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I Cant Accept Or Understand My Breakup

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    Angry, Sad, And Hurt Over Everything That Has Happened - So to give you guys a little background story into our relationship, I knew my ex all through my adolescent years and we...
    pugs390 pugs390 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    She's Leaving Because She Loves Me - I need someone to talk to me or at least say something. I have people to talk to, but right now, there's no one. I just need to vent and...
    vfrfreak23 vfrfreak23 18-21 Apr 17, 2013

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    I Don't Understand the Last One... - but I have accepted it, and moved on. I just don't understand how he could, until the day before he dumped me, say 'Your the love of my life...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Going Through It. - The girl that I thought that I was going to spend the rest of my life with up and left. I had never loved anybody the way that I loved her. She said that she...
    jmix jmix 26-30 4 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    Im Confused - I have been with this guy since 2004 and we have two amazing kids together. Last year we took a "break" from each other. At the beginning of this year we...
    beautiful3 beautiful3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2009

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    21 Of The Worst Days Of My Life - I'm lost right now. He cut me off without a word or a real legitimate reason. Three years and he could just walk away. One of the most brilliant...
    pprrnnccffaann11 pprrnnccffaann11 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    It was a better day for both of us together it was filled with a lot of giggles and caressing. More than had occured in a while. I was helping her bake an order and during the...
    kujo1990 kujo1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Can't Let Go Of Hope - My boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me 6 weeks ago completely out of the blue! We are both 21 and had a pretty serious relationship and...
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    Where Are The Plans We Made For Two? - I was 13 when I had my first crush. We were in the same school, then I had to move back to Canada. He stayed in China. We didn't talk much...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    What To Do - So I was really inlove with this guy. We were pretty serious and were together for a LONG time. But, a few days after prom he left because his family doesn't like me...
    aryel97 aryel97 16-17 May 23, 2013

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    Letting Go, Accepting and Surrendering... -  I have experienced a lot of sadness and pain due to a break up that i could not understand or accept or let go. The most important...
    plutten plutten 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 4, 2009

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    You Ended Our 7 Year Relationship With Silence. - "I think we should break up," she said, quietly. "What?" I asked. "I think we should break up." The second time it was much...
    FullofFoolishness FullofFoolishness 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    I Still Miss Him - He was my first love. My everything. He was supposed to be the love of my life, and I was so excited to marry him. Until he decided to end it out of the blue a...
    acat3825 acat3825 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    We Still Love Each Other - I just can't get over him. He's been gone over a year and a half, deported to Mexico after getting caught driving with no license. For a year we fought...
    DisorderlyCyn DisorderlyCyn 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I Cant Accept And Refuse To. - I am so confused... I dont know how to process this break up and I am constantly questioning what really happened. I am only 21 and he is 22 so we...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    Tough Cookie.. - I cant accept that i've split with my partner, I have deceived myself in thinking its a great new step in my life and I can forgive and let be. I hate talking to...
    naturally1988 naturally1988 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2011

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    I Dont Understand It - i secretly hoped it would somehow go back to the way things were, when we were happy.  i finally got the closure i didnt get when he broke my heart. but now...
    CanIPushRewind CanIPushRewind 26-30 5 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    No Idea How To React - I'm so confused. My best friend broke up with me. I have like my best friend for a long time and appearently she liked me to. I had no idea she liked me...
    pikachu93 pikachu93 18-21, F Jul 27, 2012

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    I still have no closure or understanding to what happened we were together 6 yrs and have a son and I have not once heard from him idk what went wrong we went from planning a...
    Isadora19 Isadora19 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    Pretty Confused - So i have commitment issues, and every time i start seeing a guy my friends count the days until i end it. Then, i met a guy who i clicked with instantly. I...
    Stefxo Stefxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2011

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    Is It Over? - My story is long,but i would really appericiate it if you read it because im so alone in this world, Im 17 years old, i was 12 when i met him. I fell in love with...
    JustADreamer1 JustADreamer1 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    I feel so helpless if just hard to be separated from someone you consider your soul mate/best friend. We were together for more then half our lives. I am so used to going to him...
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Reminder of why we move on after a broken relationship God didn't give you the strength to get back on your feet so that you can run back to the same thing that knocked you down.
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F Jan 7

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    Broken Heart Or Rejected By Rebound? - Hi there, so I've talked about my ex a lot in my other stories so I'll keep the summary short(ish). My ex broke up with me a month ago...
    younglove77 younglove77 18-21 May 20, 2013

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    I Had No Back Bone. - I met him at work, worked with him for 3 years but it was a little crush. I thought he was funny and charming. He's not your typical handsome, he...
    starfry starfry 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2009

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    I Feel Betrayed And Hurt. - This is my story. I was in a long relationship of nearly nine years with a fifteen years older than me guy. I must say we had our differences but we had...
    me76 me76 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2012

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    Why Do I Feel So Bad About Breaking Up With Him? - okay so I'm 14 a freshman in high school and i met this guy who told me he was a senior  and 17. he asked me out the same day we...
    hopelessly14 hopelessly14 13-15, F 1 Response May 7, 2012

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    My Gf Breakup With Me For Silly Reason - I had gf we've been together for 6 years today she left me because she discovred that i watch p orr n . on the internet am 22 years old she...
    ahhmmad91 ahhmmad91 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    This One Was Just One Of Those Wtf Moments Of My Life...b -  In all honesty I can accept, and actually think it's a good thing...at least after the whole 'break up...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2010

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    Still Dont Know Where I Went Wrong - I was in a relationship with a young lady for almost 9 months, next Saturday would be our 9 months. I was patient with her when she wasn't in...
    mvorlu mvorlu 22-25 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Painful Breakup - Hey everyone, I wanted to post on here to try and get some closure or at least an objective opinion on my breakup. I'm strong in many aspects of my life, but I've...
    AboveUsOnlySkyx AboveUsOnlySkyx 22-25 6 Responses May 23, 2013

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    We had been together for a year. We've been broken up for about 3mnths. It wasn't easy. It really took a toll on me. I've only just started 'living my life' and I guess, I'm...
    alittleinteresting alittleinteresting 18-21, F Mar 27

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    It's Harder Than I Though. - He had been been together for about 9 months, I still blame Myslef for us ending, the last 3 months we were together were the hardest, he called me all...
    Mislola Mislola 16-17 Dec 29, 2012

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    I can't let go because don't understand. How can you go from being one of the most important people in my life to not in my life at all? How do you just walk away from such a rare...
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    They say the first is the worst. I guess this is a different kind of pain. My relationship had to end. Not because we stopped loving each other, nothing bad happened that should...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hey David. I'm just going to pretend that you're going to read this like I'm sending it to you... but maybe I'll be more open, because I know you never will. So first off... I...
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