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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    If you are with someone

    and have kids and your boyfriend or husband tells you that he his thinking in cheating on you just because you don't give him sex anymore when you have kids I think it's wrong to cheat on your partner just because that person is always horny and you are faithful with your...
    bunnygirl02 bunnygirl02 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    lifeisfun01 lifeisfun01 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Related Experiences

    My boyfriend am I live together we have a terriable history of him cheating on me. And recently we broke up due to my insecurities .. I cannot get over him cheating ig has damaged...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I love my husband very much and discovered that he's been cheating on me ever since we got married 4 years ago. I want to accept this because I don't see him stopping anytime soon...
    matlo matlo 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't have the personality nor the will to ever cheat. Why? Because I was raised properly by my mom to never ever cheat on someone. If I weren't happy in a relationship, I'd talk...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    the husband cheated on his wife and one night he came clean about his affair they have two children's and they when to marriage counseling, and thing was get back to normal, then...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Hello, I'm Rose ( Not real name ) I recently found out that this guy I have been talking too for months has been cheating on his Gf with me... I had no clue at all that he had...
    BieberBabe13 BieberBabe13 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Do I cheat? My girlfriend has been cheating on me throughout the summer with another man. She believes I am the love of her life, but recognizes that she has an unhealthy need for...
    MediPhil MediPhil 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    ( I am not going to give real names of who I am speaking of, these are made up)Here's my ridiculous story. I know this girl. She is 22 years old and her name is Jess and her...
    MistaHodda MistaHodda 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    So me and my bf are good. We barley have no arguments what so ever. The reason why I think he's cheating is because we only see each other once in a week & whenever he wants. He's...
    alwaysjudged alwaysjudged 16-17, F Aug 11

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    The wife caught her husband , cheating, Now he told the other women stop text and calling him, Now he in hot water, see the cheating man scare he going to lose his family and his...
    pullupgirl102 pullupgirl102 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Cheating is NOT a mistake. If you’re truly in love with someone, you will not be able to kiss someone else without tasting your loved ones tears stain your lips. You will not be...
    FuSoYa FuSoYa 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Oh my word. I can't even describe how stupid I feel posting this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 year and we get on so well! Like any usual relationship we have the...
    Binkyboo12 Binkyboo12 22-25 Aug 6

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    my husband and I haD been together for 3 years. Back in February he went to jail for 2 months. During that time he started writing his ex girlfriend and calling her. He only...
    audramarie audramarie 18-21, F Aug 7

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    Well, not me, my mom 15 years ago. It doesnt affect me now, especially because they divorced 15 years ago. But i want to know how this affected girls? In my case i tend to over...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I have always been turned on when men flirt with my wife. About 1 year ago, I found out that someone at her work was heavily flirting with her. Not too long later, I found out they...
    pressure69 pressure69 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 22

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not a cheating wife. I am not even married. But knowing me, i know i will be one. And this makes me scared to get into any relationship
    nehato21 nehato21 18-21, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    I never have believed in cheating and now that I have been cheated on I'm a much strong advocate for it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 hrs ago

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    It sucks that I cannot truly be myself. I live in a small island filled with a bunch of judgemental ppl which means that I cannot fully be myself as long as I am here. In addition...
    evasweet evasweet 22-25, F Aug 15

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    3 years ago my ex broke up with me. 2 years later, she came back to where I lived and after a few weeks, told her my intentions. Now, we do not even talk anymore. For three years...
    MosImba MosImba 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am secretly in love with another girl but am trying so hard to ignore it because I firmly believe in God and I cannot be like this.
    CityLuvr98 CityLuvr98 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Summer is soon over, I got to doo a lot of thing i wished for but now it's August and college has started. Till Then I Cannot wait till NEXT summer.
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F Aug 4

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    Accepting things that I cannot change because it's part of moving on.
    becuuh becuuh 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Long Story.... So in 17years old Black Caribbean and my girlfriend is 15years old White Caucasian. We have been together just shy of 7months which isn't to long but you know those...
    Golbat0909 Golbat0909 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I have made mistakes in my past that I cannot change. I have learnt alot from them and am hoping it will make me a better person. I carry alot of guilt as I have hurt many people...
    ichanged ichanged 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 9