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I Cant Accept Being Hurt

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    Yet It Continues Almost Daily...

    I sit here in front of a computer screen trying to get my thoughts to settle down so that I can at least attempt to be logical, but it doesn't always work that way. I can't accept how some people who are suppose to be my 'friends' can just leave me high & dry. With no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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