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I Cant Change the Past But I Can Change My Future

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    It's all my fault you are acting like this now.

    You don't need to be him, you don't need to look like him, you don't need to copy him nor be one of the guys like him. Baby, you're one of a kind, I have told you back then. But each time and day you change, I don't see the person that I loved and still love so much deep inside...
    RoselynnPila RoselynnPila 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The days seem longer.

    Time seems to be slipping away. The walk seems almost unbearable. Not to mention your feet are starting to hurt. At this point you are completely exhausted. Your mind is telling you, you MUST continue but your feet are saying JUST GIVE UP! This can easily be interpreted as our...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    There is something not quite right about me.

    I'm sure lots of people say this and you just think 'Yeah well nobody's perfect..' But I actually think there is something quite wrong with me in terms of my head. It's a strange way to start an experience like this but I guess that's just my style of writing. I can't really...
    KilljoyKitty KilljoyKitty 18-21 6 Responses Mar 20

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    21 Days Sober - Don't miss Alcohol a bit!

    ! FREEDOM!! Change your mind, Change your life!
    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 7 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Love yourself first!

    BEFORE anyone else
    H2Toe H2Toe 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Betrayed

    I believe that each one of us has their own troubles and I too had my fair share of it as well. I had been betrayed by the person whom I had loved and treasured the most in my life. He spun a lie and distributed my photos without my permission and without even knowing it , I...
    Debbiechan Debbiechan 22-25, F 40 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    A Message To Mulkie....

    I used to carry a lot of baggage, I still do. I used to consider I had a "dark heart", and sometimes, I still do. I consider myself a "realist" who sees things for what they are. But my baggage is now overflowing, and now I realize that I have to lay it down. I have to learn...
    mulkie mulkie 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    bhardwaj21 bhardwaj21 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    Never go into a relationship

    that you can't handle with the strongest storm and tightest schedule... "Remember boys are not toys" "Love is not a game" If you can't stand with men's moodiness and men's questions, don't love one. Never blame a boy for loving you and caring you too much...!!!
    AlphaLion AlphaLion 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    i have sell my kidney

    for money 70,00,000/- so i have sold my kidney my blood group o+ pls call me 9560889990
    ajit20 ajit20 26-30, M Mar 23

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    All I can do is accept my past,

    I'm now focused on making my future
    alexentre alexentre 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    My Futures So Bright I Have to Wear Shades

    I can’t change what happened yesterday.  Heck I can’t even change what happened a moment ago but if I learned from it and I became a better person that is all that matters.  I have this personal philosophy that every person we meet is in our lives for a...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 38 Responses May 8, 2008

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 19 Responses May 22, 2014

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    My wife left about 9 months ago,

    I tried everything to convince her not to do this to us. We have to boys 5 & 8. So she has been doing whatever she wants. I have heard her tell me everything you could imagine when a woman is against a man she don't want to be with. It has been a long hard ride. I just started...
    manoeste manoeste 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I am a widow at the age of 25.

    I lost my husband almost 2 months ago every day is a step closer to find serenity and knowing I cannot change the past and only move forward into the future. I truly miss my husband everyday. He will never be forgotten
    frankiejo frankiejo 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    EP Friends ... Some of you know I've been

    struggling for years to find lasting improvement in my marriage. Sadly, our more recent issues are not improving. At our last counseling session my wife agreed when the counselor suggested we need to be in weekly sessions. To help make this happen and survive it in midst...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 14 Responses Mar 29

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    i love indian movies ,

    english movies ,pushto songs and want traveling to all over the world
    zaryab00 zaryab00 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    20 000 Words A Day An Most Of Them Defamatory.

    (For those of us who beat down on ourselves) We speak to ourselves all the time. Most days we direct around 20 000 words at ourselves. Of these,nearly all are negative. We keep feeding our mind with negative dialogue. How long would you expect to keep a friend, if you did the...
    berangere berangere 66-70, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    sometimes we tend to take

    for granted those people around us for the reason that they won't leave us , only to found out that when they are gone.... we realize that it's not easy to live without them...
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 5 Responses May 16, 2014

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    Some of you know of me some of you do not.

    . I will tell you a little about me,First of all Merry Christmas..mine is not the best but will get too that..when I was young I got mental abuse Daily as far back as I can Remember. physical some Ya my Dad punched me in the face several occasions and If I cried well then I was...
    livinkarma livinkarma 41-45, M 12 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    You have to die a few times

    before you can really live. -Charles Bukowski
    Solovey Solovey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    I have no such regrets of my past.

