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I Cannot Stand My Boring Marriage

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    My husband and I moved here almost a year ago. We live in what would be called a "hollow" so space is short. At first it seemed we had lots in common with our neighbors; we both...
    eusapia eusapia 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Hypocrites* This makes me think of hippopotami in crates. 😱
    DarkAphrodite DarkAphrodite 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    absolutely unreasonable or disbelieving that anyone is any way different. good grief what makes people become religious fanatics?
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Uuuugh! They annoy me! *swat* Miss! *Swat* MISS! GTFO! Haha that's how I feel about flies :3
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12

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    My house is full of them at the moment! I'm training my cats to become fly-killing ninjas! Hiyaaa!
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    I hate how they buzz all around you , bus in your ears , eyes , go on your food and drinks . Like Gahh go away.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    They get so annoying buzz!buzz! Right in your ear
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Even though they are necessary to the environment for decomposition, those little buzzing bastardz anger me. -_-
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F Sep 13

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    Nasty bastards. They have all the room in the world to fly around and they choose right in front of your face.
    imstarlord89 imstarlord89 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    Can get into a tiny cracked open window... Can't get out of a fully opened window...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Sep 14

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    Unless distracted and they aint many.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    A few weeks ago I met someone here via his responses on my posts. He seemed very nice. I checked his profile. Others liked him. It seemed "safe" to chat with him. So when he...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 43 Responses Sep 5

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    You know what really bothers me, and my husband reminds of this periodically, is that I am showing my kids how they should treat me when they get older by the way I engage with and...
    nkmnovember nkmnovember 36-40 Sep 1

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 26

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    Come hell or high water I'm done. I'm tired of the excuses, the lies, being blamed, and the gaslighting . I am ready to face I am in an abusive withholding relationship and have...
    selfcompassion selfcompassion 51-55, F 4 hrs ago

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 21 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi guys. I'm 22 years old. The History with my girlfriend and I: We dated briefly in high school before she went off to college. She's a girl who is well kept and doesn't look...
    daveR80 daveR80 22-25, M 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Days 6 and 7 – reclaiming my bed – in conjunction with my previous stories. So, day 6 was ok. #3 had his first real cough and found it difficult to settle in bed, so, and as...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 17 Responses a week ago

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    Fiance and I have discussed about whether we should do an intimate one or not. I thought we had already set ourselves to do a destination wedding, with a (sort of happy middle). We...
    lylac lylac 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am a newlywed (married 11 months) and have a beautiful one month old daughter with my husband. While I was a little overwhelmed with all the huge changes in my life (getting...
    aubz88 aubz88 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Hmm this week I've been adding stories to the experiences I've chosen since being a member on here. I've been adding each story one at a time.And so far it's been pretty straight...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    "For Better or For Worse" I have been thinking about this particular vow. As someone who was brought up from birth in the church, I was always taught that divorce is not optional...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses Sep 2

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    I think it’s about time I make a final decision. My 20 year anniversary is coming up in 2 short weeks. Normally this would be a time for great celebration. I see it as an...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 18 Responses Sep 9

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    I have been married for 8 years now, our marriage has an age gap of 18 years. I really wanted to get married by a white man am an African lady. We met in my country and after he...
    Tok14 Tok14 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    As is the case with many ILIASM folks in OppositeLand, my regret about my marriage is that I waited so long to divorce. "HuffPost Divorce readers share the biggest regret they...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    The compromise promise. I ran into a former colleague yesterday. When I worked with him I got to know his wife and kids, and the couple seemed happily married, but got divorced a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    I ran across a product today while working (I am in healthcare). Does anyone see any possibility of this reviving a SM marriage (more from a male point of view). I would think...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 18 Responses Aug 25

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 25 Responses Aug 26

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    I have been with my now husband for four years, married just recently in May 2014. We have three daughters, (3,3, and 1 years of age)...we have been through a lot of ups and downs...
    beyondstars beyondstars 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    Hi, I am a closeted asexual African woman based in the SE United States who is looking for a MOC with a closeted (masculine) gay or asexual man. I cannot relocate at this time...
    bloom686 bloom686 31-35, F Aug 28

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    I am just looking to vent a little bit here. I've been married for 20 years. It's been 20 years of pretty awful. My husband doesn't have conversations with me and we haven't been...
    endjoy1994 endjoy1994 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I feel so bad for my husband and my family that I have left. I have been a little on edge lately and have had a rough time in my marriage. This all makes me think about what if I...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    After 20 years of blind loyalty I just realised something significant. After everything I have said and done, after everything we have been through together, and after...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 14 Responses Sep 8

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    I feel like crap. I'm stuck in a funk I cannot pull myself out of. I had an email interaction with my wife last week about our sexless marriage. I tried my best to convey my...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 18 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm a Canadian lesbian, age 28 born into a catholic family. Looking for overseas MOC due to family pressure. My family is cruel & completely against same sex marriage...
    lemonumbrella lemonumbrella 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    Wish I could believe- my heavens he is really trying to be a better husband but he also watches me all the time. He has even taken over my office and works on his laptop from...
    peaceseeker09 peaceseeker09 46-50, F 13 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi guys. I'm 22 years old. The History with my girlfriend and I: We dated briefly in high school before she went off to college. She's a girl who is well kept and doesn't look...
    daveR80 daveR80 22-25, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Life is so damn boring! I'm not saying i want to die (though i'd be lying if i said that thought has never crossed my mind) but rather that, well... life really is boring. I love...
    michael9666 michael9666 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    Yes, I'm boring!!! Do you know how I know? I get this message alot Hi, I saw your profile and I think you're a really interesting person. Ooo I have a confession, I' m...
    LivvieDestroyerofSocks LivvieDestroyerofSocks 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 11

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    So, unravelling everything from the last 2 weeks postings, identifying the facts from the symptoms I think this is my story. My wife is very self-centred with a borderline...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 16 Responses Sep 9

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    My so called friend is really fake and cannot be trusted. I have been distancing myself from her, but am too nice and feel bad at times. I know I have to stand my ground because I...
    nonya97 nonya97 16-17, F Aug 22