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I Can't Figure Out What Is Worse

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    This Or That - I have come to the conclusion that no matter what you do there will always be a bad side to the situation. There are just some instances when your screwed either way...
    Luci Luci 21-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    Sleeping Alone Or Waking Up Alone - "To die: to sleep; No more; and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocksThat flesh is heir to, 'tis a...
    Raibeart Raibeart 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2008

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    What Are We Talking About ??? -  the only thing  i can think of here .. i cant decide which is better ...  being in a relationship or  being single .... both...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2008

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    Confounded If I Know. - Having love that is distant but he's right with me, Or being alone.
    orb3d orb3d 46-50 1 Response Jun 19, 2010

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    When this happens, I tend to curl inside of my closet and just force myself to weep for hours on end. When things get too frustrating, I need forced crying sessions to get the...
    saiyuu saiyuu 18-21, F Apr 2

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    It's hard to express my feelings to others verbally because I can't really trust people . Find it easier to express pain and emotion through writing
    ChrisMackin ChrisMackin 16-17, M Apr 6

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    Sometimes certain things are just to hard to share with anyone. I am trying to work on that. Sometimes letting people in can be risky.
    ThinkingIsBeautiful ThinkingIsBeautiful 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I am still dealing with a broken heart because I have been through a lot in life I am only eighteen years old. I always hear what you been there makes you stronger but sometimes I...
    lyricbutterfly2013 lyricbutterfly2013 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    may be for me its most of the time i cant talk, cause no words will rly explain what hurts me or no one will care or i will need days to say all that hurts me ...
    zezo0 zezo0 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I tend to break down and fall whenever i try to explain stiff like this or i have an panic attack, its so hard to talk about it whenevere you feel like you might be judged for...
    RavenHearts RavenHearts 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I've been told by virtually everyone who has heard me sing that I have a beautiful singing voice. It was my pride and joy. Sadly, I learned recently that it isn't good at all. I...
    Jamlec Jamlec 22-25, M Mar 27

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    It has been almost 6 months since you have left and I still feel the emptiness every single day. I feel it creep up on me when I lay alone in bed at night and stare at the clock...
    jayrock95 jayrock95 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I sit in the dark with headphones on, running unsaid scenarios in my head and being smothered by anxiety. I feel my heart fluttering like a snare drum and am paralysed by my own...
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    UNNATURALLY Inclined: When I was 7 years old, nature decided that my life should end. All of a sudden one day I got an excruciating sharp pain in my right side, and while rolling...
    iamdaviddotinfo iamdaviddotinfo 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    After relationship nonsense after relationship nonsense, I began to realize I don't need that crap while I'm still trying to figure out who I am. For days and days on end I would...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    Iam currently trying to figure out my life I have been thru three relationships and none of them turned out good plus Iam going thru a breakup with my ex best friend plus I have...
    Jordansweet Jordansweet 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Well hi! I'm 17, a girl, and I am bisexual. My attraction to males/females has never been equal; I've been through stages where I've fancied guys more, and currently I fancy girls...
    TheBratPrince TheBratPrince 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Ever since I can remember my parents have been fighting with each other. I can't stand it when they do. My father always gets defensive and over dramatic and says horrible things...
    RachelRosieanne RachelRosieanne 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have a problem. Noone is listening what I'm saying, noone respects me. I have no friends, I'm lonely just because I'm honest and I can't stand when somebody tricks me. Anyway...
    anonimus124 anonimus124 41-45, F Apr 8

