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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-18, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This isn't and experience as much as it is for a cry for help. I have a friend group (8 people, one boy) and one of the girls really hurt me, she made up a rumour involving me and...
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    ok, I have a pretty, affectionate and smart little 5 year old girl and i love her dearly. i have sacrificed everything for her, so she can be happy, but all she does is whine about...
    kemmer kemmer 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm doomed to be in love a person i cannot have; and it hurts, feels like i have my heart ripped out and cut up by tiny blades cutting and tearing the flesh of my bruised and...
    BennetWitch BennetWitch 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Are you in a relationship that you are forced to hide from the people around you? Does your family not approve of your partner, but you still continue to date them in secret? Are...
    gigantictv gigantictv 18-21 3 days ago

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    My fiance: -says he is boring multiple times -says he is a homebody multiple times -says he doesn't want to go out [unless it is for juice] -he complains about disappointing me and...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i cant run , i cant hide . its always going to catch up to me. I cant cant shake it at all. i cant call it nor can i speak it or else my grave will be dug. Its all happening...so...
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My friend's husband asked her to send me this story. It summarizes my life... "She Could Hear Every Word He Said Through The Open Window, So She Started Typing: A few years ago...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    He's amazing and i love him so much! I cant wait till i can see him in person!!
    BabyGirlAtHeart BabyGirlAtHeart 13-15, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I ask for strength that I can bear the pain of losing someone I can't have...I must be strong to finally let go of him, but deep in my heart I want to hold on, but am I so crazy...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 21 hrs ago

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    I have been wanting a girlfriend for some time. But whenever I like someone I don't have the courage to tell them, partly because of my social anxiety and partly because those...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 9 hrs ago

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    The reason I don't "do" online relationships is because I would feel like, that's a waist of a first boyfriend.... I want my first relationship to be special. Idk :/
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Is there something wrong with me? I am 26 intelligent always leave my baggage at the door. Trainable. I got my priorities straight, yet there are issues with keeping a steady job...
    kyllvie kyllvie 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I don't know if I can say "Am" anymore. I am just so sad rightnow and frustrated.. We have been long distance since the beginning. and now that he is in Tokio he realized how far...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I cant understand ep men showing off their **** really !!!!!?
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 13 hrs ago

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    Keep in mind that I was always one of those girls that never understood why women stay in abusive relationships. I was a broken child. Acted out, drugs, sex basically whatever I...
    mmememe mmememe 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    There is no denying that loving someone without being able to touch is intense and can be deeply frustrating. The body seems to be always aroused without being able to make full...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 14 hrs ago

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    I can never seem to find a relationship that works. Whether they're a friend or an enemy, whether they're close or distant, whether they're kind or hateful it just never works. It...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    At this point I have battled living with a crack head father, I have achieved my goals academically, I am making my dream of being a surgeon a reality, I have contemplated suicide...
    sikandtired93 sikandtired93 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I thought i get it all off my chest on here seeing as I was reading lots of emotional abuse and psychical abuse stories on here a few weeks ago that got me moving in my decision to...
    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This guy from my work place showed interest in me. I didn't really think he liked me more than a coworker because I just find myself unattractive. One day I was sitting outside...
    miroda miroda 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    This guy from my work place showed interest in me. I didn't really think he liked me more than a coworker because I just find myself unattractive. One day I was sitting outside...
    miroda miroda 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    This guy from my work place showed interest in me. I didn't really think he liked me more than a coworker because I just find myself unattractive. One day I was sitting outside...
    miroda miroda 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    This guy from my work place showed interest in me. I didn't really think he liked me more than a coworker because I just find myself unattractive. One day I was sitting outside...
    miroda miroda 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    In the past few years I've struggled with depression, anxiety, PTSD and an ednos, but I've pretty much won the battle. I was hospitalised for four months and I did a lot of healing...
    madmoodog madmoodog 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I dont know how my friends keep up fake romantic relations with people...I mean I cant even say hello to someone for that purpose!
    Angel1431 Angel1431 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Okay here's my story, i met a guy online, we became best friends on internet. I know his full background, he know my full background too. I even met his father, brother and grandpa...
    AnnieChua AnnieChua 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I keep trying to talk to different people , and most of them (especially my age) are all exactly alike . The black guys treat me like a side chick, the white guys are gentlemen...
    BVNG BVNG 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why the hell are these baby mamas hell bent on causing all this drama .I mean i really don't understand why is it that they cant just move on. They've their chance and the...
    sacha29 sacha29 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, never been kissed. It's easy for me to talk to guys because I'm a tomboy, but now I'm in college I really would like alittle more male...
    CayaMonet CayaMonet 18-21, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Me and my babe love to spice it up once and a while which I believe leads to a more healthy an lively relationship
    LSCouple LSCouple 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    Currently in the best relationship I've had in my short life, but yet I'm still anxious.
    mikewmc2011 mikewmc2011 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I've been talking to a man online for 6 yrs Off and on He made me think he had deep feelings for me I never chase men or try to change them We always had deep conversations...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It's pretty bad when teenagers get more action than me and I'm a mature adult with a job car and house How in the world does one find a relationship with someone who Isn't...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    So I have this friend who identifies as gender-neutral (I identify as male), and when we met, we found out we have several interests in common. We kept hanging out, and built a...
    vertexsix vertexsix 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why?? I don't get it, I've been in and out of relationships since being young and leaving someone has never really effected me. I have the ability to be able to shut anyone out of...
    fatty44 fatty44 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    So there's this boy who I met in my chemistry class and at first there was this love-hate relationship, but eventually in a short period of time, he and I became incredible friends...
    marsdancer marsdancer 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Heyy! Crap i really shouldn't have put my name as **** o girl lol. Whos gonna want to date a guy who has account name **** a girl haha i f*cked up. Anyways I'm seriously a super...
    FuckoGirl FuckoGirl 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    If I'm in love I'll do everything possible to make her happy and I would cherish and appreciate every moment spent with her. My love doesn't dwindle with time. It's constant. Now...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 10

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