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I Can't Help You If You Won't Help Yourself

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    Shut Up Dr. Phill Lol

    Yes I do have to help myself always, but I don't normally get help from others because I'm not good at Help Communications.
    NoLifeOnEP NoLifeOnEP 22-25, M Aug 22, 2011

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    I Agree,for Myself Heh=/

    Thats true..i mean i came to a point saying''please help''..my god..how could others help if i dont help myself?i totally agree but then again i dont always ask help..more is for someone to listen n feel is here..-there r situations we just cant help ourselves.. For others..i...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Okay I Am Trying

    Okay I am trying to help myself but there is like a BIG THICK wall which I can't go through it .... every time I have family problems I get this heavy feeling , my family problems will never end so I think I will never get rid from this heavy feeling :( Oh , my family if...
    listenup listenup 26-30, M Dec 22, 2009

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    People Can't Help Me...

    So I guess it's time I get my a[s]s up and build myself a bright, promising future.  
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    If one refuse to listen

    and won't take advice what is the point of me trying to help? If you won't help yourself and don't change your life for the better then you can't get help until you get rid of that attitude!They say "A bad attitude is like a flat tire- you can't go anywhere till you change it...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F Jul 9, 2014

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    I Tried

    Sorry, I deleted my story.  Find me at www.chronimax.com
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Nothing More I Could Do

    Since I am this very empathic person and a really good listener (I am not exaggerating here, believe it or not), my friends and even strangers tend to open up to me and ask for advice. I've got no problem with that, I am usually glad to hear other people's stories. I learn a lot...
    wildice wildice 18-21, F Jun 9, 2010

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    You never loved me at the start like you told me. You show me different. I have shown you I loved you more than I could tell you. Now I know where I stand with you and I can't...
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    I used to have a lot of dreams and goals now I don't anymore I think it's because of the failures I've experienced and now i feel helpless. i don't know how I can feel motivated...
    olahjagger olahjagger 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    When you don't feel happy, I'll love you LOL! When you feel lonely and sad, you can think about the new place you want to go, the country you want to travel to and the good things...
    HappyOrUnhappy HappyOrUnhappy 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    SkyBeaST SkyBeaST 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Loislane29 Loislane29 22-25, F a week ago

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    OH MY GOODNESS, I'M CRYING OVER HERE....Just in case someone else needed a laugh today...https://youtu.be/mD2wlpTXDDg
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F Jul 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Married-on-Club-Penguin:D How to Get Married on Club PenguinTipsNo giving out your age or address or email. You can't tell them what state you live in...
    Andrewsarchus Andrewsarchus 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Why can't we all just enjoy the Moment. This was a chalk board at a recent Art festival,I attended. Liked the simplicity of the chalkboard, and comments. The whole day was quite...
    Susiedisney Susiedisney 56-60, F Jul 20

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    And that's the problem that can't be fixed.
    QuInieFox QuInieFox 22-25, F Jul 20

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    A family arrived at the hospital, they waited for the doctor at the hall way. There was a row of chair at the hall. Four of them to be exact. One of them was already occupied by a...
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    JAGUARYou have a knack for reforming, balancing, and even healing people.You see the good in everyone, and you help bad people learn to be better.Even though you connect to people...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 18

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    Can't predict the future so I can only hope
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 18

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I guess maybe I can try. Today, this morning, "she"...my monster, is awake and moving within me. I finally surrendered and unlocked the door to her cell. Actually, I'm pretty...
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    She says, O my beloved Love is house of wax which may melt if there are any doubts? i reply, Something else can live in hearts who even have small doubts but Love can't. She...
    khamooshi khamooshi 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Which you couldn't/can't, so stop with the judging already. I feel what I feel, do what I do, say what I say... Cuz I'M ME. I'm ME, okay? Not You. And I Won't Do Things the...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    When I'm hanging out. I stay away from high people or drunk people. They only bring bad luck. They get to high and want to fight or even get drunk and can't walk home. I'm tired of...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Sweetabby4u Sweetabby4u 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    ultacc11 ultacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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