I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

share your own frustrations while we still struggle to find that perfect guy! 5,875 People

    I've had my share of bad experiences with men.

    Whether simply dating, or serious relationship. But what I've learned is that sometimes you have to go through, or deal with certain circumstances. All men are not bad. All men are not womanizers, liars, cheaters, abusive, etc. Life is all about "timing". Sometimes, you lose...
    BonnieProfound BonnieProfound
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2014
    jesikahluv jesikahluv
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 26, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    It is so crazy how you can like/love someone

    for such a long time. And when you finally come up to them they don't even know your name let long that you were in the same class since kindergarten.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 2, 2015

    I'm an all or nothing person.

    Either they are ugly but have a great personality or attractive and is a crappy person or they just don't like me. XD Why can't I find a human that posses both traits that also likes me. I would be so happy. ( ._.)
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    Tired, But Not Giving Up...

    Ah, where to begin? Well, I just recently went out on a date with a guy who asked me what was wrong with me that I was still single. He is abrupt bordering on rude. His conversation feels like an interview. For example, he will say, ". Why did your ex brreak up with you? Why...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Jun 19, 2012

    I don't think this is new,

    I think that the victims are just now be heard, unlike before; the volume of their cries and frustrations had been muted for a long long time and is still muted in many places. I think there's a conscious and deliberate effort regardless of gender, to go for what's popular than...
    lovegentle lovegentle
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    To me its hard to find a guy

    who actually listens and cares. The whole pervy thing is old and repetitive and dont tell me what i wanna hear or nod your head like you understand when you dont. I want someone to talk and connect with on every level.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    That's easy but it's hard finding tall guys

    Who are great, funny and not old
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    I am starting to believe it's my race that's

    preventing me from meeting someone. but I will not change a thing about myself so oh well.
    Itiswonderful Itiswonderful
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    Why?!

    Guys trick u into thinking their one and then when you give them your heart, they crush it, rip it, and tear it just like the a-holes they are. I now see why females are switching teams to be with other females (I'm not that angry tho lol).
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Dec 19, 2010

    I don't know if there is anything wrong with me.

    Why most of the guy message me are creepy person .
    Mrshouhou Mrshouhou
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    Here's what I want: Must not have had casual

    sex flings or using the internet for casual sex (preferably never had a one night stand) Must not use prn regularly in the relationship Must not flirt with other women Must not have pictures of glamour models etc on desktop/phone Must not talk about other women in a sexual...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 22, 2015

    it is kindda hard you met someone

    and you thought he'll last forever but then he'll hurt you and leave you and you thought you can't live without him but it'll only take time for you to heal and you'll lie again and it'll happen the exact thin the happened b4 again and again until you really find a guy that is...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Yeah.... Forget guys!

    !! Every guy I've met is just a rude person who only wants attention and to be "cool"
    secretlova secretlova
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 11

    This Is How You Find And Keep The Great Guy And Girl

    You don't need to read a book, you don't need to attend a cheesy reality show and you certainly don't need Internet to find the one who is just right for you. THIS is what you need. 1. Know who you are (mostly find out your "flaws" and ways to better yourself) you will harvest...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody
    18-21, F
    6 Responses May 18, 2011

    How Hard It Is ???.. A Man's Point Of View

    I know I'm a guy, and what am I doing here? The subject HOW HARD IT IS? not so hard if women stop looking to hard could be right there in front of them. I was wondering the same thing years ago I'm a nice guy pretty decent looking WTF I said to myself maybe it was how I presented...
    phantx phantx
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Dec 10, 2010

    I know a lot of great guys,

    meet new-great guys everyday. Meeting your soulmate is a different topic all together.
    1976toes 1976toes
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Omg I feel like most of the guys here are great

    and awesome that I wish they were my brothers or guy friends with me!!! But it seem like I can't meet a great guy in real life!!! I want a great guy in real life to be my best friend!!! It's so hard!!!
    FighterWolf FighterWolf
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    Find Yourself First

    Let's admit it, many of us have complained about not being able to find the right guy for us. It seems like we just always end up with the wrong ones; the liars, the cheaters, the wallet feeders, the losers, the 'one your parents hate', or the scumbag. We've probably all...
    justbefree justbefree
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Feb 28, 2012

    Real Advice From A Real Guy

    Love is not destiny, there is no soul mate out there for you. No fate, no destiny, no fairytale prince. I'm sorry I'm not a gay-looking fruity vampire and that the only way I can prove my love to you is not to make you a vampire for several godawful movies. Here it is: You aren...
    bgkok7 bgkok7
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    I can't believe how hard it is find a girl,

    jeeze. I mean, I always see girls flocking for the ********, the people who are going to treat them like trash, why? Because they have the bigger guns. *sigh* Whatever, guess I'll just stay here... Maybe someday?
    AuroraSkies665 AuroraSkies665
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    A Good Guy

    Recently and I do mean very recently I began to talk to a man who had just moved to town...he said he was looking for a friend in a new town. We talked a little bit via email and then we talked via text messages....(for an even shorter amount of time).  He started out seeming so...
    ybg54 ybg54
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2012

    Idk,it's like I always meet the wrong guys

    or I just don't meet anyone at all.I don't have much friends,or go out much so maybe that's why I never meet anyone Idk :/ No one is perfect ,but I just want someone that is for real and genuine
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 17
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    I don't know if i am the only one

    but the people i love they are never loving me back. It just hurts.
    Nikkixjansen Nikkixjansen
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    Timing is so horrible

    for me. My first relationship wasn't even a "relationship" because I told him I love him too early and he freaked out. Now I've finally met a better guy and he's taken which Really sucks cuz it seems like he likes me. I guess I'm just unlucky in love :(
    batjokes batjokes
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    My Take On Why It's Hard To Meet Great People.

