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I Cant Accept Or Understand My Breakup

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 164 People

    It's Harder Than I Though.

    He had been been together for about 9 months, I still blame Myslef for us ending, the last 3 months we were together were the hardest, he called me all the names you could think off, yes I know I messed up, I did things I shouldn't of done when I decided to change it was too...
    Mislola Mislola 16-17 Dec 29, 2012

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    Painful Breakup

    Hey everyone, I wanted to post on here to try and get some closure or at least an objective opinion on my breakup. I'm strong in many aspects of my life, but I've been mourning the end of this relationship for quite some time now. It still feels like it is not over, even though I...
    AboveUsOnlySkyx AboveUsOnlySkyx 22-25 6 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Broken Heart Or Rejected By Rebound?

    Hi there, so I've talked about my ex a lot in my other stories so I'll keep the summary short(ish). My ex broke up with me a month ago because he "liked another girl" but really I think he was also scared about being in a committed relationship. He has been wearing almost the...
    younglove77 younglove77 18-21 May 20, 2013

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    I feel so helpless if just hard to be separated

    from someone you consider your soul mate/best friend. We were together for more then half our lives. I am so used to going to him for comfort and now it's him who's the one hurting me. He is still talking to me and being kind and I know our separation is good for us. But that...
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    You Ended Our 7 Year Relationship With Silence.

    "I think we should break up," she said, quietly. "What?" I asked. "I think we should break up." The second time it was much clearer, more confident. We had just spent the day together, our first time alone in nearly a month, I was filled with the relief of finally coming...
    FullofFoolishness FullofFoolishness 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    I Don't Understand the Last One...

    but I have accepted it, and moved on. I just don't understand how he could, until the day before he dumped me, say 'Your the love of my life'...then the next day 'I don't feel that way about you anymore' I don't understand why he waited 3 days after my birthday, when he knew he...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    No Idea How To React

    I'm so confused. My best friend broke up with me. I have like my best friend for a long time and appearently she liked me to. I had no idea she liked me until about 2 weeks ago. We started datig and we talked about getting an apartment together and I thought she loved me like I...
    pikachu93 pikachu93 18-21, F Jul 27, 2012

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    It's been several months

    and I can't really get over my ex... I hate when people have that type of effect on you. A part of me says I should hate her and ignore her in public, but then another part tells me to be mature and move on with life; I can't keep holding grudges. Either way I always think about...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M Nov 30

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    This One Was Just One Of Those Wtf Moments Of My Life...b

     In all honesty I can accept, and actually think it's a good thing...at least after the whole 'break up' conversation.It wasn't a bad break up, or bad relationship, but when the guy's reasons are 'I don't want to ever date again', 'I don't think I can love', 'I hate women...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2010

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    We Still Love Each Other

    I just can't get over him. He's been gone over a year and a half, deported to Mexico after getting caught driving with no license. For a year we fought deportation, him three states away in a detention center. I gathered family for money, help from Catholic and immigration...
    DisorderlyCyn DisorderlyCyn 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    What To Do

    So I was really inlove with this guy. We were pretty serious and were together for a LONG time. But, a few days after prom he left because his family doesn't like me and I didn't do anything to them. Also his friends hate me because I "took him away." And, part of me want's to...
    aryel97 aryel97 16-17 May 23, 2013

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    21 Of The Worst Days Of My Life

    I'm lost right now. He cut me off without a word or a real legitimate reason. Three years and he could just walk away. One of the most brilliant, romantic, considerate, handsome, compassionate, my God I can go on and on. He could love me in a way I have never experienced before...
    pprrnnccffaann11 pprrnnccffaann11 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Going Through It.

