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I Can't Fall In Love

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    I Can't Fall In Love. But I Seem To Feed On It.

    I am bisexual. Mostly inclined on gay. 19 years old. And since I can remember I can't seem to fall in love. I have dated more people than I can't count with my fingers. Most fall in love.. Maybe its because to them I look vulnerable and they feel a need to protect me when they...
    Cutiefboi Cutiefboi 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2012

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    I've never truly relied on someone.

    I have never wanted help. I do believe in attractive people, I have even seen some. I have never loved any boyfriend I had. I have never even felt lust. I don't believe in love. I only believe in good experiences with others. I've had crushes, but there is not enough feelings...
    lostfollower lostfollower 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I Think I'm Incapable Of Loving

    I've fallen in love in the romantic way once, when I was 14. It never happened, but I knew it was love itself. I've had a crush once of few times when I was a child of course, but as I grew up I became more open towards people and comfortable around guys, I realize I feel numb...
    thisbreath thisbreath 16-17, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    As a child growing up I have had many crushes

    on girls, heck some felt like love and sexual desire. In the 12 grade I fell in love with a girl whom I repressed love for because we were so different. After i got over that. I never seemed to fall for any girl since then. Then now i have some kind of strong admiration or tiny...
    kong20 kong20 18-21, M Jan 9

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    I Want To Fall In Love

    I have never fallen in love before. I have been confessed to before and had people interested but I have never feel like I wanted any relationship with them because I don't feel any thing and I really wish I can feel what it is to be in love but I don't understand how to. I can...
    5leafclover 5leafclover 22-25, F Mar 17, 2013

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    I am a twenty something girl

    and I have never been in love. I just can't do it. It's like I stop caring about him after some time, they all become boring, they all love me but I loose all of the interest. Don't give me that you just need to find the right guy, I don't think there actually is the right guy...
    lovesexmagicbaby lovesexmagicbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Water. Water Everywhere

    It's funny. I spent a lot of time complaining about the selection of guys around me. Now, I meet guys that are great... but I just can't seem to get into them. I think it's the comparison thing. I've already met the "guy of my dreams." I already know who I want to be...
    MysteriousSkin MysteriousSkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    Things Are Always Casual

    "I don't think you can make me love you." "Oh babe, just watch, and I'll destroy you." "I'm not even sure I like you. But, casual just ain't us anymore." One week. I cried. "But, baby are you satisfied?" "No one ever, has called me baby before." One week.I cried. "But...
    chorusgirl chorusgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I Seem Rather Hopeless

    Not to be mistaken with 'I can't love'. I CAN love, but I cannot seem to fall IN love. Everywhere I go, there are people in love, people who've been together for years or getting married. When I ask them, they all say that the first time they fell in love was around their...
    AllysonH AllysonH 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    It's So Hard to Fall...

    I can't fall in love. I mean, it's not impossible coz i have fallen in love in the past, nearly 4 years ago. I am totally over that guy as i was the one who ended it because i did not feel like he was the one and the relationship was going nowhere. but now, i can meet the most...
    kate1983 kate1983 21-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2007

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    I'm asexual, but a hopeless romantic.

    I absolutely love the thought of falling head-over-heels in love with the right person. However, I just can't seem to do that. I've never really found out why, but there's several guys who I think are the right guy for me. Don't get me wrong. It's not that I don't like the guy...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 Feb 15

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    I often neglect sleeping. Since I feel I can get more stuff done if I don't sleep as much. But what's a peeve is when I want to treat myself well and stay healthy and try sleeping...
    Hyacinthas Hyacinthas 18-21, M Aug 20

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    I was trying to fall asleep. I was actually starting to earlier. I somehow got more awake. -_- I hope I sleep soon. Message me! I'm bored and awake. lol..
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    As much as I crave for some nerdy knight in shining armor with great hair, a nice smile, and mesmerizing eyes to sweep me off my feet, after several failed relationships and...
    wingedmadman wingedmadman 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    It is 6:03 a.m. and I can't fall asleep because my boyfriend and my dog have both been snoring non-stop since we got into bed!!!
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F Aug 16

