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I Can't Let Him Go

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    Need To Let Go But Can't! - I need to let him go but I don't want to! I keep thinkin about the good times we have had together.When we don't talk I feel like i'm losing a close...
    keepdreaming keepdreaming 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    I Know I'm An Idiot But..... - I married my ex when I was 16 and he was 20. We were married for almost 14 years before we divorced. There were so many issues in our marriage. He...
    mom2kman mom2kman 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    My Husband Has An Addictive Personality - We have been together for 8 years. At first it was cigarettes and food. Then came the pain pills and ***********. In the last year he has...
    DKHGM62 DKHGM62 46-50, F Jul 17, 2012

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    Nonexistent And Yet. . . - I know everyone says when your young, you don't really know what you want. Maybe I don't. But…I do know what I feel. I never dated him, but we were...
    Lostinfantisies Lostinfantisies 16-17, F Jul 3, 2012

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    ...and I Need Help... - I know it would be the best thing, and that his feelings aren't there anymore and that I am moving away, but for some reason I can't seem to convince myself...
    KarmaFred KarmaFred 19-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2007

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    But I Have To. Help! - I split with the love of my life 13 years ago but I haven't ever got over it.  I married someone else, but it didn't last. I had no contact...
    dollywolly dollywolly 31-35, F 4 Responses May 26, 2009

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    Every Day Gets Harder - I miss him so much, and not just him being here, around.  I miss talking to him. We used to text so much, and that stopped when he went off to...
    BeautifulDreamer725 BeautifulDreamer725 18-21 Feb 7, 2010

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    "nothing Takes The Taste Out Of Peanut Butter Quite Like Unrequited Love"-charles Schultz - I don't even know him like that. We never talked face to face just over the...
    applejackson applejackson 16-17, F Feb 16, 2012

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    We Ruined Each Other.... - I used to think that the motto never wonder what might have been was so true, but now I have come to the realization that sometimes things should be left...
    gynger gynger 26-30, F Jul 12, 2011

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    Let Me Let Go - I've posted a couple of stories on here about a man from my past who I just can't seem to get over. Things have come full circle here lately. He is back in my life...
    gynger gynger 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Depression Killed Our Love - I'm going to give my story in a nutshell. He was the first man I was ever in love with, and he loved me back. I became depressed, and he misunderstood...
    xosayitlikeitis2 xosayitlikeitis2 18-21, F Apr 5, 2011

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    I Think This Is Goodbye - I'm a little heartbroken today as realization sets in.I asked him to let me go. Told him I wasn't strong enough to do it. I had tried to delete him many...
    mom2kman mom2kman 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2012

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    I Need To Face Facts - i have had the biggest crush on this guy for the last 10yrs, he was just a regular face in the crowd at first, but over the last couple of years he has...
    Twoflower Twoflower 31-35, F Jan 7, 2010

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    Don't Know What To Do - I went out with this guy for like 3 months but then he cheated on me with his ex and he left me for her. I forgave him and moved on from all that. he went...
    jessica104 jessica104 18-21 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    Soo the homewreckers are blocking me.. Cause I'm authentic n they hate... their forums are full of homewreckers n not at from a woman in a committed relationship.. Even tho that's...
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    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Jesticles Jesticles 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    She insists I did not hug her when she came to visit about a month and a half ago. I remember this specifically because I thought, "do I have to hug her? If I don't, she'll make a...
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    This experience has by far been the best thing that has ever happened to me, but it is also the thing that has caused me the most pain. I have known him for my entire life, but I...
    DeadZombiePerson DeadZombiePerson 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 13-15, F Mar 20

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    It has been around two years since we were together but I think about him at least once or twice a week. I don't miss him or want him back, actually, I hate him for how badly he...
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