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I Cannot Stand Controlling Men

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21, 2010

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F May 21, 2010

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    And I cannot stand controlling women.

    Just the thought makes me cringe. Maybe it's my stubbornness? Idk. I guess I just don't act like a "traditional" woman who follows every command with a smile. I don't need someone who doesn't let me go out with my guy friends or something lol. I guess it's not very popular...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 1 Response May 31, 2014

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    How...could...you?!?

    ive met one of these scumbag pigs...he said hed take care of me, i was a child without a home...instead he dragged me accross the country just to use me for his pathetic tiny ****!! now im stuck with nowhere to live because this dirty piece of **** EXISTS.  all i wanted was...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    I Lmao At Them

    I use to be a controlled woman..  USE TO BE, is the key meaning of my story. I had to learn to recognize it, label it and ditch it. If a woman can't get her man to be a partner, talking is a big waste of time, then we..me..have a problem. Now I can spot it and it's actually...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2010

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    Individuality.

    I am an individual independent woman who when she is with men friends makes up her own mind of what I will do. I will not be dictated to, since my choice to be with someone does not remove from me my free will, and ability to change my mind.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 13, 2013

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    Men Are Goin To Be Men!

    If anyone feels like they got to controll a man for him to be with them, or for the man to act right then they don't need to be with that man! because it will only make the situation worse. And when i'ts all said and done a man is goin to be a man regardless and ...
    tlashae tlashae 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 1 Response May 21, 2010

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    Tangled In The Web

    Disclaimer: This is a reminder to myself what I've had to go through. A note to self of what a blind idiot I can be at times. It is an example of my trust, my ignorance and my naivety; my belief -that someone could NOT be that f*cked up. Yet this is written proof that they are...
    DesolateSoul DesolateSoul 31-35 Jul 29, 2010

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    Doesn't Hurt To Listen And Not Just Speak.........

    Since my husband has passed I'm just gonna make this short. I have always been stubborn in my own way......I always corrected my husband when he told people I was the boss, like most men do. I was never the boss.....I was asked for suggestions on different things, but thats as...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Control Freak

    My Daughter married an America pilot 26yr ago, and for 26yr I have kept out of their relationship, because of the kids. Now my daughter tells me she is very unhappy, that she feels the blinkers have been lifted from her eye's. She said he controls her life, her family are grown...
    Taino60 Taino60 61-65, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    Men that think they are "in control" of women

    sicken me. No.. Men and women are equal, in a relationship or just as human beings.
    beyourself22 beyourself22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    You Don't Own Me

    I have been married three times and have had my share of lovers.  Thank God, I have never been seriously hurt by anyone.     It is interesting how you can be so into a man and think everything is going to great in the relationship and then out of no where, he becomes...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    The Only Man~

    The only man that I ever allowed to tell me what to do is no longer on the earth plane, he was my father. When he died in 2000, at his burial, I told my husband, "there lies the only man who will ever tell this woman what to do, bless his soul."  He is sadly missed and deeply...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 56-60, F 3 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Look, I know more and more black women are going natural, and to me its great that we are embracing what grows out of our head and not trying to change it. But what I dont want to...
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    I don't think enough men realize what a turn on it is to moan in pleasure for us ladies ;) To hear and see you react to an immense amount of pleasure turns me on so much. That's...
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    I love wearing a bra I cannot go to sleep unless I wearing a bra it just feels so fantastic with that bra band hugging your torso all day, I quite often wear a bra when I go out in...
    Lockiel45 Lockiel45 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    My last boyfriend was possessive and controlling and it was hot honest.
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    I just had a debate with Jehovah's Witness about anxiety and depression. They provided the following bible verse: [Matthew 6:25-34 34: Therefore don't worry about tomorrow, for...
    LuckyInTheSkyWithDiamonds LuckyInTheSkyWithDiamonds 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I must be fair! Yes! There are greedy women too. They are everywhere sailing themselves to some good men. I do not know who was sorry first but it sure is something that you cannot...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I am experiencing more and more that some men cannot be satisfied with one woman no matter how nice she seem to be. They just have to entertain another woman. I hate men that flirt...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Ok so I'm back complaining again! So here I am at the beach with the wife. I packed some clothes for the weekend and they are clean. The bag I packed them in now smells of stale...
    harleyman2169 harleyman2169 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Yesterday we had to go to an engagement party and as usual I put out his clothes. he was soo rude and asks me why I didnt put his shoes out .then he screamed at me because I got...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    ohmygosh4 is a weirdo. I was gracious enough to add him on Snapchat and he pulls out the smaaaaaaaaaaallest part of him and was like "look at me". I told him that he was out of...
    SvenaAlskad SvenaAlskad 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cannot stand a woman who does this. They deserve a good spanking!
    MistiA MistiA 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    In my opinion, or more like what I was made to believe, There seems to be double standards that favors women over men. If a woman looks into a men's restroom, it is considered...
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M a week ago

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    Yeah, some men are shy around me. (I don't know why). Then their ate some men, who stand really close to men when they talk to me. They're usually kind of cute.... In an arrogant...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F a week ago

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    When I was three years old my parents were killed in a car accident. And I was sent to live with my aunt and uncle. My aunt and uncle loved me very much although my aunt was very...
    meneme1995 meneme1995 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Every relationship I've been in has been toxic and unhealthy and I think I've finally figured out why... I am not picky enough. Before you get all crazy on me, hear me out. In the...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I could just join this group and let the titular confession stand for itself, but this is an aspect of my personality that has been bothering me a lot lately so I figure I might as...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    When ever wife is shopping in Malls, I try to find out if some older man are starring at my wife's rounded ***, and often find some older guy starring at her *** with a smile on...
    oldmushroom oldmushroom 61-65, M 5 Responses Aug 24

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    "i've told you this once before can't control me if you try to take me down your gonna break and i feel your every nothing that you're doing for me i'm picking you outta me you...
    DemonsFreak DemonsFreak 13-15, M Aug 23

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M Aug 22

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    I am honestly somebody who accepts lots of people. But people who are immature, loud extremely is crazy. Immaturity I understand because I am a bit immature myself but to act like...
    muffin30 muffin30 26-30, F Aug 22

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