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I Can't Control Matters of the Heart

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 160 People

    Heart Rules ...

    It's impossible for my head to rule my heart.  It's probably not wise, nor sensible to be this way but my heart rules me, that's just the way I am.  Even though I can argue with myself that I know I'm being ridiculous or that I know I'll only get hurt in the end ... it...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 16 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    If I Did, I Wouldn't Be In The Mess I'm In Now

    Even when you spend most of your life trying to avoid love as if it were a plague, it WILL catch you and have you at it's mercy.From there, love can either be kind to you and shower you with it's blessing.......or leave you broken and empty.You can never control who you end up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    The Heart Wants, What the Heart Wants....

    The heart wants, what the heart wants, and us has human beings, really don't have any control of it. We Love who we want, and we want who we want, without having any control over our emotional, and over what is going on. There have been many times, that I have wanted to hate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    Fallen

     I can't believe I fell for him. I promised myself that I wouldn't fall in love with him because I had been hurt so badly before. We promised each other that we would stay as friends and that we would someday part. He even warned me that he can only hurt those around...
    Wasurenaide Wasurenaide 16-17, F Jan 15, 2010

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    I'm Too Emo

    I feel bad that i'm too emotional and most important thing is that I cant control it in proper time even . Being emotional is good but over emotional is not , I think ...it hampers study and can create a lot of difficulties in life . ppl can  take advantage of that . I know all...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Me And My Not So Intelligent Heart !!

    My heart rules me not my head but I am not ashamed of it...Although I  get into troubles because of this very reason but still I don't want to change myself...I am ready to live with my bitter sweet memories of falling in love rather than being wise and sensible to...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F May 24, 2010

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    Never

    We are the inevitable slaves of our own emotions
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F Mar 16, 2011

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    The Broken Love Cup...... (short Story) (copy)

    THE BROKEN LOVE CUP   Cheryl often wondered why her grandmother has this broken cup in a little gold box in her small drawer, but never wanted to ask, in case it would upset her for some reason. However...
    Raindrop000 Raindrop000 51-55, F 7 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    Love Of My Heart..

    She is a joyous sunrise She is a peaceful sunset She is a magnificent symphony She is the passion of a raging ocean She is the compassion of an innocent child She is as free and wild as a tigress She is as tender as a newborn cub She is the glorious rainbow in every...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Put Me Together

    I've never fallen in love , I don't know what love is actually and that gives me the chills cuz I'm scared to die b4 I know true love
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2009

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    Pure Love Flow

    Please let the Love that flows from my heart be pure and selfless. Please take all toxic emotions such as jealousy, fear, envy, suspicion, selfishness, resentment, and feelings for retaliation from my heart so that I may love truly and completely.
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    Loving

    Loving is not controlling Loving is not possessing Loving is not grasping Loving is not being fearful Loving is not hoarding Loving is not limiting Loving is letting go Loving is giving Loving is limitless Loving is having Faith Loving is Trusting...  Loving is a Precious...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    I Am Not a Pacemaker...

    If I want someone, my heart beats wildly, I get dizzy and long to touch them. I love them and want them to see me. How and why should I control who I wish to be in love with? That's certifiable.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    I Am the Unique Soul

    You are a unique creature.  You are here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand.  You are nature's greatest miracle.  You are rare, and there is value in all rarity; therefore, you are valuable. You can...
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Painful Love

    I had a good friend who helped me a lot and was there for me every time I needed hem For some reason I fund my self falling in love with hem . I am a strong women never been in a situation like this before Feeling so weak and helpless I know that it's almost impossible to for...
    Mody2012 Mody2012 31-35, F Oct 3, 2012

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    In Front Of A Fireplace...

