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I Cannot Stand Controlling Men

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    You Don't Own Me - I have been married three times and have had my share of lovers.  Thank God, I have never been seriously hurt by anyone.     It is interesting how you can be...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Individuality. - I am an individual independent woman who when she is with men friends makes up her own mind of what I will do. I will not be dictated to, since my choice to be...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Sep 13, 2013

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    My Controlling Life - I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F May 21, 2010

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    How...could...you?!? - ive met one of these scumbag pigs...he said hed take care of me, i was a child without a home...instead he dragged me accross the country just to use me for...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    I Lmao At Them - I use to be a controlled woman..  USE TO BE, is the key meaning of my story. I had to learn to recognize it, label it and ditch it. If a woman can't get her...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2010

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    Tangled In The Web - Disclaimer: This is a reminder to myself what I've had to go through. A note to self of what a blind idiot I can be at times. It is an example of my trust, my...
    DesolateSoul DesolateSoul 31-35 Jul 29, 2010

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    Men Are Goin To Be Men! - If anyone feels like they got to controll a man for him to be with them, or for the man to act right then they don't need to be with that man...
    tlashae tlashae 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    The Only Man~ - The only man that I ever allowed to tell me what to do is no longer on the earth plane, he was my father. When he died in 2000, at his burial, I told my husband...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 51-55, F 3 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Control Freak - My Daughter married an America pilot 26yr ago, and for 26yr I have kept out of their relationship, because of the kids. Now my daughter tells me she is very unhappy...
    Taino60 Taino60 61-65, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    Men that think they are "in control" of women sicken me. No.. Men and women are equal, in a relationship or just as human beings.
    beyourself22 beyourself22 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    My Controlling Life - I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21, 2010

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    My Controlling Life - I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 1 Response May 21, 2010

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    Doesn't Hurt To Listen And Not Just Speak......... - Since my husband has passed I'm just gonna make this short. I have always been stubborn in my own way......I always corrected...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    I mean really if anything it's just messing up the relationship we have. What's so difficult with being HONEST.
    lifesize lifesize 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I cannot stand it. Every morning when I'm going to school I walk past another school where I find the teachers out back smoking. I can honestly say I lose a lot of respect for...
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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Nothing against short guys, they simply make me feel like a jolly green giant, and so awkward. Being 6' tall, and female always made dating a hassle. I dated a guy shorter than me...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am 3 weeks away from my wedding and the whole experience has been so horrible I have fallen out of love. The only feelings I have for him right now are hatred, annoyance and...
    acisin acisin 26-30, F Apr 3

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    My boyfriend is very controlling. He doesn't allow me to wear certain thing or hang around with certain people. If I don't do as he say he get mad or just yell. When I ask him why...
    tattoofreak101 tattoofreak101 18-21, F Mar 30

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    So this experience sounds a bit objectified towards British men so I am going to try my best to not objectify them but I do confess that most men that I find attractive just so...
    JamiLynn23 JamiLynn23 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    my father mentally , physically, and emotionaly abused me as a child
    JamesB20 JamesB20 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    You might wish to get the perfect stylish and designer men T -Shirts that would help you to look the best. For this strong steps have to be taken to ensure that you get hold of the...
    lahoward33 lahoward33 61-65, F 7 hrs ago

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    I have only ever been with older men...like in the 20 year range. I did have a short relationship with a man 16 years younger. He had lots of energy, but I knew it would not last...
    AJEYE AJEYE 46-50, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I want you to control when I breathe when I spit and when I swallow I'll stare up at you the whole time. My eyes watering, pleading for you to let me breathe while you have my...
    Cravingcock Cravingcock 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 28

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    Experience 16 1981 Glendora & President Reagan I’m probably walking a fine line by telling this. By 1980, I was living with my girlfriend, now wife, in a rental house in...
    RiverBedView RiverBedView 56-60, M Mar 19

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    I been dancing since I was young. And yet I still cannot do gymnastics. I can pull myself intoo full splits and bend over backward but I cannot do cartwheels or backflips or any of...
    MeganXXXXX MeganXXXXX 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have controlling parents and I'm 26.
    kristinew123 kristinew123 26-30, F Mar 21

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    I have a bad relationship with my parents, and still live at home. I'd move out as soon as I could. They say they don't trust me, and can't talk to me. And they can't, as I won't...
    dysfori dysfori 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    We have only been in a relationship for a little over a month now and already i feel like he might be too controlling...Could someone just please help me and tell me im over...
    DreamerGirl4 DreamerGirl4 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Seriously. I just HATE it when people force me to do things I absolutely do not want to do what so ever. It's mostly from people I know, bossing me around ALL the time!And when I...
    Meloryne Meloryne 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Women are human beings. Women are not just for sex. Women have brains. Women are not just faithless ho's who cheat on every man that's around them. Stop generalizing. I am so sick...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 16 Responses Mar 25

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    Only In My Dreams!- I am Latvian and I married a Russian with blond hair and blue eyes like me. Interracial Relationships were non-existent in USSR, yet his 1st year in America he...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Experience 17 President Reagan and the FBI In 1981, I called the FBI to tell them the Mayor of Glendora (CA) had threatened to kill President Reagan. The agent answering the phone...
    RiverBedView RiverBedView 56-60, M Mar 24

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    My best friends birthday is tomorrow and I just recently found out that someone very dear to the both of us has passed. He was closer to her than I was though. One of the worst...
    Alex7413 Alex7413 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    This guy is so great! First, he is extremely sexy!! But most importantly he is as adventurous as I am!! He has the means to actually go on most of his adventures...I am super...
    AnnyOnimous AnnyOnimous 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    I find it absolutely disgusting when I see these much older men hitting on young girls especially underage girls. I mean we call ourselves superior species and boast of being...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey guess what?! This is called the EXPERIENCE project. A place where people can reach out to others and share there EXPERIENCES and ideas and feelings and thoughts! Maybe people...
    bellhasdreams bellhasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ive posted before about my sexless marriage. Now it appears my birthday is going to be a bust!. Weve been pretty cold toward each other since my discussion about the lack of...
    harleyman2169 harleyman2169 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I guess to understand the full depth of my story, it's best to start at the very beginning It all started when I turned 7. Up until that age, I has a great family. My mom and dad...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Maybe if its a nightmare, i just have to wake up- my dad was in jail for two years which made my whole family really depressed, specially my mother and myself. My two older sister...
    Justbreatheba Justbreatheba 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I swear I can't take it anymore! I can't take going into school and walking through the halls while getting strange looks from people. If I look down they say I look depressed but...
    kelseytoby kelseytoby 16-17 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate it! - I was never noticed before and I said to my mum "Why do guys never notice me" She said "They do you just never notice them." And since then, the same night I had 2...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    No I can't! Even if it's my done to me and I see it happening to another girl I feel really uncomfortable and tbh a little bit disgusted with the men.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    bemyslavegirl bemyslavegirl 26-30, M Apr 5

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    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    To be honest, the only standards I have for guys are that they have to be ginger, nerdy, and have a beard. But everyone my age looks like a fetus.
    foolishlylovingthee foolishlylovingthee 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    This is information from and interview of Charles Robbins, the executive director of The Trevor Project, the leading national organization that provides crisis intervention to gay...
    rainbowrsn1 rainbowrsn1 41-45, F Mar 26

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    With or without alcohol, you're all I could think of. And sadly, I had to think of her too, the one who's by your side right now and owns your heart. I cannot never forget you. I...
    phoebegreene phoebegreene 22-25, F