I Can't Please Everybody

you don't like me? well i'm soooo sorry. 1,529 People

    I Am Who I Am

    I am who I am, why should I change for anyone? I don't see anyone bending over backwards to please me. There was a time that I DID actually try to make everyone else happy, the result was that I made myself miserable. I was so stressed out with trying to everything that everyone...
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2007


    I can't please everybody. No matter how much I could try to do so, not everyone is going to agree with something or be happy with it. And I've learned in life, that it is fine. I can't please everybody and if someone doesn't like me or what I have to say, OH WELL. That's their...
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 14, 2009

    How much ever you try,

    you cannot please everyone. You cannot make everyone happy or believe in you. You cannot be everyone's friend. You cannot compromise in all situations. You cannot go beyond your personal limits all the time. You cannot hurt your self-respect and dignity all the time or every...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 16, 2015

    Broken And Abandoned

    I lay awake, my leg throbbing while resting on pillows. I just had a major surgery my ankle. After the healing is complete I should be able to walk painfree for the rest of my life. I lost one of my best friendships today because of this surgery. A friend for almost 10 years. I...
    itscake itscake
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

    If THAT were even possible,

    we would have a utopia and live in total harmony! But then reality sinks in as I look around and hear the things I hear and see the dirty looks and scoffing attitudes....whatever! Stick to our own but with respect for others! We can at least agree to disagree....or go to war!;)
    Spitbak Spitbak
    46-50, M
    Feb 4, 2016

    Hey everyone: Just wanted to update.

    Yes, I am fairly sexually open, and it is my field of study. I have been able to explore my sexuality and still would like to explore it. I will take advice, tips, tricks, and even just chatting and being open with people. I will respond. First messages I do not respond to...
    RoseyandDark RoseyandDark
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 9, 2016

    I can't please everyone

    and I really don't want to. It's exhausting spending your time trying to make others happy. My goal is to consistently make decisions that I think are the best. Of course some people might not like it but I can be happy knowing that I tried my best to do the right thing. Other...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2015

    Heil Hitler

    Even Hitler found love & got married. Meanwhile you bítches are still lonely. *drops mic*
    abigailemz abigailemz
    22-25, F
    Jun 22, 2013

    we were not born to please them.

    .. so why bother? lol
    elysium9527 elysium9527
    22-25, F
    Dec 3, 2015

    Do I look like your entertainment machine?

    Yea, my humor is kinda hard to understand, but if you don't like it then don't bother complaining because you're just wasting your time. I don't like it when people waste their time hanging around me if they don't like me. That makes me feel bad, and I hate having to do it if...
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    This is the best way to share my feelings

    anonymously, only because no one knows who i am, and cant judge me 👐😁
    Richesss Richesss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2014

    And neither will I try.

    It is not my job to please everyone. Jut myself and those I love, or et near my life. he heck with the rest!
    deleted deleted
    Feb 13, 2016

    i am sorry to be a downer on your mood.

    (yeap. i am apologising again.)
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender
    Dec 17, 2013

    Take a Number

    I actually don't go out of my way to please anyone... I mean I do what I can for those I care about... I offer whatever solace I can to those in need... I am all about lending a helping hand when I can... but ultimately everyone else comes behind my own happiness... then my kids...
    phidget phidget
    31-35, F
    Jun 9, 2008

    i like you. but i can't help feeling

    emotionally drained. i have bad days too. what am i supposed to do on bad days? i vent. i get angry. i feel the blues. can i feel these moods and air them without constantly worrying if i push someone over the emotional cliff? it is so fncking draining.
    tgreatpretender tgreatpretender
    Dec 17, 2013

    I Hate Feeling Guilty!

