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I Can't Make Up My Mind

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    I Am Constantly Torn......

    I am constantly torn... On EVERYTHING. What movie to watch. Who to play as in a game. What book to start first. Ect.
    HazelMustang2012 HazelMustang2012 16-17, M Jul 11, 2008

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    Obama, Edwards, Edwards, Obama

    I'm so confused!  I just don't know who I really prefer.  I need to do some more hardcore research on each of them. 
    mj915 mj915 31-35, F Jan 7, 2008

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    Unable To Decide On The Job I Want To Do

    I am an IT professional, a geek , an avid gamer and a technology enthusiast. One thing I love doingis learning and reasing new things about technology. I love solving problems. I feel I have achieved something when I solve a problem in my job routine. As an IT guy I write code...
    AnonyUsr AnonyUsr 22-25 Mar 23, 2011

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    Should I Stay Or Go

    I have been with my boyfriend off an on for almost 4 years now. It was love at first sight, I thought we would marry and get out of this hell hole of a time. That all changed when he kept going in and out of jail, cheated on me, wont get his education, cant keep a job, just...
    noregrets000 noregrets000 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2012

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    Terrible

    I can't even decide on what food i am going to eat when out at a restaurant...let alone major life decisions! When i go out i just can't commit to one thing. Its too hard. I always have to send the waiter away at LEAST twice. My friends developed a series of questions to narrow...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F Jul 11, 2008

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    Just One Of Many...

    It seems I can never make a decision. Either I do nothing, or I act on impulse. For example, I just graduated college after being out of school for a couple years. I have a bachelors in photography. I managed to get through college without a DSLR, but I've been wanting to...
    tattooedfay tattooedfay 26-30, F Aug 27, 2012

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    i had an important exam today,

    which is a chance for me to go to my dream school. Me and my best friend were in the same room.She couldn't do the exam and she told me to write the answer on a paper and gave it to her.For a moment i felt a bit annoyed but i coulnd't see her fail the test.Going to this school...
    monkeydrobin monkeydrobin 13-15, F Jun 8

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    It's A Nightmare

    I have been suffering with this problem ever since I was born X’D it’s really horrible.  When I was little I couldn’t choose my own toys, I would get really confused and didn’t know what to buy so I would be walking around the store for a long time with my dad then my...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Eye Shadow

    I want to make up my mind but I just can't. I simply cannot find the right shade of lipstick to go on my frontal lobe, and I can't seem to decide what color eye shadow works best on my occipital lobe.  My hands tremble, making it really hard to apply mascara to my medulla...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Nov 16, 2012

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go Now????

    My story.......well the story of my life........I cannot stay in a relationship, Ive two marriages and five children from 4 realtionships to show for my life on this planet. I was psyically abused by my mum as a child, mentall abused by my dad and then to top if off I was...
    msjinx msjinx 41-45 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    What To Do...?

    Alright I am only in Highschool. Ever since an intense breakup with my best friend I've been stressed and unable to make desicions. I broke up with because I was starting to have doubts about if I likes him or not. Well after I broke up with him, my best friend (or so I thought...
    Alyycareyy Alyycareyy 16-17 May 13, 2012

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    I'm Never Sure Of Anything!

    But I think that's normal for a lot of people. I don't have any life-altering decisions that this has affected as of yet, but it's usually the little things that are difficult for me to decide. For instance, my hair. I am never sure how I want to get it styled or colored. One day...
    lonelygal17 lonelygal17 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    My Brain Is Going To Pop,cant Make Up My Mind

    I really cant make up my mind.I moved to Napier with my son to be with my partner,after 6 mths he wanted his 20 yr old son to move in,he was jealous of my son and I and I ended up choosing to live somewhere else with my son.My dream was to be happy here but after two years I...
    berty66 berty66 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    One of Us Needs to Leave

    We are separated, hubby and I, but both live in the same house.  I can;'t live in the same house with him anymore - not and have peace. I feel so guilty - he is not the man I married, but I don't want to give up on him!!  He loves me, I know he...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    Help Me !!!

    I really struggle to make a decision, any decision, especially when it involves others. I'm not parilized by it but i just put everyone else first. People will ask what movie I wanna see and I'll say "What movie were you thinking of" Or my classic reply to "What...
    RainMan RainMan 21-25, M Feb 9, 2008

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    Woe Is Me...

    I've been a pre-med, design, communications, cosmetology and business student. I've despised organized religion and am now devout. I vowed never to settle down and am now married with children. I usually hate Philly but haven't mustered the nerve to move because I love it...
    tarabearable tarabearable 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2007

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    i Have a Terrible Time Maki...

    i have a terrible time making decisions. it's basically impossible for me. well, it seems that way anyway...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F Jul 11, 2008

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    I Can Make Up My Mind and I...

    I can make up my mind and I don't like people who are not as decisive as I am. It's not that hard; you either know what you want or you don't. If you don't, it is not that difficult to fake it. People who can't make up their minds just show others how weak they really are. A...
    EPspy EPspy 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    Not Gonna

    It's good to be indecisive. Means you're evolving and not conforming.
    Vancity89 Vancity89 22-25, F Nov 27, 2010

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    I Told Him to Go

    I will not be able to smell the way he smells first thing in the morning. I will not be able to take a shower with him. I will not be able to feel the way he feels against my body when we lay in bed. I love to snuggle up close, breathe in his scent and feel...
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2008

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    Desperate Or Independant?

