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I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

share your own frustrations while we still struggle to find that perfect guy! 2,744 People

    Why Men Lie To Women About Everything.....

    I am 27, and still looking for the right person. I have met so many men, but just hasn't met the right one yet. I am a good looking girl, nice personality with good heart. don't know why..... until I brought this online program to learn more about men. it really shock me what...
    lwf20 lwf20 26-30 Apr 8, 2012

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    Men Men Men

    wow i remember the time when a guy took you out and open car doors for a lady and talk to them on the phone for hours but today is all abot texting or getting ****** on the same second of the meeting for the first time..i can't beleive there is such a thing called good men..
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Representative

    It seems that the man I met and fell in love with just vanished.  He was perfect!!! Attentive, loving and romantic.  He took me on romantic picnics. Wrote me poetry. Then as soon as he moved in with me things completely changed. Its been 4 months and not one poem. Not one...
    angelash66 angelash66 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I Never Get "the Final Rose"

    Some girls meet guys so easily, and never have to deal with heartbreak their entire lives, while others (like me) are constantly torn apart? Every guy that shows interest in me ends up finding another girl and making her their girlfriend instead of me. I don't understand, as I am...
    SingleInTheCity SingleInTheCity 26-30 3 Responses May 15, 2012

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    "True Love Is Not That Hard To Find"

    Before you conclude that what I am saying is crazy, please consider this: "What is love?" Love is not some mysterious force from the "ether of the universe". Love instead, is an art, and a skill which needs to be learned just like any other skill in life. Before you can really...
    roadoflife roadoflife 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Nice Guy?

    Every time I meet a guy, he tried to get me into bed. I don't sleep around so I don't do that. I do kiss them and maybe hang out at theirs for a few hours but I don't sleep with them. They promise to ring but never do. One I met a few weeks ago I spoke to for hours, we kissed...
    aicpj aicpj 26-30, F 20 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    Help I Found Him Again And Again I've Walked Away!

    is there something wrong with me? has anyone ever been in this stage in their life as me now? what happens in the future?? and is it possible to be afraid of something you don't believe in happening to you aka falling inlove (what goes around comes around)? okay, let me explain...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Honestly

    It is very hard to meet guys.... period. I just don't know why. I haven't been on a date since 1994... that was with my ex-husband. The thought of meeting a guy back then didn't even come to mind. It just happened even though they may not have been the greatest guy. I watch my...
    DraygenD DraygenD 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Where Have All The Cowboys Gone?

    In reality I do not question or try to change my standards in what I look for in a great guy. But yet it seems they are so hard to find. Some, or is it most are consumed with the superficial sign of what are society deems as beauty, completly missing the TRUE admiration of beauty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Que, Part 2

    What is it about 'being hurt' that drives people, primarily women, to run away from relationships?
    BlackSuperman BlackSuperman 36-40, M 6 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    It Goes Both Ways!

    While many girls wonder why its so hard to meet a great guy, there are as many or more men probably wondering the same about women. So the key is the MEET part. How do you find each other? I guess this is why there are so many online dating sites these days. However these tend to...
    37ancountin 37ancountin 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Not In The Big City

    Difficult to meet good normal single men in NYC. Might have to move out of town or meet someone who just moved to the city. My friends try to hook me up with "great" guys but I find them boring. One friend met someone on a website and admits that he is not her type but he is...
    Nuevahoja Nuevahoja 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    A Good Guy

    Recently and I do mean very recently I began to talk to a man who had just moved to town...he said he was looking for a friend in a new town. We talked a little bit via email and then we talked via text messages....(for an even shorter amount of time).  He started out seeming so...
    ybg54 ybg54 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    I Was Fooled

    When I was a college freshman (not too long ago! Just graduated actually) I was timid and shy. I had trouble making friends and finding my niche at a school of 30,000 + people. None of my high school friends came to my college, and I had some bad experiances in middle school/high...
    silver222 silver222 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    Finding A Great Guy Isn't Always The Problem...

    I am at a point in my life where there are lots of changes. I want a great guy in my romantic life to be one of those changes, but it's just not happening. There are a TON of awesome guys in my life right now, but it seems that I am and forever will be in the "friend zone." With...
    rockintosand rockintosand 18-21 Apr 2, 2012

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    Que...

