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I Can't Stand Being Alone In a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    Lonely At Home and Committed

    I've ranted and raved so many times about this problem and I can't figure out what the real problem is, is it me?  Do I require too much admiration, conversation, affection?  Or am I insensitive to his needs, he just changed shifts so he's adjusting and tired and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    The Last Year and a Half....i Was Alone

    Shane just stopped talking to me. We stopped having sex, we never went anywhere except to do the monthly shopping. If I wanted to have a conversation, I HAD to make the first move. He never talked first. He never volunteer hugs or kisses, I had to ask for them every time. He'd...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2009

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    Feeling Quite Alone.

    My husband works alot and travels. I know he's doing this for us/him and because it's what he loves to do, i'm happy for him but I still feel alone in this, no matter if I spend time with friends/family or have a hobby or my job. It's so lonely knowing that you have a lover and...
    Feb 18, 2013

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    Alone In A Relationship

    I am getting married soon, and I feel the same way. I feel I am all alone in a relationship. I try and do things to make others happy but in the end..there is noone to compliment me.
    lovelysweetheart4u lovelysweetheart4u 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Alone And Freaking Out.

    I have been through one marriage a fling and now a serious relationship. I don't live with her but I want to. We won't be able to be together as we are on our own leases for almost a year but I stay at her house often and she comes over to mine as well. I am not alone very much...
    ittek07 ittek07 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    Why not? What good are tokens if you can't use them? I have 30 tokens, and can't add any photos. EP sucks sometimes.
    craverandscarlett craverandscarlett 66-70, M 2 hrs ago

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    The statement alone says it all.....I can't take it any more...any part of my life.....I for the past seven years spent my life married to someone....our marriage is so toxic and...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    .....but, it must exist in order for revelation prophesies to be filled. and it exists every day in our lives
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 1 day ago

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    I don't have a clue where to start this but I will say thank you to anyone who finds the time to read this. The thoughts and memories that are in my head make me think this will...
    Valtboy Valtboy 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ok so I'm back complaining again! So here I am at the beach with the wife. I packed some clothes for the weekend and they are clean. The bag I packed them in now smells of stale...
    harleyman2169 harleyman2169 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    blah, blah, blah, blah, blah....u are wasting your breathe trying to make me side with you. I'm not listening to your opinion! I'm thinking about eating a fried shrimp po boy! oh...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 days ago

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    My entire life I've been known as the 'doormat' - the one that everyone can happily take advantage of. And the worst part is: I let it slide. I forgive them, even when I really...
    Tinkiez Tinkiez 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My mother was 45 when she had me and smoked throughout the pregnancy. I was born crossed eyed, Flat Footed and I am what people would describe as "Slow." So of course i am highly...
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    if I don't say the words. it doesn't mean that they are not there. I just want them to land with you the way that I intend for them to. I am sorry that I often say them like two...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is my dilema and the most obvious is that it is NOT a dilema but the feelings I have makes everything feel so wrong. I in a sense do know the person I am inlove with, but I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I enjoy being by myself. Cuz people think I'm weird and I am really weird like I can't talk right or make conversation. I also think in concepts and lesson in my head so I enjoy...
    S4NFR4NC15C0 S4NFR4NC15C0 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I can never say I've been truly happy...ever...I've known this since I was a kid...I've had happy times but I have never been happy for a week straight with no complaints.I use to...
    Gottawannaneedtotalk Gottawannaneedtotalk 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    You try to be nice and help someone out then it comes back and kick and kick you in the ***. I helped this guy out at work let him stay he only payed me 200 a month. Last month he...
    UCLABruinsFan13 UCLABruinsFan13 41-45, M a week ago

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    That is why I am getting so sick of Facebook
    justmyself11 justmyself11 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    This is not about me but this is my experience that does bother me. So my husband's business partner just broke up with his girlfriend. I used to go out with her sometimes but I...
    VogueChloe VogueChloe 26-30, F a week ago

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    The the thing with boyfriends' mothers. Oh my God they are so irritating. I'm tired of being lectured. I'm quiet and not a back talker and just nod and says yes or no, and say a...
    reginarose reginarose 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M Aug 23

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    religions are misjudged all over the world. why can't people just respect all the religions? if you hear people talking bad things about some religion (as they claim islam being...
    marieseub marieseub 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 23

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    Like the title says, I can't stand cheap people. I also can't stand when people get free stuff all the time and are catered to for doing absolutely nothing. And these are the same...
    usualobject88 usualobject88 26-30, F Aug 22

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    Even though I have tried very hard, it is their childish behavior what dissappointes me a great deal. Its the bullying and spreading false rumors around the company what gets to me...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 26-30, F Aug 22

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    lol thanks mom, now I'm a fvcked kid.
    TheSturgeonGeneral TheSturgeonGeneral 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    It Is In A Opinion That Women Who Smoke Drink/Drugs While Pregnant, Are Some Of The Most Selfish Individuals On The Planet. It Is Also In My Opinion, That Any and All Women Who...
    BIGGDADDY434 BIGGDADDY434 46-50, M Aug 22

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    Especially when they are all suppose to have love caring peace acceptance, as the center of them. Does that really make sense?
    imGreywlf imGreywlf 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    People always make me look like the bad guy. I guess i am. Stay away from me i ruin everything.
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    But I still keep doing them ....doh.....
    firetrap93 firetrap93 41-45 2 Responses Aug 19

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    What people don't realize is when you are quiet, there is just too much for you to say. So many problems, worries, or just normal thoughts. It's hard to put them into words. You...
    artsydarling artsydarling 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    There are lots of wise quotes about respecting yourself, respecting other human beings and so on. I'd specifically like to talk about respect between women.There are different kind...
    MentallyVibrating MentallyVibrating 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I used to hate hate hate being alone... I was terrified of it actually. But for the last 5 years I have lived by myself and now it feels kinda odd when I have people over. It's...
    ktbare82 ktbare82 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I'm... Melting... ;-; .-. :-: -~-
    Diyani0537 Diyani0537 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    A lot of times I hear people complain about how lonely the are. I am not lonely. I like being alone. I like doing things alone. I used to think I needed someone. I don't need...
    Semmasix Semmasix 36-40, F Aug 15

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    Lately it feels like I'm surrounded by only fakes
    avgarcia6031 avgarcia6031 22-25, F Aug 15

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    I can't stand child abuse because it sounds like children getting hurt and cry,that is why I can't stand child abuse.
    MmEeTtOo MmEeTtOo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I've never understood wanting to be with someone merely for the sake of loneliness. I've loved one person completely in my life and I don't fall in love easily. I've loved...
    smilesandtrials smilesandtrials 31-35, F Aug 14

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    I'm home all the time with my cat, but with him around I'm not alone... If I'm around no people or animals, I feel like everything can hurt me! I've grown up around an animal or...
    MyNameIsNotKnown MyNameIsNotKnown 13-15, F Aug 12

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    I can't believe how,the majority of society today refuses to,think for themselves and question things ready to believe that ever they read or are told.
    keywestap keywestap 31-35, M Aug 12

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