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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 18-21, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    If you are with someone

    and have kids and your boyfriend or husband tells you that he his thinking in cheating on you just because you don't give him sex anymore when you have kids I think it's wrong to cheat on your partner just because that person is always horny and you are faithful with your...
    bunnygirl02 bunnygirl02 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Related Experiences

    The two seem to be intertwined, and it's become a sort of pass time for people to sit around and make rude comments about others. If that's not already rude enough, I've often seen...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I will not tolerate it And you Are full of it So **** off Good day *tips hat*
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I don't understand why people cheat. I can't stand it. Do they even care that their hurting the person their cheating on. I just think cheating is so stupid and selfish!
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    If you cheat, you instantly disgust me. There is literally no point in cheating. If you don't like the relationship, LEAVE! If you don't like the marriage, either wok it out or...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I grew up believing my parents had the best relationship. Sure, they hurled verbal abuse at each other but they always managed to resolve their issues. They love me and my my...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    This was the closest "experience" I could find that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Okay first of all I don't consider cheating on her I'm not that type of person. If I was ever going to cheat I would break up first. This was just the closest category I could find...
    npodsiadlo npodsiadlo 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm not down with cheating. There is no such thing as a second chance with me. And I do not believe in separation. Though a separated situation could have many reasons and stories...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I've known this boy for a while now. We talked a few years back for the longest time and stopped when he got locked up. Even back then we had such a strong connection. We started...
    Emmylovely Emmylovely 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    He still emails his ex. He knows I don't like it, but says he would never tell me not to talk to someone. Said it's stupid to think anything could e going on. I think he emails...
    Lin53207 Lin53207 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    It's more I have a problem with cheating thoughts. I am married and have a child on the way. I am so deeply in love with my wife, and even still to this day, being 9 months...
    anonnimus anonnimus 22-25 Jul 4

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    I've been on the otherside of that coin and I can honestly say that I couldn't cheat on someone i was seeing - if i wasn't happy I would hope to be man (or woman) enough to be...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Still need some advice on this cheating thing. Please don't just tell me to leave him, clearly I want to make it work if I'm asking
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 4

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    The worst kind of cheating is when you're married. Why would anyone do that?
    Fortiplex Fortiplex 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 Jul 6

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    I can help you know for sure. If you're truly worried, and have no way to really know without ruining things, please contact me. My job is to help you feel better about what's...
    Silverflash33487 Silverflash33487 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    My boyfriend will talk to other females online. I don't know if I trust him anymore. The females he talks to are apparently just friends he says. But he would ask them questions...
    Kayla6516 Kayla6516 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I have been with this man for 3 and a half years my high school sweetheart we've been living together for about two of those years, close to the second year I found out that he had...
    Lllms95 Lllms95 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have never cheated on anyone in my life, i am usually the one that gets cheated on. And then they try and make me look like the bad guy because i caught them lying./cheating. I...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Cheat goes far beyond sex...a lie is a cheat,hiding something is a cheat,missleading is cheating. I hate cheaters...gamers not able to speak up what really is in their mind...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Yeah most of the guys only say this but i mean it. I am not a cheating kind of guy.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I see so many post here by people cheating on their spouses or looking to do so.... Am I the only person who thinks that extramarital affairs are morally wrong? They have the...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M 1 day ago

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