    I am wanting opinions from the women of this group... I have heard for years how hard it is to meet a good guy (dating, marriage) nowadays. How true is it? Is it as true as I think it is? I used to write about stuff like this (I met my wife in doing so), and have been interested...
    BlackSuperman BlackSuperman 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    And Vise Versa

    I can't also not believe how hard it is to meet a great woman. Natural and free of any Barbie habit.
    Nudalla Nudalla 46-50, M Feb 19, 2012

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    Never mind of it being hard to find a great guy,

    but it's difficult to find any good person nowadays. Male or female it's super challenging to find a decent and honestly kind person.
    InexplicableKy InexplicableKy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Find Yourself First

    Let's admit it, many of us have complained about not being able to find the right guy for us. It seems like we just always end up with the wrong ones; the liars, the cheaters, the wallet feeders, the losers, the 'one your parents hate', or the scumbag. We've probably all...
    justbefree justbefree 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Why?!

    Guys trick u into thinking their one and then when you give them your heart, they crush it, rip it, and tear it just like the a-holes they are. I now see why females are switching teams to be with other females (I'm not that angry tho lol).
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    Omg I feel like most of the guys here are great

    and awesome that I wish they were my brothers or guy friends with me!!! But it seem like I can't meet a great guy in real life!!! I want a great guy in real life to be my best friend!!! It's so hard!!!
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    But I Have Got Used To It

    He might have passion and loyalty to be with you...but he doesnt have the lookhe might be very handsome...but hes either taken, a jerk or a guy who wants to be nonexclusivehe might be loyal, handsome and passionate... but hes poor and has a lot of complaint about life and society...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2011

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    Looking For Love...by A Lonely Nice Guy

    hello, i am a married (but separated man) 40 years old .Who is currently a mess!! brokenhearted and  lost!my wife of 13 years is having an affair and now says she love s her new man more than me.Finding it very difficult to cope. The truth is i love with all my heart , and i...
    Englishgent1970 Englishgent1970 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Good Guys Do Not Exist Nowadays

    Only women alone, used much abused much especially if we are that GREAT. How do I know? I don't anybody wish my life.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 12 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    Tired, But Not Giving Up...

    Ah, where to begin? Well, I just recently went out on a date with a guy who asked me what was wrong with me that I was still single. He is abrupt bordering on rude. His conversation feels like an interview. For example, he will say, ". Why did your ex brreak up with you? Why...
    nickysix nickysix 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Hola Amore

    IM a single father of my two ear old beautiful son nicholas ryan.....People never gia man a good man like  a genuine gentleman a chance cause i love the Lord they call me religious when yet im not at all they look at my apance and say ur a pretty boy u must be gay or something...
    Riderz4Christ Riderz4Christ 31-35, M 2 Responses May 10, 2012

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    I Must Be Cursed...

    I've always had terrible luck with keeping let alone finding a decent guy... Recently I met this guy about 10 min away from me and we really hit it off. I like fishing, hunting, mudding, cooking and many other things that he enjoys doing as well. I always talked about how great...
    sweetiepea sweetiepea 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Lost Prince Charming

    I am 23 and trying to find my "prince charming"! I am a hopeless romantic. I always went back to the saying "my prince charming got lost and is too stubborn to ask for directions." I hope that is the case. When I was in middle school, I said I would find the one for me in high...
    shiningstar13 shiningstar13 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    This Is How You Find And Keep The Great Guy And Girl

    You don't need to read a book, you don't need to attend a cheesy reality show and you certainly don't need Internet to find the one who is just right for you. THIS is what you need. 1. Know who you are (mostly find out your "flaws" and ways to better yourself) you will harvest...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 6 Responses May 18, 2011

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    A Great Guy Always Hurts

    Women say they want a great guy but they settle for the guys that make us look like the enemie. Speaking as I am a great guy, where r the great woman that no how to love n to treat a man.... No where. U say u want one but we just become second place....
    markfoxx markfoxx 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2011

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    My Take On Why It's Hard To Meet Great People.

