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I Can't Make Up My Mind

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    Desperate Or Independant?

    I wish I would make up my mind on how i feel about relationships. I mean, a couple of months ago I was desperate.. crying to get into a relationship with a man. Well my wish started to come true, I found a boy and we now have "a thing." My friends tell me that they are...
    CptnChester CptnChester 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    One of Us Needs to Leave

    We are separated, hubby and I, but both live in the same house.  I can;'t live in the same house with him anymore - not and have peace. I feel so guilty - he is not the man I married, but I don't want to give up on him!!  He loves me, I know he...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    I'm Never Sure Of Anything!

    But I think that's normal for a lot of people. I don't have any life-altering decisions that this has affected as of yet, but it's usually the little things that are difficult for me to decide. For instance, my hair. I am never sure how I want to get it styled or colored. One day...
    lonelygal17 lonelygal17 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    My Brain Is Going To Pop,cant Make Up My Mind

    I really cant make up my mind.I moved to Napier with my son to be with my partner,after 6 mths he wanted his 20 yr old son to move in,he was jealous of my son and I and I ended up choosing to live somewhere else with my son.My dream was to be happy here but after two years I...
    berty66 berty66 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    It seems that I can't make it up about anything

    these days, even writing a letter, I'll think a sentence sounds great, then read it back, yep it's fine, then read it again hours later and it seems like crap...I've been told that it's likely to be another side effect from the prescribed medications that I have tried...oh well...
    alittlebitnaughty alittlebitnaughty 46-50, M Oct 6, 2014

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    i Have a Terrible Time Maki...

    i have a terrible time making decisions. it's basically impossible for me. well, it seems that way anyway...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F Jul 11, 2008

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    Not Gonna

    It's good to be indecisive. Means you're evolving and not conforming.
    Vancity89 Vancity89 22-25, F Nov 27, 2010

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    i had an important exam today,

    which is a chance for me to go to my dream school. Me and my best friend were in the same room.She couldn't do the exam and she told me to write the answer on a paper and gave it to her.For a moment i felt a bit annoyed but i coulnd't see her fail the test.Going to this school...
    monkeydrobin monkeydrobin 13-15, F Jun 8, 2014

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    It's A Nightmare

    I have been suffering with this problem ever since I was born X’D it’s really horrible.  When I was little I couldn’t choose my own toys, I would get really confused and didn’t know what to buy so I would be walking around the store for a long time with my dad then my...
    meme30 meme30 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Just One Of Many...

    It seems I can never make a decision. Either I do nothing, or I act on impulse. For example, I just graduated college after being out of school for a couple years. I have a bachelors in photography. I managed to get through college without a DSLR, but I've been wanting to...
    tattooedfay tattooedfay 26-30, F Aug 27, 2012

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    I Told Him to Go

    I will not be able to smell the way he smells first thing in the morning. I will not be able to take a shower with him. I will not be able to feel the way he feels against my body when we lay in bed. I love to snuggle up close, breathe in his scent and feel...
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2008

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    Unable To Decide On The Job I Want To Do

    I am an IT professional, a geek , an avid gamer and a technology enthusiast. One thing I love doingis learning and reasing new things about technology. I love solving problems. I feel I have achieved something when I solve a problem in my job routine. As an IT guy I write code...
    AnonyUsr AnonyUsr 22-25 Mar 23, 2011

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    Should I Stay Or Go

    I have been with my boyfriend off an on for almost 4 years now. It was love at first sight, I thought we would marry and get out of this hell hole of a time. That all changed when he kept going in and out of jail, cheated on me, wont get his education, cant keep a job, just...
    noregrets000 noregrets000 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2012

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    Help Me !!!

    I really struggle to make a decision, any decision, especially when it involves others. I'm not parilized by it but i just put everyone else first. People will ask what movie I wanna see and I'll say "What movie were you thinking of" Or my classic reply to "What...
    RainMan RainMan 18-21, M Feb 9, 2008

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    Eye Shadow

    I want to make up my mind but I just can't. I simply cannot find the right shade of lipstick to go on my frontal lobe, and I can't seem to decide what color eye shadow works best on my occipital lobe.  My hands tremble, making it really hard to apply mascara to my medulla...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Nov 16, 2012

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    Terrible

    I can't even decide on what food i am going to eat when out at a restaurant...let alone major life decisions! When i go out i just can't commit to one thing. Its too hard. I always have to send the waiter away at LEAST twice. My friends developed a series of questions to narrow...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F Jul 11, 2008

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    Indesiciveness Sucks

    I have such a hard time making decisions.  I hate it!  I always second guess myself.  What if things change?  What if I won't be happy?  I'm sure you know the drill.
    meghanmcgee meghanmcgee 18-21 Jul 11, 2008

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    Obama, Edwards, Edwards, Obama

    I'm so confused!  I just don't know who I really prefer.  I need to do some more hardcore research on each of them. 
    mj915 mj915 31-35, F Jan 7, 2008

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    About everything and anything.

