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I Can't Help You If You Won't Help Yourself

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    I Agree,for Myself Heh=/

    Thats true..i mean i came to a point saying''please help''..my god..how could others help if i dont help myself?i totally agree but then again i dont always ask help..more is for someone to listen n feel is here..-there r situations we just cant help ourselves.. For others..i...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    I Tried

    Sorry, I deleted my story.  Find me at www.chronimax.com
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Okay I Am Trying

    Okay I am trying to help myself but there is like a BIG THICK wall which I can't go through it .... every time I have family problems I get this heavy feeling , my family problems will never end so I think I will never get rid from this heavy feeling :( Oh , my family if...
    listenup listenup 26-30, M Dec 22, 2009

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    Shut Up Dr. Phill Lol

    Yes I do have to help myself always, but I don't normally get help from others because I'm not good at Help Communications.
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Aug 22, 2011

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    If one refuse to listen

    and won't take advice what is the point of me trying to help? If you won't help yourself and don't change your life for the better then you can't get help until you get rid of that attitude!They say "A bad attitude is like a flat tire- you can't go anywhere till you change it...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F Jul 9, 2014

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    Nothing More I Could Do

    Since I am this very empathic person and a really good listener (I am not exaggerating here, believe it or not), my friends and even strangers tend to open up to me and ask for advice. I've got no problem with that, I am usually glad to hear other people's stories. I learn a lot...
    wildice wildice 18-21, F Jun 9, 2010

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    People Can't Help Me...

    So I guess it's time I get my a[s]s up and build myself a bright, promising future.  
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    So this is quite a long story, read it if you dare..I'm not sure if I could say I'm in love but I have definitely had this person on my mind for the last few years..every since I...
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    "Why can't you just close your mouth when you sleep so you can stop drooling at me and stop making me as a handkerchief for your tears"
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    can't sleep got a lot on my mind
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    but it feels like it is already. I've posted a few bits and pieces but now I want to just purge my mind. Is that ok with you? A while back, god, how long? Since June of last year I...
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    i love u...i can't imagine my self with anyone else but u..u r the love of my life dear efi i love u and i will love u
    oneheartE oneheartE 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I can't sleep.. in the meanwhile you can ask me anything ... and no need for pm
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    I can't stand stupid people . They give me headaches lol . I try and be nice to everyone I meet but more than likely I'll be nicer if you're smart
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    1. I am a closet attention wh***, when I have something really important to say. 2. I have never felt completely alone, and am convinced I am on my own Truman Show. 3. I hate the...
    WonderingOfTheSoul WonderingOfTheSoul 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Can't sleep tonight. Bring em on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 8

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    Can't wait to see that green light pop up or a notification on my phone. It brings a smile to my face and my heart pounds with anticipation and excitement, when its from my special...
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    8 of 10 wanting me to add them is men.... What part of "Don´t add men" is difficult to understand? I will soon block men who ask thanks to those who can´t understand and ruin it...
    redlesbian redlesbian 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    just a normal relationship, two people struggling in a world that was made for pure happiness. I sit and I wonder why I get so mad, so upset. and I know he does. we don't have a...
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    MissRejected MissRejected 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Feel like some people can confuse judging with giving your opinion.. Or agreeing in a different matter.. But overal it seems like trusting others is never a good way to go
    lilybunny944 lilybunny944 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I overthink everything. I go in depth with what and how something can go wrong. It drives me nuts! But honestly, if you're over thinking, try telling someone what exactly you're...
    acorn288 acorn288 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    OMG, I'm crying. This is totally helping my mood! https://youtu.be/wOdd30uUeXE
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