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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Every relationship I have is

    either unhealthy or I throw it away. Why can't I have someone who treats me right? Why do I throw away the people who love me most?
    asayshey asayshey 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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