I Can't Fall In Love

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    My heart won't let me love someone.

    I met someone think their great but then after a couple of days the feeling go away. Was I born to be single and live alone ?
    88rickyroses 88rickyroses
    22-25, F
    Nov 22, 2014

    I am almost 18, bisexual

    but lean towards hetero, and long to be in love with someone. I find it difficult to attach myself to people, yet I yearn to hold someone in my arms. I often think I myself am incapable of being loved which is why I find it hard to fall in love with someone else.
    howtobenick howtobenick
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I have crushes, but I quickly become bored with

    them and forget about them. The closest thing I've ever felt to loving someone romantically is obsessing over my favourite celebrity and wanting to marry them. XD
    Dayman0x Dayman0x
    22-25, F
    Sep 18, 2014

    its hard for me to fall in love.

    i always thought theres something wrong with me. i see a pretty face or a good person or beautiful over all body and i cant fall in love with the person for some reason. its really rare for me to have feelings towards someone. i mean im a friendly person its just hard for me to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    As a child growing up I have had many crushes

    on girls, heck some felt like love and sexual desire. In the 12 grade I fell in love with a girl whom I repressed love for because we were so different. After i got over that. I never seemed to fall for any girl since then. Then now i have some kind of strong admiration or tiny...
    kong20 kong20
    22-25, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    I've never truly relied on someone.

    I have never wanted help. I do believe in attractive people, I have even seen some. I have never loved any boyfriend I had. I have never even felt lust. I don't believe in love. I only believe in good experiences with others. I've had crushes, but there is not enough feelings...
    lostfollower lostfollower
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2014

    I Seem Rather Hopeless

    Not to be mistaken with 'I can't love'. I CAN love, but I cannot seem to fall IN love. Everywhere I go, there are people in love, people who've been together for years or getting married. When I ask them, they all say that the first time they fell in love was around their...
    AllysonH AllysonH
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 15, 2008

    It's So Hard to Fall...

    I can't fall in love. I mean, it's not impossible coz i have fallen in love in the past, nearly 4 years ago. I am totally over that guy as i was the one who ended it because i did not feel like he was the one and the relationship was going nowhere. but now, i can meet the most...
    kate1983 kate1983
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2007

    There is a difference between loving someone

    and being in love with someone. I can do the former, but honestly don't think I can do the latter. I don't recall every being truly in love with someone. It is kind of sad and it bothers me knowing that I can't love people the way that they love me and never will.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 9

    Water. Water Everywhere

    It's funny. I spent a lot of time complaining about the selection of guys around me. Now, I meet guys that are great... but I just can't seem to get into them. I think it's the comparison thing. I've already met the "guy of my dreams." I already know who I want to be...
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2008

    Things Are Always Casual

    "I don't think you can make me love you." "Oh babe, just watch, and I'll destroy you." "I'm not even sure I like you. But, casual just ain't us anymore." One week. I cried. "But, baby are you satisfied?" "No one ever, has called me baby before." One week.I cried. "But...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2012

    I'm asexual, but a hopeless romantic.

    I absolutely love the thought of falling head-over-heels in love with the right person. However, I just can't seem to do that. I've never really found out why, but there's several guys who I think are the right guy for me. Don't get me wrong. It's not that I don't like the guy...
    faeriefate faeriefate
    22-25
    Feb 15, 2014

    I Want To Fall In Love

    I have never fallen in love before. I have been confessed to before and had people interested but I have never feel like I wanted any relationship with them because I don't feel any thing and I really wish I can feel what it is to be in love but I don't understand how to. I can...
    5leafclover 5leafclover
    22-25, F
    Mar 17, 2013

    I am a twenty something girl

    and I have never been in love. I just can't do it. It's like I stop caring about him after some time, they all become boring, they all love me but I loose all of the interest. Don't give me that you just need to find the right guy, I don't think there actually is the right guy...
    lovesexmagicbaby lovesexmagicbaby
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2014

    I Can't Fall In Love. But I Seem To Feed On It.

    I am bisexual. Mostly inclined on gay. 19 years old. And since I can remember I can't seem to fall in love. I have dated more people than I can't count with my fingers. Most fall in love.. Maybe its because to them I look vulnerable and they feel a need to protect me when they...
    Cutiefboi Cutiefboi
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2012

    I Think I'm Incapable Of Loving

    I've fallen in love in the romantic way once, when I was 14. It never happened, but I knew it was love itself. I've had a crush once of few times when I was a child of course, but as I grew up I became more open towards people and comfortable around guys, I realize I feel numb...
    thisbreath thisbreath
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 1, 2013
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