I Cant Accept Or Understand My Breakup

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 193 People

    Pretty Confused

    So i have commitment issues, and every time i start seeing a guy my friends count the days until i end it. Then, i met a guy who i clicked with instantly. I wanted to take things slow with him, and really get to know him. We spoke every day, constantly with each other. He worked...
    Stefxo Stefxo
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2011

    We we're good together.

    She accepted my weirdness. My depression and anxiety. My need to constantly rationalize everything. But none of this can be rationalized. I took her for granted. I took the love of my life for granted. Never thinking how my moods affected her. Never thinking how those moods...
    Blitzingtakin Blitzingtakin
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    Broken Heart Or Rejected By Rebound?

    Hi there, so I've talked about my ex a lot in my other stories so I'll keep the summary short(ish). My ex broke up with me a month ago because he "liked another girl" but really I think he was also scared about being in a committed relationship. He has been wearing almost the...
    younglove77 younglove77
    May 20, 2013

    Going Through It.

    The girl that I thought that I was going to spend the rest of my life with up and left. I had never loved anybody the way that I loved her. She said that she loved me, and showed me that she loved me, but I think its all bull. Because if she can leave like that without looking...
    jmix jmix
    5 Responses Dec 9, 2011

    I Had No Back Bone.

    I met him at work, worked with him for 3 years but it was a little crush. I thought he was funny and charming. He's not your typical handsome, he was a a big guy, with genuine eyes. My teddy bear. It wasn't until Christmas of last year where there was a definite spark...
    starfry starfry
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2009

    Reminder of why we move on

    after a broken relationship God didn't give you the strength to get back on your feet so that you can run back to the same thing that knocked you down.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2014

    I Still Miss Him

    He was my first love. My everything. He was supposed to be the love of my life, and I was so excited to marry him. Until he decided to end it out of the blue a little over a year ago. We were together almost 3 years. I've picked up my life and I've learned to be strong without...
    acat3825 acat3825
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 6, 2013

    Can't Let Go Of Hope

    My boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me 6 weeks ago completely out of the blue! We are both 21 and had a pretty serious relationship and practically lived together for 6 monhs of it. To me our relationship was perfect! He was my best friend and I loved him more than...
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2013

    This is my first breakup

    that I didn't instigate. It sucks. My whole body is in a constant state of anxiety. I'm paranoid about my ex and I switch from hating her to wanting her back. I constantly get "plenty more fish in the sea" and "it just takes time", being thrown at me. The only times I can cope...
    AlphaGoat AlphaGoat
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    Feeling so guilty about breaking up with my

    boyfriend and just don't know what to do 😥
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco
    18-21, F
    Oct 28, 2014

    You Ended Our 7 Year Relationship With Silence.

    "I think we should break up," she said, quietly. "What?" I asked. "I think we should break up." The second time it was much clearer, more confident. We had just spent the day together, our first time alone in nearly a month, I was filled with the relief of finally coming...
    FullofFoolishness FullofFoolishness
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2012

    I Dont Understand It

    i secretly hoped it would somehow go back to the way things were, when we were happy.  i finally got the closure i didnt get when he broke my heart. but now i find out he is with someone.  so soon after we parted ways.  i dont know what to do.  its too hard to deal with...
    CanIPushRewind CanIPushRewind
    5 Responses Feb 20, 2011

    21 Of The Worst Days Of My Life

    I'm lost right now. He cut me off without a word or a real legitimate reason. Three years and he could just walk away. One of the most brilliant, romantic, considerate, handsome, compassionate, my God I can go on and on. He could love me in a way I have never experienced before...
    pprrnnccffaann11 pprrnnccffaann11
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 15, 2013

    I think I need closure from him.

    I dated this guy since December (so only 4 months). We live in different towns 2 hours away from eachother. I went to see him once or twice every 2 weeks. We are both seniors in high school and he made all these plans for me to go to college with him and I made those plans into...
    selfieeC selfieeC
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 3, 2015

    I Cant Accept And Refuse To.

    I am so confused... I dont know how to process this break up and I am constantly questioning what really happened. I am only 21 and he is 22 so we are young but I just am so rattled by this. We met last year and instantly he fell for me. He consistently told me that from the...
    anniebean anniebean
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2013

    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    Painful Breakup

    Hey everyone, I wanted to post on here to try and get some closure or at least an objective opinion on my breakup. I'm strong in many aspects of my life, but I've been mourning the end of this relationship for quite some time now. It still feels like it is not over, even though I...
    AboveUsOnlySkyx AboveUsOnlySkyx
    5 Responses May 23, 2013

    It's Harder Than I Though.

    He had been been together for about 9 months, I still blame Myslef for us ending, the last 3 months we were together were the hardest, he called me all the names you could think off, yes I know I messed up, I did things I shouldn't of done when I decided to change it was too...
    Mislola Mislola
    Dec 29, 2012

    How could he just replace me

    so fast? The thought of him with another girl disgust and saddens me so deeply. I wish I could stop thinking.
    Lynnd520 Lynnd520
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2015

    It's been several months

    and I can't really get over my ex... I hate when people have that type of effect on you. A part of me says I should hate her and ignore her in public, but then another part tells me to be mature and move on with life; I can't keep holding grudges. Either way I always think about...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz
    22-25, M
    Nov 30, 2014

    Where Are The Plans We Made For Two?

