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I Can't Make Up My Mind

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    I Can Make Up My Mind and I...

    I can make up my mind and I don't like people who are not as decisive as I am. It's not that hard; you either know what you want or you don't. If you don't, it is not that difficult to fake it. People who can't make up their minds just show others how weak they really are. A...
    EPspy EPspy 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    Unable To Decide On The Job I Want To Do

    I am an IT professional, a geek , an avid gamer and a technology enthusiast. One thing I love doingis learning and reasing new things about technology. I love solving problems. I feel I have achieved something when I solve a problem in my job routine. As an IT guy I write code...
    AnonyUsr AnonyUsr 22-25 Mar 23, 2011

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    I Am Constantly Torn......

    I am constantly torn... On EVERYTHING. What movie to watch. Who to play as in a game. What book to start first. Ect.
    HazelMustang2012 HazelMustang2012 16-17, M Jul 11, 2008

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    i had an important exam today,

    which is a chance for me to go to my dream school. Me and my best friend were in the same room.She couldn't do the exam and she told me to write the answer on a paper and gave it to her.For a moment i felt a bit annoyed but i coulnd't see her fail the test.Going to this school...
    monkeydrobin monkeydrobin 13-15, F Jun 8

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    Should I Stay Or Go

    I have been with my boyfriend off an on for almost 4 years now. It was love at first sight, I thought we would marry and get out of this hell hole of a time. That all changed when he kept going in and out of jail, cheated on me, wont get his education, cant keep a job, just...
    noregrets000 noregrets000 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2012

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    Woe Is Me...

    I've been a pre-med, design, communications, cosmetology and business student. I've despised organized religion and am now devout. I vowed never to settle down and am now married with children. I usually hate Philly but haven't mustered the nerve to move because I love it...
    tarabearable tarabearable 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2007

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    About everything and anything.

    Buy a house or rent? City or country living? Perhaps a tiny house or travel the country in an RV? Enjoy being fat or lose weight? Vegetarianism or eat that cow? To homeschool or not to? Buy a new car or used? Sell my stuff or just give it away? The list goes on and on...
    BreathingConundrum BreathingConundrum 31-35, F 1 Response May 31

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    Help Me !!!

    I really struggle to make a decision, any decision, especially when it involves others. I'm not parilized by it but i just put everyone else first. People will ask what movie I wanna see and I'll say "What movie were you thinking of" Or my classic reply to "What...
    RainMan RainMan 21-25, M Feb 9, 2008

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    What To Do...?

    Alright I am only in Highschool. Ever since an intense breakup with my best friend I've been stressed and unable to make desicions. I broke up with because I was starting to have doubts about if I likes him or not. Well after I broke up with him, my best friend (or so I thought...
    Alyycareyy Alyycareyy 16-17 May 13, 2012

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    I Told Him to Go

    I will not be able to smell the way he smells first thing in the morning. I will not be able to take a shower with him. I will not be able to feel the way he feels against my body when we lay in bed. I love to snuggle up close, breathe in his scent and feel...
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2008

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    Desperate Or Independant?

    I wish I would make up my mind on how i feel about relationships. I mean, a couple of months ago I was desperate.. crying to get into a relationship with a man. Well my wish started to come true, I found a boy and we now have "a thing." My friends tell me that they are...
    CptnChester CptnChester 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go Now????

    My story.......well the story of my life........I cannot stay in a relationship, Ive two marriages and five children from 4 realtionships to show for my life on this planet. I was psyically abused by my mum as a child, mentall abused by my dad and then to top if off I was...
    msjinx msjinx 41-45 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    One of Us Needs to Leave

    We are separated, hubby and I, but both live in the same house.  I can;'t live in the same house with him anymore - not and have peace. I feel so guilty - he is not the man I married, but I don't want to give up on him!!  He loves me, I know he...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    It's A Nightmare

    I have been suffering with this problem ever since I was born X’D it’s really horrible.  When I was little I couldn’t choose my own toys, I would get really confused and didn’t know what to buy so I would be walking around the store for a long time with my dad then my...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    My Brain Is Going To Pop,cant Make Up My Mind

    I really cant make up my mind.I moved to Napier with my son to be with my partner,after 6 mths he wanted his 20 yr old son to move in,he was jealous of my son and I and I ended up choosing to live somewhere else with my son.My dream was to be happy here but after two years I...
    berty66 berty66 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Indesiciveness Sucks

    I have such a hard time making decisions.  I hate it!  I always second guess myself.  What if things change?  What if I won't be happy?  I'm sure you know the drill.
    meghanmcgee meghanmcgee 18-21 Jul 11, 2008

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    Not Gonna

    It's good to be indecisive. Means you're evolving and not conforming.
    Vancity89 Vancity89 22-25, F Nov 27, 2010

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    Obama, Edwards, Edwards, Obama

    I'm so confused!  I just don't know who I really prefer.  I need to do some more hardcore research on each of them. 
    mj915 mj915 31-35, F Jan 7, 2008

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    Terrible

    I can't even decide on what food i am going to eat when out at a restaurant...let alone major life decisions! When i go out i just can't commit to one thing. Its too hard. I always have to send the waiter away at LEAST twice. My friends developed a series of questions to narrow...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F Jul 11, 2008

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    Eye Shadow

    I want to make up my mind but I just can't. I simply cannot find the right shade of lipstick to go on my frontal lobe, and I can't seem to decide what color eye shadow works best on my occipital lobe.  My hands tremble, making it really hard to apply mascara to my medulla...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Nov 16, 2012

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    I'm Never Sure Of Anything!

