I Can't Stand Clingy People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 318 People

    Hate it. There's a difference between being

    their for someone and helping them out and caring for them now and then. Instead of being a clingy beg.
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx
    18-21, F
    Apr 21, 2014

    Boyfriend.

    Boys are not supposed to be clingy. Girls are. Either way, it is annoying as hell. I don't know if it is because I grew up an only child or I enjoy my independence too much, or what...but I can't stand someone always needing another person. For example...my ex-boyfriend. We...
    makemesmile makemesmile
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Apr 2, 2008

    Met quite a few of them here.

    Especially the perverts. You'll be talking just about anything from life to sex and such and suddenly they want to have your number, they talk about marriage (wwwhhhatttt?) and plea for you to call or see them. Had to block a few of them. And no, just because we talked about sex...
    mlisg mlisg
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014

    Difference

    There's a difference between being friendly and being clingy.  If only the line was a bit clearer!
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen
    16-17
    8 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    I Snap At Him Every Day! :/

    My poor colleague, I snap at him every day, but really hear me until the end! I’m really a short tempered person; you will know that from the first day you meet me, so do not provoke me! But it is not that I snap at people because of that, I never do it even if I’m super...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Just. Stop.

    I made a MAJOR mistake by ever even agreeing to this roommate dinner/ambush "blind date". I thought the dude was cool enough the first time around to be friends with, but ever since Sunday night, he and his BFF have been tag-teaming my phone with stupid messages. And they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 13, 2013

    I love my girlfriend.

    .. But god damn, she is way to clingy. I love spending time with her but she needs to back off Somtimes like I need alone time, she just needs to chill, but I'm afraid if she does back off then she will become interested in another guy, with she already is... I think at least
    foursimplewords foursimplewords
    22-25, M
    Dec 1, 2013

    Space Invaders

    Wow! I thought I was the only one who had this issue. I feel better there are other people out there like this. My boy friend thinks I have issues because I get closter fobic when I dont have space from him. I love him and he is the sweetes person. But I have been single going...
    lc1marie lc1marie
    31-35
    Apr 17, 2010

    I stay away from people

    and don't trust much. There have been a few times when people have gotten too attached to me. I like my space, please don't smother me.
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1
    26-30, F
    Jun 19, 2014

    There gets to be a point

    where it is just too much. I seem to have a stage 5 clinger on my hands. He wants to know everything about me, and I barely know anything about him. He wants our schedules to sync up so we can talk all the time. I blocked him, and then he created another account just to keep...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Mar 4

    I'm sorry but no just no.

    I mean stop clinging on to me!! Like those guys keep texting and texting and I'm like woah chill dude..it's ok to textXD but don't overdo it as if ur gonna die if I don't reply:*] #peace?
    Froths Froths
    16-17, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    Sooo, there is this guy.

    He told me he started liking me back in 2013 of OCTOBER.. This boy and I have had a fairly good friendship. I don't like him any more than a friend. He just cannot accept that. He gets so hurt because I don't like him back. I am sorry but, it's not what my heart has. Besides...
    hazellmo0n hazellmo0n
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    So... I talked to my bf about his clingy-ness,

    and the things that I need that I'm not really getting. He said he was willing to work on them, and I told him he has until the end of May before I call it. So we'll see what happens. Do you think that's too much time, after not being happy for months? Or do you think it's fair...
    navygirl00 navygirl00
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2014

    My Boyfriend..

    He is so clingy! He can't go one night without talking to me! And if i don't answer he calls my Mom!! I see him all day then he text me when i get home then he calls and asks if he can come over! I talked to him about this and he said he's just obsessed with me! So i told him he...
    Dirtylaundry16 Dirtylaundry16
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2011

    I hate when people depend on your every moment

    of life so they can feel like they can live theirs. I hate clingy people. Stop using me to fill your insecurities. Be your own person. Ugh!
    Youngandfree90 Youngandfree90
    22-25, F
    Feb 21, 2014

    Dont you just hate it

    when you've told someone to leave you alone and fxck off a dozen times but yet that haven't got the picture and are still talking to you -_-
    LeanMamii LeanMamii
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 13

