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I Can't Let Go of Him

What do you do when you can't let him go??? 45 People

    He is always on my mind

    and it is affecting my work and other relationships. We have been apart for many, many years, but he has never left my mind for long. He teased me 2 years ago by contacting me and then he was gone again. That communication with him only made things worse. Now I find myself...
    justlostme justlostme 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    He's Everything I've Ever Known...

    When I was in high school I was involved with this guy on and off. We had a really strong connection. I desired him mentally, physically, and emotionally. He was my everything. I don't even know how to describe it but everything about our relationship was so wrong, but felt so...
    bk1212 bk1212 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    She Cant Leave Him

    she sits there through the daywondering what she should say.she listens and believes his liesmeanwhile inside she silently cries.she puts on a smilewhile she sits back in denile.his love is what she cravesbut her heart desperately needs to be saved.she thinks she is all...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2011

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    I'm All Alone

    Picture perfect memories scattered all around the floor, and I wonder if I ever cross your mind, for me it happens all time. It's a 1:15 I'm a little drunk, I said I wouldnt call but I feel all alone wishing you were here with me.
    Jay04Sch Jay04Sch 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    My ex and I met whilst working together.

    Initially, we hated each other, but we came to like each other. On a drunken work night out, we ended up sleeping together. We maintained a "friends with Benefits" relationship for about 7 months, until I developed feelings for him that i could no longer ignore. Sadly, he didn't...
    mfmmfl420 mfmmfl420 31-35, F Dec 12, 2013

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    It's been 5 years since he stormed out of my

    life... why can't we let go of these people?
    hora1027 hora1027 26-30, F Feb 25

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    3 Months Almost And Dying Waiting For You..

    I just can't except the fact that we're over. I can't except that I'll never see you again and that you don't love me. I love you so much and have been waiting for you for so long. I miss you so much. If only you knew how many tears I have shed over you. After everything you...
    nolongermyslef nolongermyslef 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    The Long Goodbye.

     It's been years and he's moved on completely.  I pretend I've moved on and sometimes I believe it myself, but the truth is I am stuck like the U2 song:  "stuck in a moment and I can't get out of it."  My life is passing me by.  I've turned down...
    AACM AACM 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    The Long Goodbye.

     It's been years and he's moved on completely.  I pretend I've moved on and sometimes I believe it myself, but the truth is I am stuck like the U2 song:  "stuck in a moment and I can't get out of it."  My life is passing me by.  I've turned down...
    AACM AACM 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I'm experiencing profound joy

    and sadness this holiday season My life is my own and I am living it, however, I want my relationship back I accept how things are - and at the same time I want something more Tough emotions conflicting with each other I'm not sad - just thinking out loud
    kimd1234 kimd1234 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    I'll stay as long as you want me to, but will you hold on too?
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    I miss him so much but I can't let myself see him because I just barely started feeling like life will go on without him.
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    Met this guy when I was 13, handsome and tall. Let's call him SL. So we talked through Facebook and eventually exchanged numbers. We call each other often and texts sometimes. It...
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    So I've started talking to someone else.. He is not taken and I have a feeling that he likes me back... I definitely like him but I am still stuck on my MM. There is just something...
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Hello. I'm roshana . Last night i went to aarsham's house(my brother) he was going out he kissed me andhe showed his beautiful smile to me i saw in his eyes that he is so sad...
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    When I was younger I used to try to spend time with my dad and eh would always yell at me to go away and not to talk to him. now just recently, He has tried to have a relationship...
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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
    Lovelornmother Lovelornmother 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    He is everything to me... But I can't have him cause he is taken. It is the worst feeling ever especially when he is flirting back with you.
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Soo the homewreckers are blocking me.. Cause I'm authentic n they hate... their forums are full of homewreckers n not at from a woman in a committed relationship.. Even tho that's...
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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
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    How are some of you coping? I feel like outside if getting a lobotomy, this guy will forever occupy my heart and soul. It's not obsession. We had (maybe still have) a very deep...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    The title is my life. It happened 8 years ago. Wow, I can't believe it has been that long... At 7 years of marriage and 3 kids, my husband and I became roommates... I loved him but...
    swimminginemotions swimminginemotions 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    It all started when I started dating my now husband about 15years ago. My sister in law didn't want her brother with anyone unless she had say in who it was. Well when she didn't...
    laidbackgirl laidbackgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I have a boyfriend thay absolutely loves me and I professed a love that its not entirely there. I do love him with my heart but im not quite in love with him as I am my ex. Its a...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    She insists I did not hug her when she came to visit about a month and a half ago. I remember this specifically because I thought, "do I have to hug her? If I don't, she'll make a...
    greencoffeecup greencoffeecup 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I'm married with two kids. We are separated but legally. I'm in love with a guy 13 yrs older than me and he's single. I've known him since I was 8 yrs old. We can never be together...
    Allie26 Allie26 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    It has been around two years since we were together but I think about him at least once or twice a week. I don't miss him or want him back, actually, I hate him for how badly he...
    kcconference300 kcconference300 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    After relationship nonsense after relationship nonsense, I began to realize I don't need that crap while I'm still trying to figure out who I am. For days and days on end I would...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    When I want to express my loneliness, my rage, my sorrow, my emotions, I just isolate myself. Something inside me is saying that I can't tell anyone about these wretched emotions...
    AlyssaTM AlyssaTM 16-17, F Mar 29

