I Can't Stand Being Called Pet Names By a Man I Don't Know

this phone conversation just took place between me and an employee of a local restaurant.
him: local restaurant, how can i help you?
me: i'd like to make a to-go order, please.
him: what can i get for you?
me: the two pancakes and...

I love the cute little pet names that a significant other will call me.
When I am dating someone, it takes some time for me to feel comfortable calling them something like "baby" or "hun". Like I need to know that we have reached a...

If I don't know you, please don't come up to me and call me honey or sweetie. I'm sorry sir, but I consider certain pet names too intimate for strangers to use. Watch the pet names or I'll most likely put you in the creepy category.

This is extremely creepy when men I don't even know, and have never seen before in my life, take it upon themselves to call me pet names that are supposed to sound cute, but really creep me out big time. Baby, SweetieHeart, Hon, all of...

Generally, I'm not overly offended by the occasional, well-meaning "honey" or "sweetheart", but when a guy at a bar awhile back referred to me as "Barbie", I almost went nuclear on him.

How insulting!

First off, let me tell you that I am into the bdsm/kink scene. But not in a negative way. I have my own values of how people perceive me, and how I LET others perceive me.

Now that has been said, I will say my story.

As of a few...

I'm kind of a hypocrite, I guess, because I HATE HATE HATE when creepy guys or old people call me pet names, because it's just like, why?! GOD, WHY?!
But I have to say that I like it if it's a nice person. And their...

So I was reading through some of the groups that I had not written stories for and this was one of them. I swear for everything that is holy this is the reason why I won't loose weight. I get hit on ALOT and it's gross and freaks me...

Guys who don't even know me; never met me is calling me pet names like I was dating them for years!
The creepest is when it a guy in  his 50's and up!

It really annoys the hell outta me when I'm called pet names by dudes I dont know. The one that really bothers me is, Sweetheart... I can't stand that. I dont like when anyone calls me that, I dont know why, it just bothers me. But...

Look, i'm all into the hun and baby and sweetie talk when i know the man and when atleast i have an eye for him. But when a guy says "hey baby" and i don't know him from anywhere, he got on the bad side of me instantly. Do i...

Sometimes  when  I  meet  a  man  they  just  act  so  stupid,  I  5  foot   petite   .  WE  will  be  talking  and  next...

Very few pet names bother me more than being called "baby" by someone I don't know. It just sounds sleazy coming from anyone but my boyfriend. This is usually corrected in a rather catty manner. "I have a name, and it isn...

grrr if theres one word that really gets my back up its hun...i hate it, seriously theres nothing worse than being called hun by a complete stranger...I AM NOONES HUN...not now not ever..

when some condescending ass of a man comes in to the office and after assisting them they say "Thank you sweetie" or "Thank you honey"...GRRRRR...I want to give them a sweet kick in the ass and say "You're...

Oh, this really pisses me off! Unless the guy is my lover or best friend, don't call me pet names! Don't call me "sweetie"! I'm not your sweetie! Or sweetheart, or baby, or darling, or any of those things!
And most of all...

When women call me sweetie, honey, sweetheart, ect...I don't feel uncomfortable. I think because women do that to children their entire lives.

Men on the other hand...when they call me those kinds of things, I feel extremely...

look people... i dont like being called the following
lil mama
shortie
shawtie
mami
cutie
sexy
thickums
baby
babes
kutie
kute
beautiful
munchkin
juicy
lolipop(<=== eww O.o)
darling
sweety
babycakes
and i can go on...