I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 588 People

    Can not and would not.

    Ever. Feel happy to be with a man that shares the exact same view as me. If you are in a bad relationship, leave! Genuinely IS as simple as that. There are no excuses for cheating. If I were cheated on, it would be over, immediately. No conversation. Gone, over. Forever...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 22, 2014

    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

    Literally this ******* goes "Hey baby.

    " He has a girlfriend. So then I said "Don't you have a girlfriend?" And that's what happened. That post you had said that she's your world and she makes you smile. Well he's a big a$$ liar. Girl you don't need him.
    Hesmyvampireking Hesmyvampireking
    13-15, F
    Mar 22

    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2014

    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777
    16-17, F
    Dec 17, 2012

    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2013

    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 21, 2011

    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2010

    I see this all the time.

    I read about it, I watch it on the tv... I see it in the movies... listen to it in song. Kind of one sided actually. What about the woman that plays games with the man? What about the woman that turns on her lover? You don't hear about that very often, but it happens. A...
    winchester64 winchester64
    41-45, M
    Jun 7, 2015

    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 22, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 24, 2013

    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2013

    Cheaters are 100% responsible

    for their decision to cheat. If they were unhappy, they could have gotten counseling, filed for divorced, taken up a hobby they enjoy - really anything other than cheating. They cheat because they value the good feelings they get from ego boosts and affair sex more than their...
    Madison18 Madison18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean
    18-21, F
    Mar 12, 2010

    I think my mom is chesting on my dad.

    ..on the internet. And it sucks. He's an old guy and looks absolutely gross. I don't know what to do. She's been asking me why I've been avoiding her recently. She asked me to go out with her and i refused to and when ever she tries to hug me i just hate her. Is this wrong? I...
    Popps2 Popps2
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    I guess when you really start caring about

    someone that's the perfect moment for them to cheat,i don't understand this logic
    mcshaarawi mcshaarawi
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23
    18-21, F
    Dec 15, 2010

    My husband cheated on me

    and she got pregnant. It's been years now and I can't get over it. I wish he could feel how bad it hurts. I sometimes wish I could hurt him in the same way.
    DLJ1 DLJ1
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    A lady contacted me this morning(3am!

    !!), and asked me a question: "what's so wrong about dating married men?" I reply: "for one, you're enabling infidelity. As a matter of fact, if it were such a good thing, why do you sneak around?" She then goes on to try and convince me that cheating isn't wrong. Why ask me...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    my husband is cheating

    but doesn't feel he is on the internet.
    tinytinytoes53 tinytinytoes53
    51-55, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus
    22-25, F
    Jun 4, 2013

    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2010

    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t
    18-21, F
    Feb 6, 2014

    Most of my ex boyfriends cheated

    and that's why I broke up with them. It sounds heartless when I tell people I've been in 5 or 6 relationships and never been broken up with but, that's usually the reason. In those instances it hurt but, you just have to cut things off because cheating does not get better. It's...
    melody477 melody477
    18-21, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    I beat up my gf's lover

    after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for cheaters and they they **** me. If I had the choice to save a cheater or mobster from death penalty I would choose the...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch
    26-30, M
    Mar 1, 2015

    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

    I have been married for nearly 6 years.

    I suspect my husband is cheating, there are so many red flags however he refuses to admit it even when I throw the evidence in his face. I don't know what to do, I am sick of living in limbo :(
    zschaechner15 zschaechner15
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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