    Why is it so hard to meet any great guys or girls? Even if you're just looking for a friend, things can seem so complicated and difficult. I've met some very special people in my life and found my way around to see the great people around me. Here's what I see as the biggest...
    Beanow Beanow 22-25, M 13 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Wanted: A Companion More Than A Sex Partner

    I will admit not everyone is into dating disabled people.  Further, I realize that few guys are into transgendered women.  But, that's who I AM!  Dating sites aree full of horney people!  Have we, as a society, sunk  so low that all we are interested in anymore is the sex...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 2 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    My Idea Of A Romantic Date

    Sometimes, I think I should have been born decades before I actually was.  This becomes evident when one learns of a dream I have held for many years. I really want to go on an old-fashioned romantic date with a man who will treat me completely like a woman.  This has nothing...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Liars, Users, Posers

    I can't seem to find the perfect guy. Every time I fall for one they are either liars, posers or desperate for attention.   It makes me give up hope on them...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2010

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    Trying Not To Complain So Much

    To all the girls, just keep an open mind about guys like me. I'm not a super stud or a pretty boy, just a regular guy with no physical defects, adequately handsome, and confident but a little nervous when it comes to girls. I wish girls would feel okay to approach guys more...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Never Been Kissed

    I'm 18 years old and I've never been kissed and I'm okay with that. It's not that I wouldn't have liked to have already been kissed, but I just don't want to kiss some random guy at a party whose name I only partially understood through the loud music. Going out with my friends...
    Callsmehome Callsmehome 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    Oh yes it's so hard..

    is it that am looking at the wrong places..I want an intelligent,witty guy...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses 57 mins ago

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    How Hard Is It To Find The Right Lady?

    You think you have probs trying to find mr right,turn the coin the same for us men trying to find mrs right.Now it,s the new year you never know you just mite find mr perfeck ha?anyway happy new year to all & good luck.
    smoothguy85 smoothguy85 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    Great Guys R Exist.but

    first i don't know its okay to be in here or not coz i'm straight man so for sure i am not looking for a great guy .lol. but i thought u may need an answer from a guy i really think that all the good things in life is hard to get like yeah great guys r exist but do u really think...
    mgarhy mgarhy 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2011

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    So... I have been thinking about asking a

    friend help, i want him to help me to get a date... I find it a little (a lot) embarrassing but i will birth 17 in one month, the next year i'll go to college. I really need that experience and go from there. But i don't know how to ask for his help ._. What would be a nice and...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    How Hard It Is ???.. A Man's Point Of View

    I know I'm a guy, and what am I doing here? The subject HOW HARD IT IS? not so hard if women stop looking to hard could be right there in front of them. I was wondering the same thing years ago I'm a nice guy pretty decent looking WTF I said to myself maybe it was how I presented...
    phantx phantx 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    Real Advice From A Real Guy

    Love is not destiny, there is no soul mate out there for you. No fate, no destiny, no fairytale prince. I'm sorry I'm not a gay-looking fruity vampire and that the only way I can prove my love to you is not to make you a vampire for several godawful movies. Here it is: You aren...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    He Died At Calvary 2000 Years Ago.........

    As human beings we are born into a fallen nature because we live in a fallen world.We all have issues of life that we carry around like chains........that is until......? I am an ex soldier who was left disabled in a ski accident in 2000 and knows all too well about Biblical...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Okay so right it's 12:10am right now on a Wednesday. And I was just about to go for a run like I got my clothes ready and look outside and it was dark omg I'm so shocked right...
    Makaleetah Makaleetah 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I remember just doing my summer exams and finishing 5 year and now im already 3 months into my summer holidays ,it felt like yesterday I took the exams ,where does time go
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I can't believe everyone I know is betting on how long I'll last at work and how long it will be before I start seeing another guy! Aren't they just nice?! I got something to prove...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Never thought I would have a kid before marriage and definitely never thought I would be a single mom and not have a stable family for my child. Never thought I would be with...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    so much pain and cruelty haunted my childhood I'm honestly surprised I didn't starve to death when I was very little or got killed when my mums friend got mad at me when they were...
    BlueLanternDodgerBlake BlueLanternDodgerBlake 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was at Walmart and saw this lady's name-tag that read A-a. I studied the name for a few seconds and realized that it mean Adasha. It seems ridiculous, but clever at the same...
    unpricedSpice unpricedSpice 13-15, M Jun 30

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    Joint Family, sometime very confusing.... When I visited my village, I had met a joint family. They had 10 sons. 2 pairs of them where twin. So to remember their name, their...
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I truly thought that I was helping him out. I didn't want to believe my neighbors or landlord when they would call/text me at work saying that there's alot of traffic in and out of...
    bluNow14 bluNow14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Sunday Rose ✨ ..... I don't think I could name my child after a day of the week tbh!
    edenfw edenfw 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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