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I Can't Control Matters of the Heart

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 166 People

    Me And My Not So Intelligent Heart !!

    My heart rules me not my head but I am not ashamed of it...Although I  get into troubles because of this very reason but still I don't want to change myself...I am ready to live with my bitter sweet memories of falling in love rather than being wise and sensible to...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F May 24, 2010

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    Never

    We are the inevitable slaves of our own emotions
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F Mar 16, 2011

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    If I Did, I Wouldn't Be In The Mess I'm In Now

    Even when you spend most of your life trying to avoid love as if it were a plague, it WILL catch you and have you at it's mercy.From there, love can either be kind to you and shower you with it's blessing.......or leave you broken and empty.You can never control who you end up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    In Front Of A Fireplace...

    I dream of nights like this..   Outside, it is a frigidly cold winter night.  Inside, the room is illuminated only by the soft, flickering glow of candlelight.  Under a cozy, comforter, you and I are snuggled near a warm fire that dances wildly in a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 14 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    The Broken Love Cup...... (short Story) (copy)

    THE BROKEN LOVE CUP   Cheryl often wondered why her grandmother has this broken cup in a little gold box in her small drawer, but never wanted to ask, in case it would upset her for some reason. However...
    Raindrop000 Raindrop000 51-55, F 8 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    Notes On Ramble

    It has been suggested that I need people and that more importantly, I need people too much. But this Outlaw has to correct a few things. I have done self sufficiency to the point where I come off more as an android and less like a human. I don't need anyone if you want to get...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M Aug 27, 2011

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    I Am Not a Pacemaker...

    If I want someone, my heart beats wildly, I get dizzy and long to touch them. I love them and want them to see me. How and why should I control who I wish to be in love with? That's certifiable.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Cellular Love

    To me this is so ood , never happened b4 I started to talk wth this guy on the phone 4 hours about life music movies etc then we did somo texting we never saw each other face but our frienship came to a rael closeness I never felt b4 its been 3 weeks and I still don't know him...
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    Put Me Together

    I've never fallen in love , I don't know what love is actually and that gives me the chills cuz I'm scared to die b4 I know true love
    troubleinblack troubleinblack 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2009

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    Fallen

     I can't believe I fell for him. I promised myself that I wouldn't fall in love with him because I had been hurt so badly before. We promised each other that we would stay as friends and that we would someday part. He even warned me that he can only hurt those around...
    Wasurenaide Wasurenaide 16-17, F Jan 15, 2010

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    Pieces Of The Heart

    I like to think of myself as an intellect. I try and think through every move I make in my life. I like to think of every move as an investment. That is who I am, to the core. Unfortunately not everything in my life really seems that way. I have made some strange choices and...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight 22-25, F Nov 22, 2012

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    Loving

    Loving is not controlling Loving is not possessing Loving is not grasping Loving is not being fearful Loving is not hoarding Loving is not limiting Loving is letting go Loving is giving Loving is limitless Loving is having Faith Loving is Trusting...  Loving is a Precious...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    Pure Love Flow

    Please let the Love that flows from my heart be pure and selfless. Please take all toxic emotions such as jealousy, fear, envy, suspicion, selfishness, resentment, and feelings for retaliation from my heart so that I may love truly and completely.
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    I'm Too Emo

    I feel bad that i'm too emotional and most important thing is that I cant control it in proper time even . Being emotional is good but over emotional is not , I think ...it hampers study and can create a lot of difficulties in life . ppl can  take advantage of that . I know all...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Painful Love

    I had a good friend who helped me a lot and was there for me every time I needed hem For some reason I fund my self falling in love with hem . I am a strong women never been in a situation like this before Feeling so weak and helpless I know that it's almost impossible to for...
    Mody2012 Mody2012 31-35, F Oct 3, 2012

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    The Heart Wants, What the Heart Wants....

    The heart wants, what the heart wants, and us has human beings, really don't have any control of it. We Love who we want, and we want who we want, without having any control over our emotional, and over what is going on. There have been many times, that I have wanted to hate...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love

      *A Quote From, The Tao Of Zen The Space Between Friendship And Romantic Love:  "The space between friendship and romantic love is a very small space, and VERY few people find it. But it IS there nonetheless. If someone treats you as more than a...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 10 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    Heart Rules ...

    It's impossible for my head to rule my heart.  It's probably not wise, nor sensible to be this way but my heart rules me, that's just the way I am.  Even though I can argue with myself that I know I'm being ridiculous or that I know I'll only get hurt in the end ... it...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 16 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    I Am the Unique Soul

    You are a unique creature.  You are here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand.  You are nature's greatest miracle.  You are rare, and there is value in all rarity; therefore, you are valuable. You can...
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Love Of My Heart..

