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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-18, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    mmememe mmememe 22-25, F a week ago

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    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Angel1431 Angel1431 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    AnnieChua AnnieChua 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    BVNG BVNG 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    sacha29 sacha29 26-30, F a week ago

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    marsdancer marsdancer 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    wavelength89 wavelength89 22-25, M a week ago

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    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M Aug 22

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    RussL RussL 26-30, M a week ago

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    Her essence, you ask? Graceful like the smell of lust and desire. Oh god, is our fire hot! Not to mention it's uncommon fuel, which is our inability to have each other. Well, you...
    ReMaxius ReMaxius 18-21, M Aug 5

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