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I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

share your own frustrations while we still struggle to find that perfect guy! 4,649 People

    Why?!

    Guys trick u into thinking their one and then when you give them your heart, they crush it, rip it, and tear it just like the a-holes they are. I now see why females are switching teams to be with other females (I'm not that angry tho lol).
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    This sounds so full of bs.

    The reality is most women are looking for a'holes(bad boys attraction). They do not even notice awesome guys and then they create groups like this. You dont meet great guys at the bar after two shots, great guys do not ask for a bj after the first meeting, great guys do not put...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    It isn't really I guess.

    i know plenty of great guys . They just aren't my type.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I believe that there's a lot of good guys out

    there...somewhere?? but seriously, I haven't had any luck in finding any. To be realistic, I dont meet any new people as often as I like, which minimises the chances of meeting a good guy. But the question is, where would you meet someone nice???
    mariya03 mariya03 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I'm an all or nothing person.

    Either they are ugly but have a great personality or attractive and is a crappy person or they just don't like me. XD Why can't I find a human that posses both traits that also likes me. I would be so happy. ( ._.)
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    Real Advice From A Real Guy

    Love is not destiny, there is no soul mate out there for you. No fate, no destiny, no fairytale prince. I'm sorry I'm not a gay-looking fruity vampire and that the only way I can prove my love to you is not to make you a vampire for several godawful movies. Here it is: You aren...
    bgkok7 bgkok7 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    Tired, But Not Giving Up...

    Ah, where to begin? Well, I just recently went out on a date with a guy who asked me what was wrong with me that I was still single. He is abrupt bordering on rude. His conversation feels like an interview. For example, he will say, ". Why did your ex brreak up with you? Why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    To me its hard to find a guy

    who actually listens and cares. The whole pervy thing is old and repetitive and dont tell me what i wanna hear or nod your head like you understand when you dont. I want someone to talk and connect with on every level.
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    A Good Guy

    Recently and I do mean very recently I began to talk to a man who had just moved to town...he said he was looking for a friend in a new town. We talked a little bit via email and then we talked via text messages....(for an even shorter amount of time).  He started out seeming so...
    ybg54 ybg54 31-35, F 2 Responses May 24, 2012

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    How Hard It Is ???.. A Man's Point Of View

    I know I'm a guy, and what am I doing here? The subject HOW HARD IT IS? not so hard if women stop looking to hard could be right there in front of them. I was wondering the same thing years ago I'm a nice guy pretty decent looking WTF I said to myself maybe it was how I presented...
    phantx phantx 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    kaixin97 kaixin97 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Nice Guy?

    Every time I meet a guy, he tried to get me into bed. I don't sleep around so I don't do that. I do kiss them and maybe hang out at theirs for a few hours but I don't sleep with them. They promise to ring but never do. One I met a few weeks ago I spoke to for hours, we kissed...
    aicpj aicpj 26-30, F 21 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    I want a guy who is wholesome.

    I want to know where they've been before.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Women, You must know how to identify a good

    man This is how: A good man has a good heart He thirsts to see justice in the world He may be bitter about all the suffering and wrong he discerns in the world It hurts him to see people suffering He wants to see the poor lifted out of poverty He is nice to children and old...
    Ajushi Ajushi 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I've had my share of bad experiences with men.

    Whether simply dating, or serious relationship. But what I've learned is that sometimes you have to go through, or deal with certain circumstances. All men are not bad. All men are not womanizers, liars, cheaters, abusive, etc. Life is all about "timing". Sometimes, you lose...
    BonnieProfound BonnieProfound 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Hello girls add me I am always up

    for a chat with someone
    Scamp296 Scamp296 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    Here's what I want: Must not have had casual

    sex flings or using the internet for casual sex (preferably never had a one night stand) Must not use prn regularly in the relationship Must not flirt with other women Must not have pictures of glamour models etc on desktop/phone Must not talk about other women in a sexual...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    There are plenty of great guys out there And

    one thing that never happens is Treat them like their your prince and he'll treat you like a princess
    Chesher Chesher 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21, 2014

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    I'm seriously starting to think there's

    something wrong with me. I can't meet anyone, let alone someone great. I'm quite attractive, successfully and pretty easy going but I've only ever had one boyfriend, we were together 15 years until I found out he had been cheating on me and now I honestly don't know where/how...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    Omg I feel like most of the guys here are great

    and awesome that I wish they were my brothers or guy friends with me!!! But it seem like I can't meet a great guy in real life!!! I want a great guy in real life to be my best friend!!! It's so hard!!!
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    Oh yes it's so hard..

    is it that am looking at the wrong places..I want an intelligent,witty guy...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    I know a lot of great guys,

    meet new-great guys everyday. Meeting your soulmate is a different topic all together.
    1976toes 1976toes 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    My Idea Of A Romantic Date

    Sometimes, I think I should have been born decades before I actually was.  This becomes evident when one learns of a dream I have held for many years. I really want to go on an old-fashioned romantic date with a man who will treat me completely like a woman.  This has nothing...
    betty3100 betty3100 51-55, T 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    I find this so frustrating

    when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit into the "normal catogory" that when you relise that you don't really mean what you say when you say you want a nice guy or a...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    I don't know if there is anything wrong with me.

