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I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

share your own frustrations while we still struggle to find that perfect guy! 2,031 People

    Que, Part 2 - What is it about 'being hurt' that drives people, primarily women, to run away from relationships?
    BlackSuperman BlackSuperman 36-40, M 6 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Why Men Lie To Women About Everything..... - I am 27, and still looking for the right person. I have met so many men, but just hasn't met the right one yet. I am a good looking...
    lwf20 lwf20 26-30 Apr 8, 2012

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    Que... - I am wanting opinions from the women of this group... I have heard for years how hard it is to meet a good guy (dating, marriage) nowadays. How true is it? Is it as true...
    BlackSuperman BlackSuperman 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    I'm Totally Confused And Freaking Out... - There's this guy who I became friends with when we were both in serious relationships. He and I immediately hit it off and I knew there...
    QBexperience QBexperience 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2011

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    Finding A Great Guy Isn't Always The Problem... - I am at a point in my life where there are lots of changes. I want a great guy in my romantic life to be one of those changes, but...
    rockintosand rockintosand 18-21 Apr 2, 2012

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    Looking For Love...by A Lonely Nice Guy - hello, i am a married (but separated man) 40 years old .Who is currently a mess!! brokenhearted and  lost!my wife of 13 years is...
    Englishgent1970 Englishgent1970 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Men Men Men - wow i remember the time when a guy took you out and open car doors for a lady and talk to them on the phone for hours but today is all abot texting or getting...
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I Was Fooled - When I was a college freshman (not too long ago! Just graduated actually) I was timid and shy. I had trouble making friends and finding my niche at a school of 30,00...
    silver222 silver222 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    Where Have All The Cowboys Gone? - In reality I do not question or try to change my standards in what I look for in a great guy. But yet it seems they are so hard to find. Some, or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 7, 2012

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    Representative - It seems that the man I met and fell in love with just vanished.  He was perfect!!! Attentive, loving and romantic.  He took me on romantic picnics. Wrote me...
    angelash66 angelash66 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Real Advice From A Real Guy - Love is not destiny, there is no soul mate out there for you. No fate, no destiny, no fairytale prince. I'm sorry I'm not a gay-looking fruity vampire...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Never mind of it being hard to find a great guy, but it's difficult to find any good person nowadays. Male or female it's super challenging to find a decent and honestly kind...
    InexplicableKy InexplicableKy 18-21, F Jan 20

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    It Goes Both Ways! - While many girls wonder why its so hard to meet a great guy, there are as many or more men probably wondering the same about women. So the key is the MEET part...
    37ancountin 37ancountin 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Where Are All The Great Guys? - everyday i ask myself why i can't meet a great guy. i have been looking for years and the only guy to even go out with me treated me badly at the...
    darkfairydancer darkfairydancer 22-25, F 8 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Great Guys R Exist.but - first i don't know its okay to be in here or not coz i'm straight man so for sure i am not looking for a great guy .lol. but i thought u may need an answer...
    mgarhy mgarhy 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2011

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    This Is How You Find And Keep The Great Guy And Girl - You don't need to read a book, you don't need to attend a cheesy reality show and you certainly don't need Internet to find...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 5 Responses May 18, 2011

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    Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Nice Guy? - Every time I meet a guy, he tried to get me into bed. I don't sleep around so I don't do that. I do kiss them and maybe hang out at theirs...
    aicpj aicpj 26-30, F 20 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    But I Have Got Used To It - He might have passion and loyalty to be with you...but he doesnt have the lookhe might be very handsome...but hes either taken, a jerk or a guy who...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2011

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    Why?! - Guys trick u into thinking their one and then when you give them your heart, they crush it, rip it, and tear it just like the a-holes they are. I now see why females are...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    He Died At Calvary 2000 Years Ago......... - As human beings we are born into a fallen nature because we live in a fallen world.We all have issues of life that we carry around like...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Hola Amore - IM a single father of my two ear old beautiful son nicholas ryan.....People never gia man a good man like  a genuine gentleman a chance cause i love the Lord they...
    Riderz4Christ Riderz4Christ 31-35, M 2 Responses May 10, 2012

