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I Cant Keep a Steady Relationship

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    Third Time Unlucky

    i used to think that i was in a steady relationship,but eventualy found that i was mearly in a dead end commitment that was doing nothing but destroying my familys perseption of me, ruining my freinds attitude towards me and tearing me myself apart with stress. after so long of...
    m1k3 m1k3 16-17, M Oct 20, 2012

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    Steadily Failing...

    My longest real relationship was 5 months and that was only because I told myself that I could make it last that long and I was going to. The relationship was really over 2 or 3 months into it though. It wasn't my fault, in the slightest, but sometimes I sit back and look and see...
    barefootbassoonist barefootbassoonist 22-25, F Nov 18, 2010

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    Never

    Im sure I can keep a relationship. But I really have not found the guy worth the relationship. Usually if I see a problem I end it right away. Maybe I have too high of standards but , I think I deserve the best :)
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    Hopeless?

    I cant seem to keep any girl I get serious with.  Every time I meet them I have other things going on and could care less what they wanted.  But they are persistent and, eventually, I fall for them.  It seems like things go really well for a while.  And then...
    ntowne06 ntowne06 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2009

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    Am I Weird

    I cant seem to keep a steady relation ship i have no problem getting boyfriends but they never last more than 5 days latly anyway i found a guy I am in love with and we have been togather for 3 days now i just dont want to screw anything up cause seriously i think he may be the...
    apathygirl apathygirl 16-18, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Its My Fault

    i have this problem with keeping a relationship! its like im never satisfied with anything. i constantly change from being in love, to being disgusted by the people im with. it really hurts me. i feel like i will never be able to be in love with anyone! please help me!
    Worthless1 Worthless1 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2009

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    I dont think I can continue waiting til things get better cause they just dont, I dont want to live anymore Im sorry for being like this Im sorry I just cant take it any longer xc
    xxSuicidalPrincessxx xxSuicidalPrincessxx 13-15, F Jul 22

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    I've always been a shy person and so making friend has always been a challenge. Not to say I can't make friends it's just they have to talk to me first before I'll start talking...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mom won't let me wear makeup because she thinks I want to attract boys, and that I should focus on my school work. That's not why at all! I want to wear makeup because it will...
    arcticSoul97 arcticSoul97 13-15, F Jul 22

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    I can't hold a steady relationship for more than 2/3 months. I have to take a break or remove titles. It's too stressful
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Ive always known what i was. I wasnt the guy that anyone was falling asleep thinking of, but i was okay with that, i wasnt amazing but i use to think i was a solid, decent guy...
    jimugly jimugly 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    I think this is absolutely the most painful relationship to find yourself in. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little while, but we've been talking for almost two...
    xd288 xd288 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Recently my bf and I have had problems in our relationship. I don't believe he is a strong person who can stand up for himself. His parents are having issues with our relationship...
    AmoyL AmoyL 22-25, F 8 mins ago

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    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Through my life i have been hurt so many times by so many different people and circumstances. With almost every hurt i shattered like glass, i felt broken and worthless like there...
    rainbowbreakdown rainbowbreakdown 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I cant explain to him so i rather explain to strangers that are willing to listen . This 3 yr relationship has gone up & down with my head spinning in circles . I just dont...
    lovelymarie21 lovelymarie21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    A day without hearing about him is torment. I can go work and focus on it but cant help thinking about him. My daytime is his night time. So many challenging that we need to go...
    spongechannie spongechannie 22-25, F Jul 6

