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I Cannot Stand My Boring Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3 People

    I feel crazy for feeling this way. I have a beautiful home, no debt, a good job, a successful husband. On the exterior, everything looks great. But inside my home, I feel like I...
    babalulu babalulu 36-40, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Look, I know more and more black women are going natural, and to me its great that we are embracing what grows out of our head and not trying to change it. But what I dont want to...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    So I have an older brother and a small sister and brother respectively. I am the second child, and growing up, I have always felt out of place. I am really close to my baby brother...
    DaisyDuke101 DaisyDuke101 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am not sure how to write this, so I'll do the best that I can. I never thought at the ripe old age of 41 that there would be so much uncertainty. I write this today, to empty...
    ShadowSteel ShadowSteel 41-45, M 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    All I want & need is to feel loved. I suffer from epilepsy. I had a stage where I suffered from the psychological effects and the 'psychosocial dissorder'. It was hard and...
    Robberto Robberto 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    We've been together since high school which was 2008 and got married 4 years ago. We have a daughter together and have what every one considers a good marriage. But in reality our...
    Lostinexile Lostinexile 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Why is it that we compartmentalise all of our lives but cannot seem able to do it romantically? Why is the assumption for our partner to be absolutely everything we could ever need...
    Beautifulpolyamory Beautifulpolyamory 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I did not wait and am okay with that. It is way too boring to wait that long for it. It is just sex, nothing special. It is just a way to have some fun. A great time where everyone...
    RebellioustoanEnd RebellioustoanEnd 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I live in a mostly sexless marriage and it freaking sucks! We've been thru it all. Drs, therapy, talks,ultimatums , misunderstanding, understanding, pretending, lying / being...
    Micromint Micromint 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Not many to have banter with or a decent laugh some are okay but i dont click with many due to music i listen to but am i gonna change for one person...yawn      ...
    xKayleighxGloGangx xKayleighxGloGangx 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Sometimes I don't know which is worse. I shouldn't be whining, it's really over now, for the last and final time; but writing about how it feels makes it somehow feel better...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M Aug 27

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    My mum and dad want me to be in an arranged marriage when I'm older. I feel like I can't live with someone I've just been introduced to for the rest of my life. The thing is is...
    Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom 13-15, F Aug 27

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    Hi Folks Well, in 2009 while working to try and get through a work-related (and marriage-related, although unbeknownst to me at the time) burnout, I wrote my fist post on...
    Mrcellophane Mrcellophane 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm not sure what to make of my marriage at this point. I thought I was marrying my best friend, but instead of being a wife she has become another mother. I've mentioned this...
    RNMedic RNMedic 26-30, M 9 Responses Aug 24

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    Here's 2min40 sec of how to empathize. This is a building block for love and can lead you out of a sexless marriage I believe as well as many other relationship problems, family...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    In order to have a perfect relationship that turns into a perfect marriage, the wife must honor her husband over her own will, and the husband must love his wife over his own...
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M Aug 24

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    "i've told you this once before can't control me if you try to take me down your gonna break and i feel your every nothing that you're doing for me i'm picking you outta me you...
    DemonsFreak DemonsFreak 13-15, M Aug 23

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    I was watching the reality tv series Arranged and I thought wow, it must be therapeutic to go through the what ifs and shoulds before you get hitched to a person someone else chose...
    zizna zizna 36-40, F Aug 23

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    Ahhh! !! What a boring crappy night 😂 - it's 10:30 pm and I have nothing to do but Stare at myself in the mirror. Lol
    sunshineh13 sunshineh13 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    If I only wanted things that money could buy, I would be perfectly content with life. Instead I want true love from a woman I have never met. You cannot buy love, you cannot pay...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M Aug 21

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    or how many ppl claim to be? some use that line for sympathy sex. but, I am still amazed ar how many ppl are in sexless marriage. i guess iy is believable, cuz my marriage was...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 21

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    I have been married for almost 11 years. It is a long read...sorry We got married when he was 19 I was 18. I got pregnant before we were married. We only dated 6 months. I took my...
    redrubiess7 redrubiess7 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Refusers are not necessarily mean people. Mine happened to be. I was tricked countless times into believe my Ex was a good person. I should have taken the time to scratch the...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I think it is a legal price of paper, so the federal government can poke n prod into yo personal affairs. I think you can love someone n make a commitment from the heart. I shouldn...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 Responses Aug 20

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    From my experience I think the person who is upset about the sexlessness needs to find out the reason behind the sexlesness before they can decide how to go forward. There are many...
    nicoladicola nicoladicola 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I have been struggling with sexless marriage for years. Recently, I have been telling my husband to separate because I really don’t want to stuck on something is not going to...
    AwesomeLucy AwesomeLucy 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 19

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    I am not here to play games. I am 100%serious about everything I post. If you cannot handle it, think it ridiculous, or something in between, then do not waste the time in...
    TheGoddesstoAll TheGoddesstoAll 18-21, F Aug 18

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    it is hard sometimes...cuz if I could change the world, you would be the sunlight in my universe, n u wood think our love was really something good....eric clapton what happens...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 1 Response Aug 18

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    I tend to reject the institution of marriage in general but I'm happy for those find their own happiness through marriage. I just hope the gay rights community in America doesn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I need some help/advice/reassurance. I'm 24 and have been married for almost 6 years. My husband is amazing. He's an awesome dad and a really loving supportive husband. The problem...
    lovedandlonely17 lovedandlonely17 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 17

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    Well, actually, it was an almost sexless marriage and it was all my fault. I had started a sewing business (sewing about 15 hours a day) and was busy taking care of grandchildren...
    asjmk asjmk 56-60, F Aug 17

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    My wife and I have been married for 13 years and she wants to leave. She says she feels empty inside and cannot live in a marriage without intimacy. While I knew things between...
    LonelyGuyHere LonelyGuyHere 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 17

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    Not to be mean or rude, but if someone is boring, I just ignore them, that's if it's in text or messages. On the phone, I simply tell them I have to go and the same in person. I...
    UpCloud UpCloud 18-21, F Aug 16

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    So many people in sexless marriages... relationships which should be so different... enjoying the pleasure of holding hands, cuddling, smiling to each other sweetly... and of...
    SolitaireGent SolitaireGent 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I hope that as I make my way through high school and then college after that I will have an interesting life. I don't want to live a boring ho hum life that no one cares about. I...
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am entering my 3rd year of marriage. I love my wife. I love the life we have built so far. There are some issues. She will not allow me any personal hobbies. She demeans my...
    ja07 ja07 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Whilst in my marriage, I used to question myself, why it wasn't working. Not matter how hard I tried, and boy did I try! It always felt like an uphill struggle, or like I was in a...
    despondant despondant 51-55 1 Response Aug 15

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    I don't date for the sake of always being just a girlfriend. I date with the expectations of eventually getting married. Yes, I know, "dating is for fun and getting to know someone...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    When I was working out yesterday, I was thinking about Unjusted's recent post. It was such a good read. During my run, I pondered that while my Ex seemed to be so easy going, just...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Seriously!! Why do people from Pakistan always propose marriage to me! Do they seriously think id really consider marriage. No Thank You!! Caucasian Americans Only Need Apply.
    Sabr3na Sabr3na 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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