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    I know this awful feeling. I dropped out of high-school twice, realizing its system was stupid and the town was worse, wound up staying with my mother until I left at 22. I never...
    Poppyfields72 Poppyfields72 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I think I have a crush on a girl... Maybe two girls.. I'm a girl. I have a boyfriend, but I'm just not sure... I want to explore but I don't know how to go about it.. I kissed...
    Anonimaninja Anonimaninja 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
    Lovelornmother Lovelornmother 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My anxiety is extreamly high right now. I am out of my meds and don't have the insurance money to go and get more. But what's even worse is the doctors want to see me before they...
    Fallen80Angel Fallen80Angel 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I'm a naturally warm person (at least that's what everyone tells me). Because of this, my body doesn't function well in warm temperatures. If it's warm in my room, I won't be able...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I'm a cleaner, and when I got home on Wednesday evening, I noticed my hand hurt a bit, but didn't think too much into it and went off to bed. Well yesterday morning I woke up and...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm in love with my health teacher. I've always found him attractive and his personality is seemingly perfect... But not until this year, have I realized that I truly have feelings...
    Kkeiser Kkeiser 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I find myself attracted sexually and romantically to women, but I also find myself sexually attracted to guys, but I can't see myself in a relationship with a guy. Am I the only...
    Bennysspecial Bennysspecial 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 30

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    It has been around two years since we were together but I think about him at least once or twice a week. I don't miss him or want him back, actually, I hate him for how badly he...
    kcconference300 kcconference300 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I can't take this anymore-That's what i've been saying fot the last ten years, yet i am still here... What's my problem? I can't do anything right, I'm studying the thing i hate...
    kokica kokica 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm 21 years old and my mom treats me like I'm 16. In my culture a girl can't leave the house until she's married. I don't really get to do anything. I go to college and come home...
    cowboys11 cowboys11 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I recently joined this community in hopes to get many things off my chest, and hopefully get some positivity from anyone who’s willing to listen. My name is Zach and I’m 19...
    Zach001 Zach001 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    This experience has by far been the best thing that has ever happened to me, but it is also the thing that has caused me the most pain. I have known him for my entire life, but I...
    DeadZombiePerson DeadZombiePerson 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    He pulls me in with his eyes and funny expressions. I can't help but laugh when he makes ridiculous jokes. When he utters my thoughts out loud, I feel the terror of admiring...
    Jesticles Jesticles 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 13-15, F Mar 20

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    I am having such a hard time getting over my last relationship. I met him online, on Facebook out of nowhere. We started hanging out, and things started to get more intense. He...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M Mar 20

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    During the fall on cross country, i loved going to practice. I loved my team, i love running, I loved feeling like i belonged. i made so many friends and had so much fun. I also...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F Mar 20

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    When life is going really good it will always suddenly turn around and go ****. i know there are other less fortunate people out there but i always wish i had a different life. My...
    vickaaay22 vickaaay22 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I find it challenging to be honest with my family because I am different from them and I think differently than them. I know that my family judges atheists, and political liberals...
    Growlin Growlin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I was about to send this to a girl, who I'm madly in love with, and who is also my best friend. But I couldn't bring myself to hit send... "I've known you for about 6 years now...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    If people could read my thoughts I bet very few people would dare talk to me anymore. I got from my mothers side that we think very meanly or sarcastically but unlike my mother I...
    Konalover0210 Konalover0210 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I often suspect countless people, no matter how close or distant they are to me, of countless things. I never feel like I can quite put my guard down because of my innumerable...
    Kavka Kavka 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Idk I just.........can't. It's not that idw to share but I just feel like I don't have a right to burden others w my silly problems of my own. Like they don't have problems of...
    ELSAhugsyou ELSAhugsyou 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I'm really struggling at the moment to find a reason to keep on living or to look to the future. I split from my ex a while ago but we have been on and off since. We have a...
    isthereanypoint isthereanypoint 26-30 Apr 8

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    Ok, so I was fired as well yesterday (personality issues, not a good fit, and it "just isn't working out").... It wasn't even 4 full weeks. I even had this marker on my calendar "6...
    andrew319 andrew319 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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    when you freak out because you so badly want to remember some songs she always used to play in the car but you can't just pick up the phone and ask her. </3 I just want to...
    Ray1787 Ray1787 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Well, I might aswell start from the top. I learned at some point in my life to hide my feelings away, which basically left me in an invisible box. Nothing gets in or out. That...
    Hanklerfish11235 Hanklerfish11235 18-21, F Mar 24