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I Can't Help But Love Him

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    He Is Wonderful!

    He is 28 I am 44, he helped me through a very rough time in my life.  We love each other so much but everyone says its wrong.  He is to young for me, he is emotionally unstable.   Yes he is young and yes he has some emotionaly issues, but I cant help but love...
    mangelaburgin mangelaburgin 41-45 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Can't Stop

    loving him. I know we are co-dependent on each other which is really bad. Our relationship is unhealthy in some ways. I can't walk away from him...even though I know I should. So what am I to do?
    sillyginger sillyginger 22-25, F May 26, 2011

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle

    who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue eyes. He was 12 at the time. So we hung out the whole day and it was honestly one of the best days of my life. Unfortunately it was time to go...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 16-17, F Mar 20, 2014

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    I Do Love Him... <3

    About 2 years ago my friend dated this guy. She was cheating on him so he broke it off with her.. He than dated my other friend than my bestfriend. July 14th 2011 came, me and him were just friends, but I liked him. We spoke about how much w liked eachother and stuff like that...
    Leara13 Leara13 16-17, F May 7, 2012

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    You Are A Part Of Me

    Despite everything, despite the hardships of the last couple of months. Despite the hurt you caused, despite the pain I feel and trauma that tears me up with the little daily triggers here and there... I love you. I can't help but love you. You are a part of me, you are a piece...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Feb 1, 2012

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    Hard..

    I love him more then anything in the world.. but he is rude to me, he puts me down, he gets mad at me over the little things. at times he is very sweet and romantic and others he'd rather be single then "put up with me" .. I already am self conscious and such. Sometimes he makes...
    vamp20 vamp20 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    He's Not Mine

    He's not mine but I love Him... I want him but I cant have him, its sad really and it hurts me to think I cant have Him...
    TizzyJam TizzyJam 16-17 1 Response Nov 28, 2008

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    I Want Him.

        I feel so complete around him. Like this mess of a world is beginning to make sense. I am relieved to know I can still feel. Only now can I see how numb I have been, running on autopilot, laughing and smiling on cue. I thought I was happy. But he...
    RainyDayLady RainyDayLady 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    I'm Not Listening When You Say, Goodbye...

    I feel like screaming that I will always love him. I want him. His hugs make everything seem ok. He was there when no one else was. He was comforting and fun and silly and funny and crazy, but just the right amounts... to make me fall in love with him while I still had a...
    DarkSalem DarkSalem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2007

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    I Do Love Him... <3

    About 2 years ago my friend dated this guy. She was cheating on him so he broke it off with her.. He than dated my other friend than my bestfriend. July 14th 2011 came, me and him were just friends, but I liked him. We spoke about how much w liked eachother and stuff like that...
    Leara13 Leara13 16-17, F May 7, 2012

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    If someone gives you their heart, tells you that you are getting what you need now, and if you leave her the ripple effect will kick in, but something goes wrong, she pushes you...
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    As a 17 year old girl, even at my size, I've been sexualized a number of times and I know literally, hundreds of other girls who have experienced it also. It's kind of frustrating...
    ghoulishgirl ghoulishgirl 16-17, F Jan 9

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    Every morning just before I enter my work building I listen to the same song on my Ipod or Phone. I decided on 01/01/2015 that I needed a feel good song to set my mood for the day...
    RachiiM RachiiM 22-25, F Jan 21

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months and he is literally the love of my life. I am extremely happy but when we fight its bad. We've both given each other...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F Jan 8

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    I ended my affair for many reasons as explained in other stories. I fell in love with him because when my life was at it's worst he made me laugh and gave me hope. Well this past...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I've been able to be happy in other relationships, I've even been able to love, but something has me tied so tight I can't escape the thoughts of him. I think it's knowing it was...
    DarkSideOfTheWall DarkSideOfTheWall 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Okay so I know alot of yoy are going to judge me once I tell my story but I don't care. approximately 3 1/2 years ago my husband Bert fell 8 feet onto a concrete floor injuring...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I have been a top student in my school before i graduated into the working world. I've always been a quiet person, which i think is mostly caused by my bad experiences during...
    samwicher samwicher 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Me and him (Connor) have been together for almost 7 months. He is my world, he males me feel things that I've never ever felt before. However, I get mad at him a lot, buy ai cant...
    AARisTHEbest AARisTHEbest 13-15, F 19 hrs ago

