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I Can't Help But Love Him

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    He Is Wonderful!

    He is 28 I am 44, he helped me through a very rough time in my life.  We love each other so much but everyone says its wrong.  He is to young for me, he is emotionally unstable.   Yes he is young and yes he has some emotionaly issues, but I cant help but love...
    mangelaburgin mangelaburgin 41-45 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    You Are A Part Of Me

    Despite everything, despite the hardships of the last couple of months. Despite the hurt you caused, despite the pain I feel and trauma that tears me up with the little daily triggers here and there... I love you. I can't help but love you. You are a part of me, you are a piece...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F Jun 3, 2011

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Feb 1, 2012

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle

    who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. He was 12 at the time. So we hung out the whole day and it was honestly one of the best days of my life. Unfortunately it was time to go...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 13-15, F Mar 20

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    I Can't Stop

    loving him. I know we are co-dependent on each other which is really bad. Our relationship is unhealthy in some ways. I can't walk away from him...even though I know I should. So what am I to do?
    sillyginger sillyginger 22-25, F May 26, 2011

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    I Do Love Him... <3

    About 2 years ago my friend dated this guy. She was cheating on him so he broke it off with her.. He than dated my other friend than my bestfriend. July 14th 2011 came, me and him were just friends, but I liked him. We spoke about how much w liked eachother and stuff like that...
    Leara13 Leara13 16-17, F May 7, 2012

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    Hard..

    I love him more then anything in the world.. but he is rude to me, he puts me down, he gets mad at me over the little things. at times he is very sweet and romantic and others he'd rather be single then "put up with me" .. I already am self conscious and such. Sometimes he makes...
    vamp20 vamp20 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I Do Love Him... <3

    About 2 years ago my friend dated this guy. She was cheating on him so he broke it off with her.. He than dated my other friend than my bestfriend. July 14th 2011 came, me and him were just friends, but I liked him. We spoke about how much w liked eachother and stuff like that...
    Leara13 Leara13 16-17, F May 7, 2012

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    I'm Not Listening When You Say, Goodbye...

    I feel like screaming that I will always love him. I want him. His hugs make everything seem ok. He was there when no one else was. He was comforting and fun and silly and funny and crazy, but just the right amounts... to make me fall in love with him while I still had a...
    DarkSalem DarkSalem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I Want Him.

        I feel so complete around him. Like this mess of a world is beginning to make sense. I am relieved to know I can still feel. Only now can I see how numb I have been, running on autopilot, laughing and smiling on cue. I thought I was happy. But he...
    RainyDayLady RainyDayLady 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    He's Not Mine

    He's not mine but I love Him... I want him but I cant have him, its sad really and it hurts me to think I cant have Him...
    TizzyJam TizzyJam 16-17 1 Response Nov 28, 2008

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    I have been in love with someone since we met 12 years ago...we always had a connection that was like no other- We both parted, married, had kids and now..reunited. Yes- we were...
    anewme12 anewme12 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I always feel so empty and blank...I put on this act that "I'm okay" but as soon as I get behind closed doors... I don't know I just "break" either it's just in deep thought or a...
    starlight109 starlight109 13-15, F Sep 7

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    Yeah..I had a dream that my crush/enemy from 5th Grade died and now I can't stop thinking about him? Any Advice? Help Me?
    EnderKitty19 EnderKitty19 26-30, F Aug 26

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    In his arms its paradise, I can't stop looking into his eyes, Full of happiness and secrets waiting to be told, But for me my heart is ready for him to hold, Finally I have let...
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been in Afghanistan for almost 6 months and he finally comes home next month! I've forgotten what it's like to hold his hand and to wake up next to him every...
    ec1401562 ec1401562 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Shortly over a month ago, an old crush of mine committed suicide. He was someone who was very happy outwardly, very loved, very talented, and very successful in business. No one...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Sep 6

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    Love is a choice. People say they love me but they are just in love with the idea of me. Or they wish i was their friend. I don't have a whole lot of real life friends i have...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F Aug 18

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    What scares me is I don't know how he feels about this at all. About me and him. I'm trying not to rush anything. Trying to take it slow. But it hurts me when he doesn't seem...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F Aug 26

