I Can't Stand Being Called Pet Names By a Man I Don't Know

I Ain't Your Baby DAMN IT! 209 People

    Do I Know You!?

    I love endearments when I'm with a guy! LOVE EM! I can not stand when people I barely know or people that I'm not close to at ALL call me sweetie or hunny or baby! Grr! I have a name, I have respect for myself and others, learn to do the same!!! Unless we are on a "see...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2008

    Name Badge, Guys... It's There For a Reason!

    Ooooooh... I hate it so much. It's one of the few things that really really gets to me. It mainly happens at work (I'm a receptionist). I can't count the number of guys who come in and call me darling, sweetie, gorgeous, love, hun, so on and so forth. Every day. I...
    spektor spektor
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2008


    grrr if theres one word that really gets my back up its hun...i hate it, seriously theres nothing worse than being called hun by a complete stranger...I AM NOONES HUN...not now not ever..
    thehippy thehippy
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 29, 2009

    Seriously? That is only reserved

    for a man who is my boyfriend or my close friend. I don't know you so don't act so intimate and familiar with me.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Oct 27, 2015

    This is perhaps, probably the wrong group to

    post this story in, becuase honestly, I don't mind all the 'sweet' names, such as darling, sweetheart...that sort of thing. But there's ONE name I absolutely despise. 'Little/Lil Mama'When I'm approached, I'm sometimes called that. I understand there might be some female artist...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86
    26-30, F
    Jan 4, 2014

    Do I Look Plastic to You?

    Generally, I'm not overly offended by the occasional, well-meaning "honey" or "sweetheart", but when a guy at a bar awhile back referred to me as "Barbie", I almost went nuclear on him. How insulting!
    OFFthecuff OFFthecuff
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Sep 10, 2008

    What's Up With That ?

    Sometimes  when  I  meet  a  man  they  just  act  so  stupid,  I  5  foot   petite   .  WE  will  be  talking  and  next  thing  I  know  here...
    rockybear397 rockybear397
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Apr 13, 2008

    NO No No

    The only time this has ever made my skin crawl was right after I started my job we had a person in our company (very high up) would call me “Sugaar” making fun of my Southern accent.  I was so glad when he was laid off.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    7 Responses May 8, 2008

    I Am Not Being Racist

    I get hit on mostly by black and hispanic men even though I am a white girl. I have known a few guys that I wouldn't mind if they hit on me because they are respectful and well mannered men, but unfortunately the ones who hit on me have neither of those qualities. I get so...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    6 Responses Sep 25, 2008

    I HATE when some guy calls me sweetie

    or honey or anything else. If you're my friend or my boyfriend, pet names are cute. But you're neither of those, then don't call me pet names. Unless you want me to turn into a *****
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2016

    I Don't Even Know You....

    First off, let me tell you that I am into the bdsm/kink scene. But not in a negative way. I have my own values of how people perceive me, and how I LET others perceive me. Now that has been said, I will say my story. As of a few weeks ago I have been talking to a friend of a...
    serenitykat serenitykat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2011

    Like a lot of people here,

    it creeps me out. Like even if the guy is considered good looking, he automatically transforms into either a kidnapper in a white van or a sleazy car salesman in my mind. Maybe it's because it's overly familiar?
    OrogenousZone OrogenousZone
    31-35, F
    Jul 17, 2015

    It Gets On My Nerves!

    I HATE when guys call me pet names. If he's not my boyfriend, I don't want him calling me baby, or sweetie, or honey, or any of that stuff. Stick to my name damn it! It's not that hard! I have no problem telling a guy how I feel about pet names. As soon as he calls me something...
    Melody08 Melody08
    18-21, F
    Mar 18, 2008

    I Cannot Stand You!!!

    There is a man I work with that calls all the women in the office babe or sweetie. Technically I know him. He does not have the right to call me or any other woman here by pet names. I hate it. Every time he says, "hey sweetie" i want to punch him in the face. I am not...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Feb 14, 2008


    firstly, baby just brings back bad memories...     secondly...     Do I look like a baby? Thought not. Dont call me it. Do I look like honey? No? Well there we go again. Sweetheart? Thought so. Darling- please introduce yourself at least, before you...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Nov 12, 2008


    Ok sometimes I don't mind. But i HATE being called Babe, Mami, chica etc. If it is in a joking manner then im not  going to freak out but.... uh it just gets to me. "Hey Mami you want some of this" "Look Babe, you just don't understand" "dame sexy...
    Tacit Tacit
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 14, 2008


    It really annoys the hell outta me when I'm called pet names by dudes I dont know. The one that really bothers me is, Sweetheart... I can't stand that. I dont like when anyone calls me that, I dont know why, it just bothers me. But it really ****** me off when random guys...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2009

    ******* ******

    I am not your 'behbeh'! I don't know you. I don't want you talking to me. I don't want you to call me pet names!! FOR F*CKS SAKE!
    deleted deleted
    Mar 25, 2008

    One Night I Realized...

