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I Can't Hate Him

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    You Know It's Love When..

    you can't hate them when it's over. The only boy that ever broke my heart, the only boy to make me cry, and the only boy to make me break all my rules. He got up and left without a trace.  I'm not the type of girl to give my heart away, EVER. I wasn't the type of girl to...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    Im Confused.._x

    as a christian i shouldn't hate my "father" i should forgive him, but as a human being i want t hate him. but i'm confused. he hurt me and my family deeply in so many different ways. but i think he is menatally ill with no dignosis, i believe there is...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2007

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    I Tried to

     oh trust me i tried. but then i thought how could i possibly hate the man i used to love SO much? it was impossible. i couldnt hate him. but i couldnt love him either. my feelings are just neutral. neither love nor hate.i dont feel anything for him anymore.In the end you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    Ok, ill tell you my "love" story. Two years ago i didnt have many friends, i didnt drink, i have never kiss anyone, nothing. However i met this nice, "popular" guy, and we started...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    So confuse 😔 I should hate him for all this **** yet my heart can't hate him
    yalzaga yalzaga 18-21, F Apr 14

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    I met someone very special a while ago and fell head over heels in love. My intuition was telling me 'he is the one go for it'. And I gave him the best of me that I didn't even...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Hi everyone, there's something I need to get of my chest and it's killing me. I'm a 27 year old woman who recently got out of a relationship with a muslim man. I met him about 7...
    Katef88 Katef88 22-25 Apr 8

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    Don't get me wrong, I love my parents. It's just... sometimes (most of the time) I wish they would get divorced. My mum is easily pissed off and my dad constantly shouts and swears...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9

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    It's so painful..so much so that I can barely focus on anything else. Every stupid little thing reminds me of him. Especially good stuff, things that used to make me happy..like...
    MyMindCravesNectar MyMindCravesNectar 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Happy. Thats what she was, finally the cuts where disappearing, the visits to the doctor where getting shorter and the times she spent crying where becoming none exsistant. She...
    jordan199728 jordan199728 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I owe you an explanation I can't give you in fact. Suppose I never will. I could barely explain it, even though it's actually very simple... I told you I was afraid to be around...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I can't believe I loved this ******* bastard for 4years. He cheated on me again and again,even after we were engaged.and in the end,we broke up.now he accused me of everything,and...
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I didn't believe in God until I started having the strangest things happen to me. First they were subtle little things that could have been set up. Then they graduated to paranoia...
    SeasonsinHell SeasonsinHell 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I can't remember the first 10 or 12 years of my life. And what few "memories" I have are more like pictures (like I may have seen a picture of it and remember that/I only remember...
    IAmJustAGhostGirl IAmJustAGhostGirl 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Tory the sloth. He's the reason why I'm so ******* angry. That ******. Hate him.
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    It's funny how time flows fast. I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    So this is quite a long story, read it if you dare..I'm not sure if I could say I'm in love but I have definitely had this person on my mind for the last few years..every since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 9

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    After what I thought were 5 amazing months, my boyfriend broke up with me. I can't help thinking that this is a whiny teenage problem, but you know what? It ******* hurts. This was...
    restlessrenn restlessrenn 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I just wanted to say sorry about my last post! I had some pretty nasty comments and I deserved them for saying I don't like fat and ugly guys! Yes I'm very judgemental and I'm sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 12

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    I am an adult on the Autism spectrum. As a child, I never really had quality of friends. They often used me. I believe in a race of people/extraterrestrials called...
    NiggiMaskedSalesman NiggiMaskedSalesman 36-40, F Apr 16

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    I am 16 yrs old girl and in my life happened something strange that I cant understand but I love and I cant let go altough it is hurting me and I just can't decide what is right so...
    nitheism nitheism 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I wish I could put my whole life on pause and just soak up the moment right in his arms. Live each and every morning with him right by my side. Kiss him till our toes curl. Hug...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Apr 3

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    I wanted someone to know me before I died. Wanted them to know what I was really like. I think that's part of what sparked my ramble today. That, and weariness. My ramble was a cry...
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 1 Response Apr 14

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    I hate when people pretend to be somebody else and people actually believe all of that! I've seen so many people use pictures that I've seen on google so many times, and people are...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Can't... A selfish woman But not selfish enough To make herself happy A self centered woman Who loves her friends like family So she doesn't give enough to him A woman not...
    BexAddiction BexAddiction 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 5

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    Okay so this is ridiculous, and after explaining the story I'm pretty sure I'll get called crazy. I started working at shoe store about 8 months ago, there are 4 managers and I...
    Pearlljjam Pearlljjam 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Why can't he give his ex up? He said he loves me but that's obviously a lie. I gave up my entire life for him, did everything he wanted, I worshipped him and now he chooses his ex...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Why can't he give his ex up? He said he loves me but that's obviously a lie. I gave up my entire life for him, did everything he wanted, I worshipped him and now he chooses his ex...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Death has taught me a profound lesson, that we are put into this world TO LOVE, because we are beings of love. We don't see love, but we know it exists because we feel it. Love...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    I met this guy who I had an incredible connection with - we slept together for the good part of a year, until we decided to stop the physical because the relationship wasn't going...
    catonfire catonfire 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have a great example for this one. In middle school we were required to read books for language arts as expected. I have no issue with reading. I've consistently read above the...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I used to cry a lot. but now it seems Like I can't. I can't laugh either. I hate it.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I met him in high school, and even though for the most part he treated me like ****, he always gave me just enough 'love' or kindness to keep me holding on. Once we were older...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8

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    My boyfriend *is* my best friend. I realize that I depend on him to an amount that could be dangerous, but I really can't help it. He talks to me whenever he can, and he...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I work over 9000x harder when told when I can't do something.
    Tak162015 Tak162015 16-17, M Apr 12

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    I have a family member that gets depressed from time to time. In many respects, he has a good life. Although he is a bit of a loner, he is a great person and many people really...
    deannapatricia deannapatricia 26-30 Apr 14

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    I just can't believe that they only hear what they want to hear. They never ask me what really happened. They were biased. They only want to hear the other side of the story . Even...
    Donnathena Donnathena 18-21, F Apr 17

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    To tell you the truth, at times i just don't know about people on this site, you havn't heard from them for a few days, so you send them a simple hello how are you doing this...
    kimheart1992 kimheart1992 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I cannot wait until my man is back and I can be with him everyday. I literally have so much trust in him and love him for eternity!! Less than 3 months left!! I am hangin on and...
    Je2thesx2 Je2thesx2 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I can't make female friends: whenever I meet a female and she happen to become my friend. I always think she going to take my boyfriend or she thinks she better then me... What I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I thought depression, anxiety and suicide were the worst things I had to deal with... But I can't take my mind off that one person... A friend that means so much to me... too much...
    asami13 asami13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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