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I Can't Please Everybody

you don't like me? well i'm soooo sorry. 1,302 People

    Deer Oh Deer (lol)

    my mum my sons my dad my aunties and uncles my cousins my friends my pets my ex husband my ex boyfriends and now my computer - -it seems next it will be my bed or my bath! I dont use both often enuf or too much.
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F Oct 11, 2010

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    I Can't

    I can't please everybody. No matter how much I could try to do so, not everyone is going to agree with something or be happy with it. And I've learned in life, that it is fine. I can't please everybody and if someone doesn't like me or what I have to say, OH WELL. That's their...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    All My Life Ive Been a People Pleaser

    I started out my life being a people pleaser mainly to my dad beclase i felted he didnt love me. and i found out you cant please everyone so you got to please your self. i also found out love starts with me i did learn that my father did love me but he emotionally wasnt...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Its Just One Of Those Things!!

    i mean, i dont like upsetting anyone, but at the same time, i just cant live my life trying to please everyone, all the time!! its just something thats not possible!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Never Works

    For the last few years i have living my life trying to please everybody and i have come to realize that you just CAN'T please everyone at the same time! What makes one person happy can make another person unhappy. It is like playing piggy in the middle ... being the person that...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 5, 2013

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    I'm Not Going To Try...

    I know I can't please everyone and I really don't care if I do please people or not.I'm tired of helping people and them not at least saying thank you.You don't even know all that I've done for you and still you are not pleased.  I never tried to please everyone but I want to...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Sep 25, 2011

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    Like Me Or Don't

    i've always been nice and sweet always have had a good personality but you won't find that out unless you actually take the time to get to know me if you get to know me and reject i'll understand not everybody likes everybody we all have a quality or something that we may not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2009

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    Vacations Are For Me, Not For Others

    I took a vacation to Halifax last week. The vacation was fun in itself. However, I came back with everyone (well, okay, not *everyone*) pissed off at me. My girlfriend (I think -- I'm not even sure where that stands as of a while ago) thought it was something important, which...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M Dec 2, 2007

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    Heil Hitler

    Even Hitler found love & got married. Meanwhile you bítches are still lonely. *drops mic*
    abigailemz abigailemz 18-21, F Jun 22, 2013

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    ...

    ...And don't care!  I am me and like me or hate me I am true to myself.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    I can't please everybody,

    so I will not waste my time trying, so if you not pleased with me, you are just SOL.
    MLG3 MLG3 36-40, M Jan 12

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    Boyfriend Or Best Friend?

    Hi everyone, I 've got a problem with my boyfriend and my best friend. They really don't get on, and it's got to the point where they can't even be in the same room as each other. The trouble is I love them both but they're always putting me in the middle, and I don't know...
    angelface21 angelface21 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2010

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    Pleaseing People

    I try my best to please who I can when I can . But my family at times knows this and takes advantage of it and there are times they run me ragged .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M Mar 28, 2010

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    i am sorry to be a downer on your mood.

    (yeap. i am apologising again.)
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender 22-25 Dec 17, 2013

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    no Two Ppl Are Exactly Alik...

    no two ppl are exactly alike, nor are they going to agree on everything... therefore.. not possible
    bnel123 bnel123 18-21, F Jun 15, 2009

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    Get In Line

    ...because you're ***-out too. Serving number 2, you're number 878,933,175. I hope you brought a book.
    Quadrophenic Quadrophenic 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    The Two-way Street Of Disappointment And Satisfaction

    The inability to please everyone isn't just a one way street. I don't just look out and see the ways in which others displease me. I also see the ways in which I displease others. Some people will never be happy unless you're always with the group and willing to follow and stick...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2012

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    i like you. but i can't help feeling

    emotionally drained. i have bad days too. what am i supposed to do on bad days? i vent. i get angry. i feel the blues. can i feel these moods and air them without constantly worrying if i push someone over the emotional cliff? it is so fncking draining.
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender 22-25 Dec 17, 2013

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    It's True

    I can not please every one. But if I tried to I would be a wh@re. ^^
    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    We Are All Different

    i can't please everybody, some people may like me and i am thankful to them because they accept me for being me. And i know i can't please everybody so what all that matters to me is my real friends. and if you don't like me then don't i can't do anything about it its your own...
    kulit kulit 22-25, F Jun 8, 2008

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    I Don't Try

    I couldn't please everyone even if I tried. Some days I can't please myself.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 2 Responses May 19, 2012

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    I Hate Feeling Guilty!

    Last week i had to go to the emergancy room because of a burn.  Because of witch i had to call in sick to work.  For the rest of the week every time my boss looked at me i felt guilty.  So much so that when she asked me if i could work a difrent shift next week i...
    pigglet pigglet 18-21, F Aug 23, 2009

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    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Of Course You Can't. ...