    The girl that I thought that I was going to spend the rest of my life with up and left. I had never loved anybody the way that I loved her. She said that she loved me, and showed me that she loved me, but I think its all bull. Because if she can leave like that without looking...
    jmix jmix 26-30 5 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    I Still Miss Him

    He was my first love. My everything. He was supposed to be the love of my life, and I was so excited to marry him. Until he decided to end it out of the blue a little over a year ago. We were together almost 3 years. I've picked up my life and I've learned to be strong without...
    acat3825 acat3825 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    I Dont Understand It

    i secretly hoped it would somehow go back to the way things were, when we were happy.  i finally got the closure i didnt get when he broke my heart. but now i find out he is with someone.  so soon after we parted ways.  i dont know what to do.  its too hard to deal with...
    CanIPushRewind CanIPushRewind 26-30 5 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    We had been together

    for a year. We've been broken up for about 3mnths. It wasn't easy. It really took a toll on me. I've only just started 'living my life' and I guess, I'm getting over how hard to was, everyday. I'm not saying that I'm completely over this person, but it does get easier with time...
    alittleinteresting alittleinteresting 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I Feel Betrayed And Hurt.

    This is my story. I was in a long relationship of nearly nine years with a fifteen years older than me guy. I must say we had our differences but we had a good relationship. Except that this guy never wanted any real commitment with me. After 4 years I wanted him to move with me...
    me76 me76 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2012

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    Still Dont Know Where I Went Wrong

    I was in a relationship with a young lady for almost 9 months, next Saturday would be our 9 months. I was patient with her when she wasn't in the best of spaces I was loving to her even when she'd hurt me bad. I let myself get walked over sometimes so that she would be happy...
    mvorlu mvorlu 22-25 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Feeling so guilty about breaking up with my

    boyfriend and just don't know what to do 😥
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F Oct 28

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    I Had No Back Bone.

    I met him at work, worked with him for 3 years but it was a little crush. I thought he was funny and charming. He's not your typical handsome, he was a a big guy, with genuine eyes. My teddy bear. It wasn't until Christmas of last year where there was a definite spark...
    starfry starfry 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2009

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    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Reminder of why we move on

    after a broken relationship God didn't give you the strength to get back on your feet so that you can run back to the same thing that knocked you down.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    My Gf Breakup With Me For Silly Reason

    I had gf we've been together for 6 years today she left me because she discovred that i watch p orr n . on the internet am 22 years old she is too. do you think it is a rational reason to breakup ? I am in shock please help me with some opinions.
    ahhmmad91 ahhmmad91 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Is It Over?

    My story is long,but i would really appericiate it if you read it because im so alone in this world, Im 17 years old, i was 12 when i met him. I fell in love with him, weve been off and on for 4 years now(about to be 5years). after we went out for a year and broke up we went...
    JustADreamer1 JustADreamer1 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    Every time someone break up with me They

    always tell me "it's not you it's me" Or " I need time apart, we can always be friends" I don't understand that Those lines are played out already
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Oct 29

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    So I just recently broke up with my boyfriend.

    Things just didn't feel the same anymore and we had issues that we couldn't fix. But I love him and he was the most caring and amazing guy ever, but I just felt breaking up was for the best. Why am I so upset and heartbroken if I'm he one who ended things
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    Why Do I Feel So Bad About Breaking Up With Him?

    okay so I'm 14 a freshman in high school and i met this guy who told me he was a senior  and 17. he asked me out the same day we met and i accepted. the next day, when i saw him at school he was acting really weird. he tried to make out with me, tried to meet me after school to...
    hopelessly14 hopelessly14 13-15, F 1 Response May 7, 2012

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    Where Are The Plans We Made For Two?

    I was 13 when I had my first crush. We were in the same school, then I had to move back to Canada. He stayed in China. We didn't talk much for five years, because school was so difficult over there, and he had no cell phone or computer. He came from a pretty poor family. His...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    She's Leaving Because She Loves Me

    I need someone to talk to me or at least say something. I have people to talk to, but right now, there's no one. I just need to vent and someone to listen. All my life, all I wanted was to be loved. Every single person who I've tried to be with has done the same thing to me. They...
    vfrfreak23 vfrfreak23 18-21 Apr 17, 2013

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    Tough Cookie..

