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I Can't Please Everybody

you don't like me? well i'm soooo sorry. 1,326 People

    Heil Hitler

    Even Hitler found love & got married. Meanwhile you bítches are still lonely. *drops mic*
    abigailemz abigailemz 18-21, F Jun 22, 2013

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    But I Try

    Deep down I know I can't please everyone but I often find myself trying. I don't like when people are upset with me and try to make up whenever possible be it a misunderstanding or whatever. I just would rather see people smile and happy and if I can help then I do... but I know...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    And I Don't Want to Help You

    Once upon a time, I was friends with this boy.  He was nice and we were good friends until - to make a long story short - he lied about a lot of things, stabbed me in the back, and to this day owes me $200 that I'm not counting on getting back. We haven't spoke in months...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Of Course You Can't. ...

    Of course you can't. You will only stress yourself out and besides, not everyone will try to please you either.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 15, 2009

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    Nope

    I can't please everybody. No matter how much I could try to do so, not everyone is going to agree with something or be happy with it. And I've learned in life, that it is fine. I can't please everybody and if someone doesn't like me or what I have to say, OH WELL. That's their...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2009

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    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    no Two Ppl Are Exactly Alik...

    no two ppl are exactly alike, nor are they going to agree on everything... therefore.. not possible
    bnel123 bnel123 18-21, F Jun 15, 2009

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    Can't Be Done

    I can't do it. You can try to please some people but that's not good enough. Some people are just never satisfied.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Boyfriend Or Best Friend?

    Hi everyone, I 've got a problem with my boyfriend and my best friend. They really don't get on, and it's got to the point where they can't even be in the same room as each other. The trouble is I love them both but they're always putting me in the middle, and I don't know...
    angelface21 angelface21 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2010

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    I Am Who I Am

    I am who I am, why should I change for anyone? I don't see anyone bending over backwards to please me. There was a time that I DID actually try to make everyone else happy, the result was that I made myself miserable. I was so stressed out with trying to everything that everyone...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    i like you. but i can't help feeling

    emotionally drained. i have bad days too. what am i supposed to do on bad days? i vent. i get angry. i feel the blues. can i feel these moods and air them without constantly worrying if i push someone over the emotional cliff? it is so fncking draining.
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender 22-25 Dec 17, 2013

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    This is the best way to share my feelings

    anonymously, only because no one knows who i am, and cant judge me 👐😁
    Richesss Richesss 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    ...

    ...And don't care!  I am me and like me or hate me I am true to myself.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    All My Life Ive Been a People Pleaser

    I started out my life being a people pleaser mainly to my dad beclase i felted he didnt love me. and i found out you cant please everyone so you got to please your self. i also found out love starts with me i did learn that my father did love me but he emotionally wasnt...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Deer Oh Deer (lol)

    my mum my sons my dad my aunties and uncles my cousins my friends my pets my ex husband my ex boyfriends and now my computer - -it seems next it will be my bed or my bath! I dont use both often enuf or too much.
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F Oct 11, 2010

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    I Don't Try

    I couldn't please everyone even if I tried. Some days I can't please myself.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 2 Responses May 19, 2012

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    Get In Line

    ...because you're ***-out too. Serving number 2, you're number 878,933,175. I hope you brought a book.
    Quadrophenic Quadrophenic 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    We Are All Different

    i can't please everybody, some people may like me and i am thankful to them because they accept me for being me. And i know i can't please everybody so what all that matters to me is my real friends. and if you don't like me then don't i can't do anything about it its your own...
    kulit kulit 22-25, F Jun 8, 2008

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    The Two-way Street Of Disappointment And Satisfaction

    The inability to please everyone isn't just a one way street. I don't just look out and see the ways in which others displease me. I also see the ways in which I displease others. Some people will never be happy unless you're always with the group and willing to follow and stick...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2012

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    Its Just One Of Those Things!!

    i mean, i dont like upsetting anyone, but at the same time, i just cant live my life trying to please everyone, all the time!! its just something thats not possible!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    NO Cannot Please Everyone

    IT IS HARD TO PLEASE EVERYONE N SOMETIMES EVEN PARENTS. FOR THE LONGEST TIME I HAVE BEEN AFRAID TO DISSAPOINT MY PARENTS BECAUSE I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE PRIDE AND JOY. I WANTED A TATTOO N MY MOM DIDNT WANT ME TO SO I SAID OKAY FINE. THEN I WANTED A PIERCING N SHE DIDNT AGREE SO...
    bianey bianey 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Do I look like your entertainment machine?

    Yea, my humor is kinda hard to understand, but if you don't like it then don't bother complaining because you're just wasting your time. I don't like it when people waste their time hanging around me if they don't like me. That makes me feel bad, and I hate having to do it if...
    CREEPYSTALKER1800 CREEPYSTALKER1800 13-15 1 Response Feb 10

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    Some people online need to lighten up.

    I am never going to try and be rude. And I'm not going to apologize if you mistake a genuine compliment as rude. SMH
    jpiper5 jpiper5 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    He Was "My Guy"

    I can't be with him any more. I am a women, i need a man. not a little boy. i know where i am going, he sadly does not. I know what i want, he sadly does not.I understand where I'm going, and he does not have a clue.I love him with all of my hart and maybe, just maybe, i...
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    I Hate Feeling Guilty!

    Last week i had to go to the emergancy room because of a burn.  Because of witch i had to call in sick to work.  For the rest of the week every time my boss looked at me i felt guilty.  So much so that when she asked me if i could work a difrent shift next week i...
    pigglet pigglet 18-21, F Aug 23, 2009

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    It was kind of weird at work today,

    like me and this guy that I work with were in the control room. And he was like what's wrong with you?? And I'm like nothing? What the heck 0.o and he kept on going and going by asking me a lot of questions. He was like you never make eye contact to me, I always feel rejected...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    i am sorry to be a downer on your mood.

    (yeap. i am apologising again.)
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender 22-25 Dec 17, 2013

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    I'm Not Going To Try...

    I know I can't please everyone and I really don't care if I do please people or not.I'm tired of helping people and them not at least saying thank you.You don't even know all that I've done for you and still you are not pleased.  I never tried to please everyone but I want to...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Sep 25, 2011

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    Like Me Or Don't

    i've always been nice and sweet always have had a good personality but you won't find that out unless you actually take the time to get to know me if you get to know me and reject i'll understand not everybody likes everybody we all have a quality or something that we may not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2009

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    Never Works

    For the last few years i have living my life trying to please everybody and i have come to realize that you just CAN'T please everyone at the same time! What makes one person happy can make another person unhappy. It is like playing piggy in the middle ... being the person that...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 5, 2013

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    Use To...

    I use to try and please everyone and bent over backwards for so many "friends" that it was unreal. I look back on it and regret everything I did for the ones that betrayed me. I've learned from it and hey your not going to please everyone...so bother trying to fit in by...
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Take a Number

    I actually don't go out of my way to please anyone... I mean I do what I can for those I care about... I offer whatever solace I can to those in need... I am all about lending a helping hand when I can... but ultimately everyone else comes behind my own happiness... then my kids...
    phidget phidget 31-35, F Jun 9, 2008

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    Vacations Are For Me, Not For Others

    I took a vacation to Halifax last week. The vacation was fun in itself. However, I came back with everyone (well, okay, not *everyone*) pissed off at me. My girlfriend (I think -- I'm not even sure where that stands as of a while ago) thought it was something important, which...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M Dec 2, 2007

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    Broken And Abandoned

    I lay awake, my leg throbbing while resting on pillows. I just had a major surgery my ankle. After the healing is complete I should be able to walk painfree for the rest of my life. I lost one of my best friendships today because of this surgery. A friend for almost 10 years. I...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    It's True

    I can not please every one. But if I tried to I would be a wh@re. ^^
    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Can't

    I can't please everybody. No matter how much I could try to do so, not everyone is going to agree with something or be happy with it. And I've learned in life, that it is fine. I can't please everybody and if someone doesn't like me or what I have to say, OH WELL. That's their...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F 1 Response May 27, 2008

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    I can't please everybody,

    so I will not waste my time trying, so if you not pleased with me, you are just SOL.
    MLG3 MLG3 36-40, M Jan 12

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    I Get Along With Anyone Any...

    I get along with anyone anywhere anytime its crazy but i dont know how not to relate to people and if you relate to people they automatically like you.
    backtofloyd2 backtofloyd2 36-40, F Jun 9, 2008

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    My boyfriend (technically fiance) just can't seem to understand what it's like to be a grown child of an alcoholic (or simply coming from a mentally abusive household). I've...
    Erealia Erealia 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't have the strength. If they don't want to be helped, then there's really not much more I can do. Except to pray and ask God to help them. I can only tolerate so much from...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I can't pretend that I'm OK anymore. Guess what everybody?! I'm not OK. I haven't been OK in a very long time. I guess I can say I'm great at acting.
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 11

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    Sometimes, I really just want to die. Why do I exist? I don't see a point in living. I hate myself. Being raped just destroyed me. I really need someone to talk to before I...
    childlover4evr childlover4evr 18-21, F Dec 4

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    Tonight is the first night I've been alone since me and my partner got together and I'm really struggling to cope. Back when we first met I was in a very dark place and so was he...
    justagirl92 justagirl92 22-25, F Dec 9

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    I was at the eye doctors a few weeks back and the receptionist called for "Richard Burns" and the guy goes "please, call me ****." can't imagine all the times that guy must have...
    likesugarandcyanide likesugarandcyanide 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    All this is too horrible and I don't want to believe it. First of all, my parents are really nice people: they love each other, they get along so well, they love me, and we look...
    cerisesetharicots cerisesetharicots 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    This is my second post today in less than 30 mins because I have a lot to get off my chest. :) My biggest issue I believe is that I want what I can't have. It's not because I can...
    GhostBride GhostBride 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 1

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    There's so much people are asking me to do, but none of it is really for myself... I don't want to go to school and learn all this useless knowledge. I want to be out in the world...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F Dec 8

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    I don't know how much longer I can go on. My throat is bleeding again, and I am unable to eat. I don't want to go on if I never get to talk with him again. I didn't even need to be...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 10

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    This has been a problem for me my whole life. I grew up isolated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go outside or be loved. We didn't celebrate holidays or get stuff for christmas...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10

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