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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    I beat up my gf's lover

    after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for cheaters and they they **** me. If I had the choice to save a cheater or mobster from death penalty I would choose the...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6, 2014

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    A lady contacted me this morning(3am!

    !!), and asked me a question: "what's so wrong about dating married men?" I reply: "for one, you're enabling infidelity. As a matter of fact, if it were such a good thing, why do you sneak around?" She then goes on to try and convince me that cheating isn't wrong. Why ask me...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    I don't get why people cheat on someone whilst in a relationship with their boyfriend/girlfriend. I think cheating is 100% wrong and some people think it's ok to cheat on someone...
    agdnn agdnn 26-30, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    having been cheated on I came to realize while reasons for doing it may or may not be justifiable, I think the betrayal comes from the fact that cheating tears away the boundaries...
    sayhashahemm sayhashahemm 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    It's funny how many many years ago, adultery used to be illegal, and sometimes ended in death of either the cheater or the person who they were cheating with, or both. Not that I...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, we've done long distance, we've lived together for over a year. We've had our ups & downs and right now we're at rock bottom...
    easedmysoul easedmysoul 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I think cheating is wrong, this is why my girlfriend and I have a great relationship we open and honest with each other we trust each other we care greatly for each other we are...
    Daddyslovingarms Daddyslovingarms 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Anyone who thinks cheating is okay is crazy. I hate especially when people try to justify cheating with some crazy stupid explanation.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I went on vacation last year and apparently my ex was cheating on me with a girl that lives down the street from me and when I came back from vacation he had another girlfriend...
    HeidiBD HeidiBD 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    He tells me his phone is broken all the time and won't have sex with me anymore is he cheating?? He's usually so into it
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 22-25, F Mar 19

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    best way to catch a cheating husband, been married 50 years and i'm just sick of it. i can never get real evidence, he denies it and calls me nuts, but here is a man that lost...
    sonny433 sonny433 70+, F Mar 22

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    Hi, I'm new to this and I feel upset and I need someone to just listen, I'm a teen mom 18 to be exact. I met my boyfriend in 2011 and we loved each other in all we had our ups and...
    ox97 ox97 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a year and I caught him cheating me over 6 times with 6 different people I only found out cause friends of mine told me he was deleting...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I been with my husband and also the father of my daughter for about 7 1/2 years, married for about 3 years. we been through alot. my family never likes him at all. but we both...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    Cheating is easy... Why don't you try something a little more challenging like being faithful???
    AwesomeAlert AwesomeAlert 46-50, M 11 Responses Apr 7

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    If i'm with you, i'm with you only. If I accept us being together, I accept talking to you, even when i'm angry, being there for you when you have no one else, your **** becomes my...
    Nicki617 Nicki617 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I actually caught my boyfriend cheating on me, I had been with my (ex) boyfriend for 2 years but I'd texted him and he hadn't replied in over 5 hours, he ha Denver done this before...
    sevannahxmillsx sevannahxmillsx 16-17, F 11 Responses Apr 11

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    I don't see any point in cheating. If you're not happy with the relationship you're in then just leave that relationship and find one you are committed to. Don't screw with another...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been cheated on. The feeling of being betrayed is greater than the apologies, especially after so long of my significant other being with me, and cheating for so long in...
    iamaliveforlife iamaliveforlife 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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