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I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

share your own frustrations while we still struggle to find that perfect guy! 4,104 People

    Omg I feel like most of the guys here are great

    and awesome that I wish they were my brothers or guy friends with me!!! But it seem like I can't meet a great guy in real life!!! I want a great guy in real life to be my best friend!!! It's so hard!!!
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    This sounds so full of bs.

    The reality is most women are looking for a'holes(bad boys attraction). They do not even notice awesome guys and then they create groups like this. You dont meet great guys at the bar after two shots, great guys do not ask for a bj after the first meeting, great guys do not put...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 16

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    kaixin97 kaixin97 16-17, F 17 Responses Sep 21

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    Whilst I know that some of us just get all the

    cràp luck, I disagree with the title of this group entirely. For a start, it’s such a broad sweeping, negative statement to say that all the good men are gone, or the age old lament of ‘there are no good men to date’. Yes, the lovely gents do get snapped up, but plenty...
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 14 Responses Sep 29

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    A Great Guy Always Hurts

    Women say they want a great guy but they settle for the guys that make us look like the enemie. Speaking as I am a great guy, where r the great woman that no how to love n to treat a man.... No where. U say u want one but we just become second place....
    markfoxx markfoxx 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2011

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    I find this so frustrating

    when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit into the "normal catogory" that when you relise that you don't really mean what you say when you say you want a nice guy or a...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    "True Love Is Not That Hard To Find"

    Before you conclude that what I am saying is crazy, please consider this: "What is love?" Love is not some mysterious force from the "ether of the universe". Love instead, is an art, and a skill which needs to be learned just like any other skill in life. Before you can really...
    roadoflife roadoflife 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    I'll be there for you girl call me,

    anytime you need me. For real girl, it's me in your world, believe me! Nothing makes a man feel better than a women, queen with a crown that be down for whatever. There are few things that's forever, my lady, we can make war or make babies. Back when I was nothing, you made a...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    My Idea Of A Romantic Date

    Sometimes, I think I should have been born decades before I actually was.  This becomes evident when one learns of a dream I have held for many years. I really want to go on an old-fashioned romantic date with a man who will treat me completely like a woman.  This has nothing...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Tired, But Not Giving Up...

    Ah, where to begin? Well, I just recently went out on a date with a guy who asked me what was wrong with me that I was still single. He is abrupt bordering on rude. His conversation feels like an interview. For example, he will say, ". Why did your ex brreak up with you? Why...
    nickysix nickysix 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Hello girls add me I am always up

    for a chat with someone
    Scamp296 Scamp296 16-17, M Oct 16

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    I gave this guy a bj twice

    and hes 3 years older and hes the nicest ever and so cool and then he randomly strted ignoring me and so after two weeks, he txted to meet and we did but i had to leave so early and i still wanted to hang and talk so like ten mins later after i left, i said "sorry i had to leave...
    Lonelygirl2639 Lonelygirl2639 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 15

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    it is kindda hard you met someone

    and you thought he'll last forever but then he'll hurt you and leave you and you thought you can't live without him but it'll only take time for you to heal and you'll lie again and it'll happen the exact thin the happened b4 again and again until you really find a guy that is...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 21

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    I've had my share of bad experiences with men.

    Whether simply dating, or serious relationship. But what I've learned is that sometimes you have to go through, or deal with certain circumstances. All men are not bad. All men are not womanizers, liars, cheaters, abusive, etc. Life is all about "timing". Sometimes, you lose...
    BonnieProfound BonnieProfound 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    There are plenty of great guys out there And

    one thing that never happens is Treat them like their your prince and he'll treat you like a princess
    Chesher Chesher 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Find Yourself First

    Let's admit it, many of us have complained about not being able to find the right guy for us. It seems like we just always end up with the wrong ones; the liars, the cheaters, the wallet feeders, the losers, the 'one your parents hate', or the scumbag. We've probably all...
    justbefree justbefree 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    I'm seriously starting to think there's

    something wrong with me. I can't meet anyone, let alone someone great. I'm quite attractive, successfully and pretty easy going but I've only ever had one boyfriend, we were together 15 years until I found out he had been cheating on me and now I honestly don't know where/how...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    Honestly

    It is very hard to meet guys.... period. I just don't know why. I haven't been on a date since 1994... that was with my ex-husband. The thought of meeting a guy back then didn't even come to mind. It just happened even though they may not have been the greatest guy. I watch my...
    DraygenD DraygenD 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    My Take On Why It's Hard To Meet Great People.

    Why is it so hard to meet any great guys or girls? Even if you're just looking for a friend, things can seem so complicated and difficult. I've met some very special people in my life and found my way around to see the great people around me. Here's what I see as the biggest...
    Beanow Beanow 22-25, M 13 Responses May 5, 2011

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    How Hard It Is ???.. A Man's Point Of View

    I know I'm a guy, and what am I doing here? The subject HOW HARD IT IS? not so hard if women stop looking to hard could be right there in front of them. I was wondering the same thing years ago I'm a nice guy pretty decent looking WTF I said to myself maybe it was how I presented...
    phantx phantx 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    Real Advice From A Real Guy

    Love is not destiny, there is no soul mate out there for you. No fate, no destiny, no fairytale prince. I'm sorry I'm not a gay-looking fruity vampire and that the only way I can prove my love to you is not to make you a vampire for several godawful movies. Here it is: You aren...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    It isn't really I guess.

    i know plenty of great guys . They just aren't my type.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Nice Guy?