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    I repeatedly have conversations in my head about what I would say to my boyfriend if he ever confessed to cheating or if I ever found out that he was cheating. Boy, you better...
    tarynsitolove tarynsitolove 18-21, F Aug 21

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    It's sounds cliche but it's the honest truth. My mind won't stop. I don't feel like I belong. I'm so shy and my family is so outgoing I'm always the outcast, I know they love me...
    BriGrace BriGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    My mind is spinning. Everything I think is a repeat. She doesn't like me. How could she? Everything I think is a repeat. I can't get my homework done, my mind is spinning, running...
    LoopedMe LoopedMe 13-15, M Aug 29

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    When i'm talking to someone i can't help but visualize them being mutilated and butchered. Usually starting with the face. It's involuntary. I don't care when it's randoms but...
    DeadHeretic DeadHeretic 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    You are such a wonderful but miserable person but I can't stop adoring you. I love you so much but then you get angry and the things you say cut deep but even when everyone is...
    gypsisoul gypsisoul 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Over the past few days I've been feeling a little bit angry. Maybe this is a good thing? Maybe it's a sign that I'm finally climbing out of the quick sand I've been stuck in for...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    It has been three years…still think of him all day every day. We haven't had contact for 9 months. I still feel like he is my soulmate. I love my husband to pieces…but it...
    twintower18 twintower18 31-35, F Sep 7

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    Want to, but I can't help it I love the way it feels, It's got me stuck between my fantasy and what is real I need it when I want it, I want it when I don't Tell myself I'll stop...
    GunFinger GunFinger 31-35, F Aug 17

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    Apparently staring at someone without blinking or breaking eye contact for more than 6 seconds shows a desire for either sex or murder. For me I never break eye contact, I hardly...
    Patrikios Patrikios 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 20

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    I am so sick of being perfect. The perfect friend, the perfect daughter. It becomes so hard to keep up the image. It's hard when you realize that your parents can't help. Your...
    sevenforasecret sevenforasecret 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I'm stupid, senseless, stupid and brainless...useless and stupid..so stupid..can't help it anymore..poor of my parents isn't enough for them to deal with everything to add an...
    Cassy77 Cassy77 22-25 1 Response Sep 7

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    I feel so alone. I know it seems cliched to say these words but its true. I'm surrounded by so many people that say they love me, so why can't I feel loved? It's not like I'm an...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    Basically:- He's always with me, hasn't spoken to any other girls for a year since I've known him, helps me when I need help and we have a strong bond, talk for hours...- Anyway I...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Today is a very special day Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, theperson I love more than anything...Thanks to that wonderful mother who gave birth to such a...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Ok, I started high school about 2 years ago. On the second day of school I found my first high school crush. His name was Noah, and I slowly (much to my dismay) fell in love with...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Pretty much the same old same old I guess. But what's there to lose by telling you? Here I go. He is a grade older than me. Doesn't go to my school. As far as I'm...
    ouatnatalie ouatnatalie 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I grew up without a father and yet I was never really one of those kids that questioned why. When I was seven, my mother met my step father. At first he floated into our lives and...
    Ditzstressed Ditzstressed 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am in love with a friend and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My mother never loved me. To most outsiders, they would think she was perfect. I mean, she had four children, my youngest sister being adopted, my older brother going to Oxford...
    FullyReloaded FullyReloaded 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I do love my mum, I couldn't have done half as many things in my life without her. She has been my protector, a source of guidance and a person to talk to. However, she has this...
    Chmelski23 Chmelski23 18-21 Aug 28

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    But I'm deciding to do so this "morning" because I can't sleep & won't be able to unless I get this off my chest. Long story short someone I deeply care about is finally going to...
    OBLiViOUS2YOU OBLiViOUS2YOU 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    And I almost have a love hate relationship with lovey-mushy girly side. I love him. But I'm not blind. I can see him and all his flaws. I see him. He's.....he's your average...
    SleepyHead2123 SleepyHead2123 18-21 1 day ago

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    As darkness comes here once again To steal away the light We gather once again for tales You just may die from fright Now settle in and gather round Take heed of what I say For...
    wendu44 wendu44 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Therapists are not helpful. I have to agree with this one. I have seen a number of therapists over the years. Recently, due to a child custody suit, I had to get my case files...
    Shellybelle Shellybelle 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 31