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I Can't Stand Being Alone In a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Alone And Freaking Out.

    I have been through one marriage a fling and now a serious relationship. I don't live with her but I want to. We won't be able to be together as we are on our own leases for almost a year but I stay at her house often and she comes over to mine as well. I am not alone very much...
    ittek07 ittek07 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    Feeling Quite Alone.

    My husband works alot and travels. I know he's doing this for us/him and because it's what he loves to do, i'm happy for him but I still feel alone in this, no matter if I spend time with friends/family or have a hobby or my job. It's so lonely knowing that you have a lover and...
    Feb 18, 2013

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    Lonely At Home and Committed

    I've ranted and raved so many times about this problem and I can't figure out what the real problem is, is it me?  Do I require too much admiration, conversation, affection?  Or am I insensitive to his needs, he just changed shifts so he's adjusting and tired and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    The Last Year and a Half....i Was Alone

    Shane just stopped talking to me. We stopped having sex, we never went anywhere except to do the monthly shopping. If I wanted to have a conversation, I HAD to make the first move. He never talked first. He never volunteer hugs or kisses, I had to ask for them every time. He'd...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2009

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    Alone In A Relationship

    I am getting married soon, and I feel the same way. I feel I am all alone in a relationship. I try and do things to make others happy but in the end..there is noone to compliment me.
    lovelysweetheart4u lovelysweetheart4u 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    While at the hospital with my grandmother and mom, a guy comes in and suddenly haves a heart attack in the ER room. Throwing up and the wife & visitors begging for someone to help...
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    Yesterday, I got a phone call on my house phone (yes, I still have one) from an 800 number. The guy asked for my 6 year old son. I tell him that C is only 6, at school, and I'm his...
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    well it really doesn't bother me to much anymore
    itsBob itsBob 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok, I know relationships can be complicated and you have to give space to people when they are going through stressful times, but is it too much to ask that you at least send me a...
    Cheemoni Cheemoni 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    And I hate myself for not being able to let go. Here's the story; I was friends with my ex friend for 4 years and that's all we were. I never wanted to be anything more because...
    awesomefallenangel awesomefallenangel 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm not talking about children or the mentally impaired. I don't understand how some people ask questions that they can easily figure out for themselves. "Where can I get a...
    singlepath singlepath 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I am an introvert and like being alone but miss the idea of being in a relationship. I've just never been successful with them and have for the last 5 years or so been single and...
    Anontymous30 Anontymous30 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's hard for me to be alone,i need support and attention lol and just to feel im a worthwhile person I need validation,apparently constantly.Don't feel like going into it now but...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    He is a control freak . I hate it . I am not your little puppet and you can not and will not control me .FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F a week ago

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    I can't stand my best friend thisgirls enemy she won't leave her alone and is a jerk who cheats on people be careful who you meet I know them both in rl and know there names I will...
    Fnafgirl Fnafgirl 13-15, F a week ago

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    I can't stand my best friend thisgirls enemy she won't leave her alone and is a jerk who cheats on people be careful who you meet I know them both in rl and know there names I will...
    Fnafgirl Fnafgirl 13-15, F a week ago

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    "Never let someone with the significance of a speed bump become a roadblock in your life."
    ChaoticEnigma ChaoticEnigma 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I can 't stand my husband I can't stand my husband etcetera....So i married a jerk .he only cares about themselves if i say anything about how i feel i get screamed at he actually...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Feb 4

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    When somebody judges me for being a brony, or having my intense interests, or because I'm an Aspie, I get very angry, I sometimes assume they're attacking my character
    AnonWesker AnonWesker 16-17 Feb 4

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    I feel it bubbling up inside me. This anxiety. I've lost you again. I've let you go again. You are the love of my life. But I betrayed you and lost you. So you leave every morning...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 26-30, F Feb 4

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    I believe that parents shouldn't speak ill of their children's other parent especially in front of them or to them. They can think whatever they'd like about their child's mother...
    lexxrodriguezz lexxrodriguezz 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I'm only single bc of this long distance relationship I had with a girl, who was my best friend, and she just up and sort of ruined it (even if she thinks she didn't) but basically...
    animefan22 animefan22 18-21, F Feb 2

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    2012 single 2013 single 2014 singel 2015 single 2016 still single I dont actually mind it but it would be nice to have someone to share life with and i hate living with my family
    Collegegirl23 Collegegirl23 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I can't even talk to her. Literally every time my mom tries to make conversation with me, I'm instantly annoyed. It can be as simple as, "How was your day?" and I'll snap back at...
    MegsLynn MegsLynn 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Until I left for college when I was 17, I had this weird tendency to look out the window of my bedroom at the market by the street near our house, to see if the stores were closed...
    IndraD IndraD 18-21, M Feb 2

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    Some days i feel like i've just given up, i have no ways of meeting people and no friends where i live. Its maddening, i have to be stoned 24/7 just to block out the feeling of...
    Outoforbits Outoforbits 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I feel like I'm surrounded by retards I tell them not to touch my stuff but they just don't listen. Now I can't find my gym clothes so that means I have to buy a new pair. I have...
    TinselCookie607 TinselCookie607 18-21, M Jan 31

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    RELENTLESSLY HAUNTED by every instance of poor judgement or just common errors. Can't turn my mind off, I just relive every single moment! Even ones looong forgotten by people who...
    HollowBravado HollowBravado 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Most days I’m ok. I mean sure, just like always you do cross my mind, but today I really miss you. I came so close to sending you a message telling you so, but I know it’ll...
    jackflash3300 jackflash3300 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 31

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    So my husband decides to go out to dinner and his parents friends were there and they were coming to join them .so we get our table and sit down she comes over to say hello and...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jan 29

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    I don't like how a lot of people like to make fun of a certain group, then say "it's just a joke". It may be a joke, but it can still be hurtful. If your only way of making people...
    Syntagram Syntagram 16-17, F Jan 29

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    I just don't like the facts that I can't befriend an older person or like their thoughts and expiriences on sex all because I'm not 18. I find that ridiculous and I think that type...
    Deathgodsimple Deathgodsimple 16-17, F Jan 29

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    Im a middle aged woman, all alone. I have poor health and a horrible home with ignorant neighbours; and can't afford to move. I suffer with a variety of severe health issues...
    50cabbages 50cabbages 46-50 1 Response Jan 29

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    Sports are so boring, I'll rather watch a cat play with a ball.
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I just got home from the grocery store and had my share of screaming, bratty, annoying children (and their good-for-nothing parents) for the day. Maybe I am getting older and am...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 10 Responses Jan 28

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    Is it really so bad to be scared of being alone when you know that your most scary side comes out when you are? I don't want to hurt, so I don't give myself that chance. Most of...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F Jan 28

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    everyone's negative sometimes. it isn't like i'm going to dump a friend for having a bad day or anything. i am so sensitive to others' moods, though; i feel like when someone is...
    astrifer astrifer 22-25, F Jan 28

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    I wish they would just shut up and stop acting so self righteous. If they cannot think for themselves, they have no business telling me how to think. They have no business...
    ratburn ratburn 18-21 Jan 26

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    This is hilarious!
    justmerae1 justmerae1 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    Just when I think, feel I have moved on, and I had, emotionally. I had been single for at least 3 months, and I got involved with someone who, unintentionally, and fell for...
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