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    So you guys remember that guy I mentioned, the 28 year old? Well, I'm really starting to like him. A lot. But how do I explain my life to him. My past, my present. I don't want him...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Some parts of him aren't so bad. Some part of me doesn't hate him. I mean, sometimes he watches cool things on the news and cool TV shows, and so that's interesting. Buut, I have...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I cant say "i love you" to my parents or anyone. i mean sometimes i say it with my friendss but it doesnt really mean as much than to my parents. Last relationship i was in with a...
    Flaka408 Flaka408 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm currently in a relationship with a guy who seems to not care about me at all. I have trouble believing him after he claims he loves me or that he loves talking to me. A few...
    pennyly pennyly 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I think we all have an idealist idea about "the perfect relationships". I've had several long term relationships in the past, some long distant relationships. I find trust and...
    jetetter jetetter 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I been in a realtionship with my bf who is now my ex for 2 1/2 years off and on, it just ended for good and i kicked him out of my life. I honestly don't want to relive the past...
    Soups Soups 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Why?? I don't get it, I've been in and out of relationships since being young and leaving someone has never really effected me. I have the ability to be able to shut anyone out of...
    fatty44 fatty44 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I've been going out with the same guy for a year now, but 4 months ago there was a bump in the road of our relationship. Ok so, my boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14 we met on a trip to...
    Julianna2406 Julianna2406 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I cant sleep tonight because I'm to worried about my relationship!
    k525b k525b 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    i just cant understand why people cant be honest and clear to each other ! why everything should be complicated in this life !! if you like someone just tell him ! you dont have...
    rasha1948 rasha1948 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Well, where do I start. middle school. I have my best friend who I met back then. We've been friends since then, all through high school and even now till college. During high...
    almostblue almostblue 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know I need to strive to be myself. I do.... cause anyone who is with you and cant handle the real you is not worth it... well my boyfriend is recently divorced like I am. We...
    VictoriaRRose VictoriaRRose 26-30, F Jul 1

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    So this guy is really special to me and we really liked each other . However he is a kind of guy that is really moody and quick tempered but still he is as charming and lovely as...
    Nicolebelle Nicolebelle 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. People said our relationship was not healthy. He lied to me a lot, he did something's that you shouldn't when you're in a...
    lykers lykers 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    For a very long time, I've been searching for a place to tell my story. This seems like my best bet so far, so here goes. When I was 14, I was in my first real relationship. It...
    junelily junelily 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I was 13. So was he. He was my kind of boyfriend. I repressed it until last year when I was 18. The nightmares and flashbacks have stopped but my life is completely messed up. I...
    abbietee abbietee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    We, me and my boyfriend are from the same country but right now we're studying in different country. He is in Australia and I am in United States. We known each other long ago but...
    bkayla bkayla 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I need help. I cant tell what i really feel for this guy, But I miss him and My heart hurts when I think about him. (This might sound crazy and dramatic but it's true, life can...
    baby9527 baby9527 18-21, F a week ago

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    Im so confused, frustrated, remorseful and sad. I dont know how to help my boyfriend we have been together for a year but i really hurt him:( i betrayed him and he found out and i...
    Dana93y Dana93y 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am pretty sure I am in a toxic relationship. On top of some pretty nasty fights in which he confirmed every insecurity I have, he is the king of mixed messages--saying he wants...
    glitterordeath glitterordeath 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    About The Importance Of Respect „We are not Cain, Lord. We have not slain our brother. But our words are often sharp as a knife. We are not Cain, Lord. We have not thrown a...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 3

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    Do you ever have one of those nights where you just get completely assaulted by memories? Where all of sudden everything comes flooding back in a title wave of mixed emotions and...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm going to middle school and I'm scared cause I heard of the beatings my middle school is an asylum and I lost my girlfriend so much on my mind I cant sleep i beat Benadryl to...
    JohnnyMaron JohnnyMaron 13-15, M Jul 15

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    I am OBSESSED! i cant sit to watch TV or surf in the web if The place isnt clean. I just cant, I feel unconfortable. I love when my daddy arrives home and everything is clean, it...
    LovelySwetie LovelySwetie 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I was bisexual as a young man but what I learned I found to be my biggest turn on happend while with a bi friend. I went into my bedroom a looked into my bathroom and I was shocked...
    LexiMX81 LexiMX81 36-40, T 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I love you sweetheart. I don't know where you are, with whom you are and what you do. Still I love you. Maybe I lost you forever but will never lose my love for you ever. I cannot...
    daydreamerinthedark daydreamerinthedark 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I am married and we have a one year old. We have always have certain issues between us - an up and down relationship where everything is 'perfect' one minute then suddenly from...
    Bosnell02 Bosnell02 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Long story short the final straw came Friday night when I found out he was planning on meeting another woman and the details were sketchy about whether or not they wanted to keep...
    Benassi Benassi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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