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I Cannot Tolerate Cheating

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F Dec 15, 2010

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    I have given my husband a third of my life.

    he cheated 2 years ago, and I gave him another chance. A chance he did not deserve, and here we are again. His wife and children meaning nothing to him. I start divorce paperwork today. It's a new start I desperately need.
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    What a Douchebag

    so when the super bowl came around,my dad threw a party for some of his friends from work to come..so me and my bf showed up and were hanging out in the other room while they watched they game..there was a couple there and i could tell right off the bat that this guy was a...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Broken Hearted

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in. It's the worst possible thing to go through.
    mermaidmotel mermaidmotel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I can't stand cheaters mostly

    because I was cheated on and it sucked. First of all, cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice. Burning your bacon is a mistake. Cheating is a choice. I can't stand when a cheater says " But I love you." No. If you really love someone you don't cheat. There is no reason for it...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Split

    My girlfriend and I are supposed to move to Toronto in the summer. Toronto is where all her friends are and all the jobs are and we already have a place we can stay until we get on our feet. We plan to live together (as we have been doing for the past year) I still have a few...
    inlovenotlimbo inlovenotlimbo 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Cheating

    Cheating,It's the pits,Can't stand it,Why do it?It's not worth the risk.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Partner Specific

    I cannot tolerate cheating, nor will I ever. I have never been unfaithful in a relationship myself, but I have been cheated on enough to have a strong opinion on it. I believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." But I believe this in a partner specific sense. Meaning; if...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Don't ******* cheat don't ******* cheat don't

    ******* cheat don't ******* cheat DON'T ******* CHEAT GOD why is it so hard to not be a horrible person?
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F Nov 10

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    Supporting A Friend

    I have known this guy for about 5 years now. I know his entire family from wife, kids to mom, aunts and uncles. I was in an abusive relationship both physically and emotionally. My guy had multiple affairs and a child was born out of one of the affairs. My friend...
    desperatefriend desperatefriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Like, Seriously - Selfish Much?

    Not only can't I tolerate it, I can't even began to understand it - I try to be understanding about a lot of things, but this is something that just goes straight over my head...  How can someone be willing to put someone through weeks and months of pain just to satisfy...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2010

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    My Seventeen Yr Old Boyfriend Is On Grad Trip...

    Alright we have been dating on and off since grade nine, and when i say on and off i mean i dated other from beginning of grade ten to end of grade 11 ish but we always stayed connected and hooked up and weve been dating for the past ten months. Im the only girl hes ever slept...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Well I tried to remain in Private

    and deal with it my own. But, the LIES were seeded to grow and feed me for Dinner. By the Very Person whom I slept under the same roof , share bed and shower together for over 48 months. Was it necessary to play with my Tender heart mussels? Why he chose to play this GAME i...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Moving In A Cyrcle

    I have had two serious relationship and I was cheated on in both of them. I tolerated cheating in the first one and it got very bad. In my second relationship I didn't know it till he started to behave really cold, there was no sex and in the end he didn't even want to spend time...
    Moonieee Moonieee 22-25 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    So Friggin Disgusting

    so,what exactly makes cheating ok?what makes it right?i have some mixed feelings/opinions on this..is cheating wrong?yes,absolutely!why waste the time?if you're the cheater,you gota worry about hiding everything..calls,texts,messages,emails,different smells (and that one's hard...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    H E L P ! I'm a type of person

    that doesn't tolerate cheating at all. You either roll with me or without me. Simple as that. I have a friend and her and her " bf " are going to make three years, they have a 7 month baby and well he's always cheating constantly with different women. I've told her that shes...
    DayanaMF DayanaMF 18-21, F Jan 22

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    Its A Deal Breaker

    Cheating is the worst possible deal breaker there could ever be.If your in a relationship with someone you have a responsibility to be loyal to them and if its really love you should never want to cheat in in way shape or form.I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Nor Will I

    Not for any reason. I have been given excuses in the past to justify the actions of a cheating heart and I don't buy into any of it. Cheat on me in our relationship or cheat me as a friend and I will cast you into the endless sea of ******* with the rest!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 21, 2011

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    For those of you who were cheated on I really

    do feel your pain, it's not an easy experience to deal with. But there is hope when your heart feels like its been eaten up. Spat out, stomped on, put through a wood chipper then hung out to dry. Time my friends, time is the only cure. The quicker you find it in your soul to...
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Must Say!!!!

      My ex cheated on me while we were married but not living together. She cheated after nineteen yrs of marriage.. Oh well I say her loss.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I honestly can't. Someones experience I read on

    EP got me really bothered about the topic of cheating. I'm not going to mention any names, but if someone is in a relationship please back off. They are not yours to have or to flirt with. Go find someone of your own... If he/she cheats on their partner to be with you, well...
    Shevrol3t Shevrol3t 16-17, F Feb 6

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    Cheating Is Wrong-come On People!!!!!

