I Cant Change the Past But I Can Change My Future Forum & Chat Board | what you think about cheating?

im not sure but i think my boyfriend is cheating on me for some reasons he changed a lot and doesnt show interest anymore he doesnt even call like before i done anything to keep him by my side but he keeps pushing me away i dont know what to do i love him with all my heart but he keeps hurting me and to leave is so hard for me

 

ditch him and get on with your life. don't call him. if he's cheating it's already over. you're not going to "win him back" and why would you want to?



there's a difference between love and obsession. love is healthy and has a positive impact on your life and behavior. love should bring out the best in you.



this isn't your best. clinging to someone who obviously isn't interested anymore is demeaning - and probably driving him further away - while at the same time making him lose respect for you.



I've been that guy. he'll milk it for all it's worth then dump you. you'll be left with a list of regrets and lowered self-esteem.



find someone who appreciates what you have to offer and treats you right. don't settle for this *******.



respect yourself. this isn't love. love is better than this.



yes it's hard. that's life.



... but this too will pass.

 

hey u should leave him or if u wanna him than ask whts going on cause maybe it could be something thts troubleing him hope u find out whts going on!!!!!!!! 

 

He is displaying a couple of troubling traits of a cheater. I'd ask around to see if anyone knows if he is or isn't and if you find out he is then dump him and move on. I'm sure you can find a man that will treat you like you deserve to be.

 

Motto of the day "If u love me I love u 2, If u don't neither  do I , If u care so do I ,If u don't what the hell I don't either. Get on with ur life and let no hold u back.

 

I know exactly what your going through. I was recently in a relationship where my he did the same thing. I thought it was something I was doing, or not giving him space or was over thinking. Came to find out he cheated on me, and for revenge I did the same thing. Now its just a brutal fighting and I probably did things I wish I never did. Its hard as hell and yes the idea of loosing him sucks, but end of the day is this what you want for yourself. If your not happy, its not meant to be. Whole point to life, you live through experiences. Not going to be easy, but time is what heals. In time you will feel less depress and never know who is on the horizon, could be your sole mate or another scum bag or a so so relationship. You just dont know, no one knows. All I can say, for your own happiness in life is to move on and see what the world has. No need to stick around for this. In time, you will look back and be glad you made this decision. Hope this helps.

 

my husband has experienced some inability to get it up,  I have desires that I seek else where is that bad?
He did catch me with two of his friends in our bed so he kind of knows.