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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
    normil normil 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    how can i move on ? how to deal the pain of losing someone you actually never had? i can't let go but i have to...
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    The only people that actually care about me are my parents. Despite all of the strife and frustration I have caused them, I think they still love me. That is just who my parents...
    Guest4111 Guest4111 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I posted my first and only post to this site after having found experience project while searching for the least painful methods of suicide, and came across several people that had...
    VeryLost1984 VeryLost1984 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    My ex dumped me a year and a half ago and has never spoken to me since. He quickly meet another woman and married her in 6 months time. He told me he loved me when obviously he was...
    brainwrecked brainwrecked 36-40, F Aug 15

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Ok, I started high school about 2 years ago. On the second day of school I found my first high school crush. His name was Noah, and I slowly (much to my dismay) fell in love with...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F a week ago

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    According to my family, the fact that I can't cook will ultimately stop me from finding a decent man. I really can't cook. I have tried and I have failed miserably each time. I...
    tendersoul22 tendersoul22 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    There is a Persian woman who works with me. She is the most beautiful person I've ever seen. I may have never noticed her, had she not went out of her way to make sure that I did...
    valtameren valtameren 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I suppose saying I can’t keep a job is like saying I don’t have one. I have kept jobs in the past, but since I started working less retail jobs it has become more difficult. I...
    DV527 DV527 26-30, M Aug 14

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    We flirt(ed) all the time in person, we'd hug and sit together and have inside jokes at the back of the bus even though he's 3 years older and it looked slightly weird to all his...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F a week ago

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    Changed meds again and now I'm waking after 6 hrs of sleep. I don't mind it, the house is quiet and I can do as I please...just as long as it's not in bed. What I really want to do...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    You don't notice much about me anymore. I'm your daughter. You should be the first to see what's wrong. But you don't. You don't see the despair in my eyes or the tears on my face...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Alright, more about me besides my fetish. It is almost 4am and I can't sleep. It's not the "I can't turn off my computer therefore I can't sleep," it's "I have been lying in bed...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Over the weekend, a few friends and I rented a campsite to commemorate the summer. Due to several of the people either getting sick or becoming unable to attend, it ended up being...
    theanonwriter theanonwriter 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My Mate switched to FCNE and seems like her medical professional is healthier in the position to pay attention to her and her husband. I believe the results is so health care...
    Noah404j9pe5 Noah404j9pe5 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    At enough time in the partition of India of 1947, Minicoy transferred mechanically to the new Union of India, even though the rest from the Maldives ongoing being a self-governing...
    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Why can't I just fall asleep and never wake up.
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    It's 12:32 am here in Manila and just can't sleep. I hope listening to my iPod and writing here would ease up the burden that I try to hide. Before, I am writing down in my journal...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Seems I always fall for the ones I can't have. I'm starting to think it's more a of a defense mechanism and my way out of committing. If I never commit to anyone I won't ever get...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I'm ******* done and I can't do it anymore my two neighbors drugged me and raped me and even though I'm a lesbian, the state attorney dropped the case because he told me I must...
    kgorton1 kgorton1 18-21, F 8 Responses 59 mins ago

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    I am a mother at heart... I have cared for children since I, myself, was a child. At 7 years old, I taught myself how to make macaroni and cheese for me and my younger brothers...
    HiddenAnger HiddenAnger 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm sorry-I seem to be saying those two words a lot lately, mostly in my mind. I wish I could say them to the people who deserve to hear it. The ones I care about....I've hurt them...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I feel so alone. I know it seems cliched to say these words but its true. I'm surrounded by so many people that say they love me, so why can't I feel loved? It's not like I'm an...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 17

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    It's sounds cliche but it's the honest truth. My mind won't stop. I don't feel like I belong. I'm so shy and my family is so outgoing I'm always the outcast, I know they love me...
    BriGrace BriGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    As some of you know, I am a natural "A" cup, but to enhance things, I wear a push-up bra everyday. Well, it's summer here in NE Ohio and the temps are getting into the 80's. We...
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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    It's really just this one girl, and it bugs the hell outta me. Most times women I thought were hot but found out they were married or had boyfriends, I usually didn't care about...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M Aug 11

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    I've only ever had 2 boyfriends since I was 14. First relationship lasted for about 6 months, second one lasted for 2 years but it was an on-and-off abusive relationship. If I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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