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I Can't Fall In Love

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    I have crushes, but I quickly become bored with

    them and forget about them. The closest thing I've ever felt to loving someone romantically is obsessing over my favourite celebrity and wanting to marry them. XD
    Dayman0x Dayman0x 22-25, F Sep 18

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    My heart won't let me love someone.

    I met someone think their great but then after a couple of days the feeling go away. Was I born to be single and live alone ?
    88rickyroses 88rickyroses 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Water. Water Everywhere

    It's funny. I spent a lot of time complaining about the selection of guys around me. Now, I meet guys that are great... but I just can't seem to get into them. I think it's the comparison thing. I've already met the "guy of my dreams." I already know who I want to be...
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    As a child growing up I have had many crushes

    on girls, heck some felt like love and sexual desire. In the 12 grade I fell in love with a girl whom I repressed love for because we were so different. After i got over that. I never seemed to fall for any girl since then. Then now i have some kind of strong admiration or tiny...
    kong20 kong20 18-21, M Jan 9

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    I Think I'm Incapable Of Loving

    I've fallen in love in the romantic way once, when I was 14. It never happened, but I knew it was love itself. I've had a crush once of few times when I was a child of course, but as I grew up I became more open towards people and comfortable around guys, I realize I feel numb...
    thisbreath thisbreath 16-17, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I am a twenty something girl

    and I have never been in love. I just can't do it. It's like I stop caring about him after some time, they all become boring, they all love me but I loose all of the interest. Don't give me that you just need to find the right guy, I don't think there actually is the right guy...
    lovesexmagicbaby lovesexmagicbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    It's So Hard to Fall...

    I can't fall in love. I mean, it's not impossible coz i have fallen in love in the past, nearly 4 years ago. I am totally over that guy as i was the one who ended it because i did not feel like he was the one and the relationship was going nowhere. but now, i can meet the most...
    kate1983 kate1983 21-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2007

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    I'm asexual, but a hopeless romantic.

    I absolutely love the thought of falling head-over-heels in love with the right person. However, I just can't seem to do that. I've never really found out why, but there's several guys who I think are the right guy for me. Don't get me wrong. It's not that I don't like the guy...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 Feb 15

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    Things Are Always Casual

    "I don't think you can make me love you." "Oh babe, just watch, and I'll destroy you." "I'm not even sure I like you. But, casual just ain't us anymore." One week. I cried. "But, baby are you satisfied?" "No one ever, has called me baby before." One week.I cried. "But...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I Seem Rather Hopeless

    Not to be mistaken with 'I can't love'. I CAN love, but I cannot seem to fall IN love. Everywhere I go, there are people in love, people who've been together for years or getting married. When I ask them, they all say that the first time they fell in love was around their...
    AllysonH AllysonH 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    I Can't Fall In Love. But I Seem To Feed On It.

    I am bisexual. Mostly inclined on gay. 19 years old. And since I can remember I can't seem to fall in love. I have dated more people than I can't count with my fingers. Most fall in love.. Maybe its because to them I look vulnerable and they feel a need to protect me when they...
    Cutiefboi Cutiefboi 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2012

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    I Want To Fall In Love

    I have never fallen in love before. I have been confessed to before and had people interested but I have never feel like I wanted any relationship with them because I don't feel any thing and I really wish I can feel what it is to be in love but I don't understand how to. I can...
    5leafclover 5leafclover 22-25, F Mar 17, 2013

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    I've never truly relied on someone.

    I have never wanted help. I do believe in attractive people, I have even seen some. I have never loved any boyfriend I had. I have never even felt lust. I don't believe in love. I only believe in good experiences with others. I've had crushes, but there is not enough feelings...
    lostfollower lostfollower 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    When I was younger, I thought: "Finding love should be relatively easy, just choose the right girl...". Heh, how naive. The only "right girl" that I found was already taken. And...
    Antefinem Antefinem 70+, M 5 days ago

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    I live by you-in this very moment, tomorrow & for eternity. I stand by you- in this fire, that may be my punishment. Your Love created me, held me , designed me, shaped me...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Nov 1

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    Why do we call upside down butts, hearts? Hearts look nothing like that...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M Nov 12

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    lately, i can't fall asleep. I spend more time awake than asleep. this sucks.
    unsociablex unsociablex 18-21, F Oct 31

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    I was sleeping amazing .. Now I'm awake feeling awful and can't fall back asleep ... Why must you visit every night insomnia ...?
    Tayylorr Tayylorr 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I have lost many people and I haven't been able to let anyone into my life for many years now. I don't know if I can ever fall in love again. I feel really lonely sometimes but I...
    xosiobhan xosiobhan 18-21, F Oct 28