    I wish I would make up my mind on how i feel about relationships. I mean, a couple of months ago I was desperate.. crying to get into a relationship with a man. Well my wish started to come true, I found a boy and we now have "a thing." My friends tell me that they are...
    CptnChester CptnChester 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Indesiciveness Sucks

    I have such a hard time making decisions.  I hate it!  I always second guess myself.  What if things change?  What if I won't be happy?  I'm sure you know the drill.
    meghanmcgee meghanmcgee 18-21 Jul 11, 2008

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    About everything and anything.

    Buy a house or rent? City or country living? Perhaps a tiny house or travel the country in an RV? Enjoy being fat or lose weight? Vegetarianism or eat that cow? To homeschool or not to? Buy a new car or used? Sell my stuff or just give it away? The list goes on and on...
    BreathingConundrum BreathingConundrum 31-35, F 1 Response May 31

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    I tend to assume people don't want to talk to me and I give off a bit of a hostile vibe even though I really want to make friends. I do have a few, and it's not like I have enemies...
    Booksandthings Booksandthings 13-15 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Love is a choice. People say they love me but they are just in love with the idea of me. Or they wish i was their friend. I don't have a whole lot of real life friends i have...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F Aug 18

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    I have recently moved to California from Colorado, I don't know many people in the bay area, and am trying to find new work.
    Randomnomad Randomnomad 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    While working at a the diviest dive bar I could work at I had a woman there in the morning (yes morning.. we opened at 8) start telling me about her relationship woes. Mid sentence...
    Songbird35 Songbird35 31-35, F a week ago

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    The object of my affection is workin out of state, so I decided I'd send him a shower selfie. I reached for the phone- slipped - and head over heels fell out of the shower onto the...
    Songbird35 Songbird35 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    Driving through a run down city today what to my wondering eyes should appear? A guy in a Hulk Mask.. just wandering down the street. Dressed totally normal.... ya know- all...
    Songbird35 Songbird35 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Show your respect for 9/11 and who was lost
    bjam1014 bjam1014 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I'm glad people can't read my thoughts on my life. I'm also glad people can't read minds PERIOD
    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation fades when it comes time to...
    TheDiscardedImage TheDiscardedImage 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    My mind is spinning. Everything I think is a repeat. She doesn't like me. How could she? Everything I think is a repeat. I can't get my homework done, my mind is spinning, running...
    LoopedMe LoopedMe 13-15, M Aug 29

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have often thought about the meaning of life, and have not really found any. First, let me apologize for any seemingly-snobbish moments, my intention is to reach out to...
    puppychair123 puppychair123 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I love the fact that others aren't able to read my mind. It's the only place where I can truly be alone and express how I really feel and I know no one will ever be able to hear my...
    queque02 queque02 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    🍌 You're on my mind from my first waking moment to my last at night before I fall asleep with the biggest smile on my face. The impact you've had on me over the last few days...
    Iamwhatyousee Iamwhatyousee 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Alright, more about me besides my fetish. It is almost 4am and I can't sleep. It's not the "I can't turn off my computer therefore I can't sleep," it's "I have been lying in bed...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I can't sleep and I can't stop thinking! All my thoughts are racing and it's preventing me from falling asleep! I can't do anything about it and I don't understand why I am all of...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    sometimes i focus my mind on this one thought: i know you can read my mind !!!! that way if anyone really can read my mind i will have trapped them.
    Marceline2000 Marceline2000 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    it really sucks to be so alone all the time, but what really ****** me off is when I tell someone a little bit of what is going on and they tell someone else and it gets twisted...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I just like this guy so much. I love every single thing about him, and I know he may not be the most handsome guy in the world, but he is just perfect to me. I like him so much it...
    xdropsofjupiter xdropsofjupiter 18-21, F Sep 8

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    People always ask me, why I hardly sleep! Stress, that is the cause. I stress about everything. Can I pay this bill, student loans, keeping the car up todate, etc... I have...
    vbedwell90 vbedwell90 22-25, F Aug 18

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    My thoughts consist of either death or gory things, or me being hormonal, or depressing things or things that just don't make any sense whatsoever. I always get scared that there's...
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I don't even want to go outside unless I absolutely have to. I'm so sick of the local area, just a good deal of the people. I'm sick of the weather most of the year. I'm...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 21

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    No. But really, thank god. It's like I can't even control them my mind has a mind of its own and thinks things I myself don't agree with. ****** up eh?
    Findingmylittleself Findingmylittleself 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Lying here eyes fluttering and hanging on to the way last week played, feeling sad still and desperately wanting to let go... In this moment Heart filling full of how many tears I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Is there something wrong with me? I am 26 intelligent always leave my baggage at the door. Trainable. I got my priorities straight, yet there are issues with keeping a steady job...
    kyllvie kyllvie 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25

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