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I Can't Control Matters of the Heart

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    Loving

    Loving is not controlling Loving is not possessing Loving is not grasping Loving is not being fearful Loving is not hoarding Loving is not limiting Loving is letting go Loving is giving Loving is limitless Loving is having Faith Loving is Trusting...  Loving is a Precious...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    Heart Rules ...

    It's impossible for my head to rule my heart.  It's probably not wise, nor sensible to be this way but my heart rules me, that's just the way I am.  Even though I can argue with myself that I know I'm being ridiculous or that I know I'll only get hurt in the end ... it...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 16 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    I Am the Unique Soul

    You are a unique creature.  You are here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand.  You are nature's greatest miracle.  You are rare, and there is value in all rarity; therefore, you are valuable. You can...
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    If I Did, I Wouldn't Be In The Mess I'm In Now

    Even when you spend most of your life trying to avoid love as if it were a plague, it WILL catch you and have you at it's mercy.From there, love can either be kind to you and shower you with it's blessing.......or leave you broken and empty.You can never control who you end up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Love Of My Heart..

    She is a joyous sunrise She is a peaceful sunset She is a magnificent symphony She is the passion of a raging ocean She is the compassion of an innocent child She is as free and wild as a tigress She is as tender as a newborn cub She is the glorious rainbow in every...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Notes On Ramble

    It has been suggested that I need people and that more importantly, I need people too much. But this Outlaw has to correct a few things. I have done self sufficiency to the point where I come off more as an android and less like a human. I don't need anyone if you want to get...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M Aug 27, 2011

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    Put Me Together

    I've never fallen in love , I don't know what love is actually and that gives me the chills cuz I'm scared to die b4 I know true love
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2009

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    Pieces Of The Heart

    I like to think of myself as an intellect. I try and think through every move I make in my life. I like to think of every move as an investment. That is who I am, to the core. Unfortunately not everything in my life really seems that way. I have made some strange choices and...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight 22-25, F Nov 22, 2012

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    The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love

      *A Quote From, The Tao Of Zen The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love:  "The space between friendship and romantic love is a very small space, and VERY few people find it. But it IS there nonetheless. If someone treats you as more than a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 10 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    In Front Of A Fireplace...

    I dream of nights like this..   Outside, it is a frigidly cold winter night.  Inside, the room is illuminated only by the soft, flickering glow of candlelight.  Under a cozy, comforter, you and I are snuggled near a warm fire that dances wildly in a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 14 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Painful Love

    I had a good friend who helped me a lot and was there for me every time I needed hem For some reason I fund my self falling in love with hem . I am a strong women never been in a situation like this before Feeling so weak and helpless I know that it's almost impossible to for...
    Mody2012 Mody2012 31-35, F Oct 3, 2012

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    Fallen

     I can't believe I fell for him. I promised myself that I wouldn't fall in love with him because I had been hurt so badly before. We promised each other that we would stay as friends and that we would someday part. He even warned me that he can only hurt those around...
    Wasurenaide Wasurenaide 16-17, F Jan 15, 2010

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    The Broken Love Cup...... (short Story) (copy)

    THE BROKEN LOVE CUP   Cheryl often wondered why her grandmother has this broken cup in a little gold box in her small drawer, but never wanted to ask, in case it would upset her for some reason. However...
    Raindrop000 Raindrop000 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    I Am Not a Pacemaker...

    If I want someone, my heart beats wildly, I get dizzy and long to touch them. I love them and want them to see me. How and why should I control who I wish to be in love with? That's certifiable.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Me And My Not So Intelligent Heart !!

    My heart rules me not my head but I am not ashamed of it...Although I  get into troubles because of this very reason but still I don't want to change myself...I am ready to live with my bitter sweet memories of falling in love rather than being wise and sensible to...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F May 24, 2010

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    Pure Love Flow

    Please let the Love that flows from my heart be pure and selfless. Please take all toxic emotions such as jealousy, fear, envy, suspicion, selfishness, resentment, and feelings for retaliation from my heart so that I may love truly and completely.
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    The Heart Wants, What the Heart Wants....

