 ami101 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    i drive a 2003 blue Saturn ion i have had no problems with it it has only had the egnition recall fixed its very reliable
    bhski717 bhski717 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    If you decide to skip class, DONT COMPLAIN TO ME ABOUT FAILING THAT CLASS. DONT COMPLAIN ABOUT HAVING LOW MARKS. DONT COMPLAIN ABOUT THE TEACHER BEING HARD. Just go to...
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 16-17, T Apr 14

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