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I Cant Accept Being Hurt

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    Yet It Continues Almost Daily...

    I sit here in front of a computer screen trying to get my thoughts to settle down so that I can at least attempt to be logical, but it doesn't always work that way. I can't accept how some people who are suppose to be my 'friends' can just leave me high & dry. With no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Every time I find someone I like I push them away because I'm afraid of getting hurt. I don't want to be hurt again so I'm hurting others. I just want to get better and be able to...
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    I'm always used to do the family chores and they gossip alot of me, I'm so sick of this kind of thing now.. Coz I'm just being used.
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    It's been several months and I can't really get over my ex... I hate when people have that type of effect on you. A part of me says I should hate her and ignore her in public, but...
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    So I must let it go no matter how much it means to you. I must let it go. We will make new memories, better memories that will last a live time.
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    yeeeup I'm a guy and I have been used by every girl I know.
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    I am to a point that the hurting and sadness are normal and any joy is frightening . I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life and many of the bad things I have caused , I just...
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    I'm afraid of being hurt by someone I care about so I block everyone out. I want to change so badly, I don't know how to though. I've tried so hard but I still push people away.
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    I am so used to being hurt. I don't want to lose him. But what if he does decide to leave. What if one day he wakes up and decides I am no enough. That I am not worth the fight...
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