    The heart wants, what the heart wants, and us has human beings, really don't have any control of it. We Love who we want, and we want who we want, without having any control over our emotional, and over what is going on. There have been many times, that I have wanted to hate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    I'm Too Emo

    I feel bad that i'm too emotional and most important thing is that I cant control it in proper time even . Being emotional is good but over emotional is not , I think ...it hampers study and can create a lot of difficulties in life . ppl can  take advantage of that . I know all...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Cellular Love

    To me this is so ood , never happened b4 I started to talk wth this guy on the phone 4 hours about life music movies etc then we did somo texting we never saw each other face but our frienship came to a rael closeness I never felt b4 its been 3 weeks and I still don't know him...
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    Never

    We are the inevitable slaves of our own emotions
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F Mar 16, 2011

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    I've come to terms I can't just control my whole life like plan out my whole god damn future and I should just live here in the moment and enjoy because you know what it's fine to...
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F Aug 16

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    He's tall, blonde, blue eyed, has piercings, has tats, and he's 18. He's 5 years older than me, which means I'm 13. He's told me before that I'm too young and that he can get into...
    IrwinsDrumKit IrwinsDrumKit 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    "People can relax their whole body but they can't relax their heart .😞💓"
    Lynnisme Lynnisme 18-21, F Aug 3

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    You don't notice much about me anymore. I'm your daughter. You should be the first to see what's wrong. But you don't. You don't see the despair in my eyes or the tears on my face...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    According to my family, the fact that I can't cook will ultimately stop me from finding a decent man. I really can't cook. I have tried and I have failed miserably each time. I...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I am a mother at heart... I have cared for children since I, myself, was a child. At 7 years old, I taught myself how to make macaroni and cheese for me and my younger brothers...
    HiddenAnger HiddenAnger 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My ex dumped me a year and a half ago and has never spoken to me since. He quickly meet another woman and married her in 6 months time. He told me he loved me when obviously he was...
    brainwrecked brainwrecked 36-40, F Aug 15

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    how can i move on ? how to deal the pain of losing someone you actually never had? i can't let go but i have to...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My mom says I'm "too nice" to people. She thinks I help people often more than they help me. I think she fears I'm being used or played. But I just can't stand to see anyone in...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    This is getting out of control! I'm so fat! I keep growing everyday. I can't stop gaining! I'm huge! By this rate I'll be 250 by November
    Dijaei1173 Dijaei1173 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    No. But really, thank god. It's like I can't even control them my mind has a mind of its own and thinks things I myself don't agree with. ****** up eh?
    brandontaylor brandontaylor 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    You know what really bothers me, and my husband reminds of this periodically, is that I am showing my kids how they should treat me when they get older by the way I engage with and...
    nkmnovember nkmnovember 36-40 14 hrs ago

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    can't breathe wondering if you were alive wondering if you were okay I spoke with your mom briefly last night she asked if I had heard from you that broke my heart they search your...
    missy1977 missy1977 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    You got me caught.... In all this mess.... I guess, we can blame it on the rain.... My pain, Is knowing I can't have you.... I can't have you.... Tell me does she, look at you the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    There is a Persian woman who works with me. She is the most beautiful person I've ever seen. I may have never noticed her, had she not went out of her way to make sure that I did...
    valtameren valtameren 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I suppose saying I can’t keep a job is like saying I don’t have one. I have kept jobs in the past, but since I started working less retail jobs it has become more difficult. I...
    DV527 DV527 26-30, M Aug 14

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    I'm sorry-I seem to be saying those two words a lot lately, mostly in my mind. I wish I could say them to the people who deserve to hear it. The ones I care about....I've hurt them...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    What should I do? We both want to be together but we can't because of my religion. I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and I can't show how I feel for him and I feel guilty even if...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Aug 24

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F a week ago

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    I'm glad that this experience was posted up because right now I am going through something which is very difficult. I have been with my partner for 9 yrs. Since I was 19 I am now...
    whisperingcampaign whisperingcampaign 26-30, F a week ago

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    Seriously I can't and I see im him everywhere I know he doesn't want to talk to me anymore or even acknowledge the fact that I'm here which I don't understand but my heart is still...
    Liverbug2 Liverbug2 16-17, F Aug 7

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    Damnit, I keep poisoning my mind with the thought of her.... Most nights; I can't sleep due to the incursions of both sweet and miserable memories. Thinking of her almond brown...
    TheAtheistNarwhal TheAtheistNarwhal 22-25, M Aug 8

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    I'm not her type, and when i talk to her my heart breaks a little more, knowing i can't and never ever will have her
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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