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I Can't Believe I Am In This Situation

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    For Real.

    Who does this happen to? Honestly. Let's see, in the past 10 months, the following has occurred in this order. *I got a new job. *I moved out of my house, leaving my husband. *I got laid off from my job. *I am on unemployment. *I had to give my car back. *I had to borrow money...
    harderthanithought harderthanithought 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Type of Girl

    i am the type of girl that always went for what she wanted. i never was the bite your tounge type. if you were in my life you had to be nice and fun and care about me, truly and sincerly. if i even got an inkling that you were not worthy of being in my life i cut you off. Now I...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    I Didn't Expect This - I Just Needed a Little Help

    I am a woman who went through a divorce and took a financial beating, then lost my job.  To make it financially, I rented a room in my place to a foreign student.  He was wonderful.  I did not let him know that I found him desirable, since he was very young and...
    Parispain Parispain 56-60, F 6 Responses May 2, 2009

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    Wasting My Youth For Someone Who Doesnt Care For Me Anymore....

    3 years ago I married my college sweatheart only one year after we started a relationship.  Although I loved her and felt she was the one that I can grow old with, neither of us were really ready to get married and knew that if we got married like this, and broke up it...
    PopNcorn PopNcorn 26-30 6 Responses Jan 14, 2009

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    I truly thought that I was helping him out.

    I didn't want to believe my neighbors or landlord when they would call/text me at work saying that there's alot of traffic in and out of my apartment while I'm at work. I'd get home and ask him who's been over today and he'd say nobody. So my neighbor set up a camera that was...
    bluNow14 bluNow14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    It's A Wednesday.

    But it's different. Not like the Wednesdays before. The girls are in their room being lazy, probably with their iPods in their faces or listening to music. I will have to go give hugs soon and maybe lure them out with something yummy, I think I have cookie mix. That's not what's...
    harderthanithought harderthanithought 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I can't believed he is Gone... I felt its like a nightmare to think I cannot talk to him anymore and I cannot see him again the only left to me was his memories He is Gone now... I...
    modelrose modelrose 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My friend, knowing how self-conscious I am about my looks, had the audacity to say she wishes she wasn't so pretty because she's fed up with guys breaking her heart. She has...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm seriously starting to think there's something wrong with me. I can't meet anyone, let alone someone great. I'm quite attractive, successfully and pretty easy going but I've...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    For the last month in a half I have been talking to this guy. We meet at an Anime Convention this summer and have not stopped talking. Every night we Skype and everyday we text...
    TobenaiTsubasa TobenaiTsubasa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Don't just send me a 'hey let's chat' message simply because I have joined the 'I live in a sexless marriage' group. If you want to chat with me, it's going to take a bit more...
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'll be there for you girl call me, anytime you need me. For real girl, it's me in your world, believe me! Nothing makes a man feel better than a women, queen with a crown that be...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I find this so frustrating when girls say this there are so many guys just begging to meet use but most of the time you wouldn't give us the time of day just because we don't fit...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    It isn't really I guess. i know plenty of great guys . They just aren't my type.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    1000's have died for the US so we can do things this and a lot more just think about it ok
    kenrj kenrj 51-55, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have a question, what is a "great guy"? And are you trying to meet him, or waiting for him to meet you? These are honest questions
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    how is it already september 1st... >.<
    CURRYXBLAZE CURRYXBLAZE 18-21, M Sep 1

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    To a man i havent even met!!! she tells me over the phone that she is engaged.
    krazzykay74 krazzykay74 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Shortly over a month ago, an old crush of mine committed suicide. He was someone who was very happy outwardly, very loved, very talented, and very successful in business. No one...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Sep 6

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    But i did. And regret. And recover. Plus compensate. Or pay it forward.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M a week ago

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I can't get over a guy I was seeing earlier this year. He was completely my type..his place was literally next to mine (no joke)! We had amazing sex and that's all I think about. I...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 5

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    My intention with this post isn't to be inflammatory, but to rather state what I believe and why. I don't think less of people who believe in god, in some ways I envy them. I don't...
    dontknowmylife dontknowmylife 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    This is a song by Dido and it very nicely describes how I feel about love. How I am capable of falling in love deeply yet I hold myself back for my own good. "Don't Believe In...
    daeneryss daeneryss 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I try. It get's so frustrating to continue to try to do things that you know you are going to fail at. I was diagnosed with Adult Onset ADD when I returned to college at 25. I...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F Sep 8

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    I just like this guy so much. I love every single thing about him, and I know he may not be the most handsome guy in the world, but he is just perfect to me. I like him so much it...
    xdropsofjupiter xdropsofjupiter 18-21, F a week ago

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    I grew up without a father and yet I was never really one of those kids that questioned why. When I was seven, my mother met my step father. At first he floated into our lives and...
    Ditzstressed Ditzstressed 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation phase when it comes time to...
    TheDiscardedImage TheDiscardedImage 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    it really sucks to be so alone all the time, but what really ****** me off is when I tell someone a little bit of what is going on and they tell someone else and it gets twisted...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I swear, THE most annoying thing in my life is battling against the preaching of god believers. Why can't we just be peaceful in the silence of our disagreement? I don't believe...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Over the weekend, a few friends and I rented a campsite to commemorate the summer. Due to several of the people either getting sick or becoming unable to attend, it ended up being...
    theanonwriter theanonwriter 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Not A Bit i do believe in the the non-existence of Aliens (not the illegal ones, the "take me to your leader" / @n@l-probe aliens.) and saying that.... i firmly plant my head in...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Good guys finish last? Nope, don't think so. There's a misconception that "good guys" are generally idiots, just because we're kind doesn't mean were idiots. I hate it when people...
    TheTrueStory TheTrueStory 70+ 3 days ago

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    I'm sorry-I seem to be saying those two words a lot lately, mostly in my mind. I wish I could say them to the people who deserve to hear it. The ones I care about....I've hurt them...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Sometimes i wonder if my ex have cast a curse on me, probably not voluntary but I remember so clearly when i broke up With her... Her saying to me that I will never find someone...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I can't figure what I want or why others enjoy or feel strongly about whatever it is that gets them going. I'm not unhappy. I simply live. Ambition or lack thereof seem like 2...
    wonkadood wonkadood 26-30, M Aug 26

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    NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU DO AND DON'T BELIEVE IN c:
    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    "Listen, here's what I think. I think that we can't go around measuring our goodness by what we don't do.......By what we deny ourselves, what we resist, and who we exclude. I...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    You don't notice much about me anymore. I'm your daughter. You should be the first to see what's wrong. But you don't. You don't see the despair in my eyes or the tears on my face...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I feel so alone. I know it seems cliched to say these words but its true. I'm surrounded by so many people that say they love me, so why can't I feel loved? It's not like I'm an...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    Alright, more about me besides my fetish. It is almost 4am and I can't sleep. It's not the "I can't turn off my computer therefore I can't sleep," it's "I have been lying in bed...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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