I Cannot Tolerate Extreme Insecurity In a Romantic Partner

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    Just Me Biotching

    Insecurity in a partner drives me up the wall.  I hate to constantly be asked a lot of questions.   Question: “Why is he leaving you messages?” Answer: “Well he is my friend or quite possibly he wants to hit it.”  I get particularly mad...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    It Feeds The Jealousy Monster

    I have always told my mate that she is beautiful every day, not to make her feel good or try and win favor points, I just live my life that way. A woman that is insecure will ultimately be jealous and that in turn causes problems because I have always been a faithful guy so I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 4, 2010

    Confidence Is a Must

    And cockiness is a plus.
    Melody08 Melody08
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 28, 2008

    Jealous Much?

    the jealousy that occurs due to insecurity weakens the relationship. dealing with that jealousy everyday not only causes fights, but exhausts both parties to the point where they dont even know why they're still together. all that i've had with this issue have ended very badly. i...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2009

    There Can Only Be One Insecure Partner....

    And she'd be me. LMFAO!! It's true, I can be very insecure and clingy. It's because I never feel worthy, so I assume that the guy's playing with me or can't possibly really truly love me. Of course, so far in my life that has been proven to be true, so perhaps I'm not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    If a Man Is Insecure.. Run!!!!

    Insecurity in a man is not able to be cured!! You can't fix it!! Insecurity leads to all kinds of horrible emotions that can then lead to emotional and physical abuse. Battered women would most likely be able to say that their men suffer from great insecurity. A man needs his...
    PinUpPaige PinUpPaige
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 20, 2009

    Patience Lost ...

    I am endlessly patient.  It takes an awful lot to make me lose it.  I'm lucky that I've never had an insecure lover.  I know I wouldn't be able to handle it though.  If someone constantly questioned my love, my sincerity or my intentions ... I think I'd get...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2010
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