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I Can't Hate Anyone

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    Its Hard To Hate People

      Its hard for me to hate people. Its also hard for me to be mad at my sister. She may drive me nuts. But that is what sister do to each other. They get on each others nerves. It has always been hard for me to be mad at people. For, I like to get along with people. I seem to...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Oct 25, 2010

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    It's not in my nature no matter how hard I try

    I can't and I won't I'm not a hateful person even when people are mean and rude I don't hate them I forgive them
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Literally, seriously.

    No exceptions.
    ResidentGoddessAstraea ResidentGoddessAstraea 18-21 Jun 24, 2014

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    Hating People Takes Too Much Energy

    I can not understand them, or not know why they hurt me but I can't hate them for it. Even if they hate me, I won't do it back, it's just not my style.I apparently am too sweet or something. I tend to be optimistic about people, yes there are times when I'm let down but I let...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Sep 16, 2011

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    I Can Hate Certain People.

    I can hate certain people like child abusers of any kind are at the top of my list they really boil my blood. but besides that yes it is hard to hate everyone or everything but what i say if your going to hate someone or something have a good reason such as child abusers well No...
    Jman1515 Jman1515 16-17, M Feb 26, 2011

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    No matter what they do to you,

    no matter how bad, you feel sorry for them, like it's not fair to them for you to abandon them. Even if the emotional toll they put on you is too high, and you can't take it, even then, you stay. You stay because you are the only person they talk to and without you, they would...
    HoldingOnToAir HoldingOnToAir 16-17, T 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    Laurenlovesyou1000 Laurenlovesyou1000 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    Hmmm...Nope!

    It sounds weird but I don't think I have it in me to truly hate someone. Even those who have hurt me repeatedly, I've learned to forgive. However, there are certain philosophies/moral stances that I find completely repugnant; and while their advocates may disgust and anger me, I...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    Hate Is Love Is Hate.

    Hate is as powerful as love. Love is as powerful as hate. So tell me why I would want to spend the amount of time that I spend thinking of those whom I adore and love passionately thinking about those who I dislike greatly. I honestly don't think I could ever come up with a grand...
    Ariesgrl18 Ariesgrl18 18-21, F Sep 11, 2012

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    Ha

    I have felt hate before...or the type of rage that feels like extreme loathing. Whatever.   I'm stuck in a mindset where I can't hate people.  Not anyone.  I hate situations.  I hate circumstances.  I hate actions.  But hating a person isn't possible for me anymore and the...
    permafrost21 permafrost21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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