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I Cannot Stand My Boring Marriage

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    So much sexuality out in the world, yet they still have to bring it to this simple app
    Gardener1 Gardener1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I mean really if anything it's just messing up the relationship we have. What's so difficult with being HONEST.
    lifesize lifesize 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    It all sounds the same to me, the same melodies but different voices (modified in a computer program). Where is the beauty of music, when it actually had a meaning?
    blanka1 blanka1 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I cannot stand it. Every morning when I'm going to school I walk past another school where I find the teachers out back smoking. I can honestly say I lose a lot of respect for...
    kittensjpg kittensjpg 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    my husband left to US and he will be taking me in another 2 months....and his parents are forcing me ...taking me to all their relatives house..whom I dont even know and all these...
    needemotionalsupport needemotionalsupport 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have read many posts now, and I cannot claim to know what is the best route for others. I love my wife and I have amazing young kids, but our problem with sex goes back from...
    travelight travelight 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    so much hurt here. i'm finding the strength to stand on my own two feet, to speak up for myself and my kids. find a way to make money to save. so much to do in so little time. I...
    Melody47 Melody47 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wouldn't want to be in a sexless marriage, I'd make it a priority to have that alone time with my husband if I was to ever get married, especially with kids. & I sure as Hell...
    alizex7x alizex7x 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    In case you think that Opposite Land is perfect, it isn't. No tax refund for me this year. Instead, a $6,500 tax bill due to how things worked out for me in the divorce settlement...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    A text message I sent my girlfriend ... I think I'm going crazy watching how you are with your phone and your constant need for a connection with the online world, it's an...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    It's not that I don't have any sex but it's not as often and as passionate or sexy as I want it to be or have it. It used to be very often and sexy on the first 3 months of...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    A year ago I found out that the reason for this is that my 'husband' is a sex addict and has been screwing hordes of other women and prostitutes. PUKE!!!! I find myself with three...
    shanm shanm 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 5 days ago

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    America is going down majorly gay should be married once I have started this movement, I will not stop until gays everywhere can be married it's bull **** the American people deny...
    SeaBassStein SeaBassStein 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 11

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    There are 2 whys in the sexless marriage. The first is: why does my spouse not want sex? This leads to a huge cycle of reason-chasing, smokescreening from the refuser, magical...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses Mar 26

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    Overview: Male 47 ; Australia; Dated (celibate) a young Catholic lady for seven years; Married for seven more years (sexless after honeymoon); no children (guess why); We have had...
    angelwanderer angelwanderer 46-50 27 Responses Apr 1

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    Better Single and Alone-- than Married and Lonely Okay, for those who think it is better to stay married with an un-affectionate and sexless spouse, here is why that is not...
    EinEngel EinEngel 46-50, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    Ok guys, friends, supporters. I need some wise words for this moment. As you know, I've been taking a sabbatical, trying to have an open mind for when we go to our marriage...
    Lexus45 Lexus45 41-45, F 29 Responses Apr 1

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    Cannot wait to have my new bed alone. Today we had his friend over to our place. He had the seminar experience with his ex wife . When he heard that we got another bed, he warred...
    Raisingup Raisingup 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    Being gay is a deviation from nature. If we take a look at animals in nature we can see that none of them are gay. A few are heterosexual or androgynous but they are actually...
    darkanddesolate darkanddesolate 16-17, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    My time has come. Court is tomorrow. Hopefully it is the last court date and I get my divorce. It is bittersweet. I had such hopes. I took my vows seriously. For better or worse...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 25 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 32 and have 2 kids..life is good and normal...but I have this one problem that I cannot fathom... Have any of u felt this way..my hubby n I had loads of issues first few...
    NatKey NatKey 31-35, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I don't like the Idea of being a man's property. I know that nowadays that's not what marriage is about, but I have a fear of ending up some one's property. For other people...
    Pixadelia Pixadelia 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I been dancing since I was young. And yet I still cannot do gymnastics. I can pull myself intoo full splits and bend over backward but I cannot do cartwheels or backflips or any of...
    MeganXXXXX MeganXXXXX 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    WTF is wrong with me?! - I used to be a very self-confident and happy woman who lived life to the fullest and was thrilled to wake up to my life everyday, and I've turned into a...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 11 Responses Mar 26

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    It all started when I started dating my now husband about 15years ago. My sister in law didn't want her brother with anyone unless she had say in who it was. Well when she didn't...
    laidbackgirl laidbackgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    For a long time I wondered as to WHY he doesn't want me anymore. If I changed something, anything would that change things? I came to the conclusion that: a) I don't care...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    The face of love is beautiful and kind. Someone once told me that you cannot love unless you love yourself. A man who ignores the suffering he causes in his woman does not love...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    Here is the deal. I Married my Wife on the 29th day of may last year. I love her dearly then, she than cheated on me emotionally with at least 3 other guys. I slowly started...
    anton88 anton88 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My wife has completely abandoned me for our children. She apparently has nothing left for me. She has given up on maintaining her physical self and has given up exercise and has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 25

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    My wife does not support me. I am having problems at work with my job and she says I cannot keep a job and that I have mental problems. I have always worked hard to support my...
    sober79 sober79 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    For those of you that have left your SM's, I pose a question: Was the pain initiated with divorce greater than what you experienced during your SM? I ask this because my H and I...
    tresses tresses 36-40, F 39 Responses Mar 27

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    I don't know what to do.... I can't file, because no job and TONS of bills BUT *I CANNOT TAKE THIS MUCH LONGER!* today, I'm cleaning my bros house for cash and applying to jobs...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 28

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    Now most time we are sleeping separately. Tonight I can sense he is sad to see me to go to another room. I feel for him, but I cannot sleep beside him any more! It just drive me...
    Raisingup Raisingup 26-30, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    This is something I feel extremely passionate about. Am I gay myself? No. Am I even bi? No. I'm a straight female with a long-term boyfriend (however I find women very sexy, and...
    StuklegiousRose StuklegiousRose 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    So I went and seen my counselor and followed through with what she suggested and tried to talk with my husband. The first question I asked him was why he didn't want anything to...
    Rena4 Rena4 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 7

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    Solidarity The back story: Sometime ago at a function for my husband's extended family, I was verbally shredded by my husband's brother. Not in private, but loudly, aggressively...
    tresses tresses 36-40, F 13 Responses Apr 11

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    I got married young, just out of school. A year later we had a baby. She's two years old now. And I can't tell anyone what this is like, or has been like, living with HIM. He...
    jaythebird jaythebird 18-21 7 Responses a week ago

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    It is so hard to admit but yes, ILIASM. It hasn't been years yet, just months, but heck yeah it's driving me nuts! My younger years had been. .. Colorful, and I'd actually broken...
    TheRascalScribbles TheRascalScribbles 31-35, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    So day by day life is getting more boring and depressing . Everyday same thing , nothing new happen instead losing friends everyday make me more sad . I wish I can have a little...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Mar 21

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    I played DSA with some friends 6 hours long. Really awesome but the rest of the day was sooo boring. Without them the day would have been useless.
    joseph1995 joseph1995 18-21, M Apr 5

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