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    Not In The Big City - Difficult to meet good normal single men in NYC. Might have to move out of town or meet someone who just moved to the city. My friends try to hook me up with...
    Nuevahoja Nuevahoja 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    My Idea Of A Romantic Date - Sometimes, I think I should have been born decades before I actually was.  This becomes evident when one learns of a dream I have held for many years...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Perfect Mate Where Are You? - I really don't believe that people are perfect but I believe that each person is a perfect mate for someone. For someone I might be a 1 and...
    PartyForOne PartyForOne 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    I Never Get "the Final Rose" - Some girls meet guys so easily, and never have to deal with heartbreak their entire lives, while others (like me) are constantly torn apart...
    SingleInTheCity SingleInTheCity 26-30 3 Responses May 15, 2012

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    Wanted: A Companion More Than A Sex Partner - I will admit not everyone is into dating disabled people.  Further, I realize that few guys are into transgendered women.  But, that...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 2 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I Must Be Cursed... - I've always had terrible luck with keeping let alone finding a decent guy... Recently I met this guy about 10 min away from me and we really hit it off. I...
    sweetiepea sweetiepea 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    The Guy I Like Alot Is Moving To California. I Live On The East Coast. - I have liked this guy since the beginning of the school year when I met him and he had a gf at the time. So...
    allieKatee allieKatee 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2011

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    How Hard It Is ???.. A Man's Point Of View - I know I'm a guy, and what am I doing here? The subject HOW HARD IT IS? not so hard if women stop looking to hard could be right there...
    phantx phantx 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    Find Yourself First - Let's admit it, many of us have complained about not being able to find the right guy for us. It seems like we just always end up with the wrong ones; the...
    justbefree justbefree 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Never Been Kissed - I'm 18 years old and I've never been kissed and I'm okay with that. It's not that I wouldn't have liked to have already been kissed, but I just don't want to...
    Callsmehome Callsmehome 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    My Take On Why It's Hard To Meet Great People. - Why is it so hard to meet any great guys or girls? Even if you're just looking for a friend, things can seem so complicated and...
    Beanow Beanow 22-25, M 14 Responses May 5, 2011

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    "True Love Is Not That Hard To Find" - Before you conclude that what I am saying is crazy, please consider this: "What is love?" Love is not some mysterious force from...
    roadoflife roadoflife 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Honestly - It is very hard to meet guys.... period. I just don't know why. I haven't been on a date since 1994... that was with my ex-husband. The thought of meeting a guy back...
    DraygenD DraygenD 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    A Good Guy - Recently and I do mean very recently I began to talk to a man who had just moved to town...he said he was looking for a friend in a new town. We talked a little bit...
    ybg54 ybg54 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    Tired, But Not Giving Up... - Ah, where to begin? Well, I just recently went out on a date with a guy who asked me what was wrong with me that I was still single. He is abrupt...
    nickysix nickysix 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Trying Not To Complain So Much - To all the girls, just keep an open mind about guys like me. I'm not a super stud or a pretty boy, just a regular guy with no physical defects...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Lost Prince Charming - I am 23 and trying to find my "prince charming"! I am a hopeless romantic. I always went back to the saying "my prince charming got lost and is too stubborn...
    shiningstar13 shiningstar13 22-25, F Mar 28, 2012

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    Help I Found Him Again And Again I've Walked Away! - is there something wrong with me? has anyone ever been in this stage in their life as me now? what happens in the future?? and...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Good Guys Do Not Exist Nowadays - Only women alone, used much abused much especially if we are that GREAT. How do I know? I don't anybody wish my life.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 13 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
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    I don't think he understand or will understand. Me and my boyfriend were talking for a while before we started dating. He stopped talking a little in between because before we met...
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    So there are these two kids, siblings, named Lemonjello and Orangejello... They aren't pronounced lemon and orange jello, they have exotic sounding accents to make them seem like...
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M Apr 3

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    If I said I hated my life it'd be an under statement. After having all that I've ever wanted out of life twice & losing it all I'm pretty sure that there is no god or he hates me.
    micelord micelord 26-30 1 Response Apr 2

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    My name is Millennium. My twin sister was Galaxy. My older brother was Roswell.
    Samchezz Samchezz 13-15, F Apr 5

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    One day I'll snap and it will be so much fun!
    DrStrychnine DrStrychnine 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    FINISHED SCHOOL LIFE AND NOT A TEEN ANYMORE… JEEZ! It's crazy that I've been on Earth for 21 years now and I lived in the house I'm living in now for 21 years as well! Making me...
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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world.