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I Can't Get Over Being Cheated On

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    I'm Finding It Tough To Move On Having Been Betrayed By My Ex

    Ok, so my ex and I were growing apart come our 2 year anniversary. However, whenever we had relationship problems, we ALWAYS talked things through and listened to what each other needed. Shortly after our 2 year anniversary we briefly split up. While this was painful, I began to...
    msrdknts msrdknts 31-35, F Nov 8, 2011

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    Fuel On The Fire

    I've been with my children's father for 9 years.. My mother passed away her death was a shock, I went visit while 8 months pregnant and watched her die in front of me from a massive heart attack.. I lost my way for awhile my dad went to prison 5 months after she passed then I...
    Missdmc Missdmc 26-30 1 Response Jan 12, 2013

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    I Was Cheated On

    after 10 yrs i was cheated on.Caught him fro facebook. i am only 28.
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    It's A Deal-breaker

    Aghghg. I just found out tonight. This story has many facets, but for the sake of anyone ACTUALLY reading this crap, I will likely leave much of it out. So, my boyfriend and I were together for almost 4 years. We have an 18 month old daughter. He works, I stay at home and care...
    neant neant 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I Was Just Starting to Trust Him Again

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 6 months. I am bisexual so about a half a year in our relationship he got back in contact with a girl he used to talk to and he thought it was cool if I talked to her so I did. (she lives far away) and I did... I thought she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    Been Cheated On-the Pain Won't Go Away

    I'm a male 45 years old, married 21 years and my wife cheated on me in out own house.We are still together and she has shown remorse, but i just don't see her the same way I used to.I want to make it work for the whole family(we have 2 kids, 9 and 14 yrs old). How long does it...
    tkinger tkinger 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    He Stole My Happiness

    My boyfriend and I have been together for going on four years. We live together for two.  He was my first everything. I trusted him 110%, I never even thought being cheated on was a possibility.  When he started acting differently, I checked his phone and read his text...
    crm7284 crm7284 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    I may not ever get over being betrayed by my wife of many years and mother of my children, but I will, I must, move on with life. I absolutely will.
    writestuff4u writestuff4u 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Nothing Left To Give

    I was with my wife for 3 years. I woke up one day and she asked to cuddle, I accepted. She told me she slept with a guy while I was asleep in the next room. I was horrified. I could not believe it, as far as I was concerned we were in a healthy, satisfying, and loving...
    jmil11 jmil11 18-21 3 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    Trying But It Hurts

    I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me on Black Friday... quite fitting.... it was a black day for me indeed. I gave him a second chance but he didn't take it seriously. I walked away in February and in March sent him an email telling him how I felt but asking him not...
    xgumbyz2 xgumbyz2 31-35 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Where Do I Begin!

    My first love was in high school. I was the quiet one he was the popular guy that everybody knew. He approached me one day and from then on we were inseperable for about a year. Four months into our realtionship i started hearing rumors of him being with other girls. I confronted...
    Amethysthidden Amethysthidden 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2009

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    Ten Years On

    Its been nearly ten years since I discovered my first long term boyfriend cheated on me and he left me. It still affects me to this day, I can hardly believe I am saying that. This week I have been finding it really hard to deal with and have been having some severe flashbacks. I...
    tenyearsonstillhurting tenyearsonstillhurting 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Every Time I Feel I'M Over It....

    There's something to remind me. That something is my subconscious thoughts, in my dreams. I rarely have them anymore, but last night I had another bad dream. It's always the same reoccurring theme....Why?? I just want to forget it all!!
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    Married And Cheated On

    I have been married to my husband for 6 1/2 years. We have 3 beautiful girls. I am 26 and he is 28. I found out 4 months ago that he had an affair with a military female. I can't put into words how hurt, betrayed and angry I am. There are just no words. Not only that...
    Elizabethanne86 Elizabethanne86 26-30, F 38 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Used and Abused

    i am only 18 years old. Ive been with my (x) boyfriend  for the past 7 months. There has been alot of changes in my life since weve been togeather. I made the transition from being  a highschool senior to a freshmen in college. my boyfriend and i are two very different...
    sadedavis1990 sadedavis1990 18-21 6 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    First Love

    Last year me & my boyfriend broke up because we both thought we werent right for each other, then a couple months ago he asked me to prom, i went with him & had a gr8 night out, it was like we were going out again, he practically asked me over his that night, but i...
    hiddenmystery hiddenmystery 18-21, F Sep 9, 2009

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    Cant Move On

    My boyfriend of nearly 4 years confessed to cheating on me 2 months ago and i cant get over it. We lived together for nearly two years n i still live in the unit we shared untill the lease is over. He was cheating on me with 'her' for a year. Im not stupid i knew there were...
    samanthajessie samanthajessie 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Cheated On Twice and Possibly More

    I was married for 25 years to the same man but our marriage ended.  As far as I know he never cheated on me and I never cheated on him.   However, my next relationship was horrible and I'm still suffering the after effects.  After dating this man...
    golotomer golotomer 51-55 2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    I Dont Know How To Be Happy Again

    Ok it all started when i fond out my boyfriend was calling another girl which he first denied but later admitted that it was an old friends sister then he went out at the weekend and someone told me he had cheated with this girl i confronted him he said he never did it and i even...
    sadbunny24 sadbunny24 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2009

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    How To Let Go???

    Ya  I have been cheated on. I live with it everyday. Some days are bad, some are ok. The hurt is gone but my mentality is suffering. I think about things I shouldn't because it only leaves me living in the past. I need to let go somehow. Stop crying over something that is over...
    carriecommanda carriecommanda 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    I Have Been Cheated On Twice.......

