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I Can't Hate Anyone

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    No matter what they do to you,

    no matter how bad, you feel sorry for them, like it's not fair to them for you to abandon them. Even if the emotional toll they put on you is too high, and you can't take it, even then, you stay. You stay because you are the only person they talk to and without you, they would...
    HoldingOnToAir HoldingOnToAir 16-17, T 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    Ha

    I have felt hate before...or the type of rage that feels like extreme loathing. Whatever.   I'm stuck in a mindset where I can't hate people.  Not anyone.  I hate situations.  I hate circumstances.  I hate actions.  But hating a person isn't possible for me anymore and the...
    permafrost21 permafrost21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Its Hard To Hate People

      Its hard for me to hate people. Its also hard for me to be mad at my sister. She may drive me nuts. But that is what sister do to each other. They get on each others nerves. It has always been hard for me to be mad at people. For, I like to get along with people. I seem to...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Oct 25, 2010

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    Hate Is Love Is Hate.

    Hate is as powerful as love. Love is as powerful as hate. So tell me why I would want to spend the amount of time that I spend thinking of those whom I adore and love passionately thinking about those who I dislike greatly. I honestly don't think I could ever come up with a grand...
    Ariesgrl18 Ariesgrl18 18-21, F Sep 11, 2012

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    It's not in my nature no matter how hard I try

    I can't and I won't I'm not a hateful person even when people are mean and rude I don't hate them I forgive them
    Dom024 Dom024 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Hmmm...Nope!

    It sounds weird but I don't think I have it in me to truly hate someone. Even those who have hurt me repeatedly, I've learned to forgive. However, there are certain philosophies/moral stances that I find completely repugnant; and while their advocates may disgust and anger me, I...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    Hating People Takes Too Much Energy

    I can not understand them, or not know why they hurt me but I can't hate them for it. Even if they hate me, I won't do it back, it's just not my style.I apparently am too sweet or something. I tend to be optimistic about people, yes there are times when I'm let down but I let...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Sep 16, 2011

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    I Can Hate Certain People.

    I can hate certain people like child abusers of any kind are at the top of my list they really boil my blood. but besides that yes it is hard to hate everyone or everything but what i say if your going to hate someone or something have a good reason such as child abusers well No...
    Jman1515 Jman1515 16-17, M Feb 26, 2011

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    Laurenlovesyou1000 Laurenlovesyou1000 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    I really hate when I can't sleep at night. It's be nice to feel at ease when I lay my head down
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    I hate when my mind is spinning with a million thoughts and I can't figure out how to get the words out.
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    Gtmchocco12 Gtmchocco12 18-21, F May 6

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    I don't even know how we are "best friends"... We don't talk much, I'm always keeping the conversation going, you're not really there for me, and you'd sent me mix signals...you...
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    I can't even stand myself..lol.. Proud gay here. Don't HATE. :D
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    Walls “They are there, every minute of every day. Keeping our soul and heart safe. Protecting us from anyone that invades our space. We should be able to have our own space, a...
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    I especially hate being alone on nights when I'm stressed out and can't sleep because of it.
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 1 day ago

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    SO GLAD. I don't think anyone really likes to know the truth of what others think of them. No matter how much we try to deny, truth in the negative sense always affects us .. To a...
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    I never have. I don't trust anyone but me. And that's all I need.
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M 3 days ago

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