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I Can't Stand Judgmental People

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    All My Life

    seriously, i have been judged all my life. from the clothes i wear, the friends i have and the music i listen to. its always something to see when i prove them wrong though. ill help anybody, i care for people, so this old women was checking me out at the cracker barrel, she...
    supermist supermist 46-50, M Nov 23, 2011

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    N0 EP YOU ARE WRONG! The Freedom To Judge Others?

    How can you allow other users to judge us w/out us being able to defend ourselves? Who says we are violators? What gives anyone the right to decide who's thoughts are a violation of anything? I only had one problem in here thus far & I am no trouble maker nor am I one to be...
    UrNancealot UrNancealot 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Judgmental and Uninformed

    A friend took it upon herself to circulate a "self-help" related email that contained a lot of thinly veiled relationship advice that I felt was directed towards me.   However, I hadn't even spoken with her in several weeks.    In essence, she...
    WhoSays WhoSays 31-35 May 4, 2009

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    "I Can't Stand Judgmental People"

    I was raised by a very judgmental mother,she had something bad to say about everyone.When you grow up like this,you start acting like this,I was becoming my mom.Once I moved out on my own,I started noticing my friends and how they acted towards other people and well they were...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Come On Man!

    Really? You are so perfect and self righteous that you think it's somehow okay to judge others? I would hate being you, I really would.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 26, 2011

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    If You're Offended By My Deviant Nature ...

    Why are people such douche-bags?  If you don't like a story I've written, DON'T ******* READ IT!!  Surely you can tell within the first several lines whether you will be offended by it or not.  So walk away.  Click the "back" button or something.  But...
    frozencharlotte frozencharlotte 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2010

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    Dont Judge Me Ml

    my mother in law is fast to judge like shes judged me i dont think she will ever eccept me as her sons wife she just wont give me chance its sad i had hoped we could have a great relationship but lets get real she dont eccept me becalse iam nothing like her daughter or...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    Know Your Facts Before Judging!!!

    My brother... I love him to bits and pieces, but sometimes he can be such a jerk!!! He claims to be open-minded and accepting of other's differences. He's right and everyone else is wrong. His opinion is the only one that matters..... Just makes me want to scream. >_<...
    WinterEvolett WinterEvolett 18-21, T 4 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Just For Thouse Who Try To Judge Me

    i posted a new video on my profile for them,   but i wanted to share it with the rest of like minded people.. sure, it may not be your taste in music but you have to admit, the lyrics are awesome.                  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5BAFLxrLAY 
    supermist supermist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    Judgemental People...............

    Need to mind their own business. "People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!"
    JojoWazoo JojoWazoo 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    If you think that because its not happening to you its not your problem, then I can't relate to you. I can't relate to 90% of the human race. Source of statistic my ***.
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    NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU DO AND DON'T BELIEVE IN c:
    gorgeoushobo gorgeoushobo 16-17, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I've posted this elsewhere, multiple times... didn't get much in the way of insight; so I'm posting it here. I just started working at this really small shop about a month or so...
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    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response Aug 5

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