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I Can't Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me

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    My boyfriend was my world.

    we were together 5 years, but he kept causing rows every few months then leaving. he'd say it was my fault. I'd not treated him right or I was in a bad mood when I wasn't. I'd beg forgiveness. He'd come back after a few days. Then I found messages from women. He'd cheated on...
    hayley3383 hayley3383 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    The Best Thing I Ever Did Was Leave Him:)

    I wrote on this site about 6 months ago in regards to my cheating boyfriend.. I am writing here again to hopefully inspire anyone else who has or is also dealing with a cheater. I spent 4 years trying to make someone happy who I finally realized just doesn't want to be happy...
    Piper09 Piper09 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Cant Get Over Cheating Ex Boyfriend.. Should I Regret Leaving?

    Went out with a guy for over 2 years. He was the most thoughtful and caring guy Ive ever went out with..but he cant seem to say the words 'I love you". When asked he would just say he cant say what he cant feel so I waited. A few months before our 2nd anniversay I caught him...
    weebabe5 weebabe5 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    perpetuallyindecisive perpetuallyindecisive 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    So Very Confused.

    My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me, we have one little girl together. It was around April that he broke up with me, & a week later I found out that he got with his co-worker that he's been talking to for a while, claiming that they're only friends & that she has a boyfriend...
    lynndurh lynndurh 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    we've only been dating

    for 9 months, but ive been in serious relationships before and he is completely different from all of them. i actually really love this man. anyways he moved out of state several months ago for work and cheated on me with a co worker after a late night at the office. he takes...
    eventheloserss eventheloserss 18-21 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Feeling Broken

    My boyfriend and I have been dating 6 months. I'll jump right into it. At the very beginning of our relationship, we were essentially exclusive just didn't have official "titles". We go out to my favorite bar with all our friends, its a...
    Jem0111 Jem0111 18-21 3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for a year, and I just found out he cheated on me the first month we were together and he continued to do sexual things via text and snapchat and Facebook throughout our whole relationship. he lied the whole time saying this person was doing it but he wasn't responding and...
    xangelica xangelica 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 8yrs now we have 1 child together and i have 2 from a previous. 3 weeks ago i found out my bfax had meet and slept with some1 else almost 2yrs ago whilst we were on a break which was for five was. I went through his phone and saw a girls number and text her loads until she...
    sianlp821082 sianlp821082 31-35 Dec 29, 2013

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    Boyfriend Cheated Multiple Times

    Wow, where do I start with this story. My boyfriend and I were dating for a month before he cheated on me by sleeping with a random girl from a club. I study in a different town so we have a long distance relationship. Two days after he first cheated, he came to visit me and I...
    msconfused1 msconfused1 18-21, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Broken Dreams

    my bf and i have been together for a year plus. i took him in when he wsa jobless and had no money. i sacrifced my outings with my friends so we cld have some food on the table. eventually aft several months he got a job n that meant a better future for me. or so i...
    Reen Reen 26-30 5 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    blahh21 blahh21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I've known my current boyfriend

    for about a good whole year now. We're constantly on the phone 24/7 (because it's long distance). About 6 months into our relationship, he told me he cheated on me with his neighborhood friend. I was devastated because he did raise some red flags during that time but realized I...
    heartbeatxxxx heartbeatxxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    My Husband Cheated, and I'm Having a Hard Time Getting Over It.

     After having 7 years of "happily ever after" my husband cheated. I had no idea until our kids came home from their grandparents (his parents) house, and told me about "her." He had been going out to karaoke w/ his parents on Saturday night, which is a...
    mandypants mandypants 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Help need advice- long story short we have

    known each other for 13 years but remained friends until we started dating 3 years ago. He took a new job that he had to go out of town for.I kept his house clean, worked and never strayed. He called me one night and said that he had gotten arrested and needed me to drive down...
    Walkedinblind Walkedinblind 31-35, F Apr 23

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    my boyfriend and i just recently broke up.

    he, without saying a word, decided to sleep with his best friend's fiancee's cousin!!! like what the hell? so i found out not only through instagram but from his best friend's fiancee! evenn better right? then he lied for about an hour trying to cover himself. im so hurt
    autumnfahey autumnfahey 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I Don'T Know..

