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I Cant Accept Being Hurt

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    Yet It Continues Almost Daily...

    I sit here in front of a computer screen trying to get my thoughts to settle down so that I can at least attempt to be logical, but it doesn't always work that way. I can't accept how some people who are suppose to be my 'friends' can just leave me high & dry. With no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I'm sofl tired of being hurt by people. Mostly guys. It's like you cant rely on or trust anyone but yourself. Sometimes I think it would be easier to stop dealing with people.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    my gUY OF 4 YEARS IS PULLING OUT HIS MOLER TOOTH IN THE MIRROR RIGHT NOW CAUSE ITS BEEN HURTING HIM,,,HE WANTS ME TO GUIDE HIM,,I WONT AND CANT,,SO HE IS PISSED N BLAMING ME FOR...
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    I'm to the point that I no longer flinch... A normal reaction has been overblown and mutated. I already hurt - so, full to the brim with pain, anger takes over. I hate it. Even...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 Feb 10

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    I'm always the one getting hurt. i open my heart always and it's never reciprocated...it's almost like I enjoy getting my heart broken...makes me remember.that I'm not worth loving...
    canikeepyou canikeepyou 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I wake up with the same feeling as I went to sleep. My heart beats extremely fast. My thoughts are continuous. I just want to be happy again. Why can't I get that? I am not perfect...
    JEJ2259 JEJ2259 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate being sober! I was a functional, daily opiate user for just over 15 years...half of my life. I decided on my own, mainly out of frustration , to do up the rest of my morph...
    shaybaby26 shaybaby26 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    For those who worry about being hurt - follow the advice above. I have always believed this to be true...
    Liverpool47 Liverpool47 41-45, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I have already posted my experiences in this category, but that was nearly two years ago. Two. Years. Ago. And it's still bothering me, or I wouldn't be here. Having met with a...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I just think that I am doomed to single hood, forever! And I'm accepting it, hurtful but what can I do? There's no sense of forcing someone, or forcing for that thing to happen if...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Itt Hurtss Btt I Cantt Showw Im Hurtin .
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been hurt really bad that whenever something good is happening to me I believe it's to good to be truth and I get scared so I shut it down or whenever somebody is starting to...
    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I would rather just say nothing if asked a question that my answer could hurt them. Just turn the question back to them asking what they think. Being hurt sometimes never leaves...
    harrietgeorge harrietgeorge 66-70, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a very nice person but because of that I'm more cautious of other peoples feelings than my own and u know its not fair to me and I know they don't really care. But, I just can...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Funniest thing about being hurt, you find out who your friends are... My best friend just so happens to be a stranger. He's always there to pick up the pieces and make me whole...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Feb 1

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    For without it I cant even see the beautiful sceneries that i could see in the surroundings the beauty of nature and peace of being alone with God. Though I was born as a hard...
    marlounet marlounet 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Tell me the truth. Don't try and "spare my feelings" or "not complicate things" for me. Just say it. Don't be condescending either, the truth can hurt, but it can also be very...
    Essence972 Essence972 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I used to feel a lot of anxiety regarding my gender and sexuality, but over the past few months I've started accepting myself more and more, and stopped trying to change things or...
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    I was having lunch with a friend and a mutual acquaintance joined us... it was going well until we got into discussion on how she is going to decorate her new apartment and I could...
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Hi I was hoping you could help me with some advice, insight into my situation as Im desperate. I was in a relationship for five years I adored him, it was very passionate but...
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    After 38 Years Finally Tickled One Of My Favorite Girls...:-). Part 1 In high school many years ago we had a fairly large group of people where we all hung out together. One of...
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    I accept people for who they are and the way they are. I expect to be treated the way I treat them. I don't put expectations on others. If a person wants a friend you need to...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I accept everyone for who they are...that is what I expect of them, to be who they are....not to pretend to be something your not, it does not work with me well.....be you..... I...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    so I truly need help forgiving people who have hurt me... I have a hard time trusting people as Is and I decided to let a guy in my life come into it and be apart of my life we got...
    alexmorales123 alexmorales123 18-21, F Feb 16

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    I really liked a guy from the UK. I can't forget when he sent me pictures of himself and they ended up in my spam mail. I retrieved them and he asked "Am I still spam?" He was an...
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    I have tried an tried again to be what he wants. I can never be. The moment I have any happiness. He has to crush it. Why do I not just go away? Six foot under cant be that bad. No...
    Txwoman123 Txwoman123 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I love foooood. I cannot change that! I'm just not one of those girls who eat small portions of the healthiest food all the time! But that's okay, because that's what inspired me...
    IwillAlwaysBeMe IwillAlwaysBeMe 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Reading through this website helped me so much with my recent situation, that I felt the need to contribute somehow and hope it helps others in return. A little background about...
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    Can I just let go of something that hurts me? I keep asking myself... why my dad keeps saying the same thing over and over again. I'll make a long story short. I was sexually...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 16 Responses Feb 10

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    Being beautiful can b a curse as much as it is a blessing. Often I'm very lonely, girls hate me. Guys are too controlling wen I date them. I feel like a Barbie doll. I hve been hit...
    tahty1214 tahty1214 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I am complex. I have a very small group of friends that stay that way because they understand and love me despite my personas, overanalyzing and critical self. I get hurt easily...
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    Triggers? Maybe? Just be careful. I don't... even know where to begin. I wasn't abused. Nothing in my life has ever gone really, truly wrong. My mother was a young, single mother...
    dpenny96 dpenny96 18-21, F Jan 31

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    So here’s the thing. I never ask anything from anyone except for acceptance. That’s it. For example; I’ve only ever asked for money once in my life and I paid it back...
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    From the time I was very young, I knew I was different. I was always more comfortable expressing and embracing the more masculine side of my personality. I was the consummate...
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    I have tried an tried again to be what he wants. I can never be. The moment I have any happiness. He has to crush it. Why do I not just go away? Six foot under cant be that bad. No...
    Txwoman123 Txwoman123 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I can be bear it if other people hurts me unless it's those people that are important to me.. it's another story that leave me teary-eyed.
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    Girls easily fall in love but having a hard time to move on.. so please if you're going to hurt us, leave us alone.
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    Look why cant people just live and let live accept that others are different.....
    guylee guylee 56-60, M 8 Responses Feb 9

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    I hate how I look at my cloths...and only see XL ..it hurts to see it any more.im finally down to a 14 in my pants but I hate that I cant go lower.iv tryed and all that's gotten me...
    emo200 emo200 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Just give in, it's part of the serenity pledge. But I believe it should extend to everyone in every walk of life, Gods grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...
    NightGambit NightGambit 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    So I dated this girl for a few months and I was really in love with her . She was too . It was fast but it was real . I really ******* loved her but she hurt me so much . She did...
    ish1234567 ish1234567 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 4

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