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I Can't Change My Past But I Can Change My Underwear

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    Change Is Good

    i believe change is good for thoughs who want to really change, but what do you do about the sex police, who say you cant go nude on a public beach?
    sam4fun2010 sam4fun2010 70+, M Jul 1, 2010

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    Aheem

    I guess i never thought of it that way!
    carriewpd carriewpd 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2010

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    If Only Life Changes Were So Easy

     Clean underwear is a given. Changing the past is impossible.  
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    And...

    Some of the stuff that happened in my past made me crap my pants... so it's a good thing I can change that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 16, 2011

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    Pfff

    Yeah can't change it, but I can learn from it. Thank god I change my underwear everyday though eh.. damn if I left it, it would end up stinking just like my past =)
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F Sep 27, 2010

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    Change

    Too bad I can't change my past and thank goodness I can change my underwears every day!  I gotta smell like roses down there. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 18, 2011

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    Smart *** comment but what the hell.

    Just because I can, doesn't mean I have to. Lol
    Ilikepi314 Ilikepi314 31-35, M Mar 9, 2014

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    If...

    And that is a mighty big if I decide to wear panties on any given day.  After all I am a harlot and all lol.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    Scary

    Sometimes my past make me think I have to change my underware.
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    Now And Later

    I'm twenty-sever year old woman that has mild aspbergers ironically I'm also an adult entertainer. I started stripping in order to support my father when he got out of prison for his sixth DUI. My "father" introduced me to who I call now my ex-husband. I did not understand what...
    Dawn913 Dawn913 26-30, F Nov 22, 2012

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    **giggles**

    ...... If I wore underwear.... (^_^)
    EffectsHer EffectsHer 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    Hope So

    Well, the past obviously can't be changed, and I have underwear that I can change... This holds true to me, and I hope you can't time travel, and you might change your underwear, it's not my place to judge.
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Jan 29, 2010

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    Inside-out, Back-to-front, And Back-to-front Inside-out

    and i call them underpants. as for the metaphor behind this, i would say that i tend to perseverate on unfavourable events/people/situations rather than letting them go and forgetting about them.
    scratchedxthornxwrists scratchedxthornxwrists 36-40, F Jul 30, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Its the truth and as long as its true, I am good. My past has some major things in it I would love to change but I can't. I can, however, change my underwear and make my own food...
    garionrox garionrox 51-55 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I honestly know that what has happened to me in the past cannot be changed but, it's preventing me from moving on. I'm struggling 24/7 here. I'm meant to forgive and forget, accept...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F Jan 10

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    Ran across this poem I wrote just before my divorce. Nice to know that is not me any more. In the darkness I curl up…. It covers me and shields me from the memories The words...
    sckimmy sckimmy 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    01. I wish I never gave him a chance to get back in my life... he made a fool outta me... I pray to god that time heals faster and I forget who he even is, it's like he never...
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller 26-30, F Jan 11

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    Life is all about making mistakes or bad choices because you wanted to. Dealing with the consequences. Learning from the conclusions.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 11

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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    It's kind of a strange situation, that probably requires a whole lot more back story than I'm willing to give it. Consequently, this will probably be a bit short, a bit rambling...
    LostInCode LostInCode 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Sometimes I just don't understand. I never end up with the person I really like. Either there's always someone else or I'm just not good enough. But what about when someone leads...
    blackspikex blackspikex 18-21, F a week ago

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    Literally, I can't. I just want to go to sleep and I can't stop making myself miserable. I can't stop sobbing. I can't turn off my brain. I can't stop thinking. I can't stop...
    findmewhydoncha findmewhydoncha 18-21 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I just can't do it... I can't lie even if I know nobody would ever know the truth of it. And I love living that way. I don't see anything wrong if someone can't lie. Isn't it...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    As I sit here drinking my tea I wonder, wonder about what is right andwhat is unjust. Many people only think of themselves in this "the strongest survive" kindof world. They say...
    Bluetoxicity Bluetoxicity 18-21, F a week ago

