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I Can't Believe People When They Compliment Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12 People

    Especially When I'm Depressed.

    I tend to think people are making a fool of me or patronising me when I am complimented in any way, whether it is for my so-called 'talent' or for my looks or something else. Sometimes I don't even realise that people compliment me because either I am too focused on the negative...
    lntel lntel 22-25 Apr 26, 2012

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    They Can't Be Tellign The Truth

    They must be lying to spare my feelings or try to impress me to get what they want or something. I often argue with them telling them they are crazy and pointing out all the things that in my eyes make them wrong. I have learned not to argue so much and just accept a compliment...
    kzoodiana kzoodiana 36-40, F Apr 26, 2012

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