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I Cannot Fully Understand What Love Should Feel Like

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    What Is Right And What Is Wrong..

    To clear some things out of the way i'll say this. No one in my family has ever found love. My grandparents on fathers side were together out of convienence. My mother was an orphan and her mother was a ***** (being honest here). My mother has never had a lasting relationship and...
    Vithus Vithus 18-21, M Jun 4, 2012

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    Sometimes I think that I have found true Love, and I know she loves me. But I'm not sure if I feel what Love really is? I was brought up in a harsh environment  and I swore to myself that the cycle would end with me. One thing that I do know is that I'm better off than when...
    jamtwo68 jamtwo68 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 26, 2008

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    I would like to know what it feels like to love somebody and have that person love me back. To care and have someone care about me.I have no idea what that feels like.maybe one day...
    itsalwayspink itsalwayspink 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I can't fight this feeling anymore.sometimes i feel like i wanna tell her how i feel,but i know she won't feel the same.at the same time i don't want to freak her out.but this...
    urbanmellow urbanmellow 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I accidentally fell in love with my guy close friend.. :(
    andyally andyally 18-21 1 day ago

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    I'm fvcking human! It would be nice to be treated like one once in a while.
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I really don't, guys on here use me sometimes just to get a picture of me, that's all they seem to care about and it bothers me, I would never send a dirty picture of me, so don't...
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I've never been in a real relationship but I'm looking to change that.
    kushboy303 kushboy303 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I wish I could, but it's long gone due to preventable or avoidable mistakes. I will not be treated equally by those around me till I die I suppose.
    Yleng Yleng 26-30, F Jun 26

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    What you mean to me .......I close my eyes ... I think of you ...Some one like you can love someone like me ...Always on my mind ..Always in my soulYou can read me like book...
    mintybear2 mintybear2 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel like no one understands me. But for some reason, I feel like ghosts and spirits understand me. I feel like I can talk to and trust ghosts and spirits. I feel like I can't...
    Ambria101 Ambria101 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    God I wish I had a friend. I feel like I need someone to tell me that I am okay, that things will get better if I try. I guess I don't believe in myself anymore... sometimes I...
    crazyhobo crazyhobo 26-30 1 Response Jul 8

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    I feel like a lot is going on in my life right now. I been really stressed/sad. I have this guy who likes me so much. Which I don't understand why. I sadly cannot return back the...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    This past year has been the hardest experience of my life. I went through a break up, my parents' divorce, and a transition from high school to college all in a span of 8 months...
    lifeinthecity lifeinthecity 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    I have no special or unique talents. I'm not gifted artistically, athletically, or academically. I'm a pretty good student but I don't care about what I learn in school which makes...
    triptrap27 triptrap27 16-17, F Jun 29

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    I'm beginning to understand that love goes beyond good qualities, good looks and social status. It's simply loving and wanting to be around the person because they are themselves...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I gone through some trauma and I don't go out alot But even with my friends. i feel like they don't understand why my experiences from my past change who i am. I love my friends I...
    pomtonic1109 pomtonic1109 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    For the past 8 years of my 'life' I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. They say it's meant to get better, but every day just gets harder. I'm almost starting to feel...
    36chambers86 36chambers86 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I grew up in an abusive household. I don't think any of my friends, not even my husband, really understand how it feels and how destructive having had an abusive childhood can do...
    downwardsunflower downwardsunflower 22-25 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I am a step-mom to 3 boys... I am 25 years old, and adopted out my son when I was 17... I am now helping to raise an 8 year old, 7 year old and a 5 year old... Lately I have been...
    KaeMarie3 KaeMarie3 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I have tried so hard to make and keep friends. I guess, sometimes, it's just not meant to be. We are too different. When it gets to the point I'm called a liar, I will not stick...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 1