    Of course you can't. You will only stress yourself out and besides, not everyone will try to please you either.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2009

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    But I Try

    Deep down I know I can't please everyone but I often find myself trying. I don't like when people are upset with me and try to make up whenever possible be it a misunderstanding or whatever. I just would rather see people smile and happy and if I can help then I do... but I know...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    It was kind of weird at work today,

    like me and this guy that I work with were in the control room. And he was like what's wrong with you?? And I'm like nothing? What the heck 0.o and he kept on going and going by asking me a lot of questions. He was like you never make eye contact to me, I always feel rejected...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Nope

    I can't please everybody. No matter how much I could try to do so, not everyone is going to agree with something or be happy with it. And I've learned in life, that it is fine. I can't please everybody and if someone doesn't like me or what I have to say, OH WELL. That's their...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2009

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    Take a Number

    I actually don't go out of my way to please anyone... I mean I do what I can for those I care about... I offer whatever solace I can to those in need... I am all about lending a helping hand when I can... but ultimately everyone else comes behind my own happiness... then my kids...
    phidget phidget 31-35, F Jun 9, 2008

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    This is the best way to share my feelings

    anonymously, only because no one knows who i am, and cant judge me 👐😁
    Richesss Richesss 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Broken And Abandoned

    I lay awake, my leg throbbing while resting on pillows. I just had a major surgery my ankle. After the healing is complete I should be able to walk painfree for the rest of my life. I lost one of my best friendships today because of this surgery. A friend for almost 10 years. I...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    And I Don't Want to Help You

    Once upon a time, I was friends with this boy.  He was nice and we were good friends until - to make a long story short - he lied about a lot of things, stabbed me in the back, and to this day owes me $200 that I'm not counting on getting back. We haven't spoke in months...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    He Was "My Guy"

    I can't be with him any more. I am a women, i need a man. not a little boy. i know where i am going, he sadly does not. I know what i want, he sadly does not.I understand where I'm going, and he does not have a clue.I love him with all of my hart and maybe, just maybe, i...
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Do I look like your entertainment machine?

    Yea, my humor is kinda hard to understand, but if you don't like it then don't bother complaining because you're just wasting your time. I don't like it when people waste their time hanging around me if they don't like me. That makes me feel bad, and I hate having to do it if...
    CREEPYSTALKER1800 CREEPYSTALKER1800 13-15 1 Response Feb 10

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    Use To...

    I use to try and please everyone and bent over backwards for so many "friends" that it was unreal. I look back on it and regret everything I did for the ones that betrayed me. I've learned from it and hey your not going to please everyone...so bother trying to fit in by...
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    NO Cannot Please Everyone

    IT IS HARD TO PLEASE EVERYONE N SOMETIMES EVEN PARENTS. FOR THE LONGEST TIME I HAVE BEEN AFRAID TO DISSAPOINT MY PARENTS BECAUSE I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE PRIDE AND JOY. I WANTED A TATTOO N MY MOM DIDNT WANT ME TO SO I SAID OKAY FINE. THEN I WANTED A PIERCING N SHE DIDNT AGREE SO...
    bianey bianey 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Can't Be Done

    I can't do it. You can try to please some people but that's not good enough. Some people are just never satisfied.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    I Get Along With Anyone Any...

    I get along with anyone anywhere anytime its crazy but i dont know how not to relate to people and if you relate to people they automatically like you.
    backtofloyd2 backtofloyd2 36-40, F Jun 9, 2008

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    I can please only one person each day.

    ...today's not your day, and tomorrow isn't looking to be your day either ;)
    Tomorrowsday Tomorrowsday 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I Am Who I Am

    I am who I am, why should I change for anyone? I don't see anyone bending over backwards to please me. There was a time that I DID actually try to make everyone else happy, the result was that I made myself miserable. I was so stressed out with trying to everything that everyone...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    I can't sleep or hardly even eat I keep crying myself to sleep the abuse started when I was 14 with guys I went to school with they would hold me down and touch me sometimes they...
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    I can't get a text from my mom without feeling pissed off! All she ever does is complain to me! Or make me feel worse about my money problems. Or going back to school. And now it's...
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    Pretty much the same old same old I guess. But what's there to lose by telling you? Here I go. He is a grade older than me. Doesn't go to my school. As far as I'm...
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    I don't have trust for love anymore, I've had my heart broken over and over again.. I just can't afford for it to happen again.
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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
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    What should I do? We both want to be together but we can't because of my religion. I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend and I can't show how I feel for him and I feel guilty even if...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Changed meds again and now I'm waking after 6 hrs of sleep. I don't mind it, the house is quiet and I can do as I please...just as long as it's not in bed. What I really want to do...
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