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I Can't Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me

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    So Sad

    wow cant belive how much it all just hurts just thinking about how to put it all into words.here goes well i have been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs now and i will start by saying i love him more than i ever thought was possible, but i guess in the end my love was not strong...
    rach83 rach83 26-30 8 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    He cheated on me with my best friend

    and gave me an sti. And he cheated on my with his ex over Christmas. but I still want to be with him no matter what or im how much I hurt.
    shyster1011 shyster1011 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring for my mum who was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 1/2 years ago. Our relationship has always been wonderful but since we left...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    my boyfriend cheated on me

    and I think about it all the time although I forgave him and we moved on, this just makes me even more depressed, and it makes me feel even more worthless.
    alexsisspates alexsisspates 16-17 1 Response Apr 14

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    I'm trying to get over my boyfriend of 1 yr

    and 2 months cheating on me. This is the second time and we are in deep even went to college together and my family loves him. He calls me a ***** all the time and just overall has no respect for me. He's broke with no job and no goals he only came to college because I did. Now...
    catema catema 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    The Hurt Wife

    My husband shattered my soul. I was one of the wives that just knew, that beyond the shadow of any doubt, that MY husband would NEVER in a million yrs cheat. Yeah he cheated alright. And was caught during my most vulnerable time(s) yea more than one incident and during more than...
    mconway177 mconway177 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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    So today I saw that my boyfriend has a

    boyahoy(kinda like grindr) account. I saw it because when I looked at his phone he got a notification that a guy messaged him. I don't really know how to feel about it.
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M May 12, 2014

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    My boyfriend of 16 months exchanged pictures

    with a girl and they had a thing for a good bit of time. He's apologized countless times and has cried about how bad he feels. What do I do
    rghgrace rghgrace 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 26, 2014

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    Boyfriend Cheated Multiple Times

    Wow, where do I start with this story. My boyfriend and I were dating for a month before he cheated on me by sleeping with a random girl from a club. I study in a different town so we have a long distance relationship. Two days after he first cheated, he came to visit me and I...
    msconfused1 msconfused1 18-21, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Please Help Me

    My boyfriend cheated on me during the first month we started dating with his ex gf. He would talk so much crap about her and call her a **** and say she nasty and all this bad stuff. She told me that he cheated on me but before all that, he told me that she would probably be...
    13nikki0710 13nikki0710 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Thanks for the great feedback in private

    messages about the idea of the "I am not the other woman" group being a central platform for all of us who have been cheated on. Starting to post openly would be great :-)
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    My boyfriend am I live together we have a

    terriable history of him cheating on me. And recently we broke up due to my insecurities .. I cannot get over him cheating ig has damaged me forever because I cannot trust or erase it from my mind. We broke up but still live together he changed the password on his phone And took...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    On Tuesday I found out

    that my fiancé has a three year old son and the issue is that we've been together for going on 8 years :( When I first got in to my relationship he had a 1 year old son from a previous relationship. It took sometime but I excepted this son like he was my own. This child is...
    brokenhearted1223 brokenhearted1223 31-35, F 3 Responses May 24, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work

    things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best friend and makes me so happy 99% of the time. Our relationship was very honest and very happy. We hardly ever fought and when we did, we got over it...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for almost 8 years. He's been my only boyfriend. All these years he's been an amazing boyfriend. I felt so blessed to have met someone that would do so much for me. Makes me breakfast in the morning. Massages me every night. Cooks. Takes care of me in every way possible. He's...
    smallz23 smallz23 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    Charmeeee Charmeeee 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2014

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    Cant Get Over Cheating Ex Boyfriend.. Should I Regret Leaving?

    Went out with a guy for over 2 years. He was the most thoughtful and caring guy Ive ever went out with..but he cant seem to say the words 'I love you". When asked he would just say he cant say what he cant feel so I waited. A few months before our 2nd anniversay I caught him...
    weebabe5 weebabe5 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Will I Ever Fully Forgive Him For His Infidelity?

    I've been with my boyfriend for four years. I wont sit here and say our relationship has been the ideal relationship since day one or that he is the bad guy here, I've made my mistakes too. We have had our struggles, but always find a way to make things work and stay together. He...
    Piper09 Piper09 22-25, F 26 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Help need advice- long story short we have

    known each other for 13 years but remained friends until we started dating 3 years ago. He took a new job that he had to go out of town for.I kept his house clean, worked and never strayed. He called me one night and said that he had gotten arrested and needed me to drive down...
    Walkedinblind Walkedinblind 31-35, F Apr 23, 2014

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    My boyfriend is going away to Amsterdam,

    he's been before and I didn't really have an issue with it as we wasn't serious! but since then I've found out that one of the friend he is going with pays for sex although he is married to one of the most stunning women I've ever met, makes no sense but hey each to there own...
    SoryaB SoryaB 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2014

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    So Confused And Hurt

    I found out a couple days ago that my boyfriend of 6 years was talking to another girl. He has lied to me about this for 7 months now. At first I found a cell phone picture of a girl and he said he got it off the internet, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Couple months...
    cee885 cee885 22-25 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    my bf and i have been together for a year plus. i took him in when he wsa jobless and had no money. i sacrifced my outings with my friends so we cld have some food on the table. eventually aft several months he got a job n that meant a better future for me. or so i...
    Reen Reen 26-30 5 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    Guys or Girls don't cheat

    unless something is wrong in the relationship they are in, move on or get over it, both people in a relationship where one person (or both) cheats had played a part in it happening. Remember, it's not always what happens in life that is really important, it's what you do about...
    AidanMac AidanMac 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I've known my current boyfriend

    for about a good whole year now. We're constantly on the phone 24/7 (because it's long distance). About 6 months into our relationship, he told me he cheated on me with his neighborhood friend. I was devastated because he did raise some red flags during that time but realized I...
    heartbeatxxxx heartbeatxxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    perpetuallyindecisive perpetuallyindecisive 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a

    year and I caught him cheating me over 6 times with 6 different people I only found out cause friends of mine told me he was deleting the messages but the girls weren't they all gave me proof and I still am heart broken from in cause not only is he my boyfriend he's my future...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Hi... My name is Autumn.

    Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck in June since I'm older I'm 17 he's 20. I never stopped caring or thinkin bout him he was my first everything. But then a few...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Hi there, we've all seen the "I am the other

    woman group" They have a great enabling network. As betrayed women we need a support group for ourselves so we can help eachother work through the betrayal. So my suggestion is pooling together in the "I am not the other woman" group. So if you've been cheated on and are not a...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my

    boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she cheated on him with over 7 men and later we started a relationship and I moved in with him. One day I found a text from his ex saying should I tell...
    marieash marieash 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 1, 2014

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    My boyfriend was out of town on the day of my

    birthday, when he got back (two weeks later) he promised he would make it up to me. So i agreed and he planned this whole night and it was honestly amazing. We went to this expensive restaurant and had a good time talking. After we ate he drove us to his families beach house...
    HashtagBells HashtagBells 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Help Please!

    Ok so New Years day it came out that my boyfriend of 2 years had cheated on me 8 months previously. 8 months earlier when he slept with this girl it came out as a 'roumour' but both him and the girl (who i didnt know) denied it. Their stories didnt quite match up me and my...
    Beckypxxxxxx Beckypxxxxxx 18-21 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my

    pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing he was risking it all What's wrong with people! I found out when our baby was 3 weeks old! He sat in scans, picked our new home, our child's name...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31, 2014

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    The Best Thing I Ever Did Was Leave Him:)

    I wrote on this site about 6 months ago in regards to my cheating boyfriend.. I am writing here again to hopefully inspire anyone else who has or is also dealing with a cheater. I spent 4 years trying to make someone happy who I finally realized just doesn't want to be happy...
    Piper09 Piper09 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    just thinking about this puts

    so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was probably my second real relationship. He begged me to date him,so one night i finally said yes. the very next day,it was st...
    jaycer jaycer 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend have only been together 5

    months and he slept with his ex whilst we was together once and she slept over his house twice. She told me about a week ago because he didn't have the balls to do it, so I confronted him and asked him why and he said it's because it was old feelings and he was drunk, which isn...
    jennypenny1664 jennypenny1664 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    My boyfriend was my world.

    we were together 5 years, but he kept causing rows every few months then leaving. he'd say it was my fault. I'd not treated him right or I was in a bad mood when I wasn't. I'd beg forgiveness. He'd come back after a few days. Then I found messages from women. He'd cheated on...
    hayley3383 hayley3383 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    my boyfriend and i just recently broke up.

    he, without saying a word, decided to sleep with his best friend's fiancee's cousin!!! like what the hell? so i found out not only through instagram but from his best friend's fiancee! evenn better right? then he lied for about an hour trying to cover himself. im so hurt
    autumnfahey autumnfahey 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    When Youve Been Betrayed, How Do You Recover

    I snooped. The man who just asked me to marry him...he's been talking to women on his FB account. I had a feeling something wasn't right, intuition. He's in his 40's and all the women he was talking to were in their 20's. But the thing is, he wasn't being remotely truthful...
    luckycharmz luckycharmz 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I was cheated on a month

    after he moved in with me and am struggling to move on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18

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    Being Cheated On Sucks

    Boyfriend left me for a chick he met over his online game and I got back with him after she stood him up. I feel so stupid when I think about it too.Things have been going well with us right now (he says he's so in love with me and he wants to get married and plan our future...
    ladybugsonthebeach ladybugsonthebeach 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    I Am Confused !!

    I broke-up with my ex-bf almost one year ago , still I can't forget the memory , pain , everything ! I really don't understand myself .......my ex-bf lied looking at my eyes all and everything about him and his family to be with me !!!!!!   He married another girl even , and...
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    I Don'T Know..

    I've been having trust issues more & more everyday. I'm 5 months pregnant, and I always think my boyfriends cheating on me. It's getting to the point where I'm disgusted by him.. Don't wanna kiss him or touch him, basically feels like I don't love him anymore, I know I do love...
    Yesmeenhudaa Yesmeenhudaa 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    Caught my boyfriend cheating on several dating

    websites while he was dating me. I was so angry and hurt because we were in a long distance relationship and I thought we had established trust in each other. When I asked him about it he completely denied it saying his cousin made it because he didn't have the app on his phone...
    tadpole92 tadpole92 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    My boyfriend and me have been together

    for almost 4 years yet I can't seem to actually be fed up enough to leave. I can't count on both my hands how many times he's cheated... I don't know what to do anymore. He's my world. But I feel everything he says nowadays is one giant lie.
    kaylakinkade kaylakinkade 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    My Husband Cheated, and I'm Having a Hard Time Getting Over It.

     After having 7 years of "happily ever after" my husband cheated. I had no idea until our kids came home from their grandparents (his parents) house, and told me about "her." He had been going out to karaoke w/ his parents on Saturday night, which is a...
    mandypants mandypants 26-30, F 20 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    it may take time, it may hurt a lot

    but in the end you'll forget about it, just don't forgive. Life goes on
    Mindlha Mindlha 22-25, M May 7

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