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I Cannot Stand My Boring Marriage

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    24 year old woman-child. she comes home to visit and its a nightmare. She doesnt take care of things. like physical 'stuff', material things. She smashed her iPhone, then got drunk...
    milkynine milkynine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Ugh. If somebody is handicapped or elderly, I can understand. It's not their fault that they can't do a lot of things for themselves anymore. There isn't much they could do...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    "I got swag" "She/he is thirsty" "I got friendzoned" "Ooh! She's acting cray cray" "Let me jump your bones" A very short but precise list. There are undoubtedly more phrases that...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I hate racist people and those who think they are better and smarter just because of their race
    awsomedude13 awsomedude13 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    What a dumb question. I especially hate it when guys who want to date me ask this. When I was single, it was completely by choice. It was because, although I had guys who liked me...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Majority of the women in the world are stuck up. And these girls can be fine, short, ugly, fat, slim; you name it. Most of the stuck up girls can come across to me, to be rude...
    Akon52 Akon52 22-25, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So I know I should always love my dad and be grateful for everything he's given me, but I really cannot stand him most of the time!! He pays for everything for me and my mom always...
    sindianau sindianau 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    ...but take no action to change the situation. I cannot stand complacent, scary, doubters that are not empowered enought to TRY to make a situation better. Don't complain about...
    LacieStCloud LacieStCloud 46-50, F Jul 13

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    I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17 an he was 23. I didn't regret it, and still dont, but the way he treats me now, i love him unconditionally, yet he fails to even try an talk...
    happyconfused212 happyconfused212 18-21, F 12 mins ago

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    I had to follow their “Advise,” because my wife would not do anything that would contradict their wishes. a) Living on a budget, I attempted to teach my wife how to manage the...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    I began dating my wife in October 2012 and met my in-laws in November of that year. My father in law is a celebrity in Mexico and Internationally. The family of my wife while we...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
    marcz7 marcz7 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 4

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    Tomorrow is T -1... so to speak. I have finally set up an appointment with my first attorney. Then Monday I have an appointment with a divorce mediator (who knows, maybe it can...
    inmytime inmytime 31-35, M 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    People sometimes are puzzled by my priorities. But when you have a comfortable home and someone to share expenses with and pets that you love and a life that you share, the absence...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 13 Responses Jul 3

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    To me, marriage is TOO binding. Honestly, how many people can actually be happy together forever? The answer is 50%. half of marriages end in divorce. I believe that being in an...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15 Jul 10

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    God. I grew up in God, and I was a big believer. My foundation was really good because I had a whole family of believers. Among my sisters and my cousins, I was the "closest" to...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Boundaries. That is the secret to a successful long-term relationship. Boundaries help keep you from stepping over the line when you are in an argument. Boundaries let you know...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I think the hardest thing for me, looking back on how I got into a sexless marriage, was that it was a long slow process (a death by a thousand cuts). In some ways it would have...
    runninginthedark70 runninginthedark70 41-45, M 10 Responses Jun 25

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    For about a year I've been considering divorcing my wife of nearly 8 years. Our relationship has never been great. We are great friends, but horrible lovers/spouses. We do things...
    randomtiger45 randomtiger45 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I don't know if anybody else experiences the same but there is no intimacy not just lack of sex. There is the mandatory kiss goodnight....which I absolutely resent! We have only...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 6

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
    srinivasleela84 srinivasleela84 26-30, F Jul 7

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    In an effort to make a long story short, I will sum up by saying that I have been married to my husband for 11 yrs and we started dating in high school 15 yrs ago. We had our first...
    Jme0925 Jme0925 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Hello all you wonderful EP folks, I have another update on my formerly sexless marriage. If you want the back story, read my previous posts as they will shed light on the progress...
    mistereko mistereko 36-40, M 13 Responses Jul 14

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    Sort of an update to my situation. But I'm sure it's not anything new to many of us who have been here for a while. For the record, I'm aware of my options, and the following isn't...
    angryspartan angryspartan 36-40, M 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Diary Entries During The First Months Of Marriage I have been slowly transferring my handwritten diary entries to this site. I've reached the part about my arranged marriage and...
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 3 Responses Jun 29

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    I am married but I live in a Sexless Marriage. Most of time I even live alone. I am so sad. I am not young anymore. Worst thing is I still look young and good-looking. I had crush...
    jackieLu jackieLu 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 5

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    Will I ever get over my marriage? I got divorced bc of the stress my dysfunctional relationship was giving me. The lack of intimacy, love, compassion, the sickness of it all. It...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 12

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    Language Barrier I’ve determined that my STBX and I speak two entirely different languages, and he doesn’t understand anything I say – or have ever said – to him about my...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 17 Responses a week ago

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    Sometimes I look life through a filter of perfection...how things should be.A supportive family,friends and happy kids around,living a peaceful life full of feelings and deep...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Almost a month out post divorce. I didn't realize how much you could cram into one month. So overall I would say I am feeling stagnant, however the outside world may see progress...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 10 Responses Jul 7

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    Thank you all for letting me vent here. It is therapeutic and helps me organize my thoughts. . I do often feel like I am imposing on people when I talk to them. I remember being...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 28 Responses Jun 28

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    I would love to capture a moment in time and frame it...sometimes the beauty of what we see cannot be described...even a photograph wouldn't do it justice...my artist's perspective...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Actually he's my step dad but he's been around since I was four. Today I decided the only good thing about this man is he took care of my mother after her divorce from my father. I...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F Jul 11

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    the perfect way to describe my wife is a line from a Police song Synchronicity part II , "mother chants her litany of boredom and frustration , but we know all her suicides are...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 13 Responses Jul 15

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    lol I fall in love everyday , to the every handsome guy I see , guess its pretty hard to spend your whole life with one man . LOL it sounds pretty boring :D well and then having...
    nehaalisyed nehaalisyed 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I always knew it was about control... I have not heard from my stbx in two weeks. Things have been extremely stressful at work and I have not really been noticing it...stbx has...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 25

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    I have no sex with my partner and he has said that he finds our sex boring and repetitive. It has killed my self esteem and is so painful for me to handle. His neglect toward me...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" He answered that prayer two weeks...
    gracehopepeace gracehopepeace 31-35, F 14 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
    Liya2004 Liya2004 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Welp, it just got ugly. You all, who have been following, know about last night. This morning I wake up to bill collectors calling me. He took me off of the truck and insurance...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 22 Responses Jul 11

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    What can I do to bring intimacy back into my marriage? I love my wife and I believe she loves me. We have been through some tough times in our marriage (including her having an...
    joeknox joeknox 46-50, M 14 Responses Jul 14

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    SIX SIGNS OF A LOVE AVOIDANT (This is a Good read) 1. Evades Intimate and Emotional Connection In romantic relationships evading intimacy and getting too close emotionally is...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been married for 17 years. He has help me to raise children from my first marriage and we have 1 of our own. He has medical issues that have lowered his sex drive. This...
    CrazyKatLady CrazyKatLady 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago