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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6, 2014

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    My opinion cheating is so wrong.. Why would you hurt someone so bad because of cheating? You could just tell the truth instead of cheating! Sadly, some people carry relationships...
    Nano567 Nano567 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Sometime I think why people cheat on there partner, they say I love you more than this more than that and the same time they are cheating on you .. If you really love someone than...
    Goldenfairy Goldenfairy 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Im thinkin bout cheating my bf . Well the problem is that he doesnt let me do nothing , im living with him for like 3 years already , i wanna be single and enjoy life with other...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I have considered cheating on my husband. we have been married for 22 years and together for 26 years. We did not live together before marriage. We have not had sex in 11 years...
    Mukwah Mukwah 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 2

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    I've been married for 5 years , but been with him since i was 16. we've been happy all these years ,i would let him go out with friends i trusted him he wouldn't do nothing dumb...
    armani88 armani88 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    For a test instead of cheating actually try to put the effort into studying it's a very good end result knowing you got the answers right because you studied them. As for the...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I really don't want to accuse my best friend of cheating, but she told me to come over to another friends house where she was at, and when I went, the whole time I was there, she...
    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Cheating is probably the fakest & lowest thing you can do. How are you able to betray someone then to there face act as of its all good & you love/like the person. Cheating is dead...
    cheetahgurrl cheetahgurrl 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I met my fiancΓ© when I was 16 years old. I am now almost 22. We have been dating for 5 years and been engaged for 1. We are getting married June 2015. The problem is, I am in love...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I like my wife cheating on me in the beginning and later I feel jealous. I also find myself insecure and started to love my wife more and more.
    dbmh72 dbmh72 36-40 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm 22 years old about to be 23 soon. And I've been with this guys for almost 7 years in March. But I found out last year around June that he was cheating on me with a girl he used...
    SJ031608 SJ031608 22-25 5 Responses Jan 6

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    The Problem Is Not Cheating. The Problem Is Why ? Why Would You Want to hurt Someone's feelings? Why not talk to them and tell them how you feel . I Guess Now at days Is Okay No...
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I also hate excuses. People will find any excuse to make cheating seem ok. So sad. If you want to sleep around then be single.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    What's worse than just a cheating husband/wife, is probably when a homewrecker is involved. I have no respect for them what so ever.
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I found out that my husband was cheating on me :'( :'( :'(
    Dance96 Dance96 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    Yes, that's true. I believe in this " I think cheating is wrong " .
    Bvebz Bvebz 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    actually i hate cheating wives.... they should talk to thier husbands frankly....so tht they dont hve to cheat him...honestly if a husband can satisfy a wife there is no need to...
    wife4uall wife4uall 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    If I'm with someone I'm give myself totally. And I expect the same from the other. If u not happy. Walk out. I would do the same. But will never put myself in that low level in...
    Frenchlips Frenchlips 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think cheating is wrong but I'm surrounded by it everyday people mistake me for being stupid but I'm not I may say I am but never underestimate me I may be scared to stand up for...
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Passing a stranger on the street you may meet one that locks eyes with you, and you get a feeling of familiarity. You are drawn in, and you can't explain why. They might just be...
    starkizzed21 starkizzed21 22-25, F Dec 31, 2014

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    All it takes is being at the wrong place at the wrong time. I didn't know regret could hurt so much and be felt so deep. I want to forget it, but I keep thinking: "what could I...
    larosenoire larosenoire 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I know that it cannot be. I know you did the right thing. I question whether or not your feelings got in the way, but it doesn't matter . I didn't matter enough for your honesty...
    starkizzed21 starkizzed21 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    the biggest regret of my life, i cant change it , the past cannot be altered but this feeling of guilty ness does not go away i just hope im forgiven, and ill just try to be a...
    tinna20 tinna20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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