    I dream of nights like this..   Outside, it is a frigidly cold winter night.  Inside, the room is illuminated only by the soft, flickering glow of candlelight.  Under a cozy, comforter, you and I are snuggled near a warm fire that dances wildly in a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 14 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Cellular Love

    To me this is so ood , never happened b4 I started to talk wth this guy on the phone 4 hours about life music movies etc then we did somo texting we never saw each other face but our frienship came to a rael closeness I never felt b4 its been 3 weeks and I still don't know him...
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love

      *A Quote From, The Tao Of Zen The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love:  "The space between friendship and romantic love is a very small space, and VERY few people find it. But it IS there nonetheless. If someone treats you as more than a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 10 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    Pieces Of The Heart

    I like to think of myself as an intellect. I try and think through every move I make in my life. I like to think of every move as an investment. That is who I am, to the core. Unfortunately not everything in my life really seems that way. I have made some strange choices and...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight 22-25, F Nov 22, 2012

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    The statement alone says it all.....I can't take it any more...any part of my life.....I for the past seven years spent my life married to someone....our marriage is so toxic and...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I don't have a clue where to start this but I will say thank you to anyone who finds the time to read this. The thoughts and memories that are in my head make me think this will...
    Valtboy Valtboy 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    if I don't say the words. it doesn't mean that they are not there. I just want them to land with you the way that I intend for them to. I am sorry that I often say them like two...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don...
    useemenow useemenow 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is my dilema and the most obvious is that it is NOT a dilema but the feelings I have makes everything feel so wrong. I in a sense do know the person I am inlove with, but I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Being able to afford it... This is really the number one reason a lot of people don't travel. But it's worth it if you can save up and make a few trips. Go with people you enjoy...
    INFJguytwin1 INFJguytwin1 22-25, M a week ago

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    This is not about me but this is my experience that does bother me. So my husband's business partner just broke up with his girlfriend. I used to go out with her sometimes but I...
    VogueChloe VogueChloe 26-30, F a week ago

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    The the thing with boyfriends' mothers. Oh my God they are so irritating. I'm tired of being lectured. I'm quiet and not a back talker and just nod and says yes or no, and say a...
    reginarose reginarose 26-30, F a week ago

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    Why do I keep doing this to myself? I get attached emotionally too easy, then they don't love me back because they are too old for me. I am honest and not 'just another teenager...
    Myparentsfml Myparentsfml 16-17, F a week ago

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M Aug 23

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    Like the title says, I can't stand cheap people. I also can't stand when people get free stuff all the time and are catered to for doing absolutely nothing. And these are the same...
    usualobject88 usualobject88 26-30, F Aug 22

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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I really want to kill myself. My life is going on horribly. My mother has psychotic depression, she has been on an affair for 9 years & has just recently stopped after being...
    mangoseed mangoseed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I hate how everyone I know can just flop down onto a bed and pass out within ten minutes. I flop onto a bed, and I'm completely exhausted, but I can't fall asleep. It literally...
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I try my best to keep things at peace. As much as possible, I want everyone happy. I adjust to everyone's needs. I often put their needs before mine. But there are some instances...
    ayamesan16 ayamesan16 22-25, F Aug 22

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    From the moment I was born premature, 'til about the age of 8 I was in and out of hospitals A LOT! Because of this I suffered a lot of mental medical trauma. One of the side...
    k4rri3w0lf12 k4rri3w0lf12 26-30, T Aug 22

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    This happened 2 years ago. I needed a piece of furniture repaired, so I asked one of my FB friends who builds custom made furniture. He is sort of a renaissance man. I go over to...
    Tejaschick Tejaschick 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    My ex boyfriend was broken. 10 years older than me and his life was a mess. He couldn't stay away from drinking he already ruined his life because of it. He had no drivers license...
    beanie1417 beanie1417 22-25, F Aug 20

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    u must fix yourself.... I can't fix u, but I can love u while u fix yourself
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 20

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    We shouldn’t be together. Culturally, we are so diverse. Age, we are a decade apart. Location, across the world from one another. Relationship, too complicated to explain. But...
    MyHeart4You MyHeart4You 46-50, F Aug 20

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    I don't understand why I can't sleep at night. How can I make myself sleep?
    Becky555 Becky555 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Everyday I face a new wave of challenges that drag me down where I can then be met with returning currents that bring back old insecurities and weaknesses. I like to think that I'm...
    pressurecooker pressurecooker 16-17, F Aug 20

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