I Can't Get Pregnant

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    i was due on my period on the 14th january, and i was told by my nurse not to start my pill in till the first day that i come on,because there was a possibility that i could be pregnant, however i did not come on my period till 16th so i took the pill for 2 days, my period was...
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

    Am I Barren?

    I am always having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I don't even use pills and he always **** inside me. At my age right now it's fine since I'm still young. It just always cross my mind that I am barren because some of my friends who tried having unprotected sex with their...
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    7 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    Will I Ever Get Pregnant

    I have had a lot of health difficulties in my life my doctors have told me all through my teens try for a baby as early in your 20s as you can because the older you get the less chance you'll have. I am six days late I took a home pregnancy test an nothing this has happeneda few...
    mrspkl mrspkl
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 22, 2013

    The thing that is the most difficult during

    this time, is that the people trying to encourage me say things like, "It will happen when you just relax and stop thinking about it. That's what happened with us." I get it, but please explain to me how am I supposed to stop thinking about getting pregnant when I have a...
    lepskibk lepskibk
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    Having A Hard Time

    I'm 26 yrs old, I have known that I couldn't get pregnant sense I was 18 because I was born with a condition that wouldn't allow me to called mullerian agenesis. It has always bothered me that I couldnt carry, but now that  I am married to the most amazing man ever and...
    Shannon57 Shannon57
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2010

    It Hurts So Bad

    There is such a hole in my soul. I waited too long.
    ginger94112 ginger94112
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 16, 2012


    I found out i had pcos after 3 years of trips to the doctors abd countless tests you think its a relieve to find out the problem but then there was years of waiting for the next trip to the hospital to tell you this hasn't worked that hasn't worked then the operation the final...
    wedding2014 wedding2014
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2012

    My husband and I have been married

    for 5 years. Every holiday, our families ask us when we're going to start having kids. We always answer "Soon", but it's out of our control at this point. Charlie comes from a huge family. He has 5 siblings. I only have a younger sister. So, our expectations are completely...
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    1 Response Aug 2, 2015

    When my husband and I first started seeing each

    other four years ago, I told him we wouldn't work out because of our age difference. I was 24 and would probably want to have a baby - he was 44 and already had a teenage son. I will never forget the way he looked at me when he said that he would love to have a baby with me...
    CathySmithNew CathySmithNew
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2014

    I Want A Baby

    hi my names Rhianna i am 19 an health i have a 2 year old son but i want to have another i have been trying to conceive for nearly a year an no hope i feel like a failure to my partner i have tryed maybe baby ***** friendly gel i tryed changing my diet and doing more exercise and...
    rhirhibear rhirhibear
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2013


    Hi my name is Courtney and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant but we've had no luck. We've been married for 2 1/2 years now and we've been together for 4 years now. We both really want to get pregnant and have children one day. We've been trying for 3 years now and...
    marinewife0908 marinewife0908
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 26, 2012


    I am 16, and my boyfriend is 18 currently. He loves me and I honest to God love him too... We've been together for 4 months but have been intimate (unprotected) since around September of 2011, and in love since around this time of last year. With that being said, I haven't...
    hazelbliss hazelbliss
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

    I Have a Beautiful Baby Girl Thanks to Lisa Olsan

    Guys I was in the same boat as you once a upon a time. My doctor told me I was Infertile. Hearing this broke mine and my husbands heart. You can imagine what we were going through knowing we will never have our own kids. We were trying for years and each month I would have my...
    aleesha4 aleesha4
    31-35, F
    Sep 28, 2009

    Wanting A Baby So Badly

    I am 26 now, but my husband and I have been trying to conceive for the past three years with no luck. He is much older than I am, and has a grown son from a previous marriage. I am currently working on my phD, and though the timing for me right now is not optimal, I know his...
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2013

    So Sad and Defeted

    over 2 long years of trying to have a second child and we cant .. i have unusally  low progesterone or that's what they say so far I'm going to a specialist on July 10th and maybe he can help ... i am an only child and i dont want my son be be as alone as i am i want him to...
    cprinccessred cprinccessred
    4 Responses Jul 3, 2009

    Hi I cant get pregnant cause I am male to

    female trans that would give anything to have a baby the though of carrying him or her for 9 month and feeling the baby growing inside me kinking me make me sad why I had to be born a male I know women go though a lot and I am willing to go though what they do I know some guys...
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    Aug 29, 2015

    One Dream ... One Sadness

    I want to be pregnant. A life-long desire for me. I wish I was pregnant. Pretty much every day I have this thought. I dream about being pregnant. At least once a week. I would love being pregnant. Absolutely, positively love being pregnant. Alas, that can never be. I can't...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    8 Responses Jul 6, 2009

    This Is It.

    I won't dig through my past for all my painful ttc stories that I have accumulated over more than 8 yrs. but I will say this there have been times where I have wanted to die,and times when I have tried to kill myself. Pcos what the heck is that?!! Pcos changed my body and the way...
    bellasmommy29 bellasmommy29
    6 Responses May 6, 2009

    My Kalyani Could Not Conceive

    we were married 19 years; we were both 'normal' though I had a lower ***** count. I got into mental depression; she didn't care; she is a gynaecologist; I made her study the diploma course after her MBBS.  to her her career as a doctor was very important though we lived...
    apparao apparao
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

    Only Sister

    I have two older sisters and one younger sister and all of them have gotten pregnant. My little sister was told that she wouldn't be able to have a child and she did last year. I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and 2 out of those 4 years I was on the pill. The last two...
    vmcdaniel19 vmcdaniel19
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2013

    I Dont Know What T Do Or Whats Wrong With Me.....!!!!!!!!!

    Well my name is diana im married my husband is in the Marines. i have been with him for about 4 years 1/2...... im 19 ...me and him started having intercourse when i was 16 he was 17 ...well since my period started it was always irregular with time it got a bit better but we...
    DValles DValles
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 18, 2011

    Get Pregnant

    Hey Alexandra Here , for women having difficulty getting pregnant, this is a product you will find interestingGet Pregnant
    Alex2g Alex2g
    Jul 17, 2012

    Feeling Alone

    My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for quite sometime now and we have not had any luck.   I have been on fertility medicine and gone through treatments but nothing has happened.  I'm at that age where all my friends around me are getting pregnant and...
    kelly44 kelly44
    31-35, F
    Aug 29, 2009

    I Feel Like A Failure

    I always knew I wanted to big family and to have kids ever since I was a little girl it was all I thought about. I finally found the man of my dreams and he, too, wanted children. He was pretty must against adoption but at this time, I didn't know that I was unable to conceive...
    kboone091590 kboone091590
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 23, 2011

    Pregnancy Tears At My Heart

    I have been trying to get pregnant for a long time now and it seems much harder than I ever imagined. I've been to the doctor and we have tried clomid and now the doctors want to have my husband checked. I've had a miscarriage and that was emotionally draining. I want so badly...
    Lds1584 Lds1584
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

    Can't Get Pregnant

    Since nearly two years I am trying to get pregnant. While writing this, I have lots of tears in my eyes. The reason is because I have been suffered a lot in the past and as I grew up, life was complicated for me, and all this time until now, life is still complicated for me, but...
    Annia2 Annia2
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Jul 10, 2012

    Trying To Get Pregnant

    I've been trying to have a baby for the last 10 yrs my hubby has three kids now who are young adults but i wonder I f it bothers him that im not getting pregnant ? he says no but im feeling different about that i hate this and we can't afford treatments IVF...i know that a baby...
    Godsangel37 Godsangel37
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2013


    I have wanted to have a baby since I can remember. When I was a kid I loved playing with kids and started baby sitting as soon as my parents thought I was old enough (13). I used to say I wanted 6 kids and anyone who knew me, knew I couldn't wait to be a mother. In high school I...
    s1983 s1983
    6 Responses Mar 30, 2009

    Am now 43 and almost all of my friends have

    kids. I love them and am at an age where I don't feel any envy but sometimes it is hard because they talk about their kids and pregnancies, and I just sit and there and nod. They cannot relate to my situation and that is not their fault. But I am at a point where knowing the sun...
    username1971 username1971
    46-50, F
    Feb 6, 2015

    Feeling Defeated

    Hi, so I'm 24 and have been married to my husband for 6 years now. 6 years of seeing everyone around me becoming pregnant, and 6 years of feeling left out of the "mommy club". I know that I don't ovulate right, and I have some of the most horrible periods that anyone can...
    CheyChey24 CheyChey24
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 26, 2012

    My Long Road

    my name is Janet I'm 34 years old I found out I couldn't get pregnant for sure at 28 the doctor send me for a test in the hospital and told me I have scar tissue in my tubes and I only have 1 ovary I had a procedure when I was 18 I had a cyst on my ovary instead of taking this is...
    nettiechofo nettiechofo
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2012

    I Feel Noone Understands The Pain I Feel

    I am 22 years old, my fiance is 42 with two boys. We have been trying for over a year now to conceive only to be unsuccessful. I want to be a mother so bad i cant stand it. I have been to the doctor to get checked. She said it is going to be difficult but not impossible to get...
    Buttercup7090 Buttercup7090
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2012

    I'm So Tired Of Being The Only One Who Cares

       We've been trying and it's just not working. I got another negative test today.    I just found out that because of my husband's medical condition that I probably can't get pregnant. I realize that it's not his fault but I can't help feeling like he doesn't even care. He...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2013

    Cant Get Pregnant

    I wanted to share my story because I know so many of you out there are thinking - omg, I will not get pregnant ever, and this terrifies you.. Whether due to age of anything else, doesnt matter. Sometimes its not even your fault.. What I can tell you, its possible at any age. Im...
    larissakel larissakel
    46-50, F
    Apr 23, 2013

    I Should Have Never Watched the Movie Up!

    "I can't get pregnant" have been the 4 most devasting words in my life.  I have been married for 4 years and have been trying to get pregnant for 4 years.  3 months ago we finally decide to get help.  Dr.'s put me on clomid 2 months ago and each...
    lananjosh lananjosh
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2009


    Im 22 years old, i had ovarian and uterus cancer and i had to remove my whole reproduction system. So unlike many of you, i really have no hope of getting pregnant, no egg, no womb. And the thing is im getting married this september. Many would think my partner and me are crazy...
    Leened Leened
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    In Need of Hope

    I have been trying to conceive for 2 yrs.  I have been diagnosed with unexplained infertiltiy.  My husband and I both check out okay and our ages are 33.  I am in the process of trying clomid and IUI together.  I feel like I could use some encouragement from...
    MrsMoniqueL MrsMoniqueL
    6 Responses Dec 10, 2008

    Trying To Conceive

    We have been trying to get pregnant for the last 2 years and I took my first round of clomid last month. It didn't work. I went to the health food store to try something more health that might help it should be in next week. I hope it helps or even works.
    pcosgal pcosgal
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2013

    nope! tubes tied! and about to have an ablation,

    too! no mo lil Bambinos fer me! I can't get pregnant!
    deleted deleted
    Aug 29, 2015

    Every Body Is Different!

    My husband (herein in these groups as winecaddyman), after about a year and a half of marriage finally decided to try and have a baby.  I was well off the 'pills' and that is when my problems started, once again.  When I stopped taking the 'pill' I must have had a three week...
    mrswinecaddyman mrswinecaddyman
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2011

    My Miracle Pregnancy !!!

    I thought I was infertile, but contrary to my doctor's prediction I got pregnant TWICE and naturally gave birth to my beautiful healhty children AT THE AGE 43 after years of trying you can too. Here is how I made that miracle happen. Click or Copy & paste the link below to your...
    JessicaClark67 JessicaClark67
    Jun 28, 2013

    I Have One Month Left to Try...

    We have been trying for months , my husband is about to deploy in a few weeks , we have one cycle maybe two depending on if AF is on time and his deployment doesn't get moved up. I am going to try this tea , and a pill and pressed lube... and the roommate we are helping...
    mrsusmc mrsusmc
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2009

    My Miracle Pregnancy And How I Did It.

    Are you struggling to get pregnant? Are you frustrated, or feeling angry for not being able to conceive despite all your efforts? If you answered yes, then let me tell you that I know exactly how you feel, because I personally had gone through the same experience years ago. I...
    JessicaClark67 JessicaClark67
    Jun 28, 2013

    My Miracle:)

    My name is Debbie and Im 31. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for years now. My girlfriend Laura introduced me to this book. I read the book. Of course I didn't think the pregnancy system was going to work, but I gave it a shot anyways. After all I had already...
    dbaugh620 dbaugh620
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

    Trying to Concieve

    I have been trying to get pregnant now for almost 7 years. I have had no luck. I have PCOS. I concieved once in highschool, only to miscarry at 10 weeks. Something I hope never to go through again. Not being able to concieve makes it hard on my relationship with my husband...
    alittleconfused alittleconfused
    16 Responses Nov 17, 2008

    I Cant Get Pregnant & Been Trying For Over a Year

    i have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now and still havent got pregnant not even once! about 2 weeks ago i went into the emergency room because i was in pain and come to find out i had an ovarian cyst. every now and then i get a sharp stabbing pain in my ovary. i...
    thi215 thi215
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2009

    I Couldn't Get Pregnant Until I Found This!

    I tried everything to get pregnant and nothing really worked for about 2 years.   I really wanted to give not just myself but also my husband the family he always dreamed of and I often blamed myself for not being able to give it to him.    So i was surfing the...
    Jessica1001 Jessica1001
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Dec 18, 2009

    Why Does It Seem That Everyone Around Me Can??

    We've been TTC since January. I know that's nothing compared to the length of time many of you have been trying... I could never have imagined how stressful it would be. Well, now my 4th friend just found out she was pregnant after not even a week of trying. I see 3 of...
    treefrog1 treefrog1
    Jul 16, 2009
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