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I Can't Believe How Much That Hurt

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    Ugh

    I've had several boyfriends, but my longest relationship was with Gary, which lasted 4 yrs. Thing was I found out he cheated on me twice. I'm still slightly horrified because I thought I knew him very well, but I was wrong. But that's why I second guess peoples' actions...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    Me Neither

    It's just a head ache, yet it feels like it can definitely kill me!
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 3 Responses May 26, 2009

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    Ignorance Angers Me

    For the first time in my entire time being in school I had to physically remove myself from a classroom. After listening to the "To this day project" by Shane Koyczan, my teacher lead a discussion about depression and the affects of bullying. The ignorance, the self centered, the...
    sagesbones sagesbones 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2013

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    What a Shock!

    I still talk to my ex lover now and then...He's wanted to see me from time to time..However, he know's that I love my husband with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt our realtionship...Except for talking to him on the phone!  Imagine my suprise...to find out...
    tks tks 36-40, F 10 Responses May 26, 2009

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    Ouch

    In order of increasing intensity:   Two broken fingers with the fingernails ripped off.  Went numb for half an hour; didn't realize at first the nails were gone. A broken leg.  Amazing how much that didn't really hurt. A sprained ankle.  Hurt worse than...
    EBunbury EBunbury 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    so much pain for one human

    my body s shaking , my eyes r tearing , my heart pulse s raising i only treated him well , i did everthg i could do to be together , i always ve foregiven him he finally leaves me , surrendring to life he left me with no fight , he said he did hid best wat should i do to make u...
    utopialover utopialover 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10, 2013

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    Saline Drips Suck.

    Okay, so I recently was hospitalized and they had to put me on a saline drip. Now, I'm not afraid of needles, even when my father told me they were going to stick a 20 gage needle into my vein on the side of my wrist. I was pretty much out of it, so I didn't care at all. But...
    ArabellaBlythe ArabellaBlythe 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Lonely

    I just want to chat to someone ,nothing more, everything on the internet is about sex. I just want to exchange emails about life and find a friend.
    chattymartin chattymartin 46-50, M Feb 19, 2013

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    Just Joining The Group

    That is exactly what I think from time to time. There have been times when the world was so full of pain that all I wanted was to disappear. Sometimes it's even hard to believe how different the reality can seem, and then it seems the only way to look at things and the only way...
    GingerishMagic GingerishMagic 26-30, F Oct 17, 2012

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    Eyes

    Silently I turn my gaze to you. Our eyes lock and your smiled disappeared. You looked so happy but your eyes said different. I just want to reach out and hold you. To tell you your not alone. I couldn't stand to see you like that. You were as stubborn as a mule, yet you're still...
    WingedGuardian WingedGuardian 13-15, F Nov 25, 2010

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    Ouch,my Back!

     i was helping my seventy five year  old neighbor.he had a trash compactor he needed moved.so being the way i am,i said i would do it.i was going along fine.then,while i was toting this old 200 lb hep,the floor gave in.one leg went through,the other caught.and i fell...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Nov 2, 2009

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    WOW

    I was getting the kids ready to go out w/ the idiot and the baby came running up to me for a kiss. I guess her intentions were to put her hands on my face and squeeze my cheeks together but what she got was my throat. It's been almost a year since my surgery and you would think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm seriously starting to think there's something wrong with me. I can't meet anyone, let alone someone great. I'm quite attractive, successfully and pretty easy going but I've...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    I'll be there for you girl call me, anytime you need me. For real girl, it's me in your world, believe me! Nothing makes a man feel better than a women, queen with a crown that be...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I find this so frustrating when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    It isn't really I guess. i know plenty of great guys . They just aren't my type.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    how is it already september 1st... >.<
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M Sep 1

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    I have a question, what is a "great guy"? And are you trying to meet him, or waiting for him to meet you? These are honest questions
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I can't believed he is Gone... I felt its like a nightmare to think I cannot talk to him anymore and I cannot see him again the only left to me was his memories He is Gone now... I...
    modelrose modelrose 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    So the past year has been a lot of changes. 5 different jobs, homeless for 3 months, and finally settled into a new apartment. But I'm still just lost. Bouncing around, not knowing...
    Humming247 Humming247 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I can't see your face in my head. ..I can't remember you in a dream. . I've erased every file. ..I've burnt every letter......I've don't remember your words or hear your voice If...
    toehold toehold 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    My friend, knowing how self-conscious I am about my looks, had the audacity to say she wishes she wasn't so pretty because she's fed up with guys breaking her heart. She has...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    But I'm deciding to do so this "morning" because I can't sleep & won't be able to unless I get this off my chest. Long story short someone I deeply care about is finally going to...
    OBLiViOUS2YOU OBLiViOUS2YOU 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Don't just send me a 'hey let's chat' message simply because I have joined the 'I live in a sexless marriage' group. If you want to chat with me, it's going to take a bit more...
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    For the last month in a half I have been talking to this guy. We meet at an Anime Convention this summer and have not stopped talking. Every night we Skype and everyday we text...
    TobenaiTsubasa TobenaiTsubasa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    It's hard. But I eventually tell someone trustable about how I feel.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    1000's have died for the US so we can do things this and a lot more just think about it ok
    kenrj kenrj 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    To a man i havent even met!!! she tells me over the phone that she is engaged.
    krazzykay74 krazzykay74 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Shortly over a month ago, an old crush of mine committed suicide. He was someone who was very happy outwardly, very loved, very talented, and very successful in business. No one...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Sep 6

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    But i did. And regret. And recover. Plus compensate. Or pay it forward.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    I can't get over a guy I was seeing earlier this year. He was completely my type..his place was literally next to mine (no joke)! We had amazing sex and that's all I think about. I...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 5

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    I have had the most difficult year of my life. What was supposed to be a fresh start turned into a nightmare, one that I can't get out of. Moving overseas is not easy, you kinda...
    cursedswan cursedswan 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    Everybody would know the smile I s all for show but would anybody care I don't think I would dare to want to know would it stop the bulling or would it make it worst would my...
    BitchinBailz BitchinBailz 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    What should I do? We both want to be together but we can't because of my religion. I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and I can't show how I feel for him and I feel guilty even if...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I don't believe entirely that sufferment and pain bring teach us much. I believe they do other thing way better: they hurt us, they kill our spirit. They hurt so much that we can...
    Fernandotavares Fernandotavares 22-25, M Sep 4

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    My intention with this post isn't to be inflammatory, but to rather state what I believe and why. I don't think less of people who believe in god, in some ways I envy them. I don't...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I'm sorry-I seem to be saying those two words a lot lately, mostly in my mind. I wish I could say them to the people who deserve to hear it. The ones I care about....I've hurt them...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    "88% You love to binge until you can't eat anymore. sitting there gorging yourself. You spend most of your life eating." Pretty accurate
    Jungybrungen Jungybrungen 26-30, M 14 hrs ago

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    No, you'll never realise. I keep the pain under lock and key. You'll never know how much your words have scarred me. I'll put up with the pain so you can be happy. I'll pretend it...
    OsyriaRose OsyriaRose 16-17, F Sep 1

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I miss you so much most nights I can't breathe. The weirdest things make me cry. A song. A T-shirt. I see a face in a crowd and for a second it's yours before morphing into a...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I have often thought about the meaning of life, and have not really found any. First, let me apologize for any seemingly-snobbish moments, my intention is to reach out to...
    puppychair123 puppychair123 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    I just want all this hurting to stop :( how does my ex move on so fast whilst I constantly want to talk to her and be with her and comfort her :( I know they say if you love...
    leeroy100 leeroy100 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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