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I Can't Expect Others To Solve My Problems

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    Thats All She Wrote

    I need to get myself in the line of fire when it comes to my own problems and stay there to face them.  I can't expect others to solve my problems.
    JenniferSH636 JenniferSH636 22-25, F Feb 24, 2011

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    Many Problems!!

    i have many problems in life, just like everyone else, and i struggle to deal with them, just like most people, and sometimes i just look around me for inspiration on how to overcome these obstacles, and look to others for ideas on how to solve these problems, but sometimes i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    Not My Probelmes At Times

    My problems can't be solved by others. They are my own problems that I live with. They are my own health problems. That I just live with. They have taught me to enjoy life.
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Feb 21, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    So the title to your story is telling. I can say writing this is an outlet for me as I have found myself involved in a situation that is progressing into more than I thought. It...
    almondeyes14 almondeyes14 36-40, F 10 hrs ago

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    I have often thought about the meaning of life, and have not really found any. First, let me apologize for any seemingly-snobbish moments, my intention is to reach out to...
    puppychair123 puppychair123 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    I can't sleep properly For the past few months I can't sleep well. Even if I'm really tired, I only have a few hours sleep (about 4-5) and constantly keep waking. I wake up tired...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F Sep 4

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    What i'm thinking now is nothing to be scared about. What kills you the most is others judgement or what they think about you and many people talk about it out loud or just spit it...
    l1127bm l1127bm 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I have always had this issue and maybe its just me cause i get annoyed easily. I think its because i try 200% and expect others to as well but of course they dont. Ex: at this...
    mawniegirl mawniegirl 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I can't commit suicide the balance will split to some people I am their only hope (my siblings and dad and some ep friend) I can't risk it will get depressed maybe commit suicide...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I try. It get's so frustrating to continue to try to do things that you know you are going to fail at. I was diagnosed with Adult Onset ADD when I returned to college at 25. I...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F Sep 8

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    So, recently I met up with a close friend of 6-7 years, and it just feels really awkward between us. It has been 1-2 years since we really talked much. We went to separate schools...
    Impuritiii Impuritiii 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    What are we? gfbf, mate or Fwb? He just ended a long term relationship (and i heard they are in open relationship now) Obviously he is not that into me, he rejected to take the...
    wtsthiswtstht wtsthiswtstht 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I don't expect anyone to read this, or even notice I exist. But I need to express myself All I do is **** things up. The closest friends I had are all gone now because I'm such a...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I can't get a text from my mom without feeling pissed off! All she ever does is complain to me! Or make me feel worse about my money problems. Or going back to school. And now it's...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I met this incredible man. He is 51 and I am 35. The problem is he has a girlfriend that he has only been with for three months but she lives with him. I am married for 12 years...
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F Sep 8

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    I grew up without a father and yet I was never really one of those kids that questioned why. When I was seven, my mother met my step father. At first he floated into our lives and...
    Ditzstressed Ditzstressed 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I just can't stand the thought of people I know looking down on me for some of the issues I think I may have. I stumbled across a web page on personalities and on it someone had...
    Gr8nsaw8S Gr8nsaw8S 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    My friend, knowing how self-conscious I am about my looks, had the audacity to say she wishes she wasn't so pretty because she's fed up with guys breaking her heart. She has...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I don't know whether I'd like to just wear black ripped jeans , or bright pink skirts. I don't know if I should die my hair Lilac and cover my eyes In liner, or if I should leave...
    PhiawithaP PhiawithaP 13-15, F Sep 10

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    I love the fact that others aren't able to read my mind. It's the only place where I can truly be alone and express how I really feel and I know no one will ever be able to hear my...
    queque02 queque02 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Whenever I try to share/think about sharing things that are very personal to me with others (this can be anyone my mother, a friend) I feel like I am going to cry. Usually I just...
    modinski modinski 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Sometimes I don't even want to go outside unless I absolutely have to. I'm so sick of the local area, just a good deal of the people. I'm sick of the weather most of the year. I'm...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I have had the most difficult year of my life. What was supposed to be a fresh start turned into a nightmare, one that I can't get out of. Moving overseas is not easy, you kinda...
    cursedswan cursedswan 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I miss you so much most nights I can't breathe. The weirdest things make me cry. A song. A T-shirt. I see a face in a crowd and for a second it's yours before morphing into a...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F a week ago

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I TRY TO GET MY BRAIN TO STOP. I DO MY BEST. IT NEVER WORKS. I TRY TO DO DIFFERENT THINGS. READ, PAINT, WORK ON THINGS. I CANT GET IT TO STOP. I WENT I SAW THE DOCTOR TOLD...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    This is something that is a nightly thing. Reasons why I can't sleep are the same nightly. This sucks because its been like this pretty much all summer and I go back to school soon...
    ador802 ador802 22-25, M Aug 21

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Na Noooooooo. No can do! Now I can't go for that, can't go for that
    MaxSinner MaxSinner 31-35, M Aug 22

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    When i'm rejected it makes me feel very insecure but we have to remember that just because one or even many people don't like us. There is always one who does, his name is Jesus...
    Duncan98 Duncan98 16-17, M Aug 23

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F Aug 23

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    I can't believe after all this time I have to go back to work. I took some time off (maternal leave) and some extra time off after that for "dealing with personal matters" (i.e. I...
    PersonInCrisis PersonInCrisis 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    What should I do? We both want to be together but we can't because of my religion. I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and I can't show how I feel for him and I feel guilty even if...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Aug 24

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    I did a long long post yesterday so I will do a kinda short one today:! I ate long into the night until I fell asleep half weigh trough the 2nd bag of jam donuts then I woke up...
    SherbertGainer SherbertGainer 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    Not that it's new. I gave myself insomnia while a freshman in college, a short yet oh so long year ago. This summer of 2014 went by too fast. I floated along on Cloud 9 thinking...
    SarabearPark SarabearPark 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I'm glad that this experience was posted up because right now I am going through something which is very difficult. I have been with my partner for 9 yrs. Since I was 19 I am now...
    whisperingcampaign whisperingcampaign 26-30, F Aug 25

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    I'm not saying that I'm the most intelligent person out there. My grades are good, but normal. I had an average of 94% last year. I consider myself to have common knowledge and...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Is there something wrong with me? I am 26 intelligent always leave my baggage at the door. Trainable. I got my priorities straight, yet there are issues with keeping a steady job...
    kyllvie kyllvie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Ok, I started high school about 2 years ago. On the second day of school I found my first high school crush. His name was Noah, and I slowly (much to my dismay) fell in love with...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F Aug 25

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    No. But really, thank god. It's like I can't even control them my mind has a mind of its own and thinks things I myself don't agree with. ****** up eh?
    Findingmylittleself Findingmylittleself 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I am so sick of being perfect. The perfect friend, the perfect daughter. It becomes so hard to keep up the image. It's hard when you realize that your parents can't help. Your...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    But I'll spend my time writing about the one sided love story, while you figure out where you stand. I'll spend every waking hour, telling people about how much you made me feel...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Changed meds again and now I'm waking after 6 hrs of sleep. I don't mind it, the house is quiet and I can do as I please...just as long as it's not in bed. What I really want to do...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 26

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