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I Can't Stand Being Alone In a Relationship

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    Alone And Freaking Out.

    I have been through one marriage a fling and now a serious relationship. I don't live with her but I want to. We won't be able to be together as we are on our own leases for almost a year but I stay at her house often and she comes over to mine as well. I am not alone very much...
    ittek07 ittek07 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    The Last Year and a Half....i Was Alone

    Shane just stopped talking to me. We stopped having sex, we never went anywhere except to do the monthly shopping. If I wanted to have a conversation, I HAD to make the first move. He never talked first. He never volunteer hugs or kisses, I had to ask for them every time. He'd...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2009

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    Feeling Quite Alone.

    My husband works alot and travels. I know he's doing this for us/him and because it's what he loves to do, i'm happy for him but I still feel alone in this, no matter if I spend time with friends/family or have a hobby or my job. It's so lonely knowing that you have a lover and...
    Feb 18, 2013

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    Alone In A Relationship

    I am getting married soon, and I feel the same way. I feel I am all alone in a relationship. I try and do things to make others happy but in the end..there is noone to compliment me.
    lovelysweetheart4u lovelysweetheart4u 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Lonely At Home and Committed

    I've ranted and raved so many times about this problem and I can't figure out what the real problem is, is it me?  Do I require too much admiration, conversation, affection?  Or am I insensitive to his needs, he just changed shifts so he's adjusting and tired and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Hateisexhausting1 Hateisexhausting1 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    So I know I should always love my dad and be grateful for everything he's given me, but I really cannot stand him most of the time!! He pays for everything for me and my mom always...
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    I can't stand my MIL! She isn't what you would call mean or lazy but she is just so damn annoying! My husband and I have been married for a month and a half but we dated 6 years...
    cdub1990 cdub1990 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My mom says I'm "too nice" to people. She thinks I help people often more than they help me. I think she fears I'm being used or played. But I just can't stand to see anyone in...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I can't stand my mom. She calls my brother and I ungrateful, says she wishes she was dead to see how much she's missed, says "where did I go wrong to have ungrateful children...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't stand her and yet I'm totally jealous of her!! :(
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F Jul 25

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    I can't stand it either. But I prefer the spoilers to spankers. But guys please a few limits don't hurt. You don't have to give in to every freaking demand they have
    ezelmark ezelmark 26-30, M Jul 27

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    I would have changed the title... I CAN'T STAND MEN HITTING GIRLS
    fenomen01 fenomen01 31-35, M Jul 30

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    Small talk to me just sounds like a broken record. I can't and won't do it anymore! Actually, now that I think about it, all of my TRUE friends started with me being completely...
    BeautifulVenDisaster BeautifulVenDisaster 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    She is an alcoholic, sober 5 yes,severely clinically depressed and bi polar. My husband, son and I have, out of necessitu,lived with her in her basement for 9 months. We're...
    Dinagurv Dinagurv 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I don't even want to go outside unless I absolutely have to. I'm so sick of the local area, just a good deal of the people. I'm sick of the weather most of the year. I'm...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Sometimes. Now the issue is, her dad just died and there's issues with his will. Her brother is the executor and is trying to screw everyone over on their inheritance and she won...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Aug 9

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    Not that hard to prove there fake. Or there using a fake pic. Just tell them to take another picture doing a certain action. Or whatever might be out of the ordinary. That...
    Deeperthinker Deeperthinker 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've posted this elsewhere, multiple times... didn't get much in the way of insight; so I'm posting it here. I just started working at this really small shop about a month or so...
    cloaked1 cloaked1 22-25, M Aug 2

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    So I've been part of this site for quite some time and I appreciate being able to share my woes with those who understand from all over the world, but there are those who come here...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F Aug 11

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    I'm going to ask my uncle to walk me down the isle when my time comes. My dad chose to not engage himself or be involved in my development. He doesn't know what struggles I went...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I am righting this because it is a serious issue with me on not just this site but others as well. What part of under age do guys and even the ladies not seem to get. Leave the...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Jul 22

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    Yeah , you are my mom! But you cant control my ******* life. Im mot 12! Like pleasee! Leave me tf alone .
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F Jul 23

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    So sad... Here on EP today alone, I have seen people posting rude, ignorant posts completely bashing another's religion, I have seen someone calling another mean names, I have seen...
    Anxiousgirl13 Anxiousgirl13 18-21 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Annoys the **** outta me!!!! Literally every girl in my school is a *****. Granted, I can be too, but only when provoked. All my "friends" are this way. My friend Kayla is the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    my mom doesn't know if she loves her husband, but won't tell him
    reachingforthesun reachingforthesun 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Not sure she can stand herself.
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 36-40, F Aug 11

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    So my mom has been being a ***** for the past 2 days. Last night we ate dinner at about 9 and i got a twinkie before bed at 12 and se started yelling at me saying "we just ate...
    Heyitsjaayy123 Heyitsjaayy123 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate warm weather! Cold weather makes me feel so much comfortable and it gives me more energy! I hate sweating. It's just not a fun feeling. summer is fun, but when it's too hot...
    megsupermaherio megsupermaherio 16-17, F Aug 7

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    Recently my perants got in a fight at 1am they had just got back from the pub...but whenever they get back from the pub they have a fight and get over it the next day but since I'm...
    baconismycat baconismycat 13-15, F Aug 3

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    My mom is definitely one of them. She will hate someone forever and not know them or the actual facts. The truth is that I was in love with someone but I couldn't be with her...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M Jul 24

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    So females are ******* and I wanna slap a couple of them today!!!!! Omg this chick told me to shut up and didn't apologize I walked away. But really wanna beat her ***!!!! What...
    poshshiny poshshiny 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I will put him before anyone else. If he needs me to be there I will drop everything to be there for him. But he won't do the same for me. He will drop our time if someone that's...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Jul 27

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    OK, so after some more research I would really like to talk to someone that isn't a jerk and has to insult me, and is willing to share some insight on rather or not my methods will...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M Jul 30

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    Even if I don't like you, I try to understand you. When I see someone who is not happy it physically hurts me to not hug them
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I caught my younger brother , age 13, spitting out his gum in a parking lot as we were making our way to get some ice cream. I made him return to scoop it back up, and throw it in...
    MSCris MSCris 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    If it's biodegradable, fine. (I would prefer people throw away larger biodegradable items in the trash still.) But I don't particularly like seeing cans and bottles littering...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I don't proof read so it's inevitable that I'll post some things with typos. It's annoying when I have to delete, then re-post things just so I can fix one tiny typo that manages...
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 1 Response Aug 5

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    I've never had any confrontations with her and I hope that I don't ever have to.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 11

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    And what's worse is that they always claim that they are using logic correctly and that you are not. PLEASE take 10 minutes to look up 'Logical Fallacies' so you don't look like an...
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M Aug 11

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    Fractum Fractum 16-17 Aug 11

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    Jessica4729 Jessica4729 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't understand people who tattoo their boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse's names/anniversaries on themselves. It's always a stupid idea, sorry. How awkward is it when your newest...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I am sick to death of people contacting me to whine and complain!!! Take your negativity and bullcrap and shove it up your arise
    bonjovi08 bonjovi08 36-40, M Jul 24

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    I'm sick and tired of people getting into fights and calling themselves MMA fighters. Thats like me just talking about rabbits to a group of people and calling myself a great...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I have band camp all week and I'm afraid I'm gonna get a sunburn. /: Fml.. But the good thing about it is that hopefully I'll get a little tan. :p lol
    xxsamelovexx xxsamelovexx 13-15, M 5 Responses Jul 28

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