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I Can't Get Over It

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    I'm Confused

    Okay so theres this guy I like we became friends, he hurt me, I said good-bye....then I told him that I missed talking to him and he understood, at first I didn't mind not talking to him then again he does go to my school so I have the chance to see...
    cuteblonde cuteblonde 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Longing For Too Long

    I have been single for about three years now and I can't seem to finally get over my ex. I felt so much towards him and then things just fell apart. I moved away, we had many fights, long distance didn't work, and words were said. I saw us doing a lot of first together or at...
    morric22 morric22 26-30, M Aug 15, 2013

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    I Can't Just Get Over It

    it doesn't work like that ....I can't just get over Bill abusing me. I can't just get over a number of people abusing me.I can't get over my relatives being so rude to me.... after ever thing I gave up and did for them, they repay me with abuseI can't get over dirty dog Poopter...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2012

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    Given All The Love I Can Give

    After being in a relationship for a year, My ex then toyed with my emotions for the past 2 years after that. Up to a few days ago. Even though he is no longer in my life, has a new girlfriend and what not- I feel like he still has some power over me. And I know, someone doesnt...
    seazleaz seazleaz 18-21 2 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    I keep thinking I'm past it

    and that I can move on. I want things to just be like they were and wake up from this night mare. But every time I'm ready to let go of the anger and take my husbands hand and walk forward I can't. Something stops me. The doubt, the paranoia, the anger that just sits there...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83 26-30, F Jun 13

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    Can't Get Over It

    Can't get over it,You've done it again,Let me down,I gave you another chance,You've blown it,I don'no,What I'm gonna do,I've had enough!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 May 14, 2012

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    Lost

    I have been dating the same guy for over 2 years now and it has been one hell of a ride. Within the first few months of us dating I discovered emails between him and his ex gf saying that he was still in love with her. He swore to me that he didn't mean it he was just trying to...
    camarochick camarochick 22-25 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    Its Eating Me Alive

    Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together going on 8 months on the 24th My Boyfriend did lose his virginity to me so eairler in our relationship in about october he left me to go with another female my boyfriend did have sex with the young lady while cheating on her with me my...
    SexyDepression SexyDepression 16-17 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I Should Be Moving On, But I Cant

    my ex started dating my sister and it killed me. It tore a hole into my heart and even though they have broken up, it still lingers there. My sister and I are talking again. To her it seems like old times; our bond is back and we still share the same sense of humor, the same...
    saki87 saki87 22-25, F Sep 11, 2013

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    In My Mind

    As a teen through highschool, I use to be bullied due to my weight and my sexuality. After that, my teen years where basically ruined. Sometimes, I made it worse due to insicureity. Others, I knew it would be them or someone else comeing along to take a shot at me because they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 12, 2011

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    I Was Fooled, Used And Abused

    It's easy to say: "Get over it." I can not. I wish I could. I am sensitive to cold. I was tired of cold Ontario winters and decided to move to a warmer place in Canada - Victoria, BC. I came to Victoria to start a new life in October 2006, not knowing anybody there. Lived in a...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    I'm trying. But it's hard.

    I've been watching and cheering them all this time. They did their best. It just wasn't enough.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Forgotten

    Even though it's been a while, I still can't get over being betrayed and forgotten by the friends I loved.
    Tibicina Tibicina 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2010

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    It's very easy for someone to say "get over it"

    when your toxic relationship comes to an end. But it's not always that easy. A relationship with a sociopath can take years to recover from. Every moment from beginning to end was a calculated move intended to DISTURB your life, to DOMINATE you, to BELITTLE you, to DESTROY you...
    TygerLylly TygerLylly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Linda and I have been friends for 9 years and just graduated from high school together we always talked about going to college together and being roommates and being at each others...
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    Before telling you my story, I wanna ask you something... Is there someone who you just can't get over? Someone who's broken your heart and you just can't mend it? 3 years ago I...
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    I am so friggin unhappy I don't even know where to start. A bit over 2 years ago I moved to another country, away from my friends and family, to be with my husband. I was so happy...
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    Maybe it's the anxiety disorder, but i flip out over everything. I have crazy thoughts and process every possible or impossible way of things going terribly wrong at every moment...
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    I fell in love with my best friend. I really shouldn't have. Especially since I dated her best friend, but I did. And I can't get over it. Everything about her is smart, and...
    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I'm 21 and I cling to everything I can remember, which isn't much of a good thing... I remember heart break, physical agony, emotional torture, and memories that I wish I could...
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    I am in love with my friends brother in law. He is gorgeous and has the sweetest personality. The one problem is he has a girl friend who has emotional problems. He tries to smile...
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    I dated a girl all throughout high school. We started dating Freshman year (her sophomore year) and we dated up until she went off to college. I left her after she had been at...
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    I'm so upset, I keep filling in this box and erasing it. I can't even. I just can't. I hate myself.
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    My mind some times just starts racing out of control jumping from topic to topic. I try to write it down done times but it goes to fast and I miss the middle bit. Even goes so fast...
    ApollosArrow ApollosArrow 18-21 2 Responses Jun 29

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    skull55 skull55 16-17, M Jun 29

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    It's all I can think about. Every moment of every day. It happened over 4 years ago. Why can't I move on?! :'(
    ashdavenport ashdavenport 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    The most horrible feeling ever! You have those nights where you got so much things on your mind and as soon as you put your head on the pillow the thoughts keep swimming around...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Never thought I would have a kid before marriage and definitely never thought I would be a single mom and not have a stable family for my child. Never thought I would be with...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    So I honestly just have to get all of this off of my chest because lately I've had way too much anger inside of me. So my girlfriend has 5 other siblings, two of which happen to be...
    lezbihonest18 lezbihonest18 18-21, F Jul 12

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    Long story short: I cheated on my ex and he dumped me. Now I can't get him out of my head. I don't know why cheated, I keep trying to find a reason but when I find one I feel like...
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    My husband and I just got into a huge fight about the fact that I don't open up to him. I can understand why he would be upset about it - I would be too if I were in his shoes. But...
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    I need help or advice. I am 22 years old, I feel as if I am 50 haha, been through a lot of stuff in my life. I am in love with someone who I will never have, :( we both have...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Eh, I for one do censor my thoughts because something in me is self-conscious towards myself...but it's strange, and rather pathetic that I feel so-- my thoughts are probably...
    Ewoo Ewoo 16-17 1 day ago

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    I am in love with a Mormon. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love...
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    So I have a crush on this guy... he is amazing but he's really popular and currently has a girlfriend who is so, so pretty. She is really nice and it's so hard to hate her. I'm one...
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