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I Can't Figure Out What Is Worse

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    Confounded If I Know.

    Having love that is distant but he's right with me, Or being alone.
    orb3d orb3d 46-50 1 Response Jun 19, 2010

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    Which is worse hard to choose from sying alone or dying without a good bye . ?
    harboraqua harboraqua 13-15, F Jun 20, 2010

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    Sleeping Alone Or Waking Up Alone

    "To die: to sleep; No more; and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocksThat flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation.Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rubFor in that sleep of death what dreams...
    Raibeart Raibeart 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2008

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    This Or That

    I have come to the conclusion that no matter what you do there will always be a bad side to the situation. There are just some instances when your screwed either way you go. For example: If you spend too much on an object, your "high matenance". If you spend...
    Luci Luci 21-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    What Are We Talking About ???

     the only thing  i can think of here .. i cant decide which is better ...  being in a relationship or  being single .... both have there own perks  but then i personally find being a singleton is alot better ... relationships take more work than the...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2008

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    I just graduated high school very happy in june. I devoted this summer to amazing times. Now I figured out I'm confused about where my life is going. Im supposed to have a career...
    ListenerWhoCantBeHeard ListenerWhoCantBeHeard 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I become angry and can't Express how I feel, I get so angry and start to breathe heavy and out of control, I can't cry and can't explain what I feel. Those moments are bad
    JstAnotherGirl JstAnotherGirl 18-21, F Jun 23

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    Yes, its quite offen that I can't tell people who are really close to me that they are hurting me ... just because I wouldn't want them to be hurt by my saying so.
    toohottoresist toohottoresist 36-40, M 6 Responses Jun 23

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    I have always been quite. Never to say much, But having millions of thoughts rushing through my head. I don't talk about those things because as self defense against all those...
    MildLife MildLife 13-15, M Jun 23

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    Read my experiences.. I am TRYING to tell my parents that I am depressed and at times suicidal but my dad told me that it's stupid when people commit and that it's for attention...
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    My mom left when I was 11. I am now in my 20s. I can't really talk to her about how I REALLY feel because she thinks it's over in the past and needs to be forgotten. I get that...
    chattyM chattyM 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I don't know about sometimes. I CAN'T tell my parents how emotionally abusive they've been. I CAN'T tell my husband how all sex in the world will never replace the lack of...
    prsunshine prsunshine 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I just can't, if anybody would be willing to talk that would make me happy
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F Jun 29

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    If you believe in God, or nothing or some other deity, I feel like it's a cruel piece in our genetic make up for us to seek companionship. It's something we have no control over...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I would like to talk about stuff but the only one I can talk to is my boyfriend and he just gets mad and makes it worse. no one understands the life I have lived and thinks that...
    gain123xO gain123xO 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Talk about your feelings....... Good or bad feelings need expression, freedom to reveal themselves it's not good to hide behind a smile when your heart is breaking, by letting out...
    Lydia66 Lydia66 46-50, F 25 Responses Jun 23

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    Have you ever felt like you talk about something too much so you go away from that topic. But then all you can do is sit there letting it eat you up inside because you want to talk...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    My Dad passed away, suddenly, last year. The year before-I lost my brother and my grandfather. I have 3 kids and am married. When my dad died, I took off 2 weeks from a job I...
    justathought2014 justathought2014 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I've told this secret before. Once using my vocal cords. About three using the same thumbs I'm using now. I was molested four times when I was fifteen and sixteen. But what I...
    naturalnobody naturalnobody 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Sometimes being in a open marriage can make you crazy. We both at some point live different life's and talk to other people but we have to remind them and are selfs that we are not...
    karienight karienight 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I never had anyone to talk to when I was younger. I had a rough childhood and everywhere I turned there was always abuse, and the reminder that no one cares. I kept things bottled...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I want someone to notice im not okay.....
    lola992 lola992 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 29

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    So you pissed me off tonight you did not stay by me like I asked. You did not even play with me so way are we doing this?
    karienight karienight 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I love this site! I knew in theory that there were people with my problem, but had never met any of them. Like others here, I don't know what is wrong with me. I do my best, but...
    chazman48 chazman48 46-50, M Jul 12