    Why most of the guy message me are creepy person .
    Mrshouhou Mrshouhou 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I'll be there for you girl call me,

    anytime you need me. For real girl, it's me in your world, believe me! Nothing makes a man feel better than a women, queen with a crown that be down for whatever. There are few things that's forever, my lady, we can make war or make babies. Back when I was nothing, you made a...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Find Yourself First

    Let's admit it, many of us have complained about not being able to find the right guy for us. It seems like we just always end up with the wrong ones; the liars, the cheaters, the wallet feeders, the losers, the 'one your parents hate', or the scumbag. We've probably all...
    justbefree justbefree 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    I don't know if i am the only one

    but the people i love they are never loving me back. It just hurts.
    Nikkixjansen Nikkixjansen 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    A Great Guy Always Hurts

    Women say they want a great guy but they settle for the guys that make us look like the enemie. Speaking as I am a great guy, where r the great woman that no how to love n to treat a man.... No where. U say u want one but we just become second place....
    markfoxx markfoxx 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2011

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    "True Love Is Not That Hard To Find"

    Before you conclude that what I am saying is crazy, please consider this: "What is love?" Love is not some mysterious force from the "ether of the universe". Love instead, is an art, and a skill which needs to be learned just like any other skill in life. Before you can really...
    roadoflife roadoflife 41-45 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    I have a question, what is a "great guy"?

    And are you trying to meet him, or waiting for him to meet you? These are honest questions
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 20, 2014

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    Never mind of it being hard to find a great guy,

    but it's difficult to find any good person nowadays. Male or female it's super challenging to find a decent and honestly kind person.
    InexplicableKy InexplicableKy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    It isn't. It's just that you women always go

    for those you like the look of rather than the content of a guys charecter!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    Timing is so horrible

    for me. My first relationship wasn't even a "relationship" because I told him I love him too early and he freaked out. Now I've finally met a better guy and he's taken which Really sucks cuz it seems like he likes me. I guess I'm just unlucky in love :(
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    That's easy but it's hard finding tall guys

    Who are great, funny and not old
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    it is kindda hard you met someone

    and you thought he'll last forever but then he'll hurt you and leave you and you thought you can't live without him but it'll only take time for you to heal and you'll lie again and it'll happen the exact thin the happened b4 again and again until you really find a guy that is...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I gave this guy a bj twice

    and hes 3 years older and hes the nicest ever and so cool and then he randomly strted ignoring me and so after two weeks, he txted to meet and we did but i had to leave so early and i still wanted to hang and talk so like ten mins later after i left, i said "sorry i had to leave...
    Lonelygirl2639 Lonelygirl2639 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    This Is How You Find And Keep The Great Guy And Girl

    You don't need to read a book, you don't need to attend a cheesy reality show and you certainly don't need Internet to find the one who is just right for you. THIS is what you need. 1. Know who you are (mostly find out your "flaws" and ways to better yourself) you will harvest...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody 18-21, F 5 Responses May 18, 2011

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    Honestly

    It is very hard to meet guys.... period. I just don't know why. I haven't been on a date since 1994... that was with my ex-husband. The thought of meeting a guy back then didn't even come to mind. It just happened even though they may not have been the greatest guy. I watch my...
    DraygenS DraygenS 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    My Take On Why It's Hard To Meet Great People.

    Why is it so hard to meet any great guys or girls? Even if you're just looking for a friend, things can seem so complicated and difficult. I've met some very special people in my life and found my way around to see the great people around me. Here's what I see as the biggest...
    Beanow Beanow 22-25, M 12 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Or girl, really. It's hard for me to meet anyone I like, who likes me back. I don't even think my boyfriend really likes me. He just puts up with me because of my body.
    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Met a guy through a friend. We have a lot in common and after s month of hanging out with friends we decided to grab a drink. Thought we had a nice time, but when I ask when we're...
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Finding a good guy is so rare. So glad I found one. <3
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Stunned.  Alan, I can't believe you're gone. You suffered much and numbed what you couldnt deal with, inspired many, entertained and taught many. Humble, you knew too well...
    SteelButterfly SteelButterfly 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21