    Every time I meet a guy, he tried to get me into bed. I don't sleep around so I don't do that. I do kiss them and maybe hang out at theirs for a few hours but I don't sleep with them. They promise to ring but never do. One I met a few weeks ago I spoke to for hours, we kissed...
    aicpj aicpj 26-30, F 21 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    I have a question, what is a "great guy"?

    And are you trying to meet him, or waiting for him to meet you? These are honest questions
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 20

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    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    Well sometimes I feel like I always meet a jerk

    like I don't know why guys have to be so mean and rude to me after I get to know them. I just don't get that
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    That's easy but it's hard finding tall guys

    Who are great, funny and not old
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    To me its hard to find a guy

    who actually listens and cares. The whole pervy thing is old and repetitive and dont tell me what i wanna hear or nod your head like you understand when you dont. I want someone to talk and connect with on every level.
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    I know a lot of great guys,

    meet new-great guys everyday. Meeting your soulmate is a different topic all together.
    1976toes 1976toes 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I met who I thought was a great guy.

    He even said he loved me. Then he turned it around and said that he wanted to be friends with benefits and that even though he loved me he couldn't date me because he didn't want to hurt me. I'm sorry, but if you want to do ANYTHING with me/ to me, you're putting a ring on it...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    I found one, but he is taken

    as they usually are. I've tried dating sites and those are crap... So I shall take pride in being a feline-free spinster. It is the role I'm meant to play. I shall play it exquisitely!
    PersephoneStardust PersephoneStardust 31-35, F 31 Responses Sep 20

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    Never mind of it being hard to find a great guy,

    but it's difficult to find any good person nowadays. Male or female it's super challenging to find a decent and honestly kind person.
    InexplicableKy InexplicableKy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Kinda sounds sad right?

    I mean it's funny like sometimes I'll meet like a really cool guy and I think there so nice but once I get to know them. They turn out to be very mean and disrespectful to me in the end. It really sucks.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Oh yes it's so hard..

    is it that am looking at the wrong places..I want an intelligent,witty guy...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    It isn't. It's just that you women always go

    for those you like the look of rather than the content of a guys charecter!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I Was Fooled

    When I was a college freshman (not too long ago! Just graduated actually) I was timid and shy. I had trouble making friends and finding my niche at a school of 30,000 + people. None of my high school friends came to my college, and I had some bad experiances in middle school/high...
    silver222 silver222 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    In real life :/ Or is it

    that I'm too weird because I'm painfully shy and feels uncomfortable around people I find handsome. So I'll lash out using anger to hide these insecurities. As for the ones interested in me there's only two. One I a brand name product maniac, hermes, gucci and LV whom my mom...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    A Good Guy

    Recently and I do mean very recently I began to talk to a man who had just moved to town...he said he was looking for a friend in a new town. We talked a little bit via email and then we talked via text messages....(for an even shorter amount of time).  He started out seeming so...
    ybg54 ybg54 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2012

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    Timing is so horrible

    for me. My first relationship wasn't even a "relationship" because I told him I love him too early and he freaked out. Now I've finally met a better guy and he's taken which Really sucks cuz it seems like he likes me. I guess I'm just unlucky in love :(
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I'm an all or nothing person.

    Either they are ugly but have a great personality or attractive and is a crappy person or they just don't like me. XD Why can't I find a human that posses both traits that also likes me. I would be so happy. ( ._.)
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Why?!

    Guys trick u into thinking their one and then when you give them your heart, they crush it, rip it, and tear it just like the a-holes they are. I now see why females are switching teams to be with other females (I'm not that angry tho lol).
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    This Is How You Find And Keep The Great Guy And Girl

    You don't need to read a book, you don't need to attend a cheesy reality show and you certainly don't need Internet to find the one who is just right for you. THIS is what you need. 1. Know who you are (mostly find out your "flaws" and ways to better yourself) you will harvest...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 5 Responses May 18, 2011

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    I have been told that you cannot ask for something you cannot give. It is not settling it is reality. We would never be happy with anyone cause no one would be 'great' guy unless...
    filledspaces filledspaces 26-30, F Nov 5

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    very very difficult very RARE its a miracle to find one in a life cycle and sometimes u never get to meet any in your life
    dove9 dove9 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 4

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    I'm having so much trouble finding someone who will actually take time to get to know me. I know I am young but it is so frustrating. It seems like no one wants someone who's...
    bnay17 bnay17 22-25 1 Response Oct 28

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    that mood swing was fun. winder whats next? ohh I know now comes the rage! yay! I get to tell ppl where to go! lol ;)
    PsychoBitch69 PsychoBitch69 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Said with ULTIMATE sarcasm every time i come home from work :p
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F Nov 5

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    Wow 80% of the people here are disgusting low life scum who like little kids your the worst of the worst down right pieces of crap I wish I had the power to rid all you pedophiles...
    UpStateNyMom33 UpStateNyMom33 31-35, F Nov 18

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    After since Chris brown hit Rihanna. I'm not a fan of him. I don't care about him at all. He doesn't deserve to be a artist anymore. He a women beater. I can't believe women are...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 13