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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    A lady contacted me this morning(3am!

    !!), and asked me a question: "what's so wrong about dating married men?" I reply: "for one, you're enabling infidelity. As a matter of fact, if it were such a good thing, why do you sneak around?" She then goes on to try and convince me that cheating isn't wrong. Why ask me...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    I beat up my gf's lover

    after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for cheaters and they they **** me. If I had the choice to save a cheater or mobster from death penalty I would choose the...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6, 2014

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Or am I? What is cheating? Different websites say that cheating is doing what you know your partner would be uncomfortable with. Some say that you don't need to be physical; that...
    lyhoma lyhoma 26-30, F Mar 9

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    I think cheating is wrong iv been cheated on many of times and my ex bf did it to me the other day, the worse thing is it was my best friend well she was its horrible cheating...
    justanotherhumanbeeing justanotherhumanbeeing 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I walked in on my gf banging her co-worker. I was shocked and angry. I was so angry I beat the **** out of her lover. After, I kicked both of them out. Doing that made me feel...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    I'm trying to get over my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months cheating on me. This is the second time and we are in deep even went to college together and my family loves him. He calls...
    catema catema 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    if my man had temptations of cheating on me I'd have him introduce me to this girl, & I'd eat her box. Cause if you can't best em join em. & no one can beat me (; im honestly just...
    recklesssxo recklesssxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I would like anyone and everyone who reads my statuses and all that to look at this : Cheating is wrong, It makes the one being cheated on feel like they weren't good enough. If I...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Her behavior has changed a lot over the past two months. Yesterday she got two strange phone calls that she claimed were wrong numbers. Lately she spends more time at work and...
    JacobJastrow JacobJastrow 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Being cheated on sure does leave a big mark on you. It's like you feel betrayed, because they do exactly what you'd never even come across. I can't help but to feel like it was...
    lauren710 lauren710 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    Has anyone been in a relationship with a cheater who plays mind games? In my case, she hints that she is cheating but denies it when you pick up the clues, and then accuses you of...
    suganeles suganeles 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I forgave my boyfriend for cheating because when I tried moving on I couldn't I had an amazing guy in front of me but I would just think of my ex. So I forgave him but now idk...
    gkaren gkaren 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    After a few months of not talking, me and my husband were invited to a wine & hot tub party with a group of about 30 friends. A group of people (including my husband) were...
    princessbritneyblack princessbritneyblack 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 15

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    So I went on vacation last year and apparently my ex was cheating on me with a girl that lives down the street from me and when I came back from vacation he had another girlfriend...
    HeidiBD HeidiBD 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    He tells me his phone is broken all the time and won't have sex with me anymore is he cheating?? He's usually so into it
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 22-25, F Mar 19

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    best way to catch a cheating husband, been married 50 years and i'm just sick of it. i can never get real evidence, he denies it and calls me nuts, but here is a man that lost...
    sonny433 sonny433 70+, F 6 days ago

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    I have always cherished the idea of love; of having someone that you love so much that they bring out the best traits in you and they make you want to become a better person. I...
    sammymater sammymater 18-21, F Mar 3

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    i used to be married to my best friend. (or so i thought). I'm trying to accept that even though I'll always love him, he and i have differences we cannot get past and that his...
    Platana2100 Platana2100 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 9

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    It is hard but the more i accept the fact I cannot change people the more content i am in myself
    timshep1102 timshep1102 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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