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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    Partner Specific - I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on...
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Supporting A Friend - I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Nor Will I - Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Moving In A Cyrcle - I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip... - Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Its A Deal Breaker - Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Must Say!!!! -   My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    What a Douchebag - so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    So Friggin Disgusting - so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Broken Hearted - I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Split - My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    What Should I Do? - Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much? - Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!! - I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    Cheating - Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much? - Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F a week ago

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    How is cheating alright? Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on...
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I take issue with cheating! There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I guess I just do not understand why this type of behavior would come across to someone as acceptable! As a person who has been on the non guilty party side I can say with...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate all the "I'm the other woman" "I have been unfaithful" experiences. What's the point in being with someone if you are going to cheat with someone else..if you know your...
    Irishlady20 Irishlady20 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER..I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer! couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he...
    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F Apr 8

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    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Yes, I'm the paranoid type, I'll admit that. I've checked his phone for texts and there's usually nothing. But I've seen the setting is set to delete any read text messages. So...
    smilesofazombie smilesofazombie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I ain't the cheating kind... Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I have read lot's story about the married cheating with a MM ,,, Now what good is that,,,you have a husband at home ,,, or you just like to spread your leg's for every MM that come...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    With or without alcohol, you're all I could think of. And sadly, I had to think of her too, the one who's by your side right now and owns your heart. I cannot never forget you. I...
    phoebegreene phoebegreene 22-25, F Mar 26

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    There is a level of disconnect that never use to be. The absence of depth is apparent in the brief embrace or kiss that remains. We exchange pleasantries as two old friends but...
    Indari Indari 31-35, M Apr 3

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    For a long time now it seems that I cannot have children. I try to not think about it much and just avoid the topic. I even stay away from family movies or anything to do with...
    polo03 polo03 31-35, F Apr 5

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    Trying to accept the things that we can change, the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference comes form Accepting Reality as it is in the current...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Apr 7

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    I cannot change the ignorance of others who don't understand illnesses that can not be seen.
    LivingwithPOTS20 LivingwithPOTS20 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I try every day to find the point in living but every day it becomes harder and harder to want to live... Every day it becomes harder and harder to breathe and I simply cannot find...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I've never been the most handsome person, or maybe I'm the most handsome person, I truly couldn't tell you. None of that ever mattered though because low-self esteem had me in the...
    Indari Indari 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    So... I have very different friends.. Not just each is their own kind, but some really cannot get along.. And now I have this short period of time, when I will go to my home...
    caramellacrisby caramellacrisby 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    EMAILED SUPPORT ABOUT BULLYING. U do the same if u support bullying plz help the victims. Keep reading further. Recently posted something. A member posted a threat. hughgo is his...
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago