I Can't Get Over My Boyfriend Cheating On Me

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    Will I Ever Fully Forgive Him For His Infidelity?

    I've been with my boyfriend for four years. I wont sit here and say our relationship has been the ideal relationship since day one or that he is the bad guy here, I've made my mistakes too. We have had our struggles, but always find a way to make things work and stay together. He...
    Piper09 Piper09
    22-25, F
    33 Responses Apr 25, 2013

    My boyfriend cheated on me with someone

    who he had a thing with way before I met him. While they talked she didn't wanna have sex with him but of course when I was dating him, they decided to have sex. He's been trying to prove himself and not let that childish mistake affect our relationship but it gets to me...
    nezzinator nezzinator
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    My boyfriend am I live together we have a

    terriable history of him cheating on me. And recently we broke up due to my insecurities .. I cannot get over him cheating ig has damaged me forever because I cannot trust or erase it from my mind. We broke up but still live together he changed the password on his phone And took...
    Italiangangstress Italiangangstress
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    Thanks for the great feedback in private

    messages about the idea of the "I am not the other woman" group being a central platform for all of us who have been cheated on. Starting to post openly would be great :-)
    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    May 6, 2015

    my boyfriend cheated on me well had an affiar

    for God know how long I fort and Fort for my relationship not only for my self but for our 2 children it's been 8 month now and he still won't admit to it I'm so broken I don't want to be with anyone else I love him so much and it's hard everyday . to go on as everything is OK I...
    xbossfemalex xbossfemalex
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2015

    My boyfriend cheated on me

    for three months of our relationship which shocked me and I never saw coming, broke it off but I was so lost and messed up without him that I ended up forgiving him. This all happened about 3 months ago but I still find myself hurting and crying at the most random times. A lot...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 21, 2015

    I can't forget the fact

    that my boyfriend cheated on me....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    just thinking about this puts

    so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was probably my second real relationship. He begged me to date him,so one night i finally said yes. the very next day,it was st...
    jaycer jaycer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

    My boyfriend was out of town on the day of my

    birthday, when he got back (two weeks later) he promised he would make it up to me. So i agreed and he planned this whole night and it was honestly amazing. We went to this expensive restaurant and had a good time talking. After we ate he drove us to his families beach house...
    HashtagBells HashtagBells
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    When Youve Been Betrayed, How Do You Recover

    I snooped. The man who just asked me to marry him...he's been talking to women on his FB account. I had a feeling something wasn't right, intuition. He's in his 40's and all the women he was talking to were in their 20's. But the thing is, he wasn't being remotely truthful...
    luckycharmz luckycharmz
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jun 16, 2013

    So I have a long story to share.

    My fiancé at the time in early May late April of this year did something crazy: I left to Vegas for a girls trip with my best friend for a few days for her bday. The day I left my fiancé went to a ***** club with some of his guy friends. I didn't really want him to go but I...
    Brokenheartedinla Brokenheartedinla
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    He cheated on me with my best friend

    and gave me an sti. And he cheated on my with his ex over Christmas. but I still want to be with him no matter what or im how much I hurt.
    shyster1011 shyster1011
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    Help need advice- long story short we have

    known each other for 13 years but remained friends until we started dating 3 years ago. He took a new job that he had to go out of town for.I kept his house clean, worked and never strayed. He called me one night and said that he had gotten arrested and needed me to drive down...
    Walkedinblind Walkedinblind
    31-35, F
    Apr 23, 2014

    My boyfriend liked this other girl,

    I got angry when he told me, and I broke up with him, he told me he had never kissed her o something like that while he was with me, but he couldn't deny his feelings about her, and he couldn't lie to me about it, I just felt bad and decided to break up with him, he cried and...
    Carolina171199 Carolina171199
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2014

    Guys or Girls don't cheat

    unless something is wrong in the relationship they are in, move on or get over it, both people in a relationship where one person (or both) cheats had played a part in it happening. Remember, it's not always what happens in life that is really important, it's what you do about...
    AidanMac AidanMac
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

    The Hurt Wife

    My husband shattered my soul. I was one of the wives that just knew, that beyond the shadow of any doubt, that MY husband would NEVER in a million yrs cheat. Yeah he cheated alright. And was caught during my most vulnerable time(s) yea more than one incident and during more than...
    mconway177 mconway177
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Jul 30, 2011

    So, about a week ago I found multiple '****'

    and 'dating' websites on my computer history and when I went into them my boyfriend had made profiles looking for 'friends with benefits' and 'local s*uts', and saying he was h*orny he admitted to it and swore he loved me. What do I do?
    humblebee97 humblebee97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2015

    So just recently my bf cheated on me with one

    of my BEST FRIENDS apparently they were too drunk both of them. I went on vacation for 2 weeks and into the second week my bf was going to a party as his friends house which we always party there I usually party with him and my friends and his friends. Well into the 2nd week I...
    Jackinabox123 Jackinabox123
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    So Confused And Hurt

    I found out a couple days ago that my boyfriend of 6 years was talking to another girl. He has lied to me about this for 7 months now. At first I found a cell phone picture of a girl and he said he got it off the internet, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Couple months...
    cee885 cee885
    22-25
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    Hi there, we've all seen the "I am the other

    woman group" They have a great enabling network. As betrayed women we need a support group for ourselves so we can help eachother work through the betrayal. So my suggestion is pooling together in the "I am not the other woman" group. So if you've been cheated on and are not a...
    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2015

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring for my mum who was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 1/2 years ago. Our relationship has always been wonderful but since we left...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    Caught my boyfriend cheating on several dating

    websites while he was dating me. I was so angry and hurt because we were in a long distance relationship and I thought we had established trust in each other. When I asked him about it he completely denied it saying his cousin made it because he didn't have the app on his phone...
    tadpole92 tadpole92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2015

    Broken Dreams

    my bf and i have been together for a year plus. i took him in when he wsa jobless and had no money. i sacrifced my outings with my friends so we cld have some food on the table. eventually aft several months he got a job n that meant a better future for me. or so i...
    Reen Reen
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 16, 2008

    Believe me when I say this: I have tried!

    !!!! I've done everything I could! Going to therapy, releasing anger, cried my eyes off, screamed, more therapy... 5 months have passed and even though I've had felt better, some days like today I just can't seem to change the channel. I am so full of rage, I want to hurt him the...
    Gaialion Gaialion
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a

    year and I caught him cheating me over 6 times with 6 different people I only found out cause friends of mine told me he was deleting the messages but the girls weren't they all gave me proof and I still am heart broken from in cause not only is he my boyfriend he's my future...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    I Don'T Know..

    I've been having trust issues more & more everyday. I'm 5 months pregnant, and I always think my boyfriends cheating on me. It's getting to the point where I'm disgusted by him.. Don't wanna kiss him or touch him, basically feels like I don't love him anymore, I know I do love...
    Yesmeenhudaa Yesmeenhudaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2013

    My boyfriend was my world.

    we were together 5 years, but he kept causing rows every few months then leaving. he'd say it was my fault. I'd not treated him right or I was in a bad mood when I wasn't. I'd beg forgiveness. He'd come back after a few days. Then I found messages from women. He'd cheated on...
    hayley3383 hayley3383
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 15, 2014
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    Me and my boyfriend have only been together 5

    months and he slept with his ex whilst we was together once and she slept over his house twice. She told me about a week ago because he didn't have the balls to do it, so I confronted him and asked him why and he said it's because it was old feelings and he was drunk, which isn...
    jennypenny1664 jennypenny1664
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2015
    perpetuallyindecisive perpetuallyindecisive
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    My Husband Cheated, and I'm Having a Hard Time Getting Over It.

     After having 7 years of "happily ever after" my husband cheated. I had no idea until our kids came home from their grandparents (his parents) house, and told me about "her." He had been going out to karaoke w/ his parents on Saturday night, which is a...
    mandypants mandypants
    26-30, F
    20 Responses Oct 25, 2007

    My boyfriend is going away to Amsterdam,

    he's been before and I didn't really have an issue with it as we wasn't serious! but since then I've found out that one of the friend he is going with pays for sex although he is married to one of the most stunning women I've ever met, makes no sense but hey each to there own...
    SoryaB SoryaB
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2014

    I was cheated on a month

    after he moved in with me and am struggling to move on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    The Best Thing I Ever Did Was Leave Him:)

    I wrote on this site about 6 months ago in regards to my cheating boyfriend.. I am writing here again to hopefully inspire anyone else who has or is also dealing with a cheater. I spent 4 years trying to make someone happy who I finally realized just doesn't want to be happy...
    Piper09 Piper09
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    So Very Confused.

