I Cannot Stand Controlling Men

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 21, 2010

    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8
    31-35, F
    May 21, 2010

    Men that think they are "in control" of women

    sicken me. No.. Men and women are equal, in a relationship or just as human beings.
    beyourself22 beyourself22
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    Individuality.

    I am an individual independent woman who when she is with men friends makes up her own mind of what I will do. I will not be dictated to, since my choice to be with someone does not remove from me my free will, and ability to change my mind.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Sep 13, 2013

    Men Are Goin To Be Men!

    If anyone feels like they got to controll a man for him to be with them, or for the man to act right then they don't need to be with that man! because it will only make the situation worse. And when i'ts all said and done a man is goin to be a man regardless and ...
    tlashae tlashae
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

    Tangled In The Web

    Disclaimer: This is a reminder to myself what I've had to go through. A note to self of what a blind idiot I can be at times. It is an example of my trust, my ignorance and my naivety; my belief -that someone could NOT be that f*cked up. Yet this is written proof that they are...
    DesolateSoul DesolateSoul
    31-35
    Jul 29, 2010

    Control Freak

    My Daughter married an America pilot 26yr ago, and for 26yr I have kept out of their relationship, because of the kids. Now my daughter tells me she is very unhappy, that she feels the blinkers have been lifted from her eye's. She said he controls her life, her family are grown...
    Taino60 Taino60
    61-65, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2010

    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2010

    And I cannot stand controlling women.

    Just the thought makes me cringe. Maybe it's my stubbornness? Idk. I guess I just don't act like a "traditional" woman who follows every command with a smile. I don't need someone who doesn't let me go out with my guy friends or something lol. I guess it's not very popular...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2014

    You Don't Own Me

    I have been married three times and have had my share of lovers.  Thank God, I have never been seriously hurt by anyone.     It is interesting how you can be so into a man and think everything is going to great in the relationship and then out of no where, he becomes...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Aug 19, 2013

    The Only Man~

    The only man that I ever allowed to tell me what to do is no longer on the earth plane, he was my father. When he died in 2000, at his burial, I told my husband, "there lies the only man who will ever tell this woman what to do, bless his soul."  He is sadly missed and deeply...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone
    56-60, F
    2 Responses May 2, 2012

    I always tell my girlfriends

    if a guy cheats, leave him since he clearly has no respect for you or values you enough to stay loyal. Same with women whose men disrespect them. My mom recently was disrespected by my dad and she's just like "I love him" after he claimed he didn't need her and she can leave. He...
    fkmylife7 fkmylife7
    22-25, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    How...could...you?!?

    ive met one of these scumbag pigs...he said hed take care of me, i was a child without a home...instead he dragged me accross the country just to use me for his pathetic tiny ****!! now im stuck with nowhere to live because this dirty piece of **** EXISTS.  all i wanted was...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 24, 2009

    I Lmao At Them

    I use to be a controlled woman..  USE TO BE, is the key meaning of my story. I had to learn to recognize it, label it and ditch it. If a woman can't get her man to be a partner, talking is a big waste of time, then we..me..have a problem. Now I can spot it and it's actually...
    wiseowl wiseowl
    61-65, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2010

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