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    I've noticed I'm really bad when I'm tired. I get to where I just can't get the words out, and even worse is I can't usually remember what I needed to say in the first place. I...
    WAWM WAWM 18-21, F Jun 26

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    We have been together for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I can't stop overthinking.. What do I do?
    Makaila22 Makaila22 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm going to ask my uncle to walk me down the isle when my time comes. My dad chose to not engage himself or be involved in my development. He doesn't know what struggles I went...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    When I'm cold I can control my nerves or something like that I can make myself warm, vice versa when I'm hot! I found out recently I can do the same in a room. Someone will say...
    mrmagnium mrmagnium 13-15, M 11 hrs ago

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    Once again I'm back and sadly about the same topic as before, my brother. Sadly he continues to not accept any responsibility for his actions. He and his spouse have ruined a few...
    DannyBoy1972 DannyBoy1972 36-40 Jul 9

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    This hole thing involving my girlfriend bring grounded tell September Is tearing me inside out I can't this feeling anymore and I constantly catch myself sending her things like...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The university I work for is hosting a summer program for local middle and high school students. The kids are able to come to the college and take a variety of classes, learn new...
    Reboot153 Reboot153 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just tired of my life. I love this song just don't like the singer. It's our party we can do what we want (no drama) It's our party we can say what we want (Mike will made) It's...
    BiConfused BiConfused 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm 21 and I cling to everything I can remember, which isn't much of a good thing... I remember heart break, physical agony, emotional torture, and memories that I wish I could...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    When i'm in a room with one or more people, i figure out how many of them i could kill before someone stops me. It's usually one or two. But i work with chainsaws a lot so...
    DeadHeretic DeadHeretic 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 4

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    Noah hates having his picture taken, and I love taking pictures of the people I care for. He challenged me to a race. One lap around the rink, but without our skates. We'd run on...
    PaigetheBook PaigetheBook 16-17, F Jun 26

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    The things that go through my mind ....why am I here?...is this where I am supposed to be?....why is this woman so damn annoying?.....if you were here with me right now I'd ravage...
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I have had acne for several years and NOTHING WORKS. It makes it had to go out and do things because I feel like the only thing people see is my acne. Going out in public is...
    2daisy3 2daisy3 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    My mind literally never stops wandering... I go from one thought to another , then one idea to the next. It's a good and bad thing, especially when I keep thinking about someone...
    lovechristina lovechristina 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I just figured out that my crush for over past 5 months is a married man, but from the signals he gave me throughout the past 5 months (i.e. stares at me, stares at my best friend...
    gabriellakanon gabriellakanon 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Of my crazy thoughts. My mind s like the energizer bunny..it just keeps going. Worrying how my kids will suffer from the absence of their father. Sad that they don't have a father...
    ultimatebetrayal ultimatebetrayal 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I got my first permit when I was 17. No one cared enough to trust me with their car. I'm not smart enough to learn how, so I guess it figures. So now I'm 29 and utterly useless to...
    wtfimik wtfimik 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I mean it really sucks when people start lieing and thhink you wouldn't get it. Or when they don't want to hear the truth and start blaming you. But the thing is that the truth is...
    justbe00 justbe00 31-35, F Jun 29

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    My sister has been my main source of depression but I also can't live without her because when she's around things go easier and smoothly and its a whole feeling when she's around...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I had to follow their “Advise,” because my wife would not do anything that would contradict their wishes. a) Living on a budget, I attempted to teach my wife how to manage the...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    I began dating my wife in October 2012 and met my in-laws in November of that year. My father in law is a celebrity in Mexico and Internationally. The family of my wife while we...
    Poitiers5 Poitiers5 22-25, M Jun 25

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    If it weren't for the fact that alcohol taste like.. Alcohol.. Than yeah I would get drunk everyday, but I hate THAT certain taste of alcohol. It's way to strong and I just can't...
    DesrayMinqez DesrayMinqez 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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