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I Cant Change the Past But I Can Change My Future

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    I am a widow at the age of 25.

    I lost my husband almost 2 months ago every day is a step closer to find serenity and knowing I cannot change the past and only move forward into the future. I truly miss my husband everyday. He will never be forgotten
    frankiejo frankiejo 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    My Futures So Bright I Have to Wear Shades

    I can’t change what happened yesterday.  Heck I can’t even change what happened a moment ago but if I learned from it and I became a better person that is all that matters.  I have this personal philosophy that every person we meet is in our lives for a...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 38 Responses May 8, 2008

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    Strange But True!

    The past is all the water that's floated under the bridge. The bridge is the here and now present. As you stand upon, and, gaze from the bridge you look into your future. The only way to change your future for the best is to begin creating a brighter much better one. Learn from...
    01Joe9 01Joe9 41-45, M 8 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Kaitlyn262 Kaitlyn262 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Im a recovered bulimic.

    I'm ashamed about what I've done to my body. I'm proud about what I've overcome though
    bradley1234567890 bradley1234567890 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 27

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    sometimes we tend to take

    for granted those people around us for the reason that they won't leave us , only to found out that when they are gone.... we realize that it's not easy to live without them...
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    A while ago I asked a question on here: “Is

    it even worth trying to quit an addiction if said addiction is one of the few sources of joy in your life?” Well, I am now addiction-free. There is not a single thing I do that I can even remotely qualify as 'unhealthy'. As a side-effect, an expected one, my life is now...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I know everything happens

    for a reason but sometimes i wish i knew what that reason was...
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    I Am A Survivor

    Sexual abuse, neglect, rejection, verbal bashing, discrimination, drug abuse, alcoholism....u name it ive probably been there and done that. My latest episode had to have been my strongest and most significant. I was 17 years old, leavin on the streets, selling drugs and...
    Wanascream813 Wanascream813 18-21, F 104 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    You have to die a few times

    before you can really live. -Charles Bukowski
    Solovey Solovey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 19 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Living By My Own Rules Now...

    My entire life I have done whatever I can to make everyone around me happy. I have been taken advantage of, abused, raped, and left for broken. I have given up my dreams to support those around me and help them achieve theirs. I don't think there was a time in my past, where I...
    brokenangel913 brokenangel913 41-45, F 96 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 5 Responses May 16, 2014

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    My parents are drug addicts.

    I spent my life watching meth destroy peoples lives. And mine. But I strive to be like my sister. She's currently in college with two jobs and still finds time to help my brother and I. I can't wait until I'm out if here and choosing my own path.
    Bearcookie Bearcookie 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I was physically and mentally abused by my bio

    mom until i was 15. I'm 17 now and I'm living my life with an attitude that will destroy the abuse cycle.
    BcopleyD BcopleyD 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Its common sense. Even if/when time travel

    existed, you either wouldnt be able to change the past at all or you wouldnt be able to without the present being altered as well.
    AnAnonymousPanda AnAnonymousPanda 16-17, M Mar 10

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    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Every time i think about you,

    i have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me you would.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 5 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    There are some people

    that we have to keep distance, it's not because you hate them or you don't like them. It's because we know it's the best thing to do.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    We've all done what we've done

    and had happen to us what has happened to us. None of us can do a thing about what was. We only have power over what is. We choose how we treat people, how we look at the world, and how we react to what is happening to us in the present. This will determine what our futures...
    curiousinomaha3 curiousinomaha3 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 23

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    im loving a person who cant love me back </3

    its sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hurt ),:
    crazytwentytwo crazytwentytwo 16-17, F Mar 5

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    Words Of Wisdom

    I was watching "The Voice", one of the contestant had been stalled in his career by a depressive illness,he had a wonderful voice and all four coaches turned around,one of the coaches shared his own story about having suffered with depression and another came out with these...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Out of my head out of my brain.

    I don't want your negative thoughts to poison me. You were just a pawn in this game of life. You failed to maneuver through the board. You didn't want to fight the knights that guarded victory.so you clinged on to another full of deceit. And you brought me along, when I wanted a...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 2 Responses Feb 27

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    It's True.

    This is a concept that most people forget on a daily basis. You can't change the past--a minute ago, included, is the past. So what if you can't change it? That just means you have to push forward and make the future better. I need to remember this, myself. I may not be able to...
    Shebby88 Shebby88 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    20 000 Words A Day An Most Of Them Defamatory.