    I cant accept that i've split with my partner, I have deceived myself in thinking its a great new step in my life and I can forgive and let be. I hate talking to him , even though i love..ed him, its sore and hurts like salt in a cut. I cant let myself cry because I think I'm...
    naturally1988 naturally1988 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    Im Confused

    I have been with this guy since 2004 and we have two amazing kids together. Last year we took a "break" from each other. At the beginning of this year we decided to work things out again between us. February I noticed that his attitude changed towards me and at first I...
    beautiful3 beautiful3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2009

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    I Cant Accept And Refuse To.

    I am so confused... I dont know how to process this break up and I am constantly questioning what really happened. I am only 21 and he is 22 so we are young but I just am so rattled by this. We met last year and instantly he fell for me. He consistently told me that from the...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Letting Go, Accepting and Surrendering...

     I have experienced a lot of sadness and pain due to a break up that i could not understand or accept or let go. The most important thing i can say is that sadly, in these situations, we create a lot of pain for ourselves.. it took over my entire life, i couldnt eat. sleep...
    plutten plutten 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 4, 2009

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    Angry, Sad, And Hurt Over Everything That Has Happened

    So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we were always very good friends and hung out in the same circles. When we were 18 years old, we started dating. He struggled with addiction problems in the...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    It was a better day for

    both of us together it was filled with a lot of giggles and caressing. More than had occured in a while. I was helping her bake an order and during the process we both fell asleep. The cakes dried up and now she needs to redo them. Out of this came a i want you out of my...
    kujo1990 kujo1990 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Pretty Confused

    So i have commitment issues, and every time i start seeing a guy my friends count the days until i end it. Then, i met a guy who i clicked with instantly. I wanted to take things slow with him, and really get to know him. We spoke every day, constantly with each other. He worked...
    Stefxo Stefxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    So I must let it go no matter how much it means to you. I must let it go. We will make new memories, better memories that will last a live time.
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I wish I could understand why my husband has the need not to talk I just don't get anything anymore I cant understand if you leave another person don't that mean you want to end...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I consider my self to be extremely open minded. and i think i can accept everything about anyone. there are things i don't l but i can accept the most taboo, the most alien...
    Chinsei Chinsei 26-30, M Nov 21

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    "I love you I want you but I cant be with you" he says. A relationship of six years is now over after a trip I gave him to his favorite place. I spent time money energy and feel...
    lesmoveson lesmoveson 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 29

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    It's been just over 2 months since my boyfriend of a year broke up with me, and just over a month since he started seeing someone new. He was my first boyfriend and were both at...
    aprilpanda aprilpanda 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    The aftermath of breakups really sucks. This feelings and everything freaking sucks. I don't understand guys and why they think it's okay to put us girls through hell. I'm so...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Just kinda sorta wish others were as accepting of me and mine.
    OldNRusty OldNRusty 41-45, M 48 mins ago

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    4 weeks ago on Saturday I decided to bring up to my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years the fact that he likes to drink and because he is so young I was worried it would turn into alcoholism...
    groomer1210 groomer1210 18-21, F Dec 8

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    your little girl is gone, you never had a little girl. i was always a boy in the insaid. i am a boy but you wont accept me. you are my mom, you are soposed to love me and accept me...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 29

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    Human brain , the smartest of all i guess is a very good player in a very weird way. It always tends you to do things that you're not supposed to. The worst thing about our brains...
    ProjectXPune ProjectXPune 18-21, M Dec 3

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    Sadly, my first breakup was when my first marriage ended. My first husband. We didn't date until we were older but I was friends with him since we were 10. Never ever thought he...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    A year ago I married a chinese sex worker. I fell in love and I know she loves me because she shows me every day, the little things she does that make love and marriage worthwhile...
    324604ccurtis 324604ccurtis 46-50, M 8 Responses Nov 29

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    i cant understand girls or women, i did tried alot but failed
    newbeginningforme newbeginningforme 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 1

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    Too many people get stuck in their stubborn ways and habits that they've gotten use to over the course of their life. You have to step outside of your comfort zone or you will...