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I Cannot Stand Controlling Men

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    Men that think they are "in control" of women

    sicken me. No.. Men and women are equal, in a relationship or just as human beings.
    beyourself22 beyourself22 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Tangled In The Web

    Disclaimer: This is a reminder to myself what I've had to go through. A note to self of what a blind idiot I can be at times. It is an example of my trust, my ignorance and my naivety; my belief -that someone could NOT be that f*cked up. Yet this is written proof that they are...
    DesolateSoul DesolateSoul 31-35 Jul 29, 2010

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F May 21, 2010

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    And I cannot stand controlling women.

    Just the thought makes me cringe. Maybe it's my stubbornness? Idk. I guess I just don't act like a "traditional" woman who follows every command with a smile. I don't need someone who doesn't let me go out with my guy friends or something lol. I guess it's not very popular...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 1 Response May 31

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    Doesn't Hurt To Listen And Not Just Speak.........

    Since my husband has passed I'm just gonna make this short. I have always been stubborn in my own way......I always corrected my husband when he told people I was the boss, like most men do. I was never the boss.....I was asked for suggestions on different things, but thats as...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    The Only Man~

    The only man that I ever allowed to tell me what to do is no longer on the earth plane, he was my father. When he died in 2000, at his burial, I told my husband, "there lies the only man who will ever tell this woman what to do, bless his soul."  He is sadly missed and deeply...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 51-55, F 3 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Individuality.

    I am an individual independent woman who when she is with men friends makes up her own mind of what I will do. I will not be dictated to, since my choice to be with someone does not remove from me my free will, and ability to change my mind.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Sep 13, 2013

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    Men Are Goin To Be Men!

    If anyone feels like they got to controll a man for him to be with them, or for the man to act right then they don't need to be with that man! because it will only make the situation worse. And when i'ts all said and done a man is goin to be a man regardless and ...
    tlashae tlashae 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    You Don't Own Me

    I have been married three times and have had my share of lovers.  Thank God, I have never been seriously hurt by anyone.     It is interesting how you can be so into a man and think everything is going to great in the relationship and then out of no where, he becomes...
    Shelia4all Shelia4all 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Control Freak

    My Daughter married an America pilot 26yr ago, and for 26yr I have kept out of their relationship, because of the kids. Now my daughter tells me she is very unhappy, that she feels the blinkers have been lifted from her eye's. She said he controls her life, her family are grown...
    Taino60 Taino60 61-65, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    How...could...you?!?

    ive met one of these scumbag pigs...he said hed take care of me, i was a child without a home...instead he dragged me accross the country just to use me for his pathetic tiny ****!! now im stuck with nowhere to live because this dirty piece of **** EXISTS.  all i wanted was...
    SurferSpaz SurferSpaz 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    I Lmao At Them

    I use to be a controlled woman..  USE TO BE, is the key meaning of my story. I had to learn to recognize it, label it and ditch it. If a woman can't get her man to be a partner, talking is a big waste of time, then we..me..have a problem. Now I can spot it and it's actually...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2010

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    My Controlling Life

    I was in a volient relationship for 12years. I’m a very quiet person who keeps myself to myself and and happy being a homely person, I don’t drink or go out to pubs. My partner at the time did drink. He had a bad temper if he had a bad day or to make things go his way, as I...
    Jordan8 Jordan8 31-35, F 1 Response May 21, 2010

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    Hypocrites* This makes me think of hippopotami in crates. 😱
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    I am currently reading a book about controlling parents and how to deal with the past. It is helping, but I am emotionally stuck. Part of me feels that I am being over dramatic...
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    Douchebags, ********, dickheads. They are everywhere. I especially cannot stand those who preach about good manners but are so full of themselves, think they're dominant, and still...
    xxXxSkyxXxx xxXxSkyxXxx 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    TheGuiltTripGirl TheGuiltTripGirl 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Without a doubt, I consider myself a feminist, or at the very least a feminist ally. This lens I apply is not only limited to criticism of my fellow man and woman, but to myself...
    InfluxOfQuestions InfluxOfQuestions 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    Long Story.... So in 17years old Black Caribbean and my girlfriend is 15years old White Caucasian. We have been together just shy of 7months which isn't to long but you know those...
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    It's like my mother has two personalities. One moment she is happy and interested in our conversation...the next she is crabby and doesn't want to speak with me anymore. So...
    CatLover311 CatLover311 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Where do I start, how do I not blame myself, how did I let things get like this. We've been together for 8 years (not legally married) and have a six and seven year old. Things...
    1forever 1forever 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I cant stand these god dam dog owners in my area who mess up the streets and yards and parks with all their ****.Get a life you losers!
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    For seven months, I was in a controlling relationship. I thought I had met the man I wanted to be with always. There were red flags from the beginning, but I was so attracted to...
    flpatty flpatty 51-55, F a week ago

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    Well I just got in another fight with my dad over something so stupid like usual. He asked me something and I said what because I couldn't hear him and he said nvm really hateful...
    nikkileigh21 nikkileigh21 13-15, F Aug 16

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    "Hope you are ready to fight in court to get anything" "You're crazy, I will make sure you never see the kids again" " You are such a loser" "Tell them (the kids) you don't want...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Okay so me and my boyfriend has been together for 8 months now and i'm used to him and all but the thing is, sometime in our relationship he has been cheating and i'm not sure if...
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    A lot of the people I know dislike possessive, controlling, clingy and overbearing partners. When I tell them that I want to be in a relationship with a man that is very...
    miumiuganda miumiuganda 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I want to be in a relationship with a possessive and overly protective man. A lot of the people I know dislike possessive, controlling, clingy and overbearing partners. When I tell...
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    My boyfriend is controlling, he hates me going over to friends house which I really don't have many but whenever I visit them he is like I'm not going to talk to you because he...
    ilybb ilybb 13-15, F Aug 13

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    My mother is the controlling parent who tries to control everyone and everything. Yesterday I received an unexpected phone call from my mom. It had been almost 2 years since we...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Aug 14

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    I like having controlling parents because then you will have a lot less of a chance of learning right and wrong. Also it can help me learn better.
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Aug 14

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    Men should allow women to think for themselves they shouldn't try to control us .. They are way stronger and they get off on that!!
    Ashawnte Ashawnte 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    CEB32 CEB32 31-35, M Jul 29

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    I can't stand my MIL! She isn't what you would call mean or lazy but she is just so damn annoying! My husband and I have been married for a month and a half but we dated 6 years...
    cdub1990 cdub1990 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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