    (For those of us who beat down on ourselves) We speak to ourselves all the time. Most days we direct around 20 000 words at ourselves. Of these,nearly all are negative. We keep feeding our mind with negative dialogue. How long would you expect to keep a friend, if you did the...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Never go into a relationship

    that you can't handle with the strongest storm and tightest schedule... "Remember boys are not toys" "Love is not a game" If you can't stand with men's moodiness and men's questions, don't love one. Never blame a boy for loving you and caring you too much...!!!
    AlphaLion AlphaLion 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    How can you change something

    that isn't defined yet, such as future? Every action, even thought can change your whole life. As long as you make decisions, your future is as blank as it could ever be. I would rather name this topic 'I cant change the past, but I'm stil in control of my future.
    arenxus arenxus 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I have no such regrets of my past.

    They made me who I am today, but I do regret some of the decisions I made in my past. Missed opportunities. Could have had the love of my life today if only I had not behaved like a ****. Could have focused on a lot of things, but it's okay. I believe it was meant to happen...
    Dictatorse Dictatorse 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 10

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    Omg today is one of those nights i just have a

    lot of memories on my mind pls god help me, i don't want to cry 2night i was no feeling any pain until 2night :'( :'(
    fresa87 fresa87 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I understand that I messed up in my life

    and I can't go back and that kills me honestly and their are lots of things I wish I could change but I try to look on the bright side but I feel like their is only darkness now the only light in my life is that I have friends her as a friend I think she can always help me and I...
    shyguy747 shyguy747 13-15, M Mar 11

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    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23

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    Some of you know of me some of you do not.

    . I will tell you a little about me,First of all Merry Christmas..mine is not the best but will get too that..when I was young I got mental abuse Daily as far back as I can Remember. physical some Ya my Dad punched me in the face several occasions and If I cried well then I was...
    livinkarma livinkarma 41-45, M 12 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Im a girl Loving a man

    who cant Love me back ),: im a chiLdish super friendLy cute Lovely girL uggh im sweet im asking if whats wrong with ME ? why he cant LOVE me Like do why he cant care for me Like i aLways do for him ? ),:
    crazytwentytwo crazytwentytwo 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    No Regrets. The key to happiness is to always

    be looking forward while moving forward. It is important to pause and look back once in a while to learn from our mistakes or errors in judgement. We should also look back on the good to appreciate all that happened to make us who we are. By reflecting on the past, we can...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    "It occurred to me that there was no difference

    between men, in intelligence or race, so profound as the difference between the sick and the well." - Nick Carraway
    AlphaLion AlphaLion 22-25, M Mar 5

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    A Message To Mulkie....

    I used to carry a lot of baggage, I still do. I used to consider I had a "dark heart", and sometimes, I still do. I consider myself a "realist" who sees things for what they are. But my baggage is now overflowing, and now I realize that I have to lay it down. I have to learn...
    mulkie mulkie 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    i have sell my kidney

    for money 70,00,000/- so i have sold my kidney my blood group o+ pls call me 9560889990
    ajit20 ajit20 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I Hope

    My immediate past has been hell and most of it I screwed up all by myself. Some days I'm obsessed with thoughts of my past mistakes and I can't focus on today. I'm having a hard time forgiving myself and some days I think that I may never forgive me. It all sounds so easy but it...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 29 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    21 Days Sober - Don't miss Alcohol a bit!

    ! FREEDOM!! Change your mind, Change your life!
    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 7 Responses May 28, 2014

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    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Betrayed

    I believe that each one of us has their own troubles and I too had my fair share of it as well. I had been betrayed by the person whom I had loved and treasured the most in my life. He spun a lie and distributed my photos without my permission and without even knowing it , I...
    Debbiechan Debbiechan 22-25, F 41 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    I have loved in life

    and I have been loved. I have drunk the bowl of poison from the hands of love as nectar, and have been raised above life's joy and sorrow. My heart, aflame in love, set afire every heart that came in touch with it. My heart has been rent and joined again; My heart has been...
    AlphaLion AlphaLion 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Something just struck a tone with me i just had

    spoken to a girl on here that experienced the same traumatic breakup I have experienced years ago and I've learned that I was a very lonely insecure girl who needed help with her future but didn't get it no one had taken interest in me and that is why I let this creep take over...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F Mar 1

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    There is something not quite right about me.

    I'm sure lots of people say this and you just think 'Yeah well nobody's perfect..' But I actually think there is something quite wrong with me in terms of my head. It's a strange way to start an experience like this but I guess that's just my style of writing. I can't really...
    KilljoyKitty KilljoyKitty 18-21 4 Responses a week ago

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    Last July I started to break up with this guy,

    and in his twisted mind he thought raping me would bring me back. I got through it and months later I thought I could completely block him from my life and move on. By fall I thought I could start dating again, and did. Sweetest guy in the world, and besides a few small quirks...
    Anon787 Anon787 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 2

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