I Cant Have Children

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    I Can’t Have Children.

      Last year in August I was rushed to hospital in pain that I can’t describe, I went through all these test and they couldn’t find what was wrong then they sent me for a ultrasound looking for my bladder and they couldn’t find it they looked all over but...
    bubble24 bubble24
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2009

    Good Days Vs Bad Days

    On a good day (which luckily is almost everyday now) I run, laugh, play and have fun with job and my life. Bad days, like today, just plain suck.... When I was young and naive I use to tell everyone that I was going to get married straight away and have a million kids but my...
    canfly313 canfly313
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2013


    Im 25 I've been in a long term relationship but this weekend I was told I would never conceive naturally it has taken a couple days but has finally hit me and gosh (emotional) isn't the word, but not just that I feel funding this info out my relationship won't hold with the...
    chantal89 chantal89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    29 years old, my incredible wife is 27.

    I think weve never been in love more as we are now. I feel paralyzed, empty, & angrier than I ever felt. After months of test, we have 1 more option, surgery to try to find and freeze *****. I think I can stay ok with the matter, because of her but its hard, real hard. I try to...
    Hard2HangOn627 Hard2HangOn627
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2014

    I love my husband and have been with him

    for 5yrs and married for 3yrs. due to a medical condition a few years back I was told I cant have children. my husband has a daughter from a previous relationship. he dosnt see her and would love to have another child. I want nothing more I the world to be a mum but it wont...
    rebeccalouise1987 rebeccalouise1987
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2015

    Baby Ache

    I have had Cerebral Palsy since birth. I am 32 and up until the last few years i have been a really active person. Ever since i can remember i have always wanted children. My brother and sister in law have had 3 beautiful girls, and my sister is 9 weeks pregnant. Every time i...
    ZoeBelinda ZoeBelinda
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2009

    I wish I could but I can't .

    I would really love to be a mom.
    mztruble mztruble
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2015

    This is a really hard subject

    for me. Ever since I was a little girl I always dreamed of being a wife and mother. At age 25 I ended up having to get a total hysterectomy for health problems (endometriosis and poly cystic ovarian syndrome). It was really hard going through that because it was the end of my...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    Anyone In A Similar Predicment?

      My name is Effie I am 22 years old, still unattached at this stage. I found out last year that it would not be advisable to have children. I was born with a condition called Neurofibromatosis and since then have developed major back issues, from which I suffer alot of pain...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 24, 2011

    I have wanted to have children

    since I was a child. And to be honest, I am basically a child. I'm 18! But this year I found out I have a rare auto immune blood disorder making it difficult for me to conceive. If I did become pregnant, there is a 70% chance of me miscarrying, and the actual pregnancy would...
    ancientgates ancientgates
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    I Cant Have Children

    I have believed that I cant have kids for the last 11 years but i did find out for sure couple of years ago while i was married for 2 years. I went through IVF unsuccessfully and afte my first IVF, because my husband was not very supportive I started dating my best friends...
    MsWakefield MsWakefield
    1 Response Nov 1, 2009

    I have had two miscarriages,

    and endo runs in my family. My grandmother, and mother had hysterectomies fairly early in life. I am about to find out if there is any hope for me, but I have a feeling there is not. My mom was told she was lucky to even have had me. My boyfriend has a daughter, and isn't...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 29, 2015

    Y Me????

    I am 26 and me and my husband have been trying to have a baby for 3 years and nothing has happened. I dont know what to do. The only way I can have regular periods is if I take medicine and when I do take medicine I become sick for days. I feel like I'm the only one of all the...
    dlm85 dlm85
    26-30, F
    Mar 13, 2012

    Hi I'm nearly 41 I have had medical issues in

    my life and have been told recently that it would be advised not to have a baby on medical grounds. I have wanted to have a baby my whole life and to say I'm devastated is an under statement. I've friends and family who have been great but they really haven't a clue what I'm...
    malibulyn malibulyn
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    I found out I cant have kids

    and I am dying on the inside. I watch all my friends and other people around me tale advantage of the fact they have beautiful children and I can't have that. How is it fair that drug addicts, women on welfare or teenage mothers get to have them... But I don't. I woman who would...
    mossyoaklady957 mossyoaklady957
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    Jealousy Has The Best Of Me, What Can I Do??

    I was diagnosed infertile when I took a fertility test 3 years ago. My specialist says its due from chemo, when I had leukemia. I have not been able to accept it, I cry myself to sleep, asking God what I did wrong why he gave me such a curse. My sister in law has 2 children, my...
    abilene8907 abilene8907
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2012

    Empty Feeling

    I had cancer twice and also had a transplant! I am doing well now but am unable to have children and i am having a very hard time coping with this
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2012

    I went to the mall the other day.

    I was in the ladies room and there was a woman with a little baby. After I left, I realized that I hadn't gotten upset. That's progress.
    TaraF822 TaraF822
    Jan 15, 2015

    Im 15 years old and due to a medical condition

    i cant have children its destoyed my life and i dont think its fair! I feel like i am going to be alone for the rest of my life because i dont want to put a man through loving me but then having to find out we cant have kids😿 i dont know what too do...
    GEJ14 GEJ14
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015

    My Future Is Lost..

    All of my life I have dreamt of having a family. The husband, the kids, the white picket fence.. my future plans all revolved around being a wife and a mother. It's all I've ever wanted... And I've lost that. I've suffered during my monthly visitor since it started at age 13...
    novadoll novadoll
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    as much fun as my husband

    and i have. as happy as we both are ill never feel whole i see my husband with his niece and it hurts my heart knowing he would be an amazing father. but knowing i can never give that to him hurts me even further. now that my sister in law is going to have her 2cd child i...
    fallenrach fallenrach
    1 Response May 8, 2014

    It's a long story. I'll try to shorten it.

    I've had three miscarriages, the last one being less than a year and a half ago. After several months, I finally decided to get tests done. I got the call a few days after Mothers Day. There's something wrong with me that can't be altered or fixed. My husband and I could keep...
    TaraF822 TaraF822
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015

    What Else Ya Got For Me

    since the age of 15 i have been fighting cervical cancer,, i will never be able to have children and have been recently diagnosed with bi-polar disorder,, the only thing i can think is what else can be thrown my way so my life is so full now with ever experience i can get,, i no...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 7, 2012

    Lupus SLE Robbed Me Of My Womb/Children

    In 2004 I was diagnosed with Lupus SLE, I was only 25. In that same year, around November they found a large mass inside my left ovary. The mass twisted my ovary and I had to go into emergency surgery.....that day they also found one of the worst cases of endo they had ever see...
    foster36 foster36
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 25, 2013

    17 & Lost Battling Ovarian Cancer

    I'm 17 years old & recently went to a New Docter , & they told me I had ovary failure . they told me I would have to Have surgery So after my surgery I went for a Follow up but it wasn't what I expected they told me I have Ovarian cancer & I would NEVER BE ABLE TO HAVE KIDS! It...
    HurtingButterfly HurtingButterfly
    22-25, F
    Sep 6, 2013

    I found out at 16 I was sterile.

    My doctors were treating me with a very strong cancer medication. They said I wouldn't be able to have children at all. At 16 I didn't pay it any attention because I wasn't even thinking about having sex let alone having kids. Now that I'm older and going through so much, I...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva
    26-30, F
    Apr 28, 2015
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