    I was 13 when I had my first crush. We were in the same school, then I had to move back to Canada. He stayed in China. We didn't talk much for five years, because school was so difficult over there, and he had no cell phone or computer. He came from a pretty poor family. His...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 15, 2012

    We Still Love Each Other

    I just can't get over him. He's been gone over a year and a half, deported to Mexico after getting caught driving with no license. For a year we fought deportation, him three states away in a detention center. I gathered family for money, help from Catholic and immigration...
    DisorderlyCyn DisorderlyCyn
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

    We had been together

    for a year. We've been broken up for about 3mnths. It wasn't easy. It really took a toll on me. I've only just started 'living my life' and I guess, I'm getting over how hard to was, everyday. I'm not saying that I'm completely over this person, but it does get easier with time...
    alittleinteresting alittleinteresting
    22-25, F
    Mar 27, 2014

    Im Confused

    I have been with this guy since 2004 and we have two amazing kids together. Last year we took a "break" from each other. At the beginning of this year we decided to work things out again between us. February I noticed that his attitude changed towards me and at first I...
    beautiful3 beautiful3
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2009

    I Feel Betrayed And Hurt.

    This is my story. I was in a long relationship of nearly nine years with a fifteen years older than me guy. I must say we had our differences but we had a good relationship. Except that this guy never wanted any real commitment with me. After 4 years I wanted him to move with me...
    me76 me76
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2012

    She's Leaving Because She Loves Me

    I need someone to talk to me or at least say something. I have people to talk to, but right now, there's no one. I just need to vent and someone to listen. All my life, all I wanted was to be loved. Every single person who I've tried to be with has done the same thing to me. They...
    vfrfreak23 vfrfreak23
    Apr 17, 2013

    Angry, Sad, And Hurt Over Everything That Has Happened

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390
    26-30, F
    Jul 8, 2013

    I just can't accept it.

    We've been through almost everything, we dealt with so many problems, had a million fights and many times when we tried to end it. But we still loved each other the same. You always did. Always. You never gave up on me. on us. You still loved me the same when we broke up and got...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 19, 2016

    What To Do

    So I was really inlove with this guy. We were pretty serious and were together for a LONG time. But, a few days after prom he left because his family doesn't like me and I didn't do anything to them. Also his friends hate me because I "took him away." And, part of me want's to...
    aryel97 aryel97
    May 23, 2013

    So I just recently broke up with my boyfriend.

    Things just didn't feel the same anymore and we had issues that we couldn't fix. But I love him and he was the most caring and amazing guy ever, but I just felt breaking up was for the best. Why am I so upset and heartbroken if I'm he one who ended things
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2014

    I've been in love with my ex

    for 5 years. He moved away so things never really worked out between us getting back together. Now he's back in town and we're hanging out, kissing, sex, all that stuff. But I'm starting to feel like that's all he wants from me. He only messages me late at night when he's...
    heartlesswind heartlesswind
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2016

    I was in love with my first love

    for 5 years. We broke up almost 3 years ago, but we were never over. During one of our 'on' periods, I cheated on him with a guy I had gotten close too during an 'off' period. I got together with the guy, I loved him so very much as he was the first guy to make me feel that...
    heartlesswind heartlesswind
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    Every time someone break up with me They

    always tell me "it's not you it's me" Or " I need time apart, we can always be friends" I don't understand that Those lines are played out already
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    Oct 29, 2014

    Is It Over?

    My story is long,but i would really appericiate it if you read it because im so alone in this world, Im 17 years old, i was 12 when i met him. I fell in love with him, weve been off and on for 4 years now(about to be 5years). after we went out for a year and broke up we went...
    JustADreamer1 JustADreamer1
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    It was a better day for

    both of us together it was filled with a lot of giggles and caressing. More than had occured in a while. I was helping her bake an order and during the process we both fell asleep. The cakes dried up and now she needs to redo them. Out of this came a i want you out of my...
    kujo1990 kujo1990
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2014

    This One Was Just One Of Those Wtf Moments Of My Life...b

     In all honesty I can accept, and actually think it's a good thing...at least after the whole 'break up' conversation.It wasn't a bad break up, or bad relationship, but when the guy's reasons are 'I don't want to ever date again', 'I don't think I can love', 'I hate women...
    Treval Treval
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2010

    Still Dont Know Where I Went Wrong

    I was in a relationship with a young lady for almost 9 months, next Saturday would be our 9 months. I was patient with her when she wasn't in the best of spaces I was loving to her even when she'd hurt me bad. I let myself get walked over sometimes so that she would be happy...
    mvorlu mvorlu
    1 Response Jul 18, 2013

    My Gf Breakup With Me For Silly Reason

    I had gf we've been together for 6 years today she left me because she discovred that i watch p orr n . on the internet am 22 years old she is too. do you think it is a rational reason to breakup ? I am in shock please help me with some opinions.
    ahhmmad91 ahhmmad91
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2013

    Letting Go, Accepting and Surrendering...

     I have experienced a lot of sadness and pain due to a break up that i could not understand or accept or let go. The most important thing i can say is that sadly, in these situations, we create a lot of pain for ourselves.. it took over my entire life, i couldnt eat. sleep...
    plutten plutten
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Apr 4, 2009

    I feel so helpless if just hard to be separated

    from someone you consider your soul mate/best friend. We were together for more then half our lives. I am so used to going to him for comfort and now it's him who's the one hurting me. He is still talking to me and being kind and I know our separation is good for us. But that...
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    I Don't Understand the Last One...

    but I have accepted it, and moved on. I just don't understand how he could, until the day before he dumped me, say 'Your the love of my life'...then the next day 'I don't feel that way about you anymore' I don't understand why he waited 3 days after my birthday, when he knew he...
    Treval Treval
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 5, 2009
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