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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

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    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Every relationship I have is

    either unhealthy or I throw it away. Why can't I have someone who treats me right? Why do I throw away the people who love me most?
    asayshey asayshey 13-15, F Oct 19, 2014

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Oh boy. So since my post about never having a boyfriend, I have had two rather flakey relationships and neither of them has lasted more than a month. For all of you out there who...
    ExoFae ExoFae 22-25, F May 8

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    I got a girlfriend just yesterday and she was lesbian maybe bi. She was my crush in junior high. She got a girlfriend before and they celebrate their 7 months just yesterday and...
    mar1232 mar1232 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    so ya i keep my relationship to myself mainly because im not alowed to say anything to anyone. so keeping things to myself im pretty good at it. i can hear his word " dont say...
    katie1106 katie1106 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15

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    No matter how hard i try its never good enough I can't keep a relationship with a girl that i love no matter what..
    foreverANDnever14 foreverANDnever14 13-15, F May 10

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I thought I would share a personal experience.I recently cant seem to trust anyone anymore with anything I tell them.I cant trust my ex family ever...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 day ago

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    When I'm 90 years old I want to hook up with a real young thing--a woman in her 70's. Keep those little blue pills in stock!!!
    Roastedacorn Roastedacorn 31-35, M 6 hrs ago

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    I wonder why it hurts so much. I met a wonderful guy. He had just recently broke up from his gf because she was high on drugs and was sent to the rehab. He has been my classmate at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 7

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story and experience about me.Lately I am finding I cant trust anyone anymore.Here is an example of what has happen...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 2 days ago

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    Well.... I'm Chinese (but I was born in and still live in Indonesia lol) and I've always wanted to have a western boyfriend.... My friend told me that western people tend to be...
    salmon140301 salmon140301 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I think interracial relationships are great, ive had a few of my own.
    forevernostalgic forevernostalgic 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm still kinda new to this app. And my story's sort of long so I'll try to make it as precise as possible when I was 14 I met a guy on my summer vacation in chicago, he is my...
    mysteryhistory08 mysteryhistory08 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Love , what is it all About ? Is it worth it ? It has it's pros and cons just like everything else . It's great but it can also hurt more than anything else in the world , I fell...
    Irishgirl1605 Irishgirl1605 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    okay so I've been dating my gf for about 5 months and we've never kissed on the lips ever and its annoying me because i really want her to kiss me . Ive kissed her on the cheek...
    txbq txbq 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I would love to talk to some people about their experiences in a long distance relationship.
    trb1008 trb1008 16-17, F 1 Response 47 mins ago

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    Was supposed to be cooking for my date saturdat and he was supposed to let me know when he was coming and hed take me out for lunch before. I even bought all the ingredients. Come...
    jillamint86 jillamint86 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    My girlfriend lives in Texas and im in Ohio but i cant help but be with her. I used to never think a long distance relationship could work but i guess you cant help who u fall in...
    LordJashin LordJashin 13-15, M 1 Response May 12

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    Looking for a match-maker somewhere in Utah. Apparently, I seem to end up liking women who only want a great friend who is awesome with kids, easy to talk to, spiritual but not...
    SgtP3pp3r SgtP3pp3r 51-55, M May 14

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    Follow up post!! So 3yrs on and we are still together, There have been so many amazing times we've had together and experienced, except we've both been very up and down with our...
    ajayne23 ajayne23 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I can't tell my family because I still get so defensive for him. I know he is wrong but I still care and i feel horrible for him at times and can't think of anyone else disliking...
    CC56591 CC56591 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    a few years ago i had a really good job, i had my own home, i was single. my current bf of 9 years and i were split up at the time but we were still friends. well i decided to take...
    miracle1487 miracle1487 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    This is probably going to be a bit long-winded and hard to explain, but here goes. I know that a lot of people may judge me and think 'well she's only 13-15 what does she know, she...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F 2 Responses May 15

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    tell me, come on i know you wanna tell me. so spill it out. i will listen that i promise but for keeping it i would probably forget about it after the talk. 😉
    Cubeball Cubeball 18-21, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    our relationship has never been typical. it's always been weird... unconventional. well, i suppose it's becoming more normal and accepted these days... anyway, we met online. just...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F May 10

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    My boyfriend Tom and I are in an open relationship. . . We both believe that it's okay to see and/or sleep other people. If he takes another girl out and sleeps with her, then he...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 6 Responses May 14

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    I met my husband through the man who is now my brother-in-law. At our wedding he was the best man and in his speech he said "I may be losing a good house keeper but I am gaining a...
    ag00dwife ag00dwife 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm tired once again. I'm finding I am better off by myself. I hate this merry go round relationships send you in. I can guarantee one thing now days, relationships will end. There...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 31-35, F Apr 26

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    gofund.me/t9se228 well here is my link for my finding let me tell you a little bit about me well My name Is Mandy I am in a long distance relationship from the past 3 years and my...
    americangal americangal 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    All my dad's family are toxic. I am not sure why but in the end it only makes me sad that they live like this. It's all they know, to be filled with such limited experiences and...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response May 5

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    First and foremost, I would like to admit that I have failings as a human being, like we all do. I have my ego issues, I have my temper issues, I live with the consequences of...
    anarane anarane 26-30 May 16

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    I just need to vent, not even looking for advice. I love my boyfriend to death, we've been together 3 years but I feel like its coming to an end or hopefully a change. When I first...
    Worleybirdie Worleybirdie 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Recently, 4 weeks ago, my boyfriend arrived from Abu Dhabi to meet his family. During 1 week he was with me after his trip, he was so strange and I felt something was wrong. Im...
    sarahvenice sarahvenice 26-30, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I am not feeling well. I was here a couple years ago trying to deal with a break up. Now I'm back with another horror story. This time with a narcissist. A complete jerk. He loves...
    anonymous2015x anonymous2015x 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i dont feel good with my husband i dont know, when i am with him i feel stupid, small, like every thing i say or do it is the wrong thing, and i have started over thinking every...
    anazi anazi 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in dire need of advice. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. But things between us have been changing. We have grown closer yet further apart at the same time. I...
    chubbyrats chubbyrats 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    my partner and i have been in rocky state because of my family situation (indian parents not accepting him because he is not indian) and that mixed with distance makes no excuse...
    indomani indomani 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26

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