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I Cannot Stand Controlling Men

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    You Don't Own Me

    I have been married three times and have had my share of lovers.  Thank God, I have never been seriously hurt by anyone.     It is interesting how you can be so into a man and think everything is going to great in the relationship and then out of no where, he becomes...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    Individuality.

    I am an individual independent woman who when she is with men friends makes up her own mind of what I will do. I will not be dictated to, since my choice to be with someone does not remove from me my free will, and ability to change my mind.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    And I cannot stand controlling women.

    Just the thought makes me cringe. Maybe it's my stubbornness? Idk. I guess I just don't act like a "traditional" woman who follows every command with a smile. I don't need someone who doesn't let me go out with my guy friends or something lol. I guess it's not very popular...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 1 Response May 21, 2010

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    Men that think they are "in control" of women

    sicken me. No.. Men and women are equal, in a relationship or just as human beings.
    beyourself22 beyourself22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Tangled In The Web

    Disclaimer: This is a reminder to myself what I've had to go through. A note to self of what a blind idiot I can be at times. It is an example of my trust, my ignorance and my naivety; my belief -that someone could NOT be that f*cked up. Yet this is written proof that they are...
    DesolateSoul DesolateSoul 31-35 Jul 29, 2010

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    Control Freak

    My Daughter married an America pilot 26yr ago, and for 26yr I have kept out of their relationship, because of the kids. Now my daughter tells me she is very unhappy, that she feels the blinkers have been lifted from her eye's. She said he controls her life, her family are grown...
    Taino60 Taino60 61-65, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    How...could...you?!?

    ive met one of these scumbag pigs...he said hed take care of me, i was a child without a home...instead he dragged me accross the country just to use me for his pathetic tiny ****!! now im stuck with nowhere to live because this dirty piece of **** EXISTS.  all i wanted was...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    The Only Man~

    The only man that I ever allowed to tell me what to do is no longer on the earth plane, he was my father. When he died in 2000, at his burial, I told my husband, "there lies the only man who will ever tell this woman what to do, bless his soul."  He is sadly missed and deeply...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 56-60, F 3 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Doesn't Hurt To Listen And Not Just Speak.........

    Since my husband has passed I'm just gonna make this short. I have always been stubborn in my own way......I always corrected my husband when he told people I was the boss, like most men do. I was never the boss.....I was asked for suggestions on different things, but thats as...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    I Lmao At Them

    I use to be a controlled woman..  USE TO BE, is the key meaning of my story. I had to learn to recognize it, label it and ditch it. If a woman can't get her man to be a partner, talking is a big waste of time, then we..me..have a problem. Now I can spot it and it's actually...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2010

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    Men Are Goin To Be Men!

    If anyone feels like they got to controll a man for him to be with them, or for the man to act right then they don't need to be with that man! because it will only make the situation worse. And when i'ts all said and done a man is goin to be a man regardless and ...
    tlashae tlashae 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21, 2010

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F May 21, 2010

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    Hypocrites* This makes me think of hippopotami in crates. 😱
    DarkAphrodite DarkAphrodite 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    absolutely unreasonable or disbelieving that anyone is any way different. good grief what makes people become religious fanatics?
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Uuuugh! They annoy me! *swat* Miss! *Swat* MISS! GTFO! Haha that's how I feel about flies :3
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12

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    My house is full of them at the moment! I'm training my cats to become fly-killing ninjas! Hiyaaa!
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    I hate how they buzz all around you , bus in your ears , eyes , go on your food and drinks . Like Gahh go away.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    They get so annoying buzz!buzz! Right in your ear
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Even though they are necessary to the environment for decomposition, those little buzzing bastardz anger me. -_-
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F Sep 13

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    Nasty bastards. They have all the room in the world to fly around and they choose right in front of your face.
    imstarlord89 imstarlord89 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Can get into a tiny cracked open window... Can't get out of a fully opened window...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Sep 14

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    Unless distracted and they aint many.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You know what really bothers me, and my husband reminds of this periodically, is that I am showing my kids how they should treat me when they get older by the way I engage with and...
    nkmnovember nkmnovember 36-40 Sep 1

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    Strong meat, said the first speaker, as they got free of the crowd and commenced moving down the street.Too strong for my stomach, replied Mr. Braxton.Something must have gone...
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    I'm 25 years old and I live in south america, I still live with my parents only because I'm scared of leaving and them having heart attacks or something and blaming it on me, I...
    TheGuiltTripGirl TheGuiltTripGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I can't shake it, I can't fix it. My mother's taunting, manipulative and overly critical abuse throughout the years has caused a hindrance in healthy female friendships and...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 1

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    Not everyone is - not all women or men are controlling, conning, or manipulative. There are only a number of them who are, and they seem to be drawn to certain personalities. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 5

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    I literally am reading all these stories and my heart aches. I have been in two mental hospitals and been batteling depression for six years. I have cutt every place there is skin...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi. my nick name is Rosanna. I am 34 years old. Up to this point in my life, I have been under pressure, blame and guilt trip of my older sister. My sense of self is so weak now. I...
    aarmeti aarmeti 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i just hate people who have double standards , means if a female is sexually liberated , she cannot be good or intelligent, and all men who think like this are perverted dogs ,but...
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F Sep 3

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    MensUSA is a wholesale and retail establishment in the United States. We are also a large scale manufacturer in Germany and Italy. We specialize in manufacturing an excellent...
    mensusa mensusa 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I rushed into a relationship almost 10 years ago with blinders on and the only thought was I am thirty time to find the one and settle down. I met a man who was the son of my...
    Change75 Change75 36-40, F Sep 9

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    "Hope you are ready to fight in court to get anything" "You're crazy, I will make sure you never see the kids again" " You are such a loser" "Tell them (the kids) you don't want...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I have a question. Obviously, as much as kids don't want to, they will stand on one parent's side. I feel like I'm slowly moving toward my father's side, but I shouldn't be. My...
    Juuuuuulia Juuuuuulia 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hi guys. I'm 22 years old. The History with my girlfriend and I: We dated briefly in high school before she went off to college. She's a girl who is well kept and doesn't look...
    daveR80 daveR80 22-25, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is as it is. I cannot relate to people. When I was young, i was bullied, a lot. I guess that was when I started to get further away form people. Strange to say this, but now I...
    guerrabh250 guerrabh250 22-25, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm 18, and my mom has always controlled my life. Every time I was relaxing at home, she would always urge me to do my homework. But instead of nagging, she made it seem like it...
    graduallyventuring graduallyventuring 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I am 58, my sister was 54.  She drove her porsche out in the desert on June 8.  Without shutting off the motor, she put a recently purchased gun to her head and blew her...
    whywasshelikethis whywasshelikethis 56-60, F Sep 2

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    My mum is so controlling I'm not even allowed to wear my hair out. It has to be in a pony tail each day.
    hopefullgeenie hopefullgeenie 18-21, F Sep 14

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    So I was sitting in the waiting room at the doctors office, the other day. And as I'm sitting there a woman with Down's syndrome came in and sat down. She must have been in her...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    Stigma is a self-perpetuated cycle. We cry out for awareness and understanding from the shadows of our self-imposed closet. We bang our heads against the walls, wailing songs of...
    o0capricious0o o0capricious0o 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 28 Responses Sep 11

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    So I'm a young college student who cannot get enough of sexy white men. I love the way you can run your fingers through their hair or the fact of beautiful mixed babies! I know I...
    Cocokimmy Cocokimmy 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    tessacc11 tessacc11 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between...
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