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    You are so perfect!! Every sentence u say is meaningful!! You care about feelings although I'm not the only one, but I feel satisfied!! Thank u and I really love u, but I can't...
    Borika Borika 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Has anyone noticed that when someone lies to you, you are less likely to believe anything else they say. Then when they tell the truth finally, you just can't trust them, but if...
    MountainDew365 MountainDew365 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I'm all out of time machines so nothing I can do with the past as much as I continue to regret letting my life be controlled by others, falling into group homes to be treated...
    DarkPhoenix1985 DarkPhoenix1985 26-30, M Dec 27, 2014

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    She wanted to rid herself of the past, rid herself of the weight being carried around every day. Never have been one to share true raw emotions with others, but rather smile and...
    JustAGirLinAbaR JustAGirLinAbaR 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was attracted to a man that worked with my dad when I was very young, people already in relationships, certain relatives. NOT NORMAL and very frustrating. And I have a hard time...
    Tabooyou24 Tabooyou24 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I have no such regrets of my past. They made me who I am today, but I do regret some of the decisions I made in my past. Missed opportunities. Could have had the love of my life...
    Dictatorse Dictatorse 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Everything started when I was in eighth grade, in gym class. There were three girls who thought that every guy in the class was supposed to crawl to them, only to get their hearts...
    gay4ever gay4ever 16-17, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I have been sitting down and observing the non existent relations ship I have with the father of my child.Its been 2 months since he left me and occasionally i go over to his house...
    grabamic828 grabamic828 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Haven't heard a word silence heavy compounds building up pressing down moments feel like years magnified by fears Trying to escape this constant ache Trying desperately to fill...
    LittleBirds0827 LittleBirds0827 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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    No matter what changes I made to my self or the way I live, I can not change how things are in my life, or how they are going. I have been single all my life, never was a girl...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I've begun to realize that I am my own worst enemy. I'm surrounded by blessings and people that love me but I still look elsewhere. Am I being selfish or just taking everything I...
    darkspace26 darkspace26 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Me and my ex broke off our relationship 5 years ago but it still feels like that I can't let him go. The thing is, I was not exactly a good partner. I was an emotionally abusive...
    Xlen Xlen 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    It seems that I care to much of how people think of me, regret too much of my past. Look at how people react to what I say and when It doesn't turn out the why I wanted, I would...
    InsanelyCrazy InsanelyCrazy 13-15, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Marry meet everyone, Its been a long time since i posted anything on here. Well let me begin. I am still with my boyfriend, and we are about to make it our first year together...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I used to be a television and movie fanatic, but I can't do it anymore. I just can't. Within these past couple of days, I've just realized how bored I get and I'd rather read a...
    obscureriddle obscureriddle 22-25, F Jan 1

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    I can't sleep because I'm excited for tomorrow. I'll be at home alone with my sister. I won't have my guardian breathing down my neck. I really hate her. I don't think i'll sleep...
    ImYourLady ImYourLady 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    She was super controlling, hit me when I was a kid, ignored me about the guy molesting me (ignored how sexual I was and how much I knew about it), ignored me when I started losing...
    ccccalico ccccalico 36-40, F Jan 9

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    Over the past few months I've developed a friendship with a girl I see everyday working at a local coffee shop. I'd seen her working there for a year or so, but one day she said...
    musicman1975 musicman1975 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Sometimes I wonder what is the point of me. I can't remember the last time I felt truly wanted. I know I have family and friends that love me, and I know they would be there for me...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    I am so hopelessly in love with this guy I met a little over a year ago. I met him through a friend and since then we have really bonded and gotten close. He tells me things he has...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    I think I'm falling hard for someone from my past who has caught up with me. We both came full circle but the worst part was the fact that we had so many opportunities before to...
    Dannie92 Dannie92 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Guys, this is going to be dark. So if you're in a merry mood please do not read on. 2014 has been SUCKY. It was a annus horibillis. Late 2013, made me see a layoff in my company...
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