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I Can't Stand Being Alone In a Relationship

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    Feeling Quite Alone.

    My husband works alot and travels. I know he's doing this for us/him and because it's what he loves to do, i'm happy for him but I still feel alone in this, no matter if I spend time with friends/family or have a hobby or my job. It's so lonely knowing that you have a lover and...
    Feb 18, 2013

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    Lonely At Home and Committed

    I've ranted and raved so many times about this problem and I can't figure out what the real problem is, is it me?  Do I require too much admiration, conversation, affection?  Or am I insensitive to his needs, he just changed shifts so he's adjusting and tired and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Alone In A Relationship

    I am getting married soon, and I feel the same way. I feel I am all alone in a relationship. I try and do things to make others happy but in the end..there is noone to compliment me.
    lovelysweetheart4u lovelysweetheart4u 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    The Last Year and a Half....i Was Alone

    Shane just stopped talking to me. We stopped having sex, we never went anywhere except to do the monthly shopping. If I wanted to have a conversation, I HAD to make the first move. He never talked first. He never volunteer hugs or kisses, I had to ask for them every time. He'd...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 12, 2009

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    Alone And Freaking Out.

    I have been through one marriage a fling and now a serious relationship. I don't live with her but I want to. We won't be able to be together as we are on our own leases for almost a year but I stay at her house often and she comes over to mine as well. I am not alone very much...
    ittek07 ittek07 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    My BIL is truly a piece of work. He thinks because he's Ivy League trained, he's above everyone. He (and my MIL) have no respect for people- they say whatever they want without...
    UpsetNAlone UpsetNAlone 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I am a beautiful brown skin Puerto rican Egyptian woman who's proud of her skin color of her roots if you only judge me and others like me based on color your ignorant your foolish...
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    No I can't! Even if it's my done to me and I see it happening to another girl I feel really uncomfortable and tbh a little bit disgusted with the men.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F a week ago

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    I really can't. It's disturbing and creepy.
    dearlovecc dearlovecc 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    I'm really just sick of my parents fighting why can't things go back to normal? :/
    thequietone1000 thequietone1000 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    seandm seandm 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Curlyhairsheila Curlyhairsheila 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    bellhasdreams bellhasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Let people choose what they want to believe in! Religion doesn't make a person! Plus most people only follow the parts of their religion that benefit them at specific moments or...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    If you don't like a persons religion stay away from them. It's stupid arguing over religion just cut them loose.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate it! - I was never noticed before and I said to my mum "Why do guys never notice me" She said "They do you just never notice them." And since then, the same night I had 2...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I hear he died today. I've read opinions about how some will celebrate his passing, some are threatening to picket his funeral and thankfully, I've read very few articles about how...
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Debate is healthy so disagree . Especially in our fast moving society where debate and discussion is helping us to move forward.
    wwonderer wwonderer 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I once read a saying "we are all walking eachother home" why fight over religon ?😪
    Mindserenity Mindserenity 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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