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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 348 People

    I beat up my gf's lover

    after catching them red handed. I then cursed out my cheating gf and kicked both of them out to the streets. It felt pretty good. I have a deep hate for cheaters and they they **** me. If I had the choice to save a cheater or mobster from death penalty I would choose the...
    crunchymunch crunchymunch 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    A lady contacted me this morning(3am!

    !!), and asked me a question: "what's so wrong about dating married men?" I reply: "for one, you're enabling infidelity. As a matter of fact, if it were such a good thing, why do you sneak around?" She then goes on to try and convince me that cheating isn't wrong. Why ask me...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    I trust no one to being with.

    Not people, friends, and weird enough my family. But you love someone cheating makes it so much worst
    VicDixon VicDixon 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6, 2014

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Recently I disconnected my internet connection and my last bill was a rip of by my telecom with faulty readings Inspite of giving proof and thousands of explanations they didnt...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M Feb 11

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    Cheating One of the most worst thing you could ever do to someone. If you're not happy of who you're with, then ******* leave them. There isn't use staying around when you don't...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 20

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    One year I decided to buy my wife some fancy, sexy, but appropriate dresses and she took them back to the store and returned them. Sometime later, I bought my wife sexy underwear...
    naftali naftali 56-60, M Feb 4

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    I don't only think it...I did it...with someone "I've always wondered about.."sexually" that is. I love my husband to bits....we have a great relationship, friends first then...
    jackedup1 jackedup1 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    When guys accuse you of cheating it's like they don't know you at all so how am I supposed to let them accuse me of that when they could be cheating
    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Nobody is perfect but cheating is on a whole different level. My friend asked me for advice about he boyfriend cheating on her.
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 18

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    why do people say - "If the person isn't married - then they are open game" - meaning, if the person isn't married, and they're just in a relationship, it means it's okay to sleep...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a 40-year-old married woman who befriended a 25-year-old man on social media. We spend a year and a half talking about sports and random day-to-day things. A couple months ago...
    flytygal flytygal 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think cheating is wrong iv been cheated on many of times and my ex bf did it to me the other day, the worse thing is it was my best friend well she was its horrible cheating...
    justanotherhumanbeeing justanotherhumanbeeing 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I firmly agree that cheating is wrong, mainly because I watched my dad do it to my mom, and his wives after. I always vowed I would never take part in a situation like this...
    livslivslivs livslivslivs 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    I can't stand people who cheat. Cheating destroys the persons trust in people. If you are that unhappy in the relationship then just leave. The people who help people cheat they...
    themagijudal themagijudal 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    So true!! Hmm my dad cheated on my mom. They are still together though. My mom said she had forgiven him, but to me, it seems like they are about to divorce. My dad is such a...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 8

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    So my last relationship I was cheated on... Twice. Now all I think about when I get comfy with a girl is that she will do the same, ironically I think the person that my ex changed...
    froomi froomi 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I believe cheating get's people killed Clara Suarez Harris killed husband with her car by running him over and over.
    GrecoItalianBella83 GrecoItalianBella83 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Cheating. One simple word. One action that seems so small. So easy. Easy, something that has become almost acceptable. It's not. It's really not. You don't realize, that one...
    RelationshipAdvice RelationshipAdvice 18-21, F Feb 12

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    I've been with mines for nine yrs and I feel signs again of cheating. He recently got a car & everyday is with me but he does have a tendency to be out from the morning till a...
    mznyc75 mznyc75 36-40, F Feb 15

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    Caught my boyfriend cheating on several dating websites while he was dating me. I was so angry and hurt because we were in a long distance relationship and I thought we had...
    tadpole92 tadpole92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Yes, I do. I believe it happens all too frequently. I believe it happens to those who chose to neglect their relationship. I believe it is selfish. I believe it is a sign of total...
    Robg224 Robg224 41-45, M a week ago

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    ONCE A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT! I can repeat that a million times to all those who would not believe and to myself who's still looking for excuses of his cheating. So here i'm...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If I would have a partner, I would never cheat. The only thing I'm cheating in are some video games (and only the single player ones). But in everything else I would never do that...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I just caught my wife cheating on this site!