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    me and my boyfriend have been together 11 months. things where so amazing in the beginning it was perfect he is my first steady relationship since i divorced my husband to how I...
    Shawnmae Shawnmae 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Even w the the time adjusting back one hour, I'm still not sleepy as usual.. I'm so used to falling asleep at 6 am everyday because I have too many things going through my head...
    aiahlove aiahlove 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    So I'm just up thinking and writing away everything I'm feeling. I'm gonna have to get up and a few hours because I'm going to the mountains. I can't wait.
    Itsnotareligion Itsnotareligion 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    :( I can't. Noo. NUUUUUUUUUUU. What should i do.. :'(
    Orsas Orsas 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Hi there, I am in a relationship with a lovely man but I am a bit wary, here are the reasons: 1) he lives with his partner who has been telling him for a long time she no longer...
    delphinia46 delphinia46 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    She was my twin's first love. That was the last thing he was talking to me about before he died, he was telling me how much he liked her. We were fifteen. She was a bit younger...
    michalb michalb 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    She takes it slowly at first but learns that this is the person for her and that she has no need to be hesitant as she will never find out unless she takes a leap of faith...
    darnit05 darnit05 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Hey guys. I need help & advice. So i have a boyfriend, he is amazing, he loves me very much and he cares for me like crazy. We had been together for 8 months, but a person got in...
    iSimplyWish iSimplyWish 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I recently had a cheating streak, I went too far and fell in love with another man and when he did not feel the same I isolated myself, in doing so my ex-boyfriend found out and...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I can't restrain my self anymore.. I feel like grabing someone's head and tear it apart like two matching pieces of a puzzle. For so long that I feel imprisoned. I wake up at night...
    Matoy Matoy 16-17, M Oct 30

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    More of me venting than anything else... I do not celebrate holidays or my birthday or any other such holidays. It isn't that I am dull and boring, but I find it extremely...
    duhibrokeit duhibrokeit 31-35, M Nov 9

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    This life is too hard. Why did God give me this path? I can't take this. I'm so mad. NOTHING I ever truly want happens. I have so many f*cking dreams, but every day I pray and get...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I don't know how it all happened, or at least I am pretending not to know. Lately I've been waking up in a mild panic just as I fall asleep. I flip on the lights and wait until I...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    For some reason people think of me as the sluttiest, girliest, womanliest person on the planet when they talk to me on the phone or chat with me! I don't know what kind of a vibe I...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sign Here. Torn pages of my life. Ripped to pieces in the muddy **** you smashed them into. Burnt and frail in parts never to be salvaged. A huge chunk of it is still stuck on...
    BunniesCry BunniesCry 31-35, F Nov 9

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    Hello EP readers. I don’t know what I hope to gain from sharing all this, but I feel compelled to do so. You will probably think I’ve lost my mind by the time that you get to...
    ThePolarPanda ThePolarPanda 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    I wouldn't consider this "home". I often feel like saying I want to go home when I'm technically already here. I live in Washington with my grandparents but I long for the day when...
    Unicorn1039 Unicorn1039 16-17, F Oct 28

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    I had this really weird, unexplainable thing happen to me over 3 years ago. I started to receive visions of this guy that I knew I have never met before but I felt like I was...
    electrapleiadian electrapleiadian 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I did it again. I pushed her away again, when she was close to letting me back into her world. Why do I feel like I am too much for her? Why do I feel like I am too much of a mess...
    aainfamous aainfamous 22-25, F Oct 31

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    I am 85% sure that girl I like will never be mine. Don't say man up and talk to her because that's not how I do stuff. I might get into a relationship but thats short term until...
    xxxfakerhaterxxx xxxfakerhaterxxx 18-21, M Nov 5

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    I've been in love with the same person since I was 16. I am now 23, married, and have a two year old son with my husband- he is not my soul mate. Though my life choices weren't the...
    schlagathor schlagathor 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I can't wait to be kissed again. One daughter is off doing her thing and another is two states away. My last GF was uninvited from my life for several reasons. My girls will...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 5 Responses Nov 15

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    I can't wait to be kissed again. One daughter is off doing her thing and another is two states away. My last GF was uninvited from my life for several reasons. My girls will always...
    SilverPagan SilverPagan 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 16

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    My best friend Angela is Christian, and so she opposes to gay marriage. This makes me so upset because Angela is a very intelligent girl, yet her religion has brainwashed her into...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    The thing is... our situation isn't good. We can't be more than friends, our situation wont let us. But we love each other, I love him, he loves me... deeply. We spend as much...
    Nyah27 Nyah27 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    My husband to be is really an incredible human being. I've never met someone so loyal and dedicated to everything they do. He is so trust worthy and I feel so safe. I feel like no...
    Mousetoes Mousetoes 18-21, F Oct 29