    Things came to a head this weekend,

    and my boyfriend and I are taking a break this week from Monday to Friday to figure out if we should stay together or not. We're not talking at all, and we'll see what happens
    navygirl00 navygirl00
    18-21, F
    Feb 10, 2014

    My BF and I are on a break

    for two weeks. Then we're going to get back together and see how things go. Ugh.... I'm already resentful. We're simply going to bring to the table what we have to bring, and not ask the other to change. Wish me luck I guess
    navygirl00 navygirl00
    18-21, F
    Feb 21, 2014

    There Is Various Stages Of Clingy

    So anyhow there's a healthy clingy the I honestly love you kind with the will give you some space when ever you want it kind yet can be very affectionate when needed. And then there's the unhealthy kind that is just over the top absurd if your obsessing every min of the day. You...
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112
    41-45, M
    Jan 13, 2013

    Its Just Annoying

    I have noticed in my past relationships i got clingy and obsessive. I let my ex become my entire world. When we finally broke up, I had nothing. No friends and no life outside of him. He didn't approve of male friends out of jealousy and paranoia, even the internet kind that...
    violet1698 violet1698
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

    So basically, I'm totally in this boat right

    now. I started dating this guy about 7 months ago, and it was great. He's wonderful, sweet-hearted, kind, caring, thoughtful, the works. Just one problem... he's freaking clingy! We're both in our early 20s, and I've had my share of relationships. I'm his first girlfriend. He...
    navygirl00 navygirl00
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    I can't stand people always wanting to do

    something with me, or even touching me. I have a kind of phobia of people touching me, and i despise if people do so. Eventually, there are always people wanting to do something with me, clinging to me, like my sister. I get scolded for disliking her, but it's horrible how she...
    pianobookme pianobookme
    16-17, F
    Feb 21, 2014

    New Guy I Met Is Clingy

    i cant stand clingy guys.met this guy 5 weeks ago very nice guy ,he comes over to  my apartment and watch movies and i cook for him,but after 4 weeks he toldme he loves me freakedme out,plus shows unexpectedly,he hasno friends at all,sstill lives with his parents what should...
    sweetharmony sweetharmony
    46-50
    9 Responses May 17, 2009

    If You Want To Push Me Away...

    Then cling to me so tightly that I feel like I cannot breathe. I cannot stand overly clingy people. Anyone that needs to constantly be coddled, and soothed by someone is a burden. It becomes all consuming and tiring after a while. That's why I can't deal with people like that...
    explainit2me explainit2me
    26-30, F
    Jun 29, 2012

    My life doesn't revolve around EP I have a job,

    I have family, I have friends. So please, need time some of you get pissy at me for not answering you for a day or two, remember this. Also if you message me asking for a relationship right away, obviously I'm going to say no! Xx
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2014

    Wow. Yeah.

    I agree 100 percent. When people are too clingy, its annoying and just bleh. Like, its a huge turn-off. I am trying to do my own thing, have my time, and Im constantly getting texts, "hey(:" "How are you?" "What are you doing?" Just saying.
    emjmbmb emjmbmb
    13-15, M
    Mar 15, 2011

    My problem is that I tend to be too nice

    sometimes. If someone is nice to me, then I'm the same way. This girl at my school has a big crush on me. My friends see it's obvious also and they crack a bunch of jokes when the poor girl isn't there. She's a very sweet person and I actually do enjoy talking to her, calm...
    RoastedCycki RoastedCycki
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    Dang....give Me Some Space.

    I can not stand when people are too clingy.  Being like that only makes you want to be with someone else, and it just messes up the relationship.  One time I invited this guy over that liked me to watch a movie, and every time I got up, I noticed that he would...
    T26 T26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2008

    Can't You See That You're Smothering Me?

    I am so glad to read this happens to other chicks! I started seeing this guy in September and was psyched at first. I He was hot - masculine, tan and muscular and I was immediately attracted to him. Well hotness only goes so far! He lives two and a half hours away but started...
    gruuvygirl gruuvygirl
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 6, 2012
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