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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

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    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Every relationship I have is

    either unhealthy or I throw it away. Why can't I have someone who treats me right? Why do I throw away the people who love me most?
    asayshey asayshey 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Very few people know that I'm in a relationship. People post stuff about relationships on facebook. And most of it is utter ignorance. You can only imagine. Most of the topics be...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F Mar 10

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    LIKE SEROUS, I CHATTED TO MANY GURLS ON LINE, EVERY ONE SAY YES I LIKE TO CHAT, BUT THY CANT KEEP A DAM CONVERSATION GOING, OR THE LIKE YAH LETS CHAT AND U NEVER HEAR FROM THEM...
    PAL15 PAL15 26-30, M Mar 6

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    My boyfriend feels so clingy sometimes that it drives me up the wall. And I feel guilty about feeling this way because the only way to keep the relationship alive is through...
    emeraldangel523 emeraldangel523 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    (cant keep this in no longer) why would you abort our child with out talking to me.. crap if you didnt want her. you should of gone threw the pregnancy. and I would of took her...
    cosciatony cosciatony 26-30, M 6 Responses Mar 2

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    It's the small things that keep a relationship together. Just a touch on the arm, a knowing smile, being able to be quiet together.
    padraig17325 padraig17325 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    we are all crazy! every single one of us. we all have a voice inside of our heads. it's called our thoughts. no matter what, we cannot shut it off. it just keeps going and going...
    2batinman 2batinman 46-50, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    ok so, i met this guy on a dating site last october 2014, and we still talk today, everyday exactly. we skype very often, so we've seen and spoken to one another. Unfortunately, we...
    prachtig prachtig 26-30, F 9 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am walking on eggshells. Every single day I am told that I am not good enough and need to change. instead of encouragement, I get discouraged. I love my Bf. I want to BF...
    jessiroseca jessiroseca 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    stats say 80% of men play mind games and love games online and play with girls emotions similarly 20% women play with men in the name of love leave the fb and twitter things take...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M Mar 19

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    Top ten questions about relationships with psychopaths/narcissists. I took this from the site psychopathfree.com. I found it to be very helpful. 1. Is he / she really a psychopath...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Last July I started to break up with this guy, and in his twisted mind he thought raping me would bring me back. I got through it and months later I thought I could completely...
    Anon787 Anon787 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 2

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    Now that I have gone through some things and had made son brash decisions, I have decided to become ready to pursue a real relationship where I am the light and sole person of his...
    Babygirl872901 Babygirl872901 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    I'm currently in a fantastic relationship but I love getting attention from other men.
    klingesm klingesm 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Or it seems we can't get over each other. We live an hour or so apart, but neither of us have time to see rach other unless its along the way. I spent half the day with him and we...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F Mar 9

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    I've finally been able to convince my husband that I really do want to be in a relationship like this, although I refrain from referring to my desired relationship as DD or TIH...
    taliahood taliahood 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    For quite some time now I have been struggling with an over riding sense of unhappiness with the state of things in my life, starting with the long term issues in my marriage...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    its sad that after 9 years in a relationship he still cant open up and talk to me and tell me what is on his mind he rather spill his guts to complete ****** strangers then to tje...
    akbravo akbravo 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend wants a non-monogamous relationship. He keeps saying he loves the connection we have, and he says he feels like it would still be there between us even if we broke up...
    Jarka123 Jarka123 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Write about your experienceRelationships are at the core of what it means to be human. Nobody wants to live life alone, nobody wants to live life without warm, loving relationships...
    skykidx1 skykidx1 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    While expressing your needs and feelings in a positive way to your significant other is a good foundation for resolving conflicts and building a healthy relationship, these skills...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F Mar 5

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    So I write this because I would like some outside opinions about my relationship with a lovely man. Some background, I recently started going to university and have been learning...
    EngineergirlTheta EngineergirlTheta 18-21, F Mar 7

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    My daughter is a junior at college and is an exceptional student with drive and clear goals for the future, which include graduate school, most likely at a university abroad. This...
    GTdM GTdM 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Our relationship started off with the wrong step. We moved too quickly and it has been going down ever since... We became 'official' October 4th 2014. Exactly 1 month later was...
    Lisst Lisst 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I keep my EP account secret because after 38 years of marriage and raising 5 children, I just wanted to have something for myself. It might be a selfish thought.
    Raven57 Raven57 56-60, F 17 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Common EP one minute you can't keep people signed in. and now ya can't add people. really..WTF
    Murphylovesmax2 Murphylovesmax2 56-60, M 4 hrs ago

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    I want to give up but its not in me. I am a mother of 3 who went through a bad divorce in 2009. My income consists of 250.00 a week and Im 12000 dollars in debt. I cant afford...
    sweetangel46730 sweetangel46730 31-35, F Mar 2

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    I have been seeing a girl since we had sex on accident 3 months ago. We aren't in a relationship but we're close and we both care about each other. her mom likes me and her friends...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M Mar 5

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    I've been thinking a lot about mine and my boyfriends relationship... I love him so much, but sometimes I feel like I love him more than he loves me. We've been together for 4...
    Deda0505 Deda0505 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    My wife and I have a very open and sexual relationship, she's also bi-sexual and has been seeing women throughout our relationship. Looking for women to keep secrets and give their...
    anynatural anynatural 26-30, M Mar 7

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    A frequent thing to say around here. Mostly about women from a mans perspective. "Pff... women. Cant live with them, cant live without them" :D But it is probably also said by...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Mar 10

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    this girl I've been going out with has a boyfriend (messed up relationship I know) she keeps saying she's going to break up with him, I keep waiting but the more I wait the more I...
    anarchistTempist anarchistTempist 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I never set out to search for someone online, in fact, the idea always seemed odd to me. All the dating websites and whatnot led me to believe that people never truly got to know...
    euthanizedCanine euthanizedCanine 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    (I only just realised how long this is but if you could stick with it is really appreciate it.) have a 'friend' from school that has really got me down and annoyed me over the last...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    so pretty much. me and my boyfriend of a year and a half aren't together. he said he wants a break. it is my first 'break up' or 'break' ever. we are both 21. its weird bc we are...
    insanityler insanityler 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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