    Why is it so hard to meet any great guys or girls? Even if you're just looking for a friend, things can seem so complicated and difficult. I've met some very special people in my life and found my way around to see the great people around me. Here's what I see as the biggest...
    Beanow Beanow
    22-25, M
    12 Responses May 5, 2011

    I want a guy who is wholesome.

    I want to know where they've been before.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2015

    A Great Guy Always Hurts

    Women say they want a great guy but they settle for the guys that make us look like the enemie. Speaking as I am a great guy, where r the great woman that no how to love n to treat a man.... No where. U say u want one but we just become second place....
    markfoxx markfoxx
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2011

    Honestly, where are they?

    On some unknown planet in another solar system? Come onnnnnn
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    Some says its painful to wait

    for someone , Some says its painful to forget someone , But i say the worst pain comes when you don't know whether to wait or to forget " It 's absolutely true
    imane15 imane15
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    here is where i'm at.

    .. i'm 16 years old, I've never had a boyfriend.. sure I had a few opportunities to have one, but I never fancied any of them.. I'm really shy when it comes to guys. and everybody tells me I'm cute and pretty.. and when i finally get enough courage to walk up to a guy i like, he...
    Relaxx9 Relaxx9
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I believe that there's a lot of good guys out

    there...somewhere?? but seriously, I haven't had any luck in finding any. To be realistic, I dont meet any new people as often as I like, which minimises the chances of meeting a good guy. But the question is, where would you meet someone nice???
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 3, 2015

    My Idea Of A Romantic Date

    Sometimes, I think I should have been born decades before I actually was.  This becomes evident when one learns of a dream I have held for many years. I really want to go on an old-fashioned romantic date with a man who will treat me completely like a woman.  This has nothing...
    betty3100 betty3100
    51-55, T
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2011

    There are plenty of great guys out there And

    one thing that never happens is Treat them like their your prince and he'll treat you like a princess
    Chesher Chesher
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    This sounds so full of bs.

    The reality is most women are looking for a'holes(bad boys attraction). They do not even notice awesome guys and then they create groups like this. You dont meet great guys at the bar after two shots, great guys do not ask for a bj after the first meeting, great guys do not put...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    Women, You must know how to identify a good

    man This is how: A good man has a good heart He thirsts to see justice in the world He may be bitter about all the suffering and wrong he discerns in the world It hurts him to see people suffering He wants to see the poor lifted out of poverty He is nice to children and old...
    Ajushi Ajushi
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2015

    I have struggled with this from day 1.

    I once met a guy who turned out to be my first love.. and he was truly the only person I have ever connected with... everyone else never comes close. then you meet more and more people who hurt you or in todays day and age - Just want sex. How the hell am I ever going to...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    "True Love Is Not That Hard To Find"

    Before you conclude that what I am saying is crazy, please consider this: "What is love?" Love is not some mysterious force from the "ether of the universe". Love instead, is an art, and a skill which needs to be learned just like any other skill in life. Before you can really...
    roadoflife roadoflife
    41-45
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    It isn't. It's just that you women always go

    for those you like the look of rather than the content of a guys charecter!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    Never mind of it being hard to find a great guy,

    but it's difficult to find any good person nowadays. Male or female it's super challenging to find a decent and honestly kind person.
    InexplicableKy InexplicableKy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    I gave this guy a bj twice

    and hes 3 years older and hes the nicest ever and so cool and then he randomly strted ignoring me and so after two weeks, he txted to meet and we did but i had to leave so early and i still wanted to hang and talk so like ten mins later after i left, i said "sorry i had to leave...
    Lonelygirl2639 Lonelygirl2639
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    Hello girls add me I am always up

    for a chat with someone
    Scamp296 Scamp296
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

    It became so difficult

    that I started playing for the other team rather than both. Now I'm happily taken by a beautiful woman. <3 But for the sake of straight girls that have no choice, guys, step up.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Nice Guy?

    Every time I meet a guy, he tried to get me into bed. I don't sleep around so I don't do that. I do kiss them and maybe hang out at theirs for a few hours but I don't sleep with them. They promise to ring but never do. One I met a few weeks ago I spoke to for hours, we kissed...
    aicpj aicpj
    26-30, F
    20 Responses Oct 17, 2010

    I find this so frustrating

    when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit into the "normal catogory" that when you relise that you don't really mean what you say when you say you want a nice guy or a...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

    I dream of a heart like my own a generous,

    intelligent loving person who was more focused on connection more than getting in my pants.
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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