I Can't Get Over Being Cheated On

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    I Have Been Cheated On Twice.......

      I have been cheated on twice in my last relationships....it is one thing that totally enrages me.....why do guys do that? if you want to screw other women...stay damn well single!! I have a really hard time trusting...it has taken me so long to do that, and not even...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 25, 2010
    naomizz naomizz
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2014

    He Stole My Happiness

    My boyfriend and I have been together for going on four years. We live together for two.  He was my first everything. I trusted him 110%, I never even thought being cheated on was a possibility.  When he started acting differently, I checked his phone and read his text...
    crm7284 crm7284
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2009

    So.. I'm having the hardest time getting over

    this and I need help.. advice.. anything. my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. we met online while I was away at school in his hometown, but being that he is in the army, we did not meet until about seven months in the relationship. now, my bf told me in the...
    mdbp mdbp
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    Cheated On Twice and Possibly More

    I was married for 25 years to the same man but our marriage ended.  As far as I know he never cheated on me and I never cheated on him.   However, my next relationship was horrible and I'm still suffering the after effects.  After dating this man...
    golotomer golotomer
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    I don't have a clue where to start this

    but I will say thank you to anyone who finds the time to read this. The thoughts and memories that are in my head make me think this will be a lengthy post so I truly appreciate your interest in reading my story. With that said, let me start by telling you the type of guy I...
    Valtboy Valtboy
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    How To Let Go???

    Ya  I have been cheated on. I live with it everyday. Some days are bad, some are ok. The hurt is gone but my mentality is suffering. I think about things I shouldn't because it only leaves me living in the past. I need to let go somehow. Stop crying over something that is over...
    carriecommanda carriecommanda
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Oct 12, 2011

    Cant Move On

    My boyfriend of nearly 4 years confessed to cheating on me 2 months ago and i cant get over it. We lived together for nearly two years n i still live in the unit we shared untill the lease is over. He was cheating on me with 'her' for a year. Im not stupid i knew there were...
    samanthajessie samanthajessie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2013

    I m sure my story isn't the worst.

    He just cheated on me in ***** club, but I really have a problem seeing myself as loveable woman , I have a huge difficulty in accepting myself. Am I gona be enough for a man? I am fit and cute and most people would complement my look or say they would date me. How come I don't...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    Used and Abused

    i am only 18 years old. Ive been with my (x) boyfriend  for the past 7 months. There has been alot of changes in my life since weve been togeather. I made the transition from being  a highschool senior to a freshmen in college. my boyfriend and i are two very different...
    sadedavis1990 sadedavis1990
    6 Responses Dec 2, 2008

    I Dont Know How To Be Happy Again

    Ok it all started when i fond out my boyfriend was calling another girl which he first denied but later admitted that it was an old friends sister then he went out at the weekend and someone told me he had cheated with this girl i confronted him he said he never did it and i even...
    sadbunny24 sadbunny24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2009

    Ten Years On

    Its been nearly ten years since I discovered my first long term boyfriend cheated on me and he left me. It still affects me to this day, I can hardly believe I am saying that. This week I have been finding it really hard to deal with and have been having some severe flashbacks. I...
    tenyearsonstillhurting tenyearsonstillhurting
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2013

    I have been with my Fiance

    for almost 2 years now. He was just getting out of a long relationship when we met, and I knew this. After about 9 months together, I found his phone that he had lost in my car. He was at work and had called me to ask if it was there. I looked to see if he had missed any...
    mkwright99 mkwright99
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    I'm A Writer For The Women's Magazines

    Hello there, I hope you don't mind me getting in touch. My name is Faye. I'm a features writer for the women's magazines in the UK. I was hoping you could help me out with an article I'd like to put together. I am looking for a British lady to name and shame her cheating...
    FayeCaters FayeCaters
    1 Response Jul 4, 2013

    Love Her Unconditionally And Got Cheated On

    I'm so disappointed to my girlfriend. I don't even know should I call her "ex" or still my girlfriend. She always told me about "was", "were", as if I'm already her past. She doesn't even remember the first conversations we had. She choose me over another guy, but she refuse to...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa
    22-25, T
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    I Was Cheated On

    after 10 yrs i was cheated on.Caught him fro facebook. i am only 28.
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2013


    “Bless me Father for I have sinned…" so began my monthly trip to confess all my wrong doing. The thing was, I never really had any sins, so I made them up!   One day as I came to the end of my bogus transgressions the priest surprised me; he addressed me by...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2010

    Been Cheated On-the Pain Won't Go Away

    I'm a male 45 years old, married 21 years and my wife cheated on me in out own house.We are still together and she has shown remorse, but i just don't see her the same way I used to.I want to make it work for the whole family(we have 2 kids, 9 and 14 yrs old). How long does it...
    tkinger tkinger
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Apr 22, 2012


    My boyfriend of 7 months cheated on me about three days ago. I love him so much, I plain to stay with him but I can't get over it. I need help. I feel broken. Like shattered. He did it with a random girl. I blame his roommate because he invited the girls over. I just cry all the...
    ToriNicole1234 ToriNicole1234
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2012

    So on Halloween 2014 I caught my boyfriend of 5

    years naked in the bed with another girl. That has tail spinned me into unravelling years and years of deceit. He waves back and forth between repentance and get over it attitude. He says he is now 100% committed and he won't be judged for life for what he did. But he blames me...
    dazedandconfused99 dazedandconfused99
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2014

    Trying But It Hurts

    I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me on Black Friday... quite fitting.... it was a black day for me indeed. I gave him a second chance but he didn't take it seriously. I walked away in February and in March sent him an email telling him how I felt but asking him not...
    xgumbyz2 xgumbyz2
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

    One Thing....

