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I Can't Fall In Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 72 People

    I Want To Fall In Love

    I have never fallen in love before. I have been confessed to before and had people interested but I have never feel like I wanted any relationship with them because I don't feel any thing and I really wish I can feel what it is to be in love but I don't understand how to. I can...
    5leafclover 5leafclover 22-25, F Mar 17, 2013

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    I Think I'm Incapable Of Loving

    I've fallen in love in the romantic way once, when I was 14. It never happened, but I knew it was love itself. I've had a crush once of few times when I was a child of course, but as I grew up I became more open towards people and comfortable around guys, I realize I feel numb...
    thisbreath thisbreath 16-17, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I Seem Rather Hopeless

    Not to be mistaken with 'I can't love'. I CAN love, but I cannot seem to fall IN love. Everywhere I go, there are people in love, people who've been together for years or getting married. When I ask them, they all say that the first time they fell in love was around their...
    AllysonH AllysonH 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    My heart won't let me love someone.

    I met someone think their great but then after a couple of days the feeling go away. Was I born to be single and live alone ?
    88rickyroses 88rickyroses 22-25, F Nov 22, 2014

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    Water. Water Everywhere

    It's funny. I spent a lot of time complaining about the selection of guys around me. Now, I meet guys that are great... but I just can't seem to get into them. I think it's the comparison thing. I've already met the "guy of my dreams." I already know who I want to be...
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    I've never truly relied on someone.

    I have never wanted help. I do believe in attractive people, I have even seen some. I have never loved any boyfriend I had. I have never even felt lust. I don't believe in love. I only believe in good experiences with others. I've had crushes, but there is not enough feelings...
    lostfollower lostfollower 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2014

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    It's So Hard to Fall...

    I can't fall in love. I mean, it's not impossible coz i have fallen in love in the past, nearly 4 years ago. I am totally over that guy as i was the one who ended it because i did not feel like he was the one and the relationship was going nowhere. but now, i can meet the most...
    kate1983 kate1983 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2007

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    I Can't Fall In Love. But I Seem To Feed On It.

    I am bisexual. Mostly inclined on gay. 19 years old. And since I can remember I can't seem to fall in love. I have dated more people than I can't count with my fingers. Most fall in love.. Maybe its because to them I look vulnerable and they feel a need to protect me when they...
    Cutiefboi Cutiefboi 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2012

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    As a child growing up I have had many crushes

    on girls, heck some felt like love and sexual desire. In the 12 grade I fell in love with a girl whom I repressed love for because we were so different. After i got over that. I never seemed to fall for any girl since then. Then now i have some kind of strong admiration or tiny...
    kong20 kong20 18-21, M Jan 9, 2014

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    Things Are Always Casual

    "I don't think you can make me love you." "Oh babe, just watch, and I'll destroy you." "I'm not even sure I like you. But, casual just ain't us anymore." One week. I cried. "But, baby are you satisfied?" "No one ever, has called me baby before." One week.I cried. "But...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I'm asexual, but a hopeless romantic.

    I absolutely love the thought of falling head-over-heels in love with the right person. However, I just can't seem to do that. I've never really found out why, but there's several guys who I think are the right guy for me. Don't get me wrong. It's not that I don't like the guy...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 Feb 15, 2014

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    I have crushes, but I quickly become bored with

    them and forget about them. The closest thing I've ever felt to loving someone romantically is obsessing over my favourite celebrity and wanting to marry them. XD
    Dayman0x Dayman0x 22-25, F Sep 18, 2014

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    I am a twenty something girl

    and I have never been in love. I just can't do it. It's like I stop caring about him after some time, they all become boring, they all love me but I loose all of the interest. Don't give me that you just need to find the right guy, I don't think there actually is the right guy...
    lovesexmagicbaby lovesexmagicbaby 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    It's so painful..so much so that I can barely focus on anything else. Every stupid little thing reminds me of him. Especially good stuff, things that used to make me happy..like...
    MyMindCravesNectar MyMindCravesNectar 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    This person does not even know my existence, yet I am falling deeply for him. The way he smiles, the way he sings, and his bubbly personality makes me feel like an ice cube that's...
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    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Apr 3

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    I owe you an explanation I can't give you in fact. Suppose I never will. I could barely explain it, even though it's actually very simple... I told you I was afraid to be around...
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    It's funny how time flows fast. I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him...
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    Can't... A selfish woman But not selfish enough To make herself happy A self centered woman Who loves her friends like family So she doesn't give enough to him A woman not...
    BexAddiction BexAddiction 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 5

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    You told me today I pushed you away and I can`t even tell you were wrong. I do, I push you away, because it hurts too much to be around you. To see you, to talk to you, it makes me...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 5

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    After what I thought were 5 amazing months, my boyfriend broke up with me. I can't help thinking that this is a whiny teenage problem, but you know what? It ******* hurts. This was...
    restlessrenn restlessrenn 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Trying to tell myself what I would tell a friend for comfort. Trying to answer the question how can love die. How can one be so cherished once then a just bit of history. Missing...
    stufy stufy 46-50 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I met him in high school, and even though for the most part he treated me like ****, he always gave me just enough 'love' or kindness to keep me holding on. Once we were older...
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    Is it too much to ask for someone to love you as much as you love them?? I seriously don't know anymore. I love her I really do, but God please let me forget her. Or move on from...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I am an adult on the Autism spectrum. As a child, I never really had quality of friends. They often used me. I believe in a race of people/extraterrestrials called...
    NiggiMaskedSalesman NiggiMaskedSalesman 36-40, F Apr 16

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