I Can't Forgive My Mom

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    Mom Brings You Into This World But Do We Have To Love Her?

    A mother by definition is the woman that gives birth to you. So Why do we have to love the woman that gave birth to us? I'm not afraid to say I dislike the woman that gave birth to me but I don't love her either. I blame her for not protecting me. She begged me to forgive her...
    loveless017 loveless017
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

    UPDATE 9: my mom waved I my friend today

    when we drove by him and said " I waved to *friends name and winked" .... Then my friend sent a photo of...my moms bras I think 😳
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    Why Did She Never Care?

    Growing up in a family of 5 siblings was tough. It had its ups and downs. My father was a construction worker, an alcoholic and a Vietnam Veteran. My mother was an on and off, stay at home mom and waitress, working to become a licensed CNA.I will never forget the night that my...
    LE50 LE50
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2011

    People want you to forgive

    but forgiving is really hard. My mother used to abuse me when I was a kid as almost everyday it felt like hell and everyday I lived in fear thinking that one slip up I will get hit or beated the hell out with anything she could find for what felt like hours....it felt endless...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2015


    My mother has a very high-profile, important job, and she likes it. Power probably has a lot to do with that. It consumes practically all of her time, but that's her choice - she's a workaholic, she does her job well, and she'd be like that even with a lesser job. It makes me...
    Grisvisage Grisvisage
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2011

    I know she "loves me"

    if that's what you call it but I don't feel any love toward her.. Honestly.. I've tried and tried but she used to abuse me and she still does.. Verbally. It's gotten so bad I've thought about running away or suicide but I know that is NOT the answer.. I just don't know how to...
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2014

    I Just Cant Forgive My Mom

    Ok so I am very new to all this, I have finally decided to 'help myself' for a change! I am 23 years old. I have a huge grudge against my mom for many reasons, dont actually know how to start! Basically I was molested, sexually abused by my step grand father and he made me keep...
    badpast badpast
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    It Would Take A Miracle.

    You left, when i was 13, and never even left a note. You could of cared less about me. I have to hear from one of my distant cousins that you've gotten married, and are ADOPTING child. im sorry, but why the hell are you adopting a child when you had a perfectly good one right in...
    Artemis17 Artemis17
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2010

    my mom gossiped about me today towards her

    friends about our private life. I hate when she does that because others judge me and she only says her side of the story and makes me look bad. I hate it because out of all my sisters, I was the one always taking care of her when she cries or after she works. I massaged her...
    quinnharley quinnharley
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    My mother was a monster

    when she was in my life. I remember when I was about 7 my little sister was 6 my mother had horses. She would bring us to feed them very late at 9:00ish. I remember one time It was snowing real bad so when it was time to go I quickly went to the car. My little sisters boot fell...
    Zaqhary Zaqhary
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2013

    She Kicked Me Out....

    When I was 13 I was raped by my uncle (my mother's brother)... I told my mom right after it happened and she didn't believe me, well I became pregnant. She told me that I had to get an abortion but that is not a choice for me... She kicked me out and told me she didn't care were...
    weirdkelsee weirdkelsee
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Jun 25, 2011

    About Me

    I am not one to blog, nor even write a story. I can write and experience and in my own words I am sure you would realize the pain,hurt, happiness, and joy that I experience or have in my life. Lets begin with my mom....there's a lot i can say or a lot I can't, some memories I...
    phoebe1971 phoebe1971
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2011

    Although I can't forgive her,

    I think that's okay. You don't have to be angry to simply live without someone. I know it's for the absolute best, but it still feels sad. Gotta keep my chin up.
    Bobbiin Bobbiin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2015

    " Can You Believe This ?"

    Those who are close to me, and some very good friends on here, know that my childhood was definitely not a walk in the park. My mother was never there for me when I needed her the most, never protected me from anything that she should have. I cut ties with her and her husband, as...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Jan 26, 2012

    UPDATE 3: Tomorrow we head out

    and today were picking (friend) up at night, and then get up early in the morning, get our hotel and stay there the night and do stuff the next day. I don't know what's gonna go down but I'll be with my friend 24/7...I'll try to 😐
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    Jun 19, 2014

    She bet money on me that I would come home I

    ran away and she freaking just say there did nothing while I was running down to the trolley tracks hoping I would die it's been about two years and I still can't forgive her it can't ever stop thinking about this
    lonelinessneverfades lonelinessneverfades
    16-17, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    My mom never let's me go anywhere with my

    friends. I'm going away to camp soon and my friends were throwing me a huge party and she wouldn't let me go. And then I haven't been out with my friends practically all summer. And then she gets mad when I'm on my phone because I am depressed. I just want to get away, being...
    daniellelarson22 daniellelarson22
    16-17, F
    Jul 19, 2014

    My mom is one of those narcissistic parent

    and I finally stopped talking to her but she's trying to talk to me again. It brings up a lot of bad memories my brother called it pts and he stopped talking to her over 10 years ago and he's been in serious therapy in the military
    sjroo00 sjroo00
    31-35, F
    May 30, 2015

    Saw my mother cry outwardly

    for the first time. I find emotions beautiful... Once is enough though, don't be sad momma.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    I Promise You I Wish I Could Forgive Her.