    This can't just be a story ....  its too hard, too painful.  It will have to come in chunks....  one of the worst things about it is feeling so ashamed.  And played.  Like, did everyone else know, and I was the one hiding behind my love for him so much...
    happygoddess2003 happygoddess2003
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 6, 2008

    Nothing Left To Give

    I was with my wife for 3 years. I woke up one day and she asked to cuddle, I accepted. She told me she slept with a guy while I was asleep in the next room. I was horrified. I could not believe it, as far as I was concerned we were in a healthy, satisfying, and loving...
    jmil11 jmil11
    3 Responses Aug 17, 2012

    It's A Deal-breaker

    Aghghg. I just found out tonight. This story has many facets, but for the sake of anyone ACTUALLY reading this crap, I will likely leave much of it out. So, my boyfriend and I were together for almost 4 years. We have an 18 month old daughter. He works, I stay at home and care...
    neant neant
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

    I Was Just Starting to Trust Him Again

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 6 months. I am bisexual so about a half a year in our relationship he got back in contact with a girl he used to talk to and he thought it was cool if I talked to her so I did. (she lives far away) and I did... I thought she...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2009

    Where Do I Begin!

    My first love was in high school. I was the quiet one he was the popular guy that everybody knew. He approached me one day and from then on we were inseperable for about a year. Four months into our realtionship i started hearing rumors of him being with other girls. I confronted...
    Amethysthidden Amethysthidden
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2009


    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 2, 2010

    Life Goes On

    I may not ever get over being betrayed by my wife of many years and mother of my children, but I will, I must, move on with life. I absolutely will.
    writestuff4u writestuff4u
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

    Where Do I Go From Here.

    My husband for 12 years, had cheated on me for 7 years. We have 2 kids with us. I kind of knew what was happening, but I was plagued with fear of facing the truth that I did not confront him. Over the years, I was aware that we were drifiting apart due to work, and raising the...
    Hitammanis Hitammanis
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jul 2, 2013

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a few months, however he's been my best friend for over a year. We've always been very close, and I thought we were completely open with each other. In October I was going through a rough patch. I was living in a new area (where I met him) four hours from where I grew up...
    wednesdayy wednesdayy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    I'm Finding It Tough To Move On Having Been Betrayed By My Ex

    Ok, so my ex and I were growing apart come our 2 year anniversary. However, whenever we had relationship problems, we ALWAYS talked things through and listened to what each other needed. Shortly after our 2 year anniversary we briefly split up. While this was painful, I began to...
    msrdknts msrdknts
    31-35, F
    Nov 8, 2011

    Married And Cheated On

    I have been married to my husband for 6 1/2 years. We have 3 beautiful girls. I am 26 and he is 28. I found out 4 months ago that he had an affair with a military female. I can't put into words how hurt, betrayed and angry I am. There are just no words. Not only that...
    Elizabethanne86 Elizabethanne86
    26-30, F
    33 Responses Feb 5, 2013

    Im a Joke

    being cheated on is like the world is laughing and the jokes on you. its been a few months but the result of being cheated on, the way i found out is still much too humilating to talk about still. my self esteem is still wasted. you start to feel like a victim like why did you...
    roulette roulette
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2008

    Not sure why I'm here

    but I think to heal myself. Don't get me wrong I'm pissed and the hurt is now anger I'm so mad at myself I was lied to and really duped. I'm too nice and just feel like she got away with something I'm not a revenge type of person but for what she did I had to keep my...
    Shane74 Shane74
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 6, 2014

    My son's father cheated on me a few times I

    just found out a couple of months ago when he finally admitted it. at the point I had already been moved out for two months. I don't know how to let it go. He has two children other than our son and he cheated on me with their mother. He cheated when I was pregnant with our son...
    butterfly1614 butterfly1614
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2015

    He Lied About Cheating On Me

    My husband finally confessed to me that he cheated on me.  I am still hurting deeply and probably always will.  He says that it's in the past and I am trying to cope with that,  but it is something that I can never forget.
    hotmama911 hotmama911
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Sep 25, 2008

    Scared To let Anyone In

    my kids father cheated on me a year and eleven months after we start dating. i was 5 months pregnant when i found out. i don't think there are any words the English dictionary or even in this world that could describe how hurt and devastated i was. its almost 3 year since i found...
    lilrayray lilrayray
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jul 22, 2013

    My Wife And I Were Married In 2005 After Being

    Together For 4 Years. We Were Married Almost 6 Years When I Found Out She Was Cheating On Me. She Had Used Her Cell Phone Along With Facebook And Texting To Go Behind My Back. I Was Willing To Work Things Out Not Only Because Of Our 2 Year Old Daughter But Because I Honestly...
    jeepman2381 jeepman2381
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Fuel On The Fire

    I've been with my children's father for 9 years.. My mother passed away her death was a shock, I went visit while 8 months pregnant and watched her die in front of me from a massive heart attack.. I lost my way for awhile my dad went to prison 5 months after she passed then I...
    Missdmc Missdmc
    1 Response Jan 12, 2013

    i have been with my current bf

    for only a month. he has literally cheated on me at least 10 or 15 times already. and its not just me think he is cheating on me i have a close friend which is his roommate, he is a male. and has told me every time he has cheated on me. an i have even caught him cheating on me...
    lovermaker21 lovermaker21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2015
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