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I Cannot Rank My Ep Friends

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    I Simply Cannot

    All of my EP friends are special to me, even if we don't talk simply for the fact you allowed me to be a part of your circle. And all the ones I do talk with are special in different ways, therefore I can't compare friendships that are so different from one another.
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2013

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    No Way!

    each of my ep friends is unique, awesome, and special in his or her own way. i couldn't possibly get into rankings. i adore each and every one of them for who they are. no need to play favorites here. there's enough of my love to go around for everyone! :)
    runnagirrl runnagirrl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2008

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    Unrankable

    I simply cannot rank my EP friends... I don't even try.  I love you all so much and I wouldn't dream of hurting anyone's feelings by messing up in a momentary decision.  That is why my friends list tends to be in the order of how I added people, or whatever other...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F Oct 30, 2008

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    Really?

    do people get upset about where they are in someones circle?.....wow....i am amazed...i mean i have joked about it in the past with some of my EPeepers but...really?   
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 11, 2009

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    Unranked

    I don't see why i should, ranked by what exactly? Some people talk more than others, some are online more on others but to put them in some kind of order would be ridiculous. Do you win a bun or banana or something for being ranked first?
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Sep 16, 2010

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    How Real Are You.?

    i think ep is a medium in which a friendship or something more can and could grow. its a begining and an end in itself. it is its own universe, but it is part of the bigger world too. some people i know in here only exist in here, others make a transition to the outside world...
    redgone redgone 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    That Is Why You All Are In

    alphabetical order. It is like choosing one of my kids over the other, just can't do it.  For each bring a different view and personality to my page and they all contribute something to what I have to say. Have I grown closer to some than others?  But of course but...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 26 Responses May 20, 2009

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    Random

    I did order my friends here but I've decided to abandon that because it just makes me feel bad. I hate ranking people. You're all special and really great to talk to so none of you can be number one. My friends are now in a completely random order and they will stay that way...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom 18-21, F Dec 7, 2008

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    No

    "I Cannot Rank My Ep Friends" They are all unique. Interesting, happy, nice, smart etc. Ranking is for books. That is my opinion. EP Friends are people. I know people can have ranks. Like in the army. Ep is not the army. EP is a place to meet people and sharing...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2008

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    EP Support

    Since I am not an EP support anymore, I can't have 20 friends on my list. I want to make clear that nobody on my first page is better than the ones who are not.  And if someone gets mad or disappointed about it, then I am sorry. There is nothing I can do about it, I still...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 16, 2010

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    Ranks Are For the Armed Forces

    I can't and won't rank you, so I'm letting EP do it randomly. Now, quit bitchin' over who should be number one! *grin*
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2008

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    A To Z

     If there's one thing I've always hated it's unfairness of any kind, especially favouritism. So I've arranged my circle in the most unbiased way possible...in alphabetical order. 
    mistygrey mistygrey 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Uggh..

    How can I?   Everyone is special, and those that I need to make feel, well, I have pm..right?
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M Feb 8, 2009

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