    Buy a house or rent? City or country living? Perhaps a tiny house or travel the country in an RV? Enjoy being fat or lose weight? Vegetarianism or eat that cow? To homeschool or not to? Buy a new car or used? Sell my stuff or just give it away? The list goes on and on...
    BreathingConundrum BreathingConundrum 31-35, F 1 Response May 31, 2014

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    I Am Constantly Torn......

    I am constantly torn... On EVERYTHING. What movie to watch. Who to play as in a game. What book to start first. Ect.
    HazelMustang2012 HazelMustang2012 16-17, M Jul 11, 2008

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    What To Do...?

    Alright I am only in Highschool. Ever since an intense breakup with my best friend I've been stressed and unable to make desicions. I broke up with because I was starting to have doubts about if I likes him or not. Well after I broke up with him, my best friend (or so I thought...
    Alyycareyy Alyycareyy 16-17 May 13, 2012

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    I Can Make Up My Mind and I...

    I can make up my mind and I don't like people who are not as decisive as I am. It's not that hard; you either know what you want or you don't. If you don't, it is not that difficult to fake it. People who can't make up their minds just show others how weak they really are. A...
    EPspy EPspy 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go Now????

    My story.......well the story of my life........I cannot stay in a relationship, Ive two marriages and five children from 4 realtionships to show for my life on this planet. I was psyically abused by my mum as a child, mentall abused by my dad and then to top if off I was...
    msjinx msjinx 41-45 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    48 hours and counting of no sleep. I just can't stop trying to sort out my whole stupid hellish life. I constantly am trying to figure out exactly what I want and why. I have...
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    My dad yelled at me. He says I spend too much time locked up in my room on the computer. It's not actually true, and I think that I was *this* close to being grounded probably just...
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    Literally. I haven't slept in days and all I can think about is her. She never leaves my mind. I wish I hadn't left her, I can't stop worrying. I mean she has tons of friends. She...
    wtfJason wtfJason 16-17, M 4 Responses May 7

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    Oh boy. So since my post about never having a boyfriend, I have had two rather flakey relationships and neither of them has lasted more than a month. For all of you out there who...
    ExoFae ExoFae 22-25, F May 8

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    I just have deep passion for multiple people but the one person I always end up having the deepest emotions for is someone I can't be with. It's an inappropriate bond that I can't...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 1 Response May 16

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    I'm new to this and I need to get this feeling out. So here I go. Second Grade is where it started. Mrs. Holston's class. I walked into that class not knowing what to...
    AtheistChrist AtheistChrist 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm in love with a guy, we kissed once, but we talked the morning after that, and he explained that he doesn't like me that way. It was a few month ago, maybe 2 or 3, and I can't...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    ... is it premonition or just pessimism? I'm actually not pessimistic. I try to see the bright side of life no matter how shattered I feel inside. And if there is no bright side...
    MentallyVibrating MentallyVibrating 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am.. but sometimes I wish I could read other's thoughts. Lately my life's been very busy and hectic... but for a woman that spend so much time being 'caged' up.. being...
    xXxsilvermistxXx xXxsilvermistxXx 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Since we first got together 15 years ago I have struggled with my husband's irresponsible and selfish financial behaviour. He only works on projects that he wants to do and for the...
    Christina6581 Christina6581 46-50, F May 14

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    I always overthink. I always over analyze. Every damn thing. I hate it because I feel like I'm going insane! People tell me to chill out, but sorry, I can't. My most recent...
    TheIvoryOwl TheIvoryOwl 18-21, F May 16

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    I can't stop overthinking whenever I get depressed, nervous, and scared. Every negative things comes into my mind, but I can stop by listening to music, playing games, talking to...
    iiAmethystii iiAmethystii 13-15, F 1 Response May 4

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    I first met you when I enter SAE.i met you at the cafe.at that time u look so innocent and i like ur lips and ur nose.besides when i see u for the first time, i suddenly remeber my...
    ShyGirlbutStraightForward ShyGirlbutStraightForward 22-25, F May 9

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    I've had crushes before but they're usually superficial and short-lived and they've never been reciprocated. He's different, he's tangible, but he says a relationship between the...
    SirenAlone SirenAlone 16-17, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I dated this girl for six months, talked to her for like a year or two before that and got really close to her. After the break up things were rocky but we've remained close...
    synderellax synderellax 18-21, F May 23

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    I hate when my mind is spinning with a million thoughts and I can't figure out how to get the words out.
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I'm glad because my mother can't read my mind, so she never will know that I wish for her the worst
    SarahiK SarahiK 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    I can't go to sleep because I'm awake thinking about all the wrongs I've done throughout my life. On top of that, I have to wake up for school in 2 hours...
    BigMak32 BigMak32 16-17, M 2 Responses May 21

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    I can't sleep. So what to do? Oh I know, let's think of all the ways I'm inadequate.. That sounds fun.. Long nights.
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 1 Response May 26

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    Abusive alcoholic father died last year. Mother is alone now and calls and gives me guilt trips because I don't go to see her. I'm sorry. I can't bring myself to go to her house...
    KeepnTheFaith KeepnTheFaith 51-55 May 9

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