    Two years ago I was in a bad situation and I couldn't function like I used to and it was very hard to Move on, I wasn't myself, I was a total different person but I try moving on and go back to things it used to be. One night I invited my mother and little brothers to come over...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    UPDATE 8: Well after school we walked to town

    and as we walked I saw my moms car and she was in it and waved to us and I hear my friend say "your hot" secretly and then says "Just Kidding ha" there so seeing each other
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    Aug 23, 2014

    I'll Never Understand

    This is my first story and by far the hardest to share. My mother is the reason I have such a hard time trusting others and why I'm always full of self doubt no matter how hard I try. My mom had me when she was 17 and her life as a child was awful, my father left her before I was...
    muffinmeister muffinmeister
    Dec 6, 2010

    UPDATE 4: My mom is gone (at the pool)

    and my friend is wanting to come over...and hang out now that she's gone, I'm really tempted to just straight up ask him if he has the hots for my mom. 😕 I don't know should I.
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    Jun 19, 2014

    My Mom Lied And Told Me She Had Cancer...

    Two years. Two long years since my mom opened up a credit card in my name, lied about it, disowned me when I found out, lied about cancer for sympathy and then told me she did nothing wrong. And now she wants me to forgive her. No, she wants me to "GET OVER IT". She has never...
    Emmamae15 Emmamae15
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2013
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    Thanks for having an affair

    when you were pregnant with my brother. Thanks for planning that abortion. Leaving me and my dad on the streets with no money. Spending that money on that plane ticket. I went to school with dirty clothes and I had no lunch everyday. Dad worked everyday, 20 hours a day just to...
    asiaxn asiaxn
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    She walked out on my sister,

    my dad, and I multiple times. She is a pill head, a moocher and she doesn't approve of my wife and I having a baby. I was depressed, self-harming and had an eating disorder and she never asked me if I was okay. She had me almost handcuffed and sent away to a mental institute. I...
    aprilxharlan aprilxharlan
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    ...quite Yet

    My mom was an alcoholic; no place to live; when she had a job the money went for booze... So her parents adopted me early on. In fact... my grandparents made a very generous offer to my mom. 'We will adopt her so that she has medical insurance and we'll take care of her and...
    stufuslover stufuslover
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2011

    I Don'T Know Why She Hated Me.

    As a child I was a little hyper and very intelligent. I was able to handle adult conversation with an understanding beyond my years. So when my parents began to fight and eventually separated it effected me in a way it couldn't effect my younger siblings. My mom started to push...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    first of, this doesn't mean I hate my mom.

    . its complicated in a way I love her for all the sacrifices, for taking care of me and my sibligs and providing for the family... but I hate how she view things and how much she damage me as I grew up. I can't forgive her for the years she spent thinking of just herself...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2014
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    a few days ago my mom went too far.

    ( warning. lengthy experience ahead!) to start off, she has always been the skinny one in the family. Always eating small portions of health foods and reading the science times like the bible. I've always grown up around my mom looming over me and constantly talking to me...
    Lunawoofy Lunawoofy
    May 11, 2015

    My Mother Must Have Hated Me.

    I can't get over it and now I'm almost 55 years old. 3 kids and I was the youngest. In 2nd grade I was responsible for unlocking the house door after we all got out of school. Sometimes I would forget the key and my older siblings would physically and mentally abuse me then...
    Ismhal Ismhal
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    Never in a million years.

    I don't think I'll ever forgive my mom for what she did to me. I've always been kinda mistrusting at first, naturally wary. It can take months, even years for me to finally start trusting people. For my mom, I had always trusted her. She never really cared for me, truly. I was...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned
    22-25, F
    Aug 30, 2014

    when I was 17, I lived with my dad.

    mom told me he wasn't my real father and made it pretty damn convincing and I moved back home. when I was 18, my sister admitted she was abused by our dad. even though I'd tried telling for years before and was accused of being a drama queen, mom had no problem believing and...
    erayn erayn
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2016

    For a few years now I've had severe/dangerously

    high depression and anxiety to the point where I would not function in any way. I've told my mother I don't know how many times how I've felt, and she's seems to ignore it. My mother and sister treat me like complete **** most of the time and I'm expected not to say anything...
    RachaelTise RachaelTise
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