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I have loved him since I was 11 and I'm 18 now. It sucks seeing him on Facebook living an awesome life. We use to be good friends in 5th grade, and he behaved as though he liked...
    Pixadelia Pixadelia 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    So long story short I dated a sociopath for 3 years. worst experience of my life. He destroyed everything about me....for fun. I was so helplessly in love with someone who didnt...
    IndependentGrl IndependentGrl 18-21, F Apr 7

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    How can my feelings still be intense when we haven't interacted in months. Do you still think of me? I can't imagine you feeling so much for me and now nothing. Is that true? Or...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F Apr 1

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    I am really fat. It sucks. In all honesty, I don't give a **** about my weight. Don't give a **** about how I look. However, there's this guy...(of course). He's really into sports...
    deathbear deathbear 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My boyfriend cheated on me before Christmas i was absolutely devastated. We tried moving on from it. We spoke about it many times. Its always on the back of my mind. i haven't...
    KakaRose KakaRose 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    God I try. I try all the time. And I focus on my goals too. And I try to focus on other people. Some are charming I suppose. And nice. They're not you though. All I think about it...
    lunaloves lunaloves 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm in love with my health teacher. I've always found him attractive and his personality is seemingly perfect... But not until this year, have I realized that I truly have feelings...
    Kkeiser Kkeiser 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I'm 21 years old and my mom treats me like I'm 16. In my culture a girl can't leave the house until she's married. I don't really get to do anything. I go to college and come home...
    cowboys11 cowboys11 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Ever since I can remember my parents have been fighting with each other. I can't stand it when they do. My father always gets defensive and over dramatic and says horrible things...
    RachelRosieanne RachelRosieanne 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I recently joined this community in hopes to get many things off my chest, and hopefully get some positivity from anyone who’s willing to listen. My name is Zach and I’m 19...
    Zach001 Zach001 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    It gets a little easier every day. I was what you needed then. She is what you need now. The things she is giving you now, I can't. It is so great to see you happy. I am doing my...
    MyLifeIsNow MyLifeIsNow 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am 19 and my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. We were together for a short seven months but they were perfect. We were both happy, until one day last month, he picked me...
    pnkellain pnkellain 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't know if I can say I'm in love or not because in truth I haven't know her very long. I do know that I care for her a great deal. She is in a relationship though. In my eyes...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    "Too much" being my bf. and how I haven't seen him in like almost 2 weeks. How I miss him, his hugs and kisses, his sexy voice, his cute smile, or amazingly beautiful eyes. Just...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I was about to send this to a girl, who I'm madly in love with, and who is also my best friend. But I couldn't bring myself to hit send... "I've known you for about 6 years now...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    The few people who know me think they know my history well, but they only have bits and pieces of the story. There are too many pathological liars out there these days, I mean, I...
    Ahmiervalentine Ahmiervalentine 22-25, M Apr 11

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    I have tried so hard to get over someone I haven't even dated ! He's just my best friend and I've liked him forever, but no matter how hard I try I can't seem to like anyone else
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Apr 11