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I Can't Stand My Brother In Law

This is for people who are burdened with disgust and hate toward someone that thier spouse (or SO) are related to. Here is a place you can rant and rave your sorrowful heart out. Get mad here. It's OK 72 People

    He's Such An A**hole

    every thing he does irritates me. If something is sitting on the coffee table unattended and someone is still using it, he just picks it up and throws it away or puts it somewhere without asking anyone if belongs to them. He doesnt even fcking care. This morning I left a bottle...
    starsfall32 starsfall32 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2012

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    Lazy And Useless

    His parents don't have enough money at month end to eat. Yet BIL goes out with the girlfriend every weekend for concert and drinks.
    mnawabi mnawabi 36-40, F Sep 13, 2013

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    My Bil Pees On The Floor!!!

    Another deadbeat: BIL is 31 years old doesn't drive or own a car, his brother and father drive him around. He does work ( family business) never had a job/boss that wasn't his dad so lets face it, he doesn't know the real world. He spends all his money on $200 Nike's, alcohol...
    greeneyesthatsatisfy greeneyesthatsatisfy 31-35 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Just Saying

    Sometimes, he deserves the karma I make for him. I may go a little overboard, but he deserves it none the less. And he wonders why bad things happen to only him and not my sister. Im surprised he hasnt asked me or blamed anything on me yet, but he derserved everything hes gotten...
    starsfall32 starsfall32 18-21, F Nov 11, 2012

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    Stupid Idiot

    Well I really can't stand my BIL he is so ignorant. He calls and comes over unannounced and even stays if his brother is not home. He steals, provokes arguments and even torments my kids, he even gossips like a girl. Help what should I do because my husband can't speak up for...
    dinkydoo320 dinkydoo320 41-45 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    Can't Get Him To Move Out

    I am in a situation where I have been forced to live with my brother in law because my in-laws will not leave his house. Before I met my partner he and his brother decided that they would live together and allow their parents to live in the brothers house, while they lived in my...
    KDR34 KDR34 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2013

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    He lives through his Facebook.

    He actually believes the 400+ girls he's "friends" with on there are truly into him.. He was bragging to somebody the other day about how he's talking with this hot girl..but not in real life! Ugh and I just found out he's posting pics of my baby and saying it's his! He's so...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    A Lazy Poser....

    Well...I shall begin telling you that I married almost two years now. By the time of my wedding, my BIL has already been a month out of work. He got laid off because he decided he wanted that the severance money was better than holding a decent paying job in an international...
    aseregon aseregon 31-35 2 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    30yo Brother-in-law Still Lives With Us...

    My wife's brother moved in with us several years ago when he separated from his wife. I got a job in another state and was free of him for a year but he got in trouble with the law (dwi) and needed to move away from his "friends". We allowed him to move back in 3 years ago and...
    Stickaforkinmeimdone Stickaforkinmeimdone 41-45 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    Alone For The Holidays!

    So here I am, alone for Xmas and the five days surrounding. I couldn't get off of work enough, and also I have to stay home to watch my boyfriend's brother's dog for him for free. I live with my boyfriend, and his older brother is so dependent on him it's unnerving. My boyfriend...
    Mackaboo Mackaboo 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    Sociopath Bil

    my brother-in-law is the most awful person. he has never been formally diagnosed, but i am one hundred percent certain he is a sociopath. he fits EVERY single description. he manipulates every one around him, refuses to admit his wrong-doