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I Cannot Stand My Boring Marriage

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    I cannot stand it when I am told I have to meet my wife's emotional needs, and not expect to have my sexual met. I'm sorry but I can only be emotionally supportive for so long...
    Ivithos Ivithos 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    No, I did not wait either to have sex before marriage. I started having sex when I was 16 and was on the pill at that time so I would not get pregnant. My mother made sure of...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Roy Moore calls for 'Biblical marriage' at Texas rally AUSTIN, Texas — About 250 people gathered Monday afternoon at the Texas Capitol to rally in support of what they call...
    FindMeIAmYours FindMeIAmYours 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Warning: Gratuitous venting ahead. Not nearly as exciting as gratuitous nudity. I feel a little sick. I'm standing here at the end of something. Some days it feels like the end...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 11

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    Married 25 years with three kids (25, 23, 21). I have been living in a sexless marriage (meaning zero sex) for the past 6 years, touchless (meaning zero touch) for the past 3 years...
    acceptingmediocrity acceptingmediocrity 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 9

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    I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT I AM READING... I have read so many stories of sexless marriages on here.. No intimacy! I am so sorry for many of you. I was treating my spouse very similar...
    KeraJo75 KeraJo75 36-40 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    You know, one never wakes up one day and says "hey, I want to get married to someone who doesn't appreciate me". So here I am at 19 years old, in a sexless marriage. I'm married to...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    So everyone asks me once they find out I'm in a sexless marriage why I married this person to begin with. Well, honestly, we were two people who had both been single for a long...
    PenelopeAnne PenelopeAnne 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    I don't think I am leading an exciting life as what most of my friends have. They did some drastic decisions that totally made their life up side down. Like to fall in love...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Mar 17

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    I had a little too much red wine last night... My mouth was spewing with truth. Hurtful truths. Ive always been honest about my need for more sex in the marriage. But last night I...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 14 Responses Mar 15

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    I have always had a picture of my honeymoon night all planned in my head. i have always wanted to surprise my husband with a gift that god had given me. i am not a girl that is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 3

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    I got challenged today, is divorce the best thing for my daughter? Am I being selfish and putting myself first? I stayed for a couple years too long because of that exact mind...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 81 Responses Mar 18

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    So I am a boring person,trying to change that.My day is pretty....... boring. I go to my computer, watch The Simpsons, study a bit,go to my facebook account (the other one in which...
    ThePakistaniGuy ThePakistaniGuy 13-15, M Mar 12

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    I saw a wonderful episode of Father Ted with the boring priest. He wasn't short on words but his subjects left something to be desired. The line that made me roar was: 'I had a...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    A mere shadow, of the man I used to be. Betrayed, Broken and lost, in a world that I struggle to find where I belong now. There is more to life, than just watching the time pass by...
    Mencrytoo Mencrytoo 46-50, M Mar 11

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    So, I had a visit with the attorney yesterday. Found out that the STBX cannot let go of his need for control! He wants joint conservatorship.. Which I'm fine with. But, if we can...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 13

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    indication of boring: "how was your weekend?" ... "I went grocery shopping and cleaned the bathroom"
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F Mar 5

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    Good evening --- I however AM HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE. This post is in response to the countless women that are unhappy in their marriages. Many wives lament and languish that they...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    My wife is so boring. Vanilla all the way. Does not drink. Not into seX. believes flirting is cheating. Hoes To the Gym fully clothed Nice body but does not let me see her. In...
    bigrobery62 bigrobery62 51-55, M Mar 16

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    I m newly married since 9 months but been with him fr past 2 year .before marraige we hardly met fr 2 times and that to for 5 minutes,I never got to meet him n know his activities...
    bloodred31 bloodred31 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Sexless Marriage Help | The best online way to rejuvenate a marriage : Power of Two Marriage The first step in getting sexless marriage help is to understand the problem. Here’s...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    At what point do you give up? When do you finally say I've had enough of feeling alone. You build a life, kids, house, good jobs. You seem to have everthing and from the outside...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 6

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    I'm not sure if my rant really falls into this category but I'm gonna go with it. I was just on Facebook and came across a post that read "if you are having sex before marriage it...
    cbcs cbcs 31-35, M Mar 17

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    When you leave, be prepared for pushback. Stand firm on your boundaries. Don't give any wiggle room. And I've decided all communication in writing, or with counselor. No more...
    Seekinganswers2 Seekinganswers2 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like I'm at a stand still. Things aren't going well but we don't have good communication. We are both unhappy. We have kids and financial responsibility. We can't just pick...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never been married, but I do know if relationship does finally end it will most likely happen at the worst time. When you are already married, that's why I don't want to get...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    There's a member that posted a story on marriage, loss of intimacy and love and divorce. In the end the husband realizes how he neglected his wife, how much he still loves her and...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F Mar 3

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    I have a sexless marriage and the marriage is working. It is because my wife and I have experienced lack of sex, knowledge or practicing it but in different ways and places. So we...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    People change, if you do not have the spark in your relationship you had when you first get married you should move on..... At least this is how I see it now.. Marriage is a 24/7...
    navyguy1976 navyguy1976 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    It's a shame marriage is looked down on and viewed in this way, any relationship is a risk and many end in divorce but for me, being married is something I have always wanted. It...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I wonder why in a society where marriage is probably love before marriage fails. While in some of our communities, there is a relationship before marriage.
    XOSO XOSO 51-55 a week ago

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    I have been with my husband for almost 6 years. 3 of those years we've been married. It at all started like a fairy tale we were head over heals in love! Our first year we got...
    sadblueyes88 sadblueyes88 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sexless marriage is a sense-less marriage.
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M Feb 27

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    Shocked. Repulsed. Tormented. Disgusted. Few respect marriage anymore. Swingers. Bisexuals married but free to play. Family cheats. Why. Changes in love...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 9

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    My wife and I had a good talk today. She told me one of her friends is getting divorced, largely due to her (female) friend's infidelity towards their husband. Their marriage is...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    I feel like I'm in a rare and special situation. I would love to know if anyone else is too - I feel very alone in this. When I was 18 I moved out and landed a very lucky position...
    seekingafrica seekingafrica 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The hardest part about being married to a narcissist/sociopath is their lack of empathy and shallow emotions. The hardest part about leaving the narcissist/sociopath is their lack...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 19

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    Like most things in life, marriage is what individuals choose to make of it. Unfortunately there are those who choose to abuse and betray it. Others try to avoid it. Some even try...
    BlackMagicAttack BlackMagicAttack 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I met my wife she had an almost insatiable sexual apatite. But, she was a full blown out of control alcoholic. The day before she went into rehab, she was hospitalized for...
    Ivithos Ivithos 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just don't understand. We're both passive-aggressive, which makes this all even that much more fun...*sarcasm*. But I love my knucklehead deeply, and that is why I'm still here...
    lonelygirl222 lonelygirl222 41-45, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    So my lover says she can't be the "shadow woman" anymore, but WOW did we ever create some seriously amazing memories in 4 1/2 months of finally seeing each other after nearly 2...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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