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I Can't Make Decisions

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    even about really simple things like seriously

    please TELL ME WHAT TO DO i only want to do what will make my friends happy anyways XD i need detailed instructions to live my life lmfao
    rosesandcharlie rosesandcharlie 13-15, F Aug 10

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    I Have To Think Long And Hard...

    I HATE when I have to make a decision about anything!!! I had a hard time deciding what to buy from Old Navy, I couldn't decide what to eat for dinner yesterday, I couldn't decide if I should spend money on Sushi for my parents as a surprise or save it for later, I couldn't...
    seungwon seungwon 16-17, F May 25, 2012

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    I Can Never Make a Decision.

    I can barely decide what I want to eat for dinner. Yet somehow I managed to make a huge life-changing decision very easily...I'm glad though. I'm never going to be able to decide anything ever again :D
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    Decisions, Decisions

    I am absolutely HOPELESS at making decisions 95% of the time. There are times where I know I want something so I will go for it, but the majority of the time I struggle to choose. I can be indecisive with tough life decisions or even something simple as what should I choose to...
    LibranGirl LibranGirl 26-30, F Sep 29, 2011

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    Too Big of a Decision to Make

    I'm notorious for not being able to make decisions. And it's getting worse as I get older. Well, now I find myself in another tight spot to make a very important decision, and it's making me go insane - literally. I can't sleep and I'm overanalyzing every detail. You see, I'm...
    thegemini thegemini 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    "I Don't Know, What Do You Want To Do?"

    It's not that I'm physically incapable of making decisions, it's just that I worry so much on what the other person wants to do. I don't want to choose something that they may not want and that's why I'm absolutely hopeless at making decisions. Many people I know are like me...
    AngelOfEccentricity AngelOfEccentricity 18-21, F Mar 28, 2012

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    I want to be able to speck up

    for myself, I do have a voice for a reason. Sometimes people make important decisions for ME. I don't like it but I think if you don't tell the world who you are, the world will tell you who you are.
    emmelynxx emmelynxx 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2014

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    Untitled

    I couldn't decide what to write, but I am forcing myself to type anyway. I have nothing of value to share at this time, but I will at least finish my thought. Now I kind of think that I should delete this because I'm not committed to what I'm typing.
    DopeyGirl DopeyGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Now I Am Confuse.

    I am in between the crossroad and I don't know where to go.   One path leads  me into something new. Yet also means unknown and unfamiliar. The road of gamble. It must be a good path or could be bad. Other path is just also unknown.  But I am familiar...it is the...
    catacomb catacomb 66-70 5 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    I Just Can't Do It!

    I'm the most indecisive person ever. Someone asks me the most simplest question in the world and I'll stand there going umm.. and errr.. forever. I'm scared of regretting the decision I make or failing. I just want to get things right for once...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    sweetangel20 sweetangel20 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I Regret Every Decision

    No matter what choice I make, I alway's end up regretting it. It's never the right choice to me, and if I could go back in time and change my decision, it still would not be the right choice.
    doglover1105 doglover1105 18-21, F Aug 13, 2011

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    Decisions Is Hard

    I can't make decisions. I have to think carefully about choices, and that hinders my ability to make decisions. For example, picking clothing is difficult. I would make a choice, and find something more interesting. Deciding between two favorite items of clothing is intense...
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M Jan 10, 2010

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    People Want Me to

    But it is sooo difficult for me!! :[ I don't know why.
    SnapWire SnapWire 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    No Way

    I can't chose between wearing a red top or a black one for the first day of school.
    musared musared 16-17, F Aug 21, 2009

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    if I don't say the words. it doesn't mean that they are not there. I just want them to land with you the way that I intend for them to. I am sorry that I often say them like two...
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    I don't understand way people try to get into everyone's mind? Why can't they mind there business and live there life by letting other's live theirs? Why do people waste there...
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    usualobject88 usualobject88 26-30, F a week ago

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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
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    I really want to kill myself. My life is going on horribly. My mother has psychotic depression, she has been on an affair for 9 years & has just recently stopped after being...
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    We shouldn’t be together. Culturally, we are so diverse. Age, we are a decade apart. Location, across the world from one another. Relationship, too complicated to explain. But...
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    I don't understand why I can't sleep at night. How can I make myself sleep?
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    Everyday I face a new wave of challenges that drag me down where I can then be met with returning currents that bring back old insecurities and weaknesses. I like to think that I'm...
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