    But I think that's normal for a lot of people. I don't have any life-altering decisions that this has affected as of yet, but it's usually the little things that are difficult for me to decide. For instance, my hair. I am never sure how I want to get it styled or colored. One day...
    lonelygal17 lonelygal17 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    I feel like I'm falling out of love with my

    husband. I love him, and I'm scared to not be in love with him anymore. We have a lot of kids together and I'm too scared to say anything or try to make it as a single mother. Throughout our marriage he has controlled everything and I haven't worked in almost ten years. Without...
    mamaofmanymenaces mamaofmanymenaces 26-30, F Jun 11

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    i Have a Terrible Time Maki...

    i have a terrible time making decisions. it's basically impossible for me. well, it seems that way anyway...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F Jul 11, 2008

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    Just One Of Many...

    It seems I can never make a decision. Either I do nothing, or I act on impulse. For example, I just graduated college after being out of school for a couple years. I have a bachelors in photography. I managed to get through college without a DSLR, but I've been wanting to...
    tattooedfay tattooedfay 26-30, F Aug 27, 2012

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    1000 times. And some of them would have been the "right one"; good for me, kind, flexible, attractive on the inside AND outside, but certain that I couldn't be with them I sought...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 1 Response Jul 25

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    Can't sleep. So many bad thoughts in mind. Blah. I try to relax and I'm tired as hell, but I'm still awake.
    Cutterkarma Cutterkarma 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So I have had some seriously ****** up dreams before. Like even though no one knows who I am on this i can't even write them down. Lately when I am in the car with my Mum, i get...
    MaryAnne4 MaryAnne4 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I can't stand my MIL! She isn't what you would call mean or lazy but she is just so damn annoying! My husband and I have been married for a month and a half but we dated 6 years...
    cdub1990 cdub1990 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    You don't notice much about me anymore. I'm your daughter. You should be the first to see what's wrong. But you don't. You don't see the despair in my eyes or the tears on my face...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today I had a flashback to something one of my friends told me about one day. This kid at our school one day came in wearing Jordan's but according to this other kid they were fake...
    skyblue914 skyblue914 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I'm sorry-I seem to be saying those two words a lot lately, mostly in my mind. I wish I could say them to the people who deserve to hear it. The ones I care about....I've hurt them...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've been sleeping with a guy friend. Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 27

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    Alright, more about me besides my fetish. It is almost 4am and I can't sleep. It's not the "I can't turn off my computer therefore I can't sleep," it's "I have been lying in bed...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I remember seeing you walking pass me right across the chapel. That back pack hanging in your shoulders and the wearisome look etched on your face. I love those metals on your...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    People always ask me, why I hardly sleep! Stress, that is the cause. I stress about everything. Can I pay this bill, student loans, keeping the car up todate, etc... I have...
    vbedwell90 vbedwell90 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Shann Family Lawyers provide reasonable remedies for people dealing with family and de facto romantic relationship challengesThe ‘most effective passionsR17; of youngsters is...
    Shilohunf83v Shilohunf83v 31-35, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    In restaurants, grocery lanes, supermarkets, malls, in the bus, train or anywhere, my mind don't stop thinking while my eyes roam around.Delicious gourmet, hot picks, admirable...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    God...I'm so tired but can't fall back asleep! I have so much on my mind. I wish I had money, it would solve so many problems! Everyone thinks I'm a money tree and keeps asking...
    lostandlonelyone lostandlonelyone 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Can't Sleep When I Have Too Much On My Mind
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    All the negative thoughts appear. What people may think of me. Do they like me? Do they hate me? Do they think I'm pathetic? Do they think I'm a loser? Do they think I'm a weirdo...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    I live mostly in my mind and if someone has the power to read minds, I would've probably been incarcerated. I can't stop thinking about rough s.e.x. though I've been told all men...
    REG821 REG821 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My friends sometimes borrow money or anything else from me. And i can't ask them to pay their loan. I want them to pay their loans without me asking them. But it seems like...
    petitedreamer petitedreamer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I then requested for a refund, and he processed the refund but told me that for the reason that I got my area name totally free, which i would not have a refund for that. I asked...
    Jude068 Jude068 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's sounds cliche but it's the honest truth. My mind won't stop. I don't feel like I belong. I'm so shy and my family is so outgoing I'm always the outcast, I know they love me...
    BriGrace BriGrace 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes it's not because I can't sleep, but because I don't want to because I'm so absorbed in my own thoughts...
    RedHotCrazyPerson RedHotCrazyPerson 22-25, F Jul 21