    She is a joyous sunrise She is a peaceful sunset She is a magnificent symphony She is the passion of a raging ocean She is the compassion of an innocent child She is as free and wild as a tigress She is as tender as a newborn cub She is the glorious rainbow in every...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    So I know I should always love my dad and be grateful for everything he's given me, but I really cannot stand him most of the time!! He pays for everything for me and my mom always...
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    Its 8:42 AM & I can't sleep - well I've not slept all night :(
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    Been working for 3 nights straight 12hrs shift. Today I'm off but I can't sleep ... What is going on with me?
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    I began dating my wife in October 2012 and met my in-laws in November of that year. My father in law is a celebrity in Mexico and Internationally. The family of my wife while we...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    I adore this woman I work with... She is the sweetest most genuine and compassionate person I have ever met and I can't truly say I love her yet... But I'm scared that if we...
    pikabolt1776 pikabolt1776 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Unfortunately. The wrong person came into my life at the wrong time. He is eves apple - I have never felt such strong desire. I feel drunk around him. I feel weak. These feelings...
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I am 43 and still don't know what I want to do job wise. I have tried lots of jobs and also quit them, mainly all office jobs. I suffer from anxiety, worry about what people think...
    Earthmummy Earthmummy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I do not understand why in the the world I care so much about you. Its my confession or like a diary entry... My last post. I hope you find it and see for yourself. Oh man. I know...
    foryoureyesonly1983 foryoureyesonly1983 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    My mind some times just starts racing out of control jumping from topic to topic. I try to write it down done times but it goes to fast and I miss the middle bit. Even goes so fast...
    ApollosArrow ApollosArrow 18-21 2 Responses Jun 29

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    If you believe in God, or nothing or some other deity, I feel like it's a cruel piece in our genetic make up for us to seek companionship. It's something we have no control over...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Firstly I hate the word 'have' it suggests people are a possession for others to own and they aren't, that said this is the closest I have to express myself. It will have to do. So...
    LastEnglishRose LastEnglishRose 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Before telling you my story, I wanna ask you something... Is there someone who you just can't get over? Someone who's broken your heart and you just can't mend it? 3 years ago I...
    vinylvanilla vinylvanilla 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    There's only one person that can make this pain go away, and he won't do a ******* thing. I've asked and asked and asked and he looks at me and says "shh, don't think about it and...
    xxxjulieann xxxjulieann 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I really resent my father sometimes. First off, he knows everything. He's a doctor, a lawyer, a mechanic, a chef, a veterinarian, a repairman, etc. You get the point. And he won't...
    LadyBojangles LadyBojangles 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I haven't heard from her in over a year. It seemed like I had forgotten her over that long period of time. But then out of the blue I get this message from her saying that she...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    We have been together for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Long story short: I cheated on my ex and he dumped me. Now I can't get him out of my head. I don't know why cheated, I keep trying to find a reason but when I find one I feel like...
    Ren10 Ren10 13-15, F Jul 13

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    if I had no music I'd most likely end up Killing my self when I am 100% done I either turn the music so loud u can hear it all the way down the block or put them so loud I can't...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm 21 and I cling to everything I can remember, which isn't much of a good thing... I remember heart break, physical agony, emotional torture, and memories that I wish I could...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hey Everybody. i want to share my story. i was and i'm still in love with a beautiful girl. she is everything to me, i love her from the buttom of my heart, but she simply left me...
    abelaziz abelaziz 26-30 1 Response Jun 24

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    The worst feeling in the world is when you can't love someone else because your heart still belongs to the one who broke it.
    Angelynne Angelynne 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I become jolly whenever I see her, but it breaks my heart to think that I can't have that angel.
    eratosthenes eratosthenes 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    He was my first kiss back in the summer between 8th grade and 9th grade. 11 years has passed since then and the day he asked me to go out on a date with him I was nervous, almost...
    Hugsandkisses2621 Hugsandkisses2621 22-25, F Jul 1

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    He broke my heart and left me for his ex. She left you before you fool! Why take her back. But then I realized I would do the same for you. I can't help but want the thing that...
    mracinow mracinow 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I joined this experience because the truth is my mind races non-stop, so if people could read my mind they'd probably assume I was schizophrenic. My mind lately though has been...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    He's not here. He's in a different place. He doesn't message me or call me. It's been two months since I last saw him. There was something there. I feel deep inside my heart that...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F Jul 13

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    So I am completely in love with my bestfriends brother. I am most positive that he dose not like me... He has a girl friend that has already broken his heart. The only reason they...
    kkdashner kkdashner 13-15, F 6 days ago

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