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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    I beat up my gf's lover

    after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for cheaters and they they **** me. If I had the choice to save a cheater or mobster from death penalty I would choose the...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M Mar 1

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    I think my mom is chesting on my dad.

    ..on the internet. And it sucks. He's an old guy and looks absolutely gross. I don't know what to do. She's been asking me why I've been avoiding her recently. She asked me to go out with her and i refused to and when ever she tries to hug me i just hate her. Is this wrong? I...
    Popps2 Popps2 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    A lady contacted me this morning(3am!

    !!), and asked me a question: "what's so wrong about dating married men?" I reply: "for one, you're enabling infidelity. As a matter of fact, if it were such a good thing, why do you sneak around?" She then goes on to try and convince me that cheating isn't wrong. Why ask me...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Cheaters are 100% responsible

    for their decision to cheat. If they were unhappy, they could have gotten counseling, filed for divorced, taken up a hobby they enjoy - really anything other than cheating. They cheat because they value the good feelings they get from ego boosts and affair sex more than their...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6, 2014

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    I would allow you to be my everything..hold you in my arms..give you whatever your heart desired..I could never tolerate lies or cheating. Do you think a woman with intelligence...
    sensualbeauty1 sensualbeauty1 46-50, F 3 Responses May 18

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    A lot of people are unreasonable you just have to accept them as they're and keep your distance from them, you cannot reason with a selfish person, the best solution is leaving...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I cannot stand people who cheat, that is just so annoying and it really makes that person look bad, if you're going to date someone and then end up not liking them, don't go...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response May 13

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    I was cheated on by my first boyfriend. At the time, I knew it would never be forever with him. So, I luckily was not as crushed as I could have been had I been older and more in...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Not cheating on me... But Either being with girls or taking pictures of girls or texting girls ... Now this has happened once before (again not actual cheating) but flirting. Now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 1

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    I don't care if it was a one night stand or a mistake. Cheating is still cheating.
    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 10 Responses May 10

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    Cheating is jus wrong,one day the cheating will get cheated.
    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I have been with this person for years. She's my mother's bestfriend. I really admire her since I was a little kid, and I am jealous of her children. Today, I was with her again...
    redsilver26 redsilver26 18-21, F May 12

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    I haven't been cheated on, and for some reason cheating ****** me off more than it normally would. Probably because I've seen someone who's been affected by someone cheating on...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    I don't believe in cheating but everyone cheat. That's life bottom line. Deal with it At one point of your life, your going to get cheated on. Cry about it, fight it out ,do...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I am not a cheater because i dont believe in cheating,i have always followed the path of truth no matter what the situation is and from a young age i knew that honest is the best...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M May 13

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    My sister has apparently been cheating on her boyfriend (his name is Jared) for about 3 months and I didn't find that out until 2 weeks ago -.- She said she'll break up with her...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 4 Responses May 13

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    My husband finally admitting to cheating recently. He filed for divorce and proposed to her, but recently he's decided that she is not it. He broke it off with her. We are...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses May 20

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    My boyfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months at the time. It was Friday and I was at work, afterwards I was going to sleepover his house. My friend who is also friends...
    Katiemaryxoxo Katiemaryxoxo 16-17 1 Response May 1

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    Hi there men and women of morals, some people do believe in cheating. We've all seen the "I am the other woman" group. They have a great enabling network. Betrayed people, men and...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response May 6

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