    That women use pet names so they don't have to remember real names.... Dude is the worst followed by Buddy Stud works for me though..... lol
    DancesWithDolphins DancesWithDolphins
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 3, 2008


    So I was reading through some of the groups that I had not written stories for and this was one of them. I swear for everything that is holy this is the reason why I won't loose weight. I get hit on ALOT and it's gross and freaks me out. It's really scary. Random guys just come...
    AnonymousDiva AnonymousDiva
    26-30, F
    Nov 11, 2012


    Oh, this really ****** me off! Unless the guy is my lover or best friend, don't call me pet names! Don't call me "sweetie"! I'm not your sweetie! Or sweetheart, or baby, or darling, or any of those things! And most of all, don't call me "baby doll"!!! Unless...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2008


    this phone conversation just took place between me and an employee of a local restaurant. him: local restaurant, how can i help you? me: i'd like to make a to-go order, please. him: what can i get for you? me: the two pancakes and sausage, please. him: and what's the name...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    23 Responses Feb 14, 2008

    I Hate That

    Guys who don't even know me; never met me is calling me pet names like I was dating them for years! The creepest is when it a guy in  his 50's and up!
    123ct 123ct
    36-40, F
    19 Responses Apr 17, 2008


     I'm kind of a hypocrite, I guess, because I HATE HATE HATE when creepy guys or old people call me pet names, because it's just like, why?! GOD, WHY?! But I have to say that I like it if it's a nice person. And their being attractive doesn't hurt. And I love pet...
    Tiana Tiana
    Apr 23, 2009
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Oct 28, 2015

    Not What Most Think

    For me it's insurance agents who call me "pal".  Good grief, you know my first name, USE IT!!  You do not yet know enough about me, just cover my car and leave me alone!!
    mortal mortal
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    I Truly Hate This.

    If I don't know you, don't call me: Babe Baby Honey Sweetie Sweets Love Sweetheart Cutie Or any other pet name I can't think of right this second. 
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 10, 2008

    My Husband Calls Every Woman Hon

    You know it gets under my skin when my husband calls me hon and then when we go to the store or something he than calls the cashier hon (thanks hon) we'll go to his brothers house his sister in law will fix him a drink or something like that (thanks hon) we'll go to a wicca event...
    elvirus elvirus
    46-50, F
    Apr 24, 2008

    Excuse Me?

    If I don't know you, please don't come up to me and call me honey or sweetie. I'm sorry sir, but I consider certain pet names too intimate for strangers to use. Watch the pet names or I'll most likely put you in the creepy category.
    Birmingham Birmingham
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 18, 2008

    I Might Be Sexist Because Of Society

    When women call me sweetie, honey, sweetheart, ect...I don't feel uncomfortable. I think because women do that to children their entire lives. Men on the other hand...when they call me those kinds of things, I feel extremely uncomfortable and intimidated. It feels like they're...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 12, 2013

    You Don't Know Me

    It annoys me when guys I don't know call me, "B" or "baby" or "honey."  The other day, the guy at this eatery-place said something like, "There ya go B" when he gave me my food that I ordered.  It was annoying.  ...
    yoyy yoyy
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Nov 11, 2008

    Nothing ****** Me Off More

    when some condescending *** of a man comes in to the office and after assisting them they say "Thank you sweetie" or "Thank you honey"...GRRRRR...I want to give them a sweet kick in the *** and say "You're welcome sugar" lol
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Jan 8, 2008

    I Hate Being Called "BABY" By a Stranger!

    Look, i'm all into the hun and baby and sweetie talk when i know the man and when atleast i have an eye for him. But when a guy says "hey baby" and i don't know him from anywhere, he got on the bad side of me instantly. Do i look like a **** baby? Be mature and...
    Ella06 Ella06
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Feb 11, 2008


    Very few pet names bother me more than being called "baby" by someone I don't know. It just sounds sleazy coming from anyone but my boyfriend. This is usually corrected in a rather catty manner. "I have a name, and it isn't baby. I assure you." Sweetie, honey...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 19, 2008

    Don't Do It Dx

    look people... i dont like being called the following lil mama shortie shawtie mami cutie sexy thickums baby babes kutie kute beautiful munchkin juicy lolipop(<=== eww O.o) darling sweety babycakes and i can go on... -.-.. just dont call me it.. unless...
    MorbidxMalice MorbidxMalice
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Nov 12, 2008
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