    I've been having trust issues more & more everyday. I'm 5 months pregnant, and I always think my boyfriends cheating on me. It's getting to the point where I'm disgusted by him.. Don't wanna kiss him or touch him, basically feels like I don't love him anymore, I know I do love...
    Yesmeenhudaa Yesmeenhudaa 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    my boyfriend cheated on me two months ago

    and I can't seem to forgive him or get over it. and now I find myself fighting the edge to mess around two. I'm thinking about asking him for a break. any advice?
    amgasan amgasan 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    I ran into this rich,

    handsome man online, and to my suprize, he liked me, and he just showered me in gifts from the start. Needless to say, it was hard to fall in love with someone that just keeps giving, when you cant give that person as much as they've given you, or at least I didn't fall in love...
    unappreciated12 unappreciated12 18-21, F Jan 29

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    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    Is It Time To Move On??

    My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and when I found out I felt like I didn't even know him. I was hurt and felt betrayed by my best friend. I have tried working things out but I worry constantly about him talking to other girls. I love him so much but I just can't get over him...
    alynn30 alynn30 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    They Met On Plenty Of Fish.com Ugh!!!!

    I have been w/my bf for about 7years now, we live together and have 2 dogs and 2 cats together. Two weeks before Thanksgiving he had been acting really strange. On a Wednesday night he had said he was going to hang out w/his friend, normally I wouldnt care but since he had been...
    RussiaLove RussiaLove 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    Help Please!

    Ok so New Years day it came out that my boyfriend of 2 years had cheated on me 8 months previously. 8 months earlier when he slept with this girl it came out as a 'roumour' but both him and the girl (who i didnt know) denied it. Their stories didnt quite match up me and my...
    Beckypxxxxxx Beckypxxxxxx 18-21 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    I have been upset for weeks now,

    I just love this boy so fricking much, and he completely broke my heart, I know he isn't worth my tears, but for some reason he's still all I ever think about:(
    BethHawkins BethHawkins 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my

    pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing he was risking it all What's wrong with people! I found out when our baby was 3 weeks old! He sat in scans, picked our new home, our child's name...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I think I'm just scared he's gonna do it again.

    ..but almost every night I have dreams that he's cheating on me with the same girl he actually cheated on me with. :(
    blahh21 blahh21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for almost 8 years. He's been my only boyfriend. All these years he's been an amazing boyfriend. I felt so blessed to have met someone that would do so much for me. Makes me breakfast in the morning. Massages me every night. Cooks. Takes care of me in every way possible. He's...
    smallz23 smallz23 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 9

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    My Boyfriend Cheated On Me 3 Times.hewa

    The whole thing started 6 months into my boyfriend and my relationship and he had just graduted high school. He is a year older then me and he told me he was going to this girls house to drink with her and her sister, of course i told him i didn't like this at all and I would be...
    alyclem331 alyclem331 18-21, F Dec 31, 2009

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my

    boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she cheated on him with over 7 men and later we started a relationship and I moved in with him. One day I found a text from his ex saying should I tell...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    So Confused And Hurt

    I found out a couple days ago that my boyfriend of 6 years was talking to another girl. He has lied to me about this for 7 months now. At first I found a cell phone picture of a girl and he said he got it off the internet, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Couple months...
    cee885 cee885 22-25 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Being Cheated On Sucks

    Boyfriend left me for a chick he met over his online game and I got back with him after she stood him up. I feel so stupid when I think about it too.Things have been going well with us right now (he says he's so in love with me and he wants to get married and plan our future...
    ladybugsonthebeach ladybugsonthebeach 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    Does Anyone Get The Urge To Cheat Back?

    I'm interested to hear your answers. I don't think I'll ever end up doing it, but sometimes when I am really angry I feel like I want to hurt him back the same way. But it doesn't last long. I always come back to the conclusion that it is not worth bringing rage and fighting into...
    imcomingback0 imcomingback0 18-21 13 Responses May 30, 2010

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    My boyfriend of 16 months exchanged pictures

    with a girl and they had a thing for a good bit of time. He's apologized countless times and has cried about how bad he feels. What do I do
    rghgrace rghgrace 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 26

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    On Tuesday I found out

    that my fiancé has a three year old son and the issue is that we've been together for going on 8 years :( When I first got in to my relationship he had a 1 year old son from a previous relationship. It took sometime but I excepted this son like he was my own. This child is...
    brokenhearted1223 brokenhearted1223 31-35, F 5 Responses May 24

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    My Boyfriend Cheated On Me And I Still Love Him So Much

    Hi my name is Terra, 4 months ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy, my boyfriends first child and my third, well when our son was two weeks old i found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me for the past month and a half, then found out that he had the women pick him up...
    terrapayne19 terrapayne19 22-25 6 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    My girlfriend and I have been in a commuted

    relationship for about 3 years but last night I went to the bars with some friends and ended up having sex with a random girl. I told my girlfriend and she was in tears, I begged for her forgiveness and she said she would forgive me but only if I did what she told me to do. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 17

