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I Can't Hate Anyone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 82 People

    Literally, seriously.

    No exceptions.
    TheFarmerAsACorpse TheFarmerAsACorpse 18-21 Jun 24

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    Hating People Takes Too Much Energy

    I can not understand them, or not know why they hurt me but I can't hate them for it. Even if they hate me, I won't do it back, it's just not my style.I apparently am too sweet or something. I tend to be optimistic about people, yes there are times when I'm let down but I let...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Sep 16, 2011

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    No matter what they do to you,

    no matter how bad, you feel sorry for them, like it's not fair to them for you to abandon them. Even if the emotional toll they put on you is too high, and you can't take it, even then, you stay. You stay because you are the only person they talk to and without you, they would...
    HoldingOnToAir HoldingOnToAir 16-17, T 3 Responses Jun 28

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    It's not in my nature no matter how hard I try

    I can't and I won't I'm not a hateful person even when people are mean and rude I don't hate them I forgive them
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Its Hard To Hate People

      Its hard for me to hate people. Its also hard for me to be mad at my sister. She may drive me nuts. But that is what sister do to each other. They get on each others nerves. It has always been hard for me to be mad at people. For, I like to get along with people. I seem to...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Oct 25, 2010

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    Ha

    I have felt hate before...or the type of rage that feels like extreme loathing. Whatever.   I'm stuck in a mindset where I can't hate people.  Not anyone.  I hate situations.  I hate circumstances.  I hate actions.  But hating a person isn't possible for me anymore and the...
    permafrost21 permafrost21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Hate Is Love Is Hate.

    Hate is as powerful as love. Love is as powerful as hate. So tell me why I would want to spend the amount of time that I spend thinking of those whom I adore and love passionately thinking about those who I dislike greatly. I honestly don't think I could ever come up with a grand...
    Ariesgrl18 Ariesgrl18 18-21, F Sep 11, 2012

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    I Can Hate Certain People.

    I can hate certain people like child abusers of any kind are at the top of my list they really boil my blood. but besides that yes it is hard to hate everyone or everything but what i say if your going to hate someone or something have a good reason such as child abusers well No...
    Jman1515 Jman1515 16-17, M Feb 26, 2011

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    Laurenlovesyou1000 Laurenlovesyou1000 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Hmmm...Nope!

    It sounds weird but I don't think I have it in me to truly hate someone. Even those who have hurt me repeatedly, I've learned to forgive. However, there are certain philosophies/moral stances that I find completely repugnant; and while their advocates may disgust and anger me, I...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    rattrapante rattrapante 36-40, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I can't, no matter how I try to approach it. I seem to slowly but surely, but it is VERY slow. And it's so stupid because at this point it's only about one thing, and that's...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to begin with this woman!!! This is how irritated she has me! She thinks and makes my husband think she is such a great nice person because she is very...
    gemini61289 gemini61289 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm not girly and I'm like a boy in the inside. I hate talking about what typical teenage girls talk about. I never kissed anyone and ever ever had a boyfriend. I still think I'm...
    manotham manotham 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    So had a lunch with a friend, I was in a girly mood. I wore 12 cm heels for 6 hrs, ended had my left foot's skin ripped. I can't sleep or even walk now :(
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Being sixteen and in love is inconvenient. Add in the factors that I am gay and she is not. She is 18 and leaving school and I am not, and finally the fact that we aren't close (so...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 13

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    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F Dec 19

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    Sometimes in the middle of a conversation I'll just think to myself- "What if I just proposed to this person?" Or "What if I kissed this person? Or poked their nose?" And it can be...
    TaliaRice TaliaRice 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 14

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    This has been a problem for me my whole life. I grew up isolated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go outside or be loved. We didn't celebrate holidays or get stuff for christmas...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I can't seem to find true happiness, I grew up at my grand ma place, my dad is based in Asia country, have always go to school myself, other kids come to school with their mother...
    lindadalexmonroe lindadalexmonroe 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Let me start with I have a problem. I'm only 19 and I have always been drawn to older women that have a strong personality. I went to job corps and Miss Maria was my 3rd shift...
    patriotslover21 patriotslover21 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    Christmas: I spend all morning rifling through pants and tee shirts, only to decide on a dress with a sweater over it. My make-up is a big process, which includes considering how...
    karrotkace karrotkace 16-17, F Dec 8

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    Tonight is the first night I've been alone since me and my partner got together and I'm really struggling to cope. Back when we first met I was in a very dark place and so was he...
    justagirl92 justagirl92 22-25, F Dec 9

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    Finally, a place to find some comfort. Thank you so much for your story... of course, I draw such similarity to my experience. I have had an affair for almost 4 years and she...
    hearbrokenandlonely hearbrokenandlonely 46-50 Dec 15

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    I met someone really terrific. We went out a few times- he seemed into it. I liked him. Spoke to him on a Saturday ( a phone call he initiated) and by Sunday evening I get a " I...
    Songbird35 Songbird35 31-35, F Nov 27

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    Sometimes, I really just want to die. Why do I exist? I don't see a point in living. I hate myself. Being raped just destroyed me. I really need someone to talk to before I...
    childlover4evr childlover4evr 18-21, F Dec 4

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    Some songs are okay, but I just don't like it. Especially anything that has to do with Tony Bennett or Frank Sinatra or anyone of that nature. Can't stand Ol' Blue Eyes and all of...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    Dear fellow Christian Grey lovers,have you ladies seen the trailer for the movie yet? OMG! I absolutely loved it and now I can't wait for the movie. I was critical of the casting...
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F Dec 5

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    Coworker with the same age, higher salary and grade, older in the company, different position, some common work, same office. Although, he is so jealous of me, not only jealous he...
    zolito zolito 31-35, M Dec 12

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    I have learned if I want to kill myself there is not point on telling someone so they can change my mind. If I want to do it I doubt there's a chance someone's opinion would madder...
    walkinwonder walkinwonder 16-17, F Dec 17

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    I talked to this guy for a year, everyday, pretty much almost 24/7 unless one of us fell asleep (although we were both the type that was up a lot of the time). We connected in such...
    chelsieshay2626 chelsieshay2626 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 19

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    I hate liars I can't stand fakeness The worst is when you catch someone in the lie
    Juggalooking Juggalooking 70+, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why am I thinking of him after all these years? I can't stop listening to this song that makes me think of my dad ... I wrote about him on my I Hate My Dad post ... This song is...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Ugh,.. I hate that I can't fall asleep!! I guess I'll be up all night then// YAY
    EliHudson16 EliHudson16 16-17, M 21 hrs ago

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    elington elington 31-35, M Dec 9

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    transformerman transformerman 22-25 Dec 10

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    I don't think anyone would talk to me.They would all think I am a psycho!!!
    sineadduff sineadduff 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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