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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Every relationship I have is

    either unhealthy or I throw it away. Why can't I have someone who treats me right? Why do I throw away the people who love me most?
    asayshey asayshey 13-15, F Oct 19, 2014

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    just woundering how i could brighten up the night,, seems impossible with the darkness..~~~ becuase its night i guess,,but that is the time someone that ment so much to me used to...
    MyraTomPhil MyraTomPhil 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I mean I would love to be in a relationship. I want to know what it's like to be in a relationship. But for as long as I can remember, I was one to never be able to keep a long...
    MrIppikodoku MrIppikodoku 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    that is an understatement on my part. i have no relationship with him...sure ive tried over the years. and i guess he has too a point. i am the oldest of 4 kids plus the only...
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    So, I've been in a long distance realtionship for almost a year now. Its bad as it is not to see the person you love all the time, but know I'm not sure if I can't wait for that...
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    brittaE brittaE 18-21 Feb 2

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    ashleya9285 ashleya9285 26-30, F Feb 2

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    teeq22 teeq22 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    After being dumped by twice after the relationship of 1.6 year each (co incidence ) i have lost faith in relationship ,I just cant give my emotions ,body and everything to other...
    itshardtofindtruelove itshardtofindtruelove 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 1

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    SO, Ive met this amazing girl, we used to work with each other and at first i didn't even know she was into girls until she finally told me how she felt about me. I no longer work...
    Pals2424 Pals2424 18-21, F Feb 1

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    continuation… She was unhappy with the relationship that they have with her boyfriend, I told her that I will not let her love me more than him, what I just want is let me love...
    stunnedprincess stunnedprincess 22-25, F Feb 1

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    I cant fix you. I cant fix me. I cant turn back time and change what broke us. I also cant let my guard down to give my emotion to you. Im fragile too. I never meant to be...
    oddnelly oddnelly 31-35, F Feb 1

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    I'm in high school and there is dance tonight. I've been texting a guy for a while. He's been so nice and a bit suggestive while texting(sending hearts and smirk/wink faces and...
    thisbrokengirl777 thisbrokengirl777 13-15, F Jan 30

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    I want to be in a real relationship, and when I say real, I mean a relationship where I can be COMPLETELY honest with the person, not a hide a single thing from him; about my past...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    8 months since she broke up with me. 20 months we were together. 8 months we were engaged. I still can't get her out of my head. She has many issues. I will quite likely be better...
    ScottyB3389 ScottyB3389 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I still believe long distance relationships can work. I still believe that I can show you how much I love you. Yes, it takes a lot of work and careful communication. There has to...
    mar3sword mar3sword 18-21, M Jan 28

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    I always feel turned on by thinking of females in our family. I want to have relationship with some of the pretty ladies in the family like my wife's sisters and my female cousins...
    Youngheartman Youngheartman 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I always feel turned on by thinking of females in our family. I want to have relationship with some of the pretty ladies in the family like my wife's sisters and my female cousins...
    Youngheartman Youngheartman 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    My partner & I have quite an age gap.We often feel so alone, so removed from others because of the judgemental attitudes of people who should be congratulating us. We have a...
    olscool olscool 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    yes I do believe ldr can work. only if both partners in the relationship are willing to make an effort. when the connection between you and your partner is so strong distance doesn...
    verronicat verronicat 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I have some strong feelings about the opposite gender. I know not everyone is bad but after having to deal with so many jackass on a daily basis I've lost interest. I've also never...
    persononinternet persononinternet 18-21, M Jan 26

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    Lately I've screwed my sleep schedule up royally. I used to work 12hr shifts on average, 7am to 7pm, yet my sleep schedule was healthy. I got laid off -stupid economy- and have...
    SilentRider SilentRider 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I've been with this guy for 2 years, and I'm terrified. Does that make sense? I've always been afraid of falling in love, and whenever I have, I have gotten hurt, badly. And know...
    Tutuita Tutuita 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I am writing here because i dont know how other way to vent. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am living at his house because i was kicked out of mine. I have been here...
    neonslug neonslug 18-21, F Jan 25

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    I'm annoyed by myself for constantly wanting this. Honestly, I don't want an actual relationship, I just want a girl friend who's sensitive and kinda weird as me and wouldn't judge...
    iamofnothing iamofnothing 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    im sorry that im not the daughter you wanted or even wished for. im sorry that i am a ****** sister. im sorry that i am over emotional. and that i cry a lot. and that i hide in...
    SW33TdArkness SW33TdArkness 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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