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I Cannot Fix You

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    Only You Can Fix You

    There have been many times in my life when I have loved someone so much and so selflessly, that I was willing to sacrifice my life and my happiness and my time and even my health to "fix" them. I felt that these people just needed someone to really genuinely care about them, and...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    Push & Pull

    you push me away with cruel words and actions you push and push until I break until I’ve retreated and hid until I’m distant and cold then you pull me closer with gentle words and touches you pull and pull until I’m in your arms until I feel safe and assured until my heart...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Your Mighty High On Yourself

    why would i want you to fix me your the one who assumes im broken. trust me you have way more problems that i do or i ever will. i do not rely on a "god" or any other supernatural mumbo jumbo. logic and common sense work for me
    promethius50 promethius50 46-50, M May 18, 2012

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    That Is Up To You

    As much as I want to "fix" you and make all your problems disappear, I can't. That is just simply out of my control. This is something that you have to do, but you must first accept that you're not alright. If you can't accept that, then nothing is going to change. I can no...
    SavedByHim SavedByHim 18-21, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    I Wish I Could But I Can't

    This does not just apply to one person. There are many people around me that are struggling, all in different ways, some in more extreme ways than others. And if I could fix you I would trust me. I would take your pain away, I would make life easier on you, make you healthy...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi 18-21, F Dec 11, 2012

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    "Fix" is such a strong word... I suppose I am closer to knowing the first steps to guide me on the path to feeling "whole". The problem is that I am my own enemy in life. The...
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    from personal experience, i honestly do believe that you can still be friends with an ex. It's difficult at first, however, only time can fix and heal what has happened in the past...
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    Random because I got called ugly today so if I can fix anything then I'd love to know 😋😌 (Sorry for the filter, it's off of Instagram)
    TotallyTorii TotallyTorii 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 22

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    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 21

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    See that scar, the one that never fades. You did that to me. That scratch, the one on the side, it happened long ago. This is my heart. You cannot just come and take it from me.
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    One of the most frustrating things about having EP friends is that when they need a friend, you cannot drop what you're doing and run to their side at a moments notice. Hugs and...
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    I'm bored. Fix this with your inquires.
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    To all my EP friends, I'm very sorry that I have been absent so long, and that I do disappear from time to time. Things are particularly busy in both work and personal life at...
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