    They made me who I am today, but I do regret some of the decisions I made in my past. Missed opportunities. Could have had the love of my life today if only I had not behaved like a ****. Could have focused on a lot of things, but it's okay. I believe it was meant to happen...
    Dictatorse Dictatorse 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 10

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    ncskiguy78 ncskiguy78 36-40, M 5 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    It's True.

    This is a concept that most people forget on a daily basis. You can't change the past--a minute ago, included, is the past. So what if you can't change it? That just means you have to push forward and make the future better. I need to remember this, myself. I may not be able to...
    Shebby88 Shebby88 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 9, 2012

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    For quite some time now I have been struggling

    with an over riding sense of unhappiness with the state of things in my life, starting with the long term issues in my marriage.  I’ve been internally shying away from seeing this as a male mid-life crisis, due to the fact I’m not doing any of the stereotypical...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 8 Responses Mar 23

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    My parents are drug addicts.

    I spent my life watching meth destroy peoples lives. And mine. But I strive to be like my sister. She's currently in college with two jobs and still finds time to help my brother and I. I can't wait until I'm out if here and choosing my own path.
    Bearcookie Bearcookie 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Stop Seeking For Love From Others

    I've recently taken off my online dating profile, to prevent myself from further disappointments. One incident in particular, I went on 5 dates with a guy I met online and thought it was a beginning of something special or it could just be wishful thinking on my part. He may...
    WCindy WCindy 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Kaitlyn262 Kaitlyn262 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Strange But True!

    The past is all the water that's floated under the bridge. The bridge is the here and now present. As you stand upon, and, gaze from the bridge you look into your future. The only way to change your future for the best is to begin creating a brighter much better one. Learn from...
    01Joe9 01Joe9 41-45, M 8 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    I need some new friends

    because I am new in metoo
    waqqarsyed waqqarsyed 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I had a best friend that hurt me

    so much. I was emotionally hurt, I was emotionally affected. I never thought getting into high school was like a life risk. I felt like a failed one task, a task was to prove myself that I was strong. But remembering every little single moment of my freshmen year was like hell...
    RoselynnPila RoselynnPila 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    theyayo theyayo 18-21, M Mar 30

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    There are some people

    that we have to keep distance, it's not because you hate them or you don't like them. It's because we know it's the best thing to do.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F Mar 22

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    Going Forward With Lessons From Your Past

     I found EP after an extremely great personal devastation.  And I am so grateful for this platform and the friends I have found on it.  I have been fairly sheltered all my life.  Being on board EP has been a very eye opening experience.  I have learnt...
    Hannah777 Hannah777 36-40, F 29 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    If I could go back and give myself one piece of

    advise it would have been. "don't run away. There's so much on the horizon" ...oh well. I'm right where I need to be for a reason. And who's to say the countless scenarios I play in my head would come to fruition
    greeneyz83 greeneyz83 31-35, F a week ago

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    There's a difference between giving up

    and knowing you have had enough.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    No Regrets. The key to happiness is to always

    be looking forward while moving forward. It is important to pause and look back once in a while to learn from our mistakes or errors in judgement. We should also look back on the good to appreciate all that happened to make us who we are. By reflecting on the past, we can...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 6 Responses Mar 20

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    It's funny how one person can change your

    thoughts...Every experience of my life is somehow new again... I find pleasure in every task, no matter how routine it is, there is a feeling inside I can't explain, I remind myself of the important things, I'm changing into the person I want to be and want to share with another...
    Lydia66 Lydia66 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    I Hope

    My immediate past has been hell and most of it I screwed up all by myself. Some days I'm obsessed with thoughts of my past mistakes and I can't focus on today. I'm having a hard time forgiving myself and some days I think that I may never forgive me. It all sounds so easy but it...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 29 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    Looking Forward

    I can't change my past. I've done what I've done and that's it. Everything I have chosen to do in my past has made me the amazing person I am now. Yes, I am amazing. I am strong, I am funny, I am smart. There was a time I didn't realize that but thanks to my past now I do. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    working extremely hard on myself

    so i can become a better person. Change is something that everyone will experience and while i cannot change the past mistakes I've made i am going to work hard to avoid mistakes in the future. I am striving to become someone people want to be around. someone people want to have...
    crazybladebabe crazybladebabe 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Every time i think about you,

    i have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me you would.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I don't think I can change my future cuz of my

    depression. No matter how hard I try to let go of my depression and my past it still keeps me in the dark. Everyday I'm fighting it. EVERY day man. I'm focussing on the now. It's all I could cope with. I've imagined my future but it didn't come true. I think I'd grow old on my...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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