I Can't Get Over It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 175 People

    Lost

    I have been dating the same guy for over 2 years now and it has been one hell of a ride. Within the first few months of us dating I discovered emails between him and his ex gf saying that he was still in love with her. He swore to me that he didn't mean it he was just trying to...
    camarochick camarochick
    22-25
    1 Response Jun 11, 2012

    There's something I can't get over.

    ...a man that I loved for so long, and he the same. Things have changed recently, and I'm trying my best to let it go and move on. Any ideas on how to not let it captivate my mind 24/7?
    twisteduniverse twisteduniverse
    22-25, F
    Dec 12, 2014

    Forgotten

    Even though it's been a while, I still can't get over being betrayed and forgotten by the friends I loved.
    Tibicina Tibicina
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jan 26, 2010

    I'm Confused

    Okay so theres this guy I like we became friends, he hurt me, I said good-bye....then I told him that I missed talking to him and he understood, at first I didn't mind not talking to him then again he does go to my school so I have the chance to see...
    cuteblonde cuteblonde
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2009

    I keep thinking I'm past it

    and that I can move on. I want things to just be like they were and wake up from this night mare. But every time I'm ready to let go of the anger and take my husbands hand and walk forward I can't. Something stops me. The doubt, the paranoia, the anger that just sits there...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83
    26-30, F
    Jun 13, 2014

    It's very easy for someone to say "get over it"

    when your toxic relationship comes to an end. But it's not always that easy. A relationship with a sociopath can take years to recover from. Every moment from beginning to end was a calculated move intended to DISTURB your life, to DOMINATE you, to BELITTLE you, to DESTROY you...
    TygerLylly TygerLylly
    36-40, F
    Jun 20, 2014

    I Can't Just Get Over It

    it doesn't work like that ....I can't just get over Bill abusing me. I can't just get over a number of people abusing me.I can't get over my relatives being so rude to me.... after ever thing I gave up and did for them, they repay me with abuseI can't get over dirty dog Poopter...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

    Longing For Too Long

    I have been single for about three years now and I can't seem to finally get over my ex. I felt so much towards him and then things just fell apart. I moved away, we had many fights, long distance didn't work, and words were said. I saw us doing a lot of first together or at...
    morric22 morric22
    26-30, M
    Aug 15, 2013

    Its Eating Me Alive

    Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together going on 8 months on the 24th My Boyfriend did lose his virginity to me so eairler in our relationship in about october he left me to go with another female my boyfriend did have sex with the young lady while cheating on her with me my...
    SexyDepression SexyDepression
    16-17
    2 Responses May 22, 2012

    Can't Get Over It

    Can't get over it,You've done it again,Let me down,I gave you another chance,You've blown it,I don'no,What I'm gonna do,I've had enough!
    startinover1 startinover1
    46-50
    May 14, 2012

    I met this great guy,

    he was a perfect guy, such a gentleman etc. We had a fun time together but it was anyway temporary since he was only here for a business trip. However i did really like him alot, so i hoped.. my hope was crushed when on our last time together he forgot to remove his wedding...
    Theeyeofsauron Theeyeofsauron
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I Should Be Moving On, But I Cant

    my ex started dating my sister and it killed me. It tore a hole into my heart and even though they have broken up, it still lingers there. My sister and I are talking again. To her it seems like old times; our bond is back and we still share the same sense of humor, the same...
    saki87 saki87
    22-25, F
    Sep 11, 2013

    Given All The Love I Can Give

    After being in a relationship for a year, My ex then toyed with my emotions for the past 2 years after that. Up to a few days ago. Even though he is no longer in my life, has a new girlfriend and what not- I feel like he still has some power over me. And I know, someone doesnt...
    seazleaz seazleaz
    18-21
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2012

    In My Mind

    As a teen through highschool, I use to be bullied due to my weight and my sexuality. After that, my teen years where basically ruined. Sometimes, I made it worse due to insicureity. Others, I knew it would be them or someone else comeing along to take a shot at me because they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 12, 2011

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