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    My boyfriend and i have been together

    for 10 months will b 11 months march 11th and we are 17 and 18 yrs old… he and i have had trust issues before but for no apparent reason just jealousy… he cheated on me with a girl to see if what he had for me was real… they had been sharing phone calls and texts for 4...
    megancerise megancerise 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    My boyfriend liked this other girl,

    I got angry when he told me, and I broke up with him, he told me he had never kissed her o something like that while he was with me, but he couldn't deny his feelings about her, and he couldn't lie to me about it, I just felt bad and decided to break up with him, he cried and...
    Carolina171199 Carolina171199 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    HeartBroken

    I am onli 17 years of age, i have this boyfriend and we were together for about a month an he cheated on me with some random person that he met 1 night in the pub, she sat there being so nice to me an then she left. About 20 minutes later he sed he was going home and i never...
    ellababy2k8 ellababy2k8 19-21 9 Responses Jan 30, 2008

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    The Hurt Wife

    My husband shattered my soul. I was one of the wives that just knew, that beyond the shadow of any doubt, that MY husband would NEVER in a million yrs cheat. Yeah he cheated alright. And was caught during my most vulnerable time(s) yea more than one incident and during more than...
    mconway177 mconway177 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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    Please Help Me

    My boyfriend cheated on me during the first month we started dating with his ex gf. He would talk so much crap about her and call her a **** and say she nasty and all this bad stuff. She told me that he cheated on me but before all that, he told me that she would probably be...
    13nikki0710 13nikki0710 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    My boyfriend and me have been together

    for almost 4 years yet I can't seem to actually be fed up enough to leave. I can't count on both my hands how many times he's cheated... I don't know what to do anymore. He's my world. But I feel everything he says nowadays is one giant lie.
    kaylakinkade kaylakinkade 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    The trust I have in my boyfriend of two years

    is going completely out the window . He cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship with his ex kept it from me for almost a year then we recently broke up a couple months ago while I was 8 months pregnant with our first child and he was flirting with other females as...
    TaylorAlexiss TaylorAlexiss 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Will I Ever Fully Forgive Him For His Infidelity?

    I've been with my boyfriend for four years. I wont sit here and say our relationship has been the ideal relationship since day one or that he is the bad guy here, I've made my mistakes too. We have had our struggles, but always find a way to make things work and stay together. He...
    Piper09 Piper09 22-25, F 19 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    My boyfriend is going away to Amsterdam,

    he's been before and I didn't really have an issue with it as we wasn't serious! but since then I've found out that one of the friend he is going with pays for sex although he is married to one of the most stunning women I've ever met, makes no sense but hey each to there own...
    SoryaB SoryaB 26-30, F Jul 10

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    So today I saw that my boyfriend has a

    boyahoy(kinda like grindr) account. I saw it because when I looked at his phone he got a notification that a guy messaged him. I don't really know how to feel about it.
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M May 12

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    We've been together for one year

    and 3 months. I moved in with him about two months ago. Last night he told me he cheated on me a month ago. He met a girl at a rave and spent some time with her. The part that kills me is that he has met up with her a few times since, when I've been doing other things. I feel...
    Casey555 Casey555 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    When Youve Been Betrayed, How Do You Recover

    I snooped. The man who just asked me to marry him...he's been talking to women on his FB account. I had a feeling something wasn't right, intuition. He's in his 40's and all the women he was talking to were in their 20's. But the thing is, he wasn't being remotely truthful...
    luckycharmz luckycharmz 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I've been with my boyfriend on

    and off for almost a year. We been rocky because he's been a cheater. He first got caught texting his ex telling her that he missed her and how he would break up with me to go back with her mind you she lived In another ******* state! Then I caught him talking to a different...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work

    things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best friend and makes me so happy 99% of the time. Our relationship was very honest and very happy. We hardly ever fought and when we did, we got over it...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    My boyfriend cheated on me

    before Christmas i was absolutely devastated. We tried moving on from it. We spoke about it many times. Its always on the back of my mind. i haven't forgiven him as i don't think i ever will. i just try and forget about it. Anyway, he told me the other day he text one of his...
    KakaRose KakaRose 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I Cant Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me...

    so the other day my boyfriend asked what could be done to make us better,because lately there has been some real tension between us often,and we both realize it. i told him that he could start by not lying. he insisted he was not. i gave him an example. i called him one night and...
    BrokenBiscuit BrokenBiscuit 22-25, F 22 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    Here is my story My husband

    and I have been married for 10 years. We have three boys together. About a year he was texting and calling this young girl 24-7 he told me they were just friends. This was going on for 6 months. They have known each other every sense she was a little girl. He was never home at...
    babymama31 babymama31 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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