    I am absolutely infuriated by people who think it is ok to cheat.If there are problems in marriages or relationships sort them the hell out or end it. Vows have been taken - these days they mean nothing???It is unfair to keep someone on a line, while you want to play the field...
    enough21 enough21 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hey, So there's this guy who's actually my math partner (and no, I do not have a crush on him) I only met him this year and he's really great! He makes me laugh during class and I know even though he plays rough, he has this vulnerable side. I can't qualify him as friend since he...
    SunlightStar777 SunlightStar777 16-17, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So I met this guy online. We live miles away. I thought he's really sweet and cute. He said he's single so I asked for his Skype, we talk almost everyday and sometimes we have...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for years before finally realizing our feelings for each other was beyond just a friendship. We entered into a relationship and for the...
    urkle urkle 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Wow, Just timing it tooooo well, doing errands and bang (MY DREAM GUY) is in front of me. ....... well he drives faster and pulls into a coffee shop.....uhhhhh should i? NOPE...
    Frenchgal11 Frenchgal11 26-30, F Dec 17

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    I cannot talk to anyone about this feel so sick inside with fear he is and hurt all over again. Went to his after meeting him from as soon as we get in his room it's like wtf...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    I'll tolerate your mom though...in bed. That was so ******* lame, but whatever...**** you XD
    MusicJunkie6794 MusicJunkie6794 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    I have recently had to close my old profile and open a new one because of someone sending nasty comments and abuse to me. I notified the EP admin team who warned the person...
    NotSuchAnInnocentGirl NotSuchAnInnocentGirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 17

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    Well people can love you and still cheat on you , but that's just a long demons talk its just about something most of you won't understand completely so I'll just say its his demon...
    nonorawi nonorawi 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    What is cheating to you? Cheating to me is not only physical affection to other men/women but mental and verbal. But that's just me. Any other agrees or disagrees?
    TheHurting TheHurting 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm not really emotional but I think cheating is wrong period. In my relationships, I make it very clear that if I find that the other person is cheating, he's a fool and will...
    VicAshley01 VicAshley01 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16

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    Cheating is horrible. If you feel the need to cheat you obviously shouldn't be in that relationship. When someone gives you their heart, have the curtsy to at least break up with...
    thisISalessa thisISalessa 16-17, F Dec 3

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    Lately I've been thinking about cheating on my bf. he's my first ever and we've been together for almost 7 years. Sometimes I feel unappreciated with all the small/big kind...
    norcalkaylala norcalkaylala 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    Hi, Sorry I'm not a cheating wife but thought you guys could help, A few weeks ago I was on my wife's iPad, when I looked at her Facebook I noticed she'd been searching the...
    confusedhubby123 confusedhubby123 31-35, M 7 Responses Dec 8

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    Hello everybody, and thank you for taking the time to read my experience and give me a piece of mind. To start, I'll talk about a little of my background. 5 years ago, I found...
    misschillax misschillax 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I truly believe that cheating on someone is wrong I could never do it myself no will I my mother brought me a better then to cheat on life to my girlfriend I could never do
    peemybed peemybed 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 12

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    Ok well me and my bf share locations with eachother on our phones. He said hes at work. I was bored n i looked. Hes not even close and hes not answering my txts. Plus i googled...
    kyleigh188 kyleigh188 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    All my previous boyfriends cheated on me. And it sucks because I was always loyal, when I'm in a relationship or if Zi like someone, I cant even look at another man and feel...
    XxthedarknesswillgrowxX XxthedarknesswillgrowxX 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 16

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    I hate boys sometimes... They are attractive yes but well SOMETIMES they are cheating on their girls, they're just thinking of themselves. I really hate it when they hurt their...
    xxBoyishGirlxx xxBoyishGirlxx 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Help!! Im not too sure of this website, but i do know that I am depressed and nearest to hell I've ever been in my Life. Im so upset..that I've been accused of cheating on my...
    weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown weeblewobblebutIwontfalldown 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I know he' cheating and so does my mum but she hasn't left him? It's ruining my life
    lilyskippxox lilyskippxox 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend cheats on me every month and a half... And I stay with him, I love him more than anything in this world, but he breaks my heart all the time. He now wants to bring...
    Red8986 Red8986 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M Dec 7

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    As the title says I cannot be loved unless I am thin. My whole life I have battled the Weight monster. There were days where I conquered the monster, and then they were days I was...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M Dec 9

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    I want to let go of this pain. I want to let go of him. I want to get over how much he hurt me. I want to stop feeling heartbroken. I want to let go. I don't know how to let go. If...
    classicslove classicslove 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    i cannot stop listening to Girls by The 1975. My favorite song by them and i just love that you dont hear too much of their sound from other bands.
    Hephaestus5094 Hephaestus5094 18-21, M Dec 4

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