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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Every relationship I have is

    either unhealthy or I throw it away. Why can't I have someone who treats me right? Why do I throw away the people who love me most?
    asayshey asayshey 13-15, F Oct 19, 2014

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    It seems more and more lately that those people I find myself attracted to are off limits. In a relationship, married.. The worst right now is my cousin. I'm crazy about this girl...
    LarsGreypath LarsGreypath 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    I really do take relationships seriously all that lying cheating betrayal stuff isn't me because I was taught at a young age not to become like my uncles only wanting women for sex...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I like men, period. But I have to say I've always liked white guys and for 4 going on 5 months I've been dating my boyfriend. He's the most amazing , interesting and kind hearted...
    soulpool20 soulpool20 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    Just a random thought... Sometimes I hate having to be asked about my marital status whenever I get acquainted with someone --- as it's almost always the next question asked after...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 16 Responses 1 day ago

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    I cant go back to her cuz we had a huge fight n i swore id never return to her. She was the most perfect girl ever. I cant go back. I want to forget her. I need help
    rehankk rehankk 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just want some people to relate to. My family are breaking me down. All of my immediate family members are incredibly self destructive and also abusive to those around them...
    narcolepticinsomniac narcolepticinsomniac 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Where to start ..... Met this guy MM 5.5 years (dec 2009) ago. Just separated from husband. Got into this new relationship and things were fine to start off with. He was seeking...
    RozieG RozieG 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm married. My husband is verbally abusive quite often, and sometimes I really wish I could get out of this relationship. But I still love him. I also love someone else, though...
    Diipali Diipali 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I have moved 33 times in my 37 years on this planet. All I want to do is live in an RV and see the country again! Is there anyone else who keeps moving constantly or gets restless...
    talespinner2877 talespinner2877 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I've only had one serious boyfriend but that ended when he "took my innocence" and from then, a bunch of guys want to do it with me. Saying they like me and stuff just to get me in...
    kittylulu13 kittylulu13 18-21, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    *sigh* Just tired of things. My 'spouse' keeps putting me down and talking down to me like I haven't worked and helped to support his *** for 8 years. I've been unemployed now for...
    karmakarma00 karmakarma00 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm not in a healthy relationship. When I look into his eyes I see a man I love and that I fell in love with.. But instead of immediately forgiving him(like I always do) for...
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Failed Relationships do change people alot when i was primary 2 a girl confessed to me that i think i also like her cause its too young to understand love. But as we couple we go...
    jefeer jefeer 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I was maybe about 16. He lied to me about his age... saying he was 17 when really he was 25. He used to cut me, choke me, and rape me. He used me for sex and then when i got...
    nicky3489 nicky3489 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 21

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    Happiness is an important element to keep a family connected and strong. Families who have the opportunity to share great memories have a much better chance of holding bonds than...
    williams299 williams299 46-50, M Aug 20

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    This year has been absolutely awful and I keep hearing from people that "it'll get better", but it just seems like every time something starts to get even remotely better, the...
    dirtybb dirtybb 18-21, F Aug 19

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    He said he love me very much then everyday he goes back to his wife but tries to find every opportunity to be with me. If wife is away he'll spend the night with me. To him im his...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm 23. I just moved 7months ago to LA from a country 8,000miles away from here. 3months ago I met this guy who is 20 and still goes to college in Wisconsin. His cousin is the...
    JUSTME1217 JUSTME1217 22-25, F Aug 17

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    Yesterday at Sunday dinner, my fiancé had a couple of drinks and started joking around and my family (my siblings and their spouses, my parents were not there) started freaking...
    Sewlovely Sewlovely 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    If you cant have respect and trust why build??? Just saying
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    The couple who are out for dinner but they eat their food in silence while looking around, everywhere but at eachother. The couple at home where day after day after coming home...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I'm terrified of the fact that the Mother of my child and I might not get back together. We began to grow apart after our daughter was born. Fighting constantly, no communication...
    DaddioFurniture DaddioFurniture 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    This is a really long story, but I wanted to get out of my head. If no one reads it, at least I was able to put my thoughts and memories down. I have never been in a official...
    fluteplayer1519 fluteplayer1519 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I have been feeling blue and hopeless about getting in a good relationship so I just want to tell my story here and hope that anyone can give me some encouraging words. Thank you...
    ella003 ella003 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I just got engaged to my boyfriend of five years. He's 16 years older than me. It bothered me considerably at first, but now I realize how great we are together. He is my rock, my...
    callmebecky callmebecky 22-25, F Aug 13

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    My wife hates my crossdressing but I just cant stop, nor do I want to. The other day I got up around 6:00am, I put on my pantys & pantyhose, my legs are kept shaven & my toes are...
    lovebeingJoann lovebeingJoann 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    There are times in our lives when we are struggling to assess the value of our relationships based on - Love Money Adventure Love - starts of great, cant live without each...
    methinks464 methinks464 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    The last few weeks have been good, my new relationship is blossoming well... We have had a few family type days he came and spent the day with his kids at my parents with my...
    momacods momacods 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    My names Nicole and I am 18 years old. My boyfriend is 29 years old, an almost 11 year age gap between us. I wasn't looking for an relationship, and he definitely wasn't looking...
    NicoleDD718 NicoleDD718 18-21 Aug 12

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    Almost there ... 7 weeks to go, 8 weeks tops. All depends on how close POS wants to push her travel docs (in-person) renewal application to. I'm almost very certain it would not...
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 12

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    I've been in a ldr for over 7yesrs with my bf..! He's still so sweet to me and we love each other so much!! I cant believe it has been that long:) we're gonna meet up finally this...
    totomatoto totomatoto 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    he has a new internship job so nights get so lonely. my entire life i always moved my work and social life for him. doesnt seem like he ever did the same for me. now im starting...
    danna223 danna223 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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