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    I am sixteen years old and have just received my "predicted gcse grades". All of my predicted grades are a grade B. Many people have told me these are "good grades" but to me a B...
    Candyflosshair Candyflosshair 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I remember the heartbreaking time a close "friend" & my boyfriend plotted against me and started dating in 2012 and still dating. I lost a lot friends along with this. Me being a...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I feel like crap because I'm trapped with no where to go and the people I know are all ahead of me enjoying life while I'm stuck and it hurts me soo bad that I don't have a saying...
    sharmake sharmake 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    you don't understand the love i feel from my girlfriend.she is one of the best things that have happened to me.
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Feeling like everyone is against me secretly
    NatureChild NatureChild 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I feel like I'm part wolf and need someone who understands me to talk to me!:)
    savvyZwolf savvyZwolf 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I feel like ..i was never meant to be a mother ...don't get me wrong I believe children are so beautiful and innocent and all I see is good in them! innocent and sweet ...I have 3...
    pinkfloydkitty pinkfloydkitty 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I HAVE ALREADY EXPERIENCED LOVE A FEW TIMES AND DONT BELIEVE ITS POSSIBLE TO KEEP REPEATING THIS, I AM SUFFERING WITH LOTS OF STUFF AND ONE IS THE FACT THAT I WANT TO ACCEPT MY...
    BIGIZBETTER BIGIZBETTER 36-40, M Jun 25

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    I'm a teenager and I do things that "normal" teenagers do. I've been to parties, I've experimented but I also play sports, and I get good grades. I can carry a conversation with...
    findingmytrueself findingmytrueself 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Since I was little, I always had a very clear idea of who would be my life mate: funny, charming, witty, goofy, strong and physically big, but also very gentle and loving. I even...
    mewsiesie mewsiesie 31-35 Jul 3

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    or someone. when i'm leaving home i always had this feelng of emptiness, something's not with me that i should had, something's missing and i kept thinking what it is or is it...
    lachrymosejessa lachrymosejessa 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I know I'm still at a young age and will probably find someone again blah blah, but it hurts to have heart broken by someone you thought loved you. My first relationship was awful...
    anyoneoutthere1 anyoneoutthere1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I am a Wolf Therian as weird as it may sound. I have always felt like i wasn't the same as others. I don't think the same nor do i strive for the same goals as my fellow humans...
    BlissfulWolf BlissfulWolf 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    When I was younger I was a very happy child. Always smiling, laughing and loving everything about life. Even though I am naturally an introvert and somewhat shy I loved being...
    elderflower4 elderflower4 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'm so tired of loving people who only toss me crumbs. My H loves me in a lukewarm, old-man kind of way - but there's no passion in it. We haven't had sex since March. My...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'd like to fall deeply in love but I often fall for their looks upon first glance without even meeting them, And I just feel like wish that when I meet them they'll act as sweet...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I feel like nobody respects me, I'm a complete failure. I try my best at everything and it's still not enough. It's like, the one thing that I love, which is playing video games...
    AnonymousAly AnonymousAly 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I feel like I don't deserve to be loved because I'm sick. I will always have this condition and I don't want to put someone else through the ups and downs of it. How could anyone...
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    because of shyness, even though I really am interested in people and have a desire to socialize. This is the sole reason I joined this site. Bit of a novel, I'm sorry. I've come...
    yyz1 yyz1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm not sure what category I belong. I feel like 2 different people . The responsible woman .. Wife , mother, daughter, friend.. ( you now the woman they will describe at my...
    lillyclaire lillyclaire 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 30

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    I wanted you to chase after me like i did you for all them years but you just stood there looking at me with a blank face. Instead you let me slip though your fingers for the...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Like, everything is crap. Worthless ****. Nothing.. And that I can go on no more. But i been there, and I dont want to go there again. I read many books over my time now... Much...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 11

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    Just in one of those moods. Not sure if i'm angry or sad. I feel like my life is in the cycle of constantly starting over. A lot of people want a start over, i know, but just as my...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Sometimes I can't help but feel like a failure and that I'm letting my dad down. All he talks about is how I wanted to go to Harvard, be a doctor, got straight A's. Part of me...
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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