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I Can't Help You If You Won't Help Yourself

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    I Agree,for Myself Heh=/

    Thats true..i mean i came to a point saying''please help''..my god..how could others help if i dont help myself?i totally agree but then again i dont always ask help..more is for someone to listen n feel is here..-there r situations we just cant help ourselves.. For others..i...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Shut Up Dr. Phill Lol

    Yes I do have to help myself always, but I don't normally get help from others because I'm not good at Help Communications.
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Aug 22, 2011

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    If one refuse to listen

    and won't take advice what is the point of me trying to help? If you won't help yourself and don't change your life for the better then you can't get help until you get rid of that attitude!They say "A bad attitude is like a flat tire- you can't go anywhere till you change it...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Jul 9, 2014

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    I Tried

    Sorry, I deleted my story.  Find me at www.chronimax.com
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Okay I Am Trying

    Okay I am trying to help myself but there is like a BIG THICK wall which I can't go through it .... every time I have family problems I get this heavy feeling , my family problems will never end so I think I will never get rid from this heavy feeling :( Oh , my family if...
    listenup listenup 26-30, M Dec 22, 2009

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    Nothing More I Could Do

    Since I am this very empathic person and a really good listener (I am not exaggerating here, believe it or not), my friends and even strangers tend to open up to me and ask for advice. I've got no problem with that, I am usually glad to hear other people's stories. I learn a lot...
    wildice wildice 18-21, F Jun 9, 2010

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    People Can't Help Me...

    So I guess it's time I get my a[s]s up and build myself a bright, promising future.  
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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