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I Cant Depend On People

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    I have a terrible fear of losing people I love, this includes family and friends. I'm pretty sure it started when I was 7-8 and my mum was going to leave me and my sister's and run...
    YOULOOKLOSTLIKEDOROTHY YOULOOKLOSTLIKEDOROTHY 36-40 57 mins ago

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    At least I really try not too. If you catch me being judgmental, please tell me so I can learn from my mistake. I am very open minded and not easily offended. I believe everyone...
    FeetAreFantastic FeetAreFantastic 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    I just can't help it. Even if someone is a s****y person, like my mom even though I feel like she deserves every bad thing that's happened to her because of her bad attitude and...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I just can't help it. Even if someone is a s****y person, like my mom even though I feel like she deserves every bad thing that's happened to her because of her bad attitude and...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    People in general scare the crap out of me. Their views, ideals, theories, lifestyle choices etc. and so on. It is not that I don't respect people or their views and choices, it is...
    JaneD22 JaneD22 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Being kind and considerate and a joy is the best way to receive that back. Hateful rude comments are not needed on a social site where people come to gather to escape the crap of...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    That's it I'm ******* sick of this if you got nothing nice to say nothing at all I'm sick of all the nasty comments and posts please just stop and don't tell me what I cant and...
    Uniquesouls Uniquesouls 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    It's funny how people can judge me without walking in my shoes. My parents don't understand the anger I have built inside of me. Everytime I sit down, I think about the past and...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I hate rude people, internationally rude people even unintentionally rude people who don't apologize for being rude after they realized that what they had said or done was rude and...
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    Simple. Take responsibility for what you do. Even if it's also other people's fault, accept your fault in it. When people don't, the blame seems to be more on them.
    wordsonascreen wordsonascreen 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    It's a weird mind set to have and I've learned that having low expectations doesn't make me any happier when things go my way. It's like numbing your self so you don't get hurt...
    geminixleo geminixleo 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    "Here's the thing, I am a nice person to those that know and love me, so if I am a ***** to you I suggest you ask yourself why" I sometimes have to really wonder if people ever...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    that depends on my relationship with the person.If we're friends or relatives but they only contact me when they need something,and usually let me down when I need them to do...
    samy666 samy666 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    I was six years old. I barley remember anything from those years but... that night is so clear. its been 7 years and I just still cant believe it happened. my cousins are my...
    scarlettmarie scarlettmarie 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I really believe in and know that Chemistry exists between people. I have known since I was a child almost instantly, if I liked or would have fun being with a person I was just...
    fairone fairone 46-50 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There are groups of people in the world that think they are dark, that their lives are somewhere in the grey and that they can express the dark within them by dressing dark on the...
    TucanSam200 TucanSam200 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a bit.I was going to put I have husband who thinks he knows everything.But also my in laws think they know everything too.It bothers me a lot.Here is...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 3 days ago

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    I know that this person came into my life for a reason... I just don't know what yet. she's my old teacher that moved into my ward a while back. and I became obsessed with her. now...
    nooblordiv nooblordiv 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    No matter how I fight it it keeps me down. I can keep a lot of things from worrying me by forcing them out of my mind. I dont avoid things like an out of sight out of mind, thing...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I cant move on from that night I was almost raped. Cant move on from my cat dying. Cant get over having to miss school, then drop out, and then reenroll. My mom getting sick is...
    Acebo Acebo 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Search for 'dependent personality disorder' in facebook groups. Group id is 109539752726093 . Join to get support. DPD is very different from having dependency issues or such...
    denadena123 denadena123 22-25 5 days ago

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    I just cant..... i dont choose to be this way. Im sorry for your ignorance. But it is true.
    Ghostflower9485 Ghostflower9485 18-21, F a week ago

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    I made a decision that cost me eternal love, joy, peace, relationship... all the good things that only Love Himself can give. I don't understand why I did it, the only answer would...
    Coloursearching Coloursearching 22-25 Jul 23

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    People wouldn't look at me the same. Depending on my mood someone could think I'm depressed, completely insane; just a plain mad, extremely Lonley, disgusting, weird, kind hearted...
    Alex288837359 Alex288837359 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I strongly believe I have DPD. I haven't been diagnosed yet, and I assume I might be diagnosed in a few months. The way this came about was that, my best friend was reading an...
    popgirlll popgirlll 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm not actually sure where I should start with everything I would like to be open and honest about everything my my relationship in the past 11 years but it's a lot for any one...
    buttermonkey buttermonkey 26-30, F Jul 20

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    I was recently diagnosed with dependent personality disorder, major depression, and anxiety disorder in the middle of a separation that is now in the process of divorce. My wife...
    iddependent iddependent 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    its almost as if my brain is wired to do that. i cant help it. i started comparing myself to other people when i was in middle school. i didnt really realize my appearance until...
    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    It happens a lot lol..That said,knowledge is power..I'm trying to learn as much as i can about myself more and others,it might not fix the problem immediately but it's insightful...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Sometimes I do, for the small percent of those who are not racist.Every time you open a newspaper or turn on the tv or radio, white people are constantly accused of being racist...
    theslyfox theslyfox 36-40, M Jul 17

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    I moved to a new place and i dont know anyone, i feel really weird talking to people these days because i spend a lot of time alone... so when i do meet new people at work or just...
    ackleholic ackleholic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Tired of feeling like I cant be me. Superficial conversations drive me mad. I feel ticked off at those who save face. Very very few I share my true thoughts. Maybe three people...
    livewire0410 livewire0410 36-40, F Jul 16

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    you ever decide to spend your life with someone, and then realized you made a mistake? Lately I've been feeling I made the wrong choice. It gets very annoying being the only bread...
    LadyHeyward LadyHeyward 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    It one off my pet hates people who feel the need to brag and boast particularly i see it with other guys i had sex with loads and loads of woman bla bla bla well i talk to woman...
    BrynDavid BrynDavid 31-35, M Jul 16

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    well when i was little kiddo in 2nd grade i hate one annoying guy soo much that once he started to sticking my book with glue,i could not hold up and punched that *****,im now on...
    fyttyteen fyttyteen 13-15, M Jul 15

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    You can't depend on people, they always seem to backstab you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15

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    Everyone in my life seems to be leaving. Relationships and friendships are slowly slipping away and i cant do anything but sit and watch. When i try to fix them, i make a fool of...
    Thatgirlannalise Thatgirlannalise 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    This is a challenge these days and as I age. People these days seem negative and worried about all the wrong things. This world is to politically correct. too meet a genuine kind...
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Now I know why people hate me so much the only people that have really cared about me are my foster parents they cared about what I did and how I did it they made me feel good and...
    Norman25 Norman25 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    My issue with being dependent on others for help is when it comes to making plans. If something comes up and I can't get help, my plans are cancelled and I'm stuck. I don't have a...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Jul 12

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    Everybody needs help from others to live well in this world. But nobody is guaranteed to have helpers when being brought to this world. One can choose whether to help anybody, and...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F Jul 12

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