      I have been cheated on twice in my last relationships....it is one thing that totally enrages me.....why do guys do that? if you want to screw other women...stay damn well single!! I have a really hard time trusting...it has taken me so long to do that, and not even...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Apr 25, 2010

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    Onwards

    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    Not sure why I'm here

    but I think to heal myself. Don't get me wrong I'm pissed and the hurt is now anger I'm so mad at myself I was lied to and really duped. I'm too nice and just feel like she got away with something I'm not a revenge type of person but for what she did I had to keep my...
    Shane74 Shane74 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    Scared To let Anyone In

    my kids father cheated on me a year and eleven months after we start dating. i was 5 months pregnant when i found out. i don't think there are any words the English dictionary or even in this world that could describe how hurt and devastated i was. its almost 3 year since i found...
    lilrayray lilrayray 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    Priests?

    “Bless me Father for I have sinned…" so began my monthly trip to confess all my wrong doing. The thing was, I never really had any sins, so I made them up!   One day as I came to the end of my bogus transgressions the priest surprised me; he addressed me by...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2010

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    I'm A Writer For The Women's Magazines

    Hello there, I hope you don't mind me getting in touch. My name is Faye. I'm a features writer for the women's magazines in the UK. I was hoping you could help me out with an article I'd like to put together. I am looking for a British lady to name and shame her cheating...
    FayeCaters FayeCaters 22-25 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    He Lied About Cheating On Me

    My husband finally confessed to me that he cheated on me.  I am still hurting deeply and probably always will.  He says that it's in the past and I am trying to cope with that,  but it is something that I can never forget.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2008

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    Shattered..

    My boyfriend of 7 months cheated on me about three days ago. I love him so much, I plain to stay with him but I can't get over it. I need help. I feel broken. Like shattered. He did it with a random girl. I blame his roommate because he invited the girls over. I just cry all the...
    ToriNicole1234 ToriNicole1234 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    Where Do I Go From Here.

    My husband for 12 years, had cheated on me for 7 years. We have 2 kids with us. I kind of knew what was happening, but I was plagued with fear of facing the truth that I did not confront him. Over the years, I was aware that we were drifiting apart due to work, and raising the...
    Hitammanis Hitammanis 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    Love Her Unconditionally And Got Cheated On

    I'm so disappointed to my girlfriend. I don't even know should I call her "ex" or still my girlfriend. She always told me about "was", "were", as if I'm already her past. She doesn't even remember the first conversations we had. She choose me over another guy, but she refuse to...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa 22-25, T 3 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Im a Joke

    being cheated on is like the world is laughing and the jokes on you. its been a few months but the result of being cheated on, the way i found out is still much too humilating to talk about still. my self esteem is still wasted. you start to feel like a victim like why did you...
    roulette roulette 21-25, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2008

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    One Thing....

    This can't just be a story ....  its too hard, too painful.  It will have to come in chunks....  one of the worst things about it is feeling so ashamed.  And played.  Like, did everyone else know, and I was the one hiding behind my love for him so much...
    happygoddess2003 happygoddess2003 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 6, 2008

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    FluffyTheCerealKiller FluffyTheCerealKiller 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Then I am wasting my time in this relationship
    Hungry4Italian Hungry4Italian 46-50, M Aug 18

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    But I'm deciding to do so this "morning" because I can't sleep & won't be able to unless I get this off my chest. Long story short someone I deeply care about is finally going to...
    OBLiViOUS2YOU OBLiViOUS2YOU 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I am so happy being a forever single as a black woman. I can't stand being around men for too long because men have a natural need to control and hate hearing women issues. Men...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I have had the most difficult year of my life. What was supposed to be a fresh start turned into a nightmare, one that I can't get out of. Moving overseas is not easy, you kinda...
    cursedswan cursedswan 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    You know what really bothers me, and my husband reminds of this periodically, is that I am showing my kids how they should treat me when they get older by the way I engage with and...
    nkmnovember nkmnovember 36-40 Sep 1

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    I try. It get's so frustrating to continue to try to do things that you know you are going to fail at. I was diagnosed with Adult Onset ADD when I returned to college at 25. I...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F Sep 8

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    Still don't know how I got here. Typical I guess, he came after me, said they were over, crazy love. They went as far as talking to a lawyer and then one day something happened and...
    LazyLittleLion LazyLittleLion 31-35, F Aug 27

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    Everybody keeps saying that I'm just being a wimp, or I need to work harder, or I'll get over it with practice. But they don't understand. While other people do better in high...
    EcrivainInquiete EcrivainInquiete 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I can't sleep or hardly even eat I keep crying myself to sleep the abuse started when I was 14 with guys I went to school with they would hold me down and touch me sometimes they...
    Kitten2514 Kitten2514 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm glad that this experience was posted up because right now I am going through something which is very difficult. I have been with my partner for 9 yrs. Since I was 19 I am now...
    whisperingcampaign whisperingcampaign 26-30, F Aug 25

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation phase when it comes time to...
    TheDiscardedImage TheDiscardedImage 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    She is an alcoholic, sober 5 yes,severely clinically depressed and bi polar. My husband, son and I have, out of necessitu,lived with her in her basement for 9 months. We're...
    Dinagurv Dinagurv 51-55, F Aug 17

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    Over the weekend, a few friends and I rented a campsite to commemorate the summer. Due to several of the people either getting sick or becoming unable to attend, it ended up being...
    theanonwriter theanonwriter 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    My life has been completely turned upside down and inside out over the course of the last 2 years. Why? Because I fell in love with a married man that I connected with on every...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Aneiine Aneiine 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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