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    I met and fell in love with the man I had an affair with before I even met my husband, but he never noticed me that way, until of course I was engaged. I met the other man when I...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I think I'm starting to like a boy that goes to my church but I don't know him at all I don't even know his name!!!! It's so weird they way he care for his family and his sister...
    isabel16 isabel16 16-17, F Jan 12

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    I feel like an obsessive compulsive stalker of the mind...I think about him way too much and being that I have known him like seven years but don't really know him makes it mostly...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Exactly, the best intentions are worthless if the person isn't receptive.
    hal48 hal48 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Idk what to do he stopped talking to me and now I miss him so much I wish we can be close again
    yalzaga yalzaga 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Every single song I listen to, I think about him-namely "My Everything" by Ariana Grande. Sad thing is, I doubt he ever thinks of me.
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    sarahcc11 sarahcc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I just don't understand why?? What did I do soo wrong?? Wish God would send me an angel to Heal my broken hard from being alone. Before it's too late
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Some people here just want to moap around in their unhappiness without actually wanting to fix anything or be grateful, hopeful, and happy for what they do have and what could be.
    rumblingheart rumblingheart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    When I look in your eyes I see the sunset and all the pretty colors that are there when you speak your mind I can't help but wonder I'm the lucky guy that gets to hear Your nice...
    portopwearyhills portopwearyhills 26-30, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've begun to realize that I am my own worst enemy. I'm surrounded by blessings and people that love me but I still look elsewhere. Am I being selfish or just taking everything I...
    darkspace26 darkspace26 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I can't help but think about you all the time.
    DreamingSouls DreamingSouls 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I would have thought by now I would have gotten over him. I've been on several dates. Kissed other men. Nothing feels the same. I don't know what to do. I've tried being nice to...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Let's just start this out by saying im a 12 year old girl living in a the big city of downtown Baltimore. Anyways, I should tell my story This happened two weeks ago. Its been...
    destroyaaaa destroyaaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    There's this guy, in fact the same guy that I'm always talking about on here, the older one, I feel like such a school girl whenever I talk about him or ask for advice. Yet I just...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F Jan 16

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    So I have a question that all of you may be able to help me with. I am 28 years old, actually turning 29 this weekend! Anyways, I have pre menopause which means I cannot have...
    curiousviolinist curiousviolinist 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I'm so in love with a man. He loves me too. His friends tore us apart with lies about me. The love of my life now won't even talk to me and I can't do anything to get him to know...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    She was super controlling, hit me when I was a kid, ignored me about the guy molesting me (ignored how sexual I was and how much I knew about it), ignored me when I started losing...
    ccccalico ccccalico 36-40, F Jan 9

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    I'm in a relationship with an man I met at work we've only been together a week and he already said "I love you to me." I've littorally scolded him about it . I've even asked three...
    Aries1884 Aries1884 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 2

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    I don't know anymore I am not Happy I am sad he loves me but he is acting like a kid he is making angry sad but still I can't break up with him
    IjUstDoNtCare12 IjUstDoNtCare12 13-15, F a week ago

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    Been hurt emotionally so much by everyone, even loved ones that now I'm too scared to let anyone get close to me anymore. I can't help by keep everyone at arm's length, I feel...
    EightEggyEggs EightEggyEggs 18-21, M Jan 4

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    Sometimes you have to laugh. A few minutes ago the woman I wish I could be with just posted on her FB that she just watched a certain movie and I couldn't help but laugh. Because...
    Burai Burai 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm in love with someone that doesn't think about me. We had a thing once, but he ran away and never spoke to me again. While he's moving on and seeing other people, I can't stop...
    Flowerunderrain Flowerunderrain 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I just can't, helpless. Cause: I don't flirt. Effect: I'm single. Final result: Single as fk
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I don't know if that's good or bad because my mind is always working hard producing different questions and learning facts I can't help it I overthink a lot! About everything
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I miss my ex boyfriend I can't stop thinking of him but things weren't easy when it came to our relationship I hate what happened and I hate what they made me do it broke me more...