    My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me, we have one little girl together. It was around April that he broke up with me, & a week later I found out that he got with his co-worker that he's been talking to for a while, claiming that they're only friends & that she has a boyfriend...
    lynndurh lynndurh
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    It's already been 10 months

    since I discovered that my boyfriend has cheated on me. I already forgave him but i still feel the pain. Sometimes i think it's also my fault cause i broke up with him because for a reason i can't tell. when i broke up with him, he always makes effort so i would come back to him...
    abcv1996 abcv1996
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    I am having a really hard time getting over my

    boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she cheated on him with over 7 men and later we started a relationship and I moved in with him. One day I found a text from his ex saying should I tell...
    marieash marieash
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 1, 2014

    Help Please!

    Ok so New Years day it came out that my boyfriend of 2 years had cheated on me 8 months previously. 8 months earlier when he slept with this girl it came out as a 'roumour' but both him and the girl (who i didnt know) denied it. Their stories didnt quite match up me and my...
    Beckypxxxxxx Beckypxxxxxx
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 13, 2013

    Hello, My name is Nicole,

    i have been a psychic since i was 15 years old, i have been helping people with there love lifes, finance’s, Jobs, and just being there for there everyday coaching, a lil about me that you should know … i always give the 100% truth no sugar coating at all, i dont like to...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    I would like to get you thoughts I was going

    to meet my girlfriend at a party well I found out that there was a guy that was going to be there that I did not like so I called my girlfriend and told her I was not going to go she had already left with some friends and had no way to leave at the party the guy I don't like...
    Aj03051980 Aj03051980
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    Being Cheated On Sucks

    Boyfriend left me for a chick he met over his online game and I got back with him after she stood him up. I feel so stupid when I think about it too.Things have been going well with us right now (he says he's so in love with me and he wants to get married and plan our future...
    ladybugsonthebeach ladybugsonthebeach
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2011

    On Tuesday I found out

    that my fiancé has a three year old son and the issue is that we've been together for going on 8 years :( When I first got in to my relationship he had a 1 year old son from a previous relationship. It took sometime but I excepted this son like he was my own. This child is...
    brokenhearted1223 brokenhearted1223
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2014

    Please Help Me

    My boyfriend cheated on me during the first month we started dating with his ex gf. He would talk so much crap about her and call her a **** and say she nasty and all this bad stuff. She told me that he cheated on me but before all that, he told me that she would probably be...
    13nikki0710 13nikki0710
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 17, 2013

    I'm not actually sure

    where I should start with everything I would like to be open and honest about everything my my relationship in the past 11 years but it's a lot for any one person to take in. We have 3 children today. We have had an open relationship on and off. It has all gone so great and...
    buttermonkey buttermonkey
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2015

    my boyfriend cheated on me

    and I think about it all the time although I forgave him and we moved on, this just makes me even more depressed, and it makes me feel even more worthless.
    alexsisspates alexsisspates
    18-21
    1 Response Apr 14, 2015

    Boyfriend Cheated Multiple Times

    Wow, where do I start with this story. My boyfriend and I were dating for a month before he cheated on me by sleeping with a random girl from a club. I study in a different town so we have a long distance relationship. Two days after he first cheated, he came to visit me and I...
    msconfused1 msconfused1
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 13, 2012

    See there is the turth he cheated on me what a

    ***** i hope he can not sleep at night what guy does that to someone like me i helped him thourgh ever think and he stabs me in the back i can forgive but i never forget!!!! :/
    DivaDuvall DivaDuvall
    16-17, T
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    Hi... My name is Autumn.

    Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck in June since I'm older I'm 17 he's 20. I never stopped caring or thinkin bout him he was my first everything. But then a few...
    autumn977 autumn977
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

    I'm trying to get over my boyfriend of 1 yr

    and 2 months cheating on me. This is the second time and we are in deep even went to college together and my family loves him. He calls me a ***** all the time and just overall has no respect for me. He's broke with no job and no goals he only came to college because I did. Now...
    catema catema
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    my boyfriend and i just recently broke up.

    he, without saying a word, decided to sleep with his best friend's fiancee's cousin!!! like what the hell? so i found out not only through instagram but from his best friend's fiancee! evenn better right? then he lied for about an hour trying to cover himself. im so hurt
    autumnfahey autumnfahey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2014
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