    I read an article in Oprahs latest magazine

    issue, by Dr. Phil. Narcissistically, the article, finally, got me at the end where it said something along the lines of "no one needs to know that you're forgiving them. Because you're doing this for you, yourself. You deserve to be happy".
    yousentmeflying yousentmeflying
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2014

    My mother had sex with my best friend When I

    was around 17 , most of my friends made of each other but people would mostly likely target my mother at times .for example , I remember one time , when I was on my way to class , a kid was walking behind me and I didn't even know him. Who looked like he was barely 14 , i heard...
    leonardoalexander leonardoalexander
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2014

    My mom has done soo many things to hurt me.

    many she doesnt even know of. first of all, she moved on to quickly. after the divorce, she went back to dating. and now she is dating this, err.. -guy- who i hate, for many reasons. while she is all lovey dovey, i try my hardest not to show how i feel inside. she never once...
    jennamarie210 jennamarie210
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    I Cant Forgive My Mom!

    I already told stories about how she continuastly raped and abuse me.so last light she phoned me asking me to visit me and my boyfriend at first i did not want to but said yes so we heard her in the driveway and opend up the door we had a bottle of vodka and she drank along all...
    TheLastJustice TheLastJustice
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2012

    She been with dad all My life,

    people say how Lucky i am to Have both parents In My life AND than every person That say That i wanna punch them In their face A lot of **** i didn't figure until i Had child of My own, once i started using The same crap i learned From them, i learned alot about My parents Good...
    hunlove hunlove
    36-40, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    It hurts that after everything,

    you would throw me a way for that buck! The approach you took, how you played it all out hurt more...I hope it makes you happy, I hope it brings you joy. So many times I wished death on your life, now I realize that it is and was very wrong. I hope you live your life to the...
    castonstone castonstone
    26-30, F
    Jan 28, 2015

    Every night when my dad goes to work my mum

    gets up and drags me into her room . I guess it's because my dads nightshift and she never gets to see him . but she takes it out on me . she gets so H*rney sometimes but dad ain't there so she uses me . every single night when I hear dads car driving away then I hear her...
    youngandhorney123 youngandhorney123
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    I grew up without a father

    and yet I was never really one of those kids that questioned why. When I was seven, my mother met my step father. At first he floated into our lives and then he dumped his suitcase of baggage in our home.. His kids. Two of his children suffered from mental illness. Both...
    Ditzstressed Ditzstressed
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2014

    UPDATE 5: So we picked my friend up

    and were just hanging out getting ready for tomorrow and my mom comes down...showing cleavage, and ask what we want for dinner and my friend says "whatever you make it's always amazing." She responds "aw your so sweet :) us moms know how to make young men happy with our skills...
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    Jun 20, 2014

    My friend is officially 18

    and so I'm sure that makes my mom very happy....he's been wanting her for so long.
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    Oct 10, 2014

    My mother is a hoarder

    but this really has nothing to do with that. If anything has value to any one else she doesn't care she holds onto it. She has even thrown away other people's things because of a move. My dad was in the army and she refused to give him pictures and certificates. My brother...
    sjroo00 sjroo00
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    A Letter Never Sent

    Dear Mom, I've been meaning to tell you so many things for some time now, but I always seem to stumble upon these words. How could you do it? How could you put me in the car knowing you'd had too much to drink? How could you tell me my brother isn't really my brother at all? How...
    LifeOfAGingerKid LifeOfAGingerKid
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    I Cant Forgive You.

    You left me when I was 4. I lost that connection that we had. But when you came it wsa like everything was normal again. But you kept leaving me. I never understood why you left but once you told me not to blame myself. When you said this all I could think of was 'Why would I...
    bmcb bmcb
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2009

    "On Top Of Every Thing Else........."

                my mother slept with the guys I dated behind my back.......I find that abhorrently disgusting. So, what if it was after I dated some of them? It is still wrong and she has always embarrassed me, but after learning this, I wouldn't pick her up out of a ditch...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2011

    I used to keep a diary.

    I used to write down my most intimate, personal, deepest, darkest things in my diary. I loved it. It helped me. It helped me a lot. That is, until one day when I was 12, my mom decided she was going to rummage through my room trying to find my diary because I had a "boyfriend...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    UPDATE 6: ....message me

    if you wanna know what happened with my mom and friend.
    apartall apartall
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014

    Mom, I kept thinking

    that you would change and that you would be a better person but I now know that the part of my life that I spent waiting is over. I imagine loving parents and getting a car for my 16th birthday instead of getting sent to foster care. Being a teenager is hard but I was never a...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    26-30, F
    Jul 12, 2015
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