    Last week i had to go to the emergancy room because of a burn.  Because of witch i had to call in sick to work.  For the rest of the week every time my boss looked at me i felt guilty.  So much so that when she asked me if i could work a difrent shift next week i...
    pigglet pigglet
    18-21, F
    Aug 23, 2009

    I can't please everybody,

    so I will not waste my time trying, so if you not pleased with me, you are just SOL.
    MLG3 MLG3
    36-40, M
    Jan 12, 2014

    Sorry I don't meet your

    so called standards it's not my job to please you. I wasn't put here to satisfy you.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 18, 2015


    ...And don't care!  I am me and like me or hate me I am true to myself.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2009

    Its Just One Of Those Things!!

    i mean, i dont like upsetting anyone, but at the same time, i just cant live my life trying to please everyone, all the time!! its just something thats not possible!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2011

    It's True

    I can not please every one. But if I tried to I would be a wh@re. ^^
    darkroomtruth darkroomtruth
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 10, 2013

    I could please everybody

    or please myself...why is this so dang hard to choose
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    Some days, it takes all my effort just to

    please myself ;) so nothing left over to please most others. Friends are the ones that give during these times, and take the greatness when it is overflowing also.
    Taurusedi Taurusedi
    36-40, M
    May 16, 2015

    I just wanted to say sorry about my last post!

    I had some pretty nasty comments and I deserved them for saying I don't like fat and ugly guys! Yes I'm very judgemental and I'm sure all of you are too! I'm not a lesbian just because I've never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy! I just haven't found anyone I like who likes me...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 12, 2015

    So I have something I have been denying

    for a long time and might still have a problem accepting but I have a problem with alcohol and when I say problem I mean a problem... I drink to much I rink to fast and I don’t handle it well. I have a problem because forgot what it was like to go out with out being sober and...
    Scaredmonster Scaredmonster
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2015

    Get In Line

    ...because you're ***-out too. Serving number 2, you're number 878,933,175. I hope you brought a book.
    Quadrophenic Quadrophenic
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

    Some people online need to lighten up.

    I am never going to try and be rude. And I'm not going to apologize if you mistake a genuine compliment as rude. SMH
    jpiper5 jpiper5
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    I Don't Try

    I couldn't please everyone even if I tried. Some days I can't please myself.
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 19, 2012

    Deer Oh Deer (lol)

    my mum my sons my dad my aunties and uncles my cousins my friends my pets my ex husband my ex boyfriends and now my computer - -it seems next it will be my bed or my bath! I dont use both often enuf or too much.
    blondiesindy blondiesindy
    36-40, F
    Oct 11, 2010

    But I Try

    Deep down I know I can't please everyone but I often find myself trying. I don't like when people are upset with me and try to make up whenever possible be it a misunderstanding or whatever. I just would rather see people smile and happy and if I can help then I do... but I know...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2008
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    Boyfriend Or Best Friend?

    Hi everyone, I 've got a problem with my boyfriend and my best friend. They really don't get on, and it's got to the point where they can't even be in the same room as each other. The trouble is I love them both but they're always putting me in the middle, and I don't know...
    angelface21 angelface21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2010

    Never Works

    For the last few years i have living my life trying to please everybody and i have come to realize that you just CAN'T please everyone at the same time! What makes one person happy can make another person unhappy. It is like playing piggy in the middle ... being the person that...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    31-35, F
    Aug 5, 2013

    Like Me Or Don't

    i've always been nice and sweet always have had a good personality but you won't find that out unless you actually take the time to get to know me if you get to know me and reject i'll understand not everybody likes everybody we all have a quality or something that we may not...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 15, 2009

    I Get Along With Anyone Any...

    I get along with anyone anywhere anytime its crazy but i dont know how not to relate to people and if you relate to people they automatically like you.
    backtofloyd2 backtofloyd2
    36-40, F
    Jun 9, 2008

    NO Cannot Please Everyone

    bianey bianey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2008

    All My Life Ive Been a People Pleaser

    I started out my life being a people pleaser mainly to my dad beclase i felted he didnt love me. and i found out you cant please everyone so you got to please your self. i also found out love starts with me i did learn that my father did love me but he emotionally wasnt...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Sep 14, 2008
    mar00ned2 mar00ned2
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    The Two-way Street Of Disappointment And Satisfaction

    The inability to please everyone isn't just a one way street. I don't just look out and see the ways in which others displease me. I also see the ways in which I displease others. Some people will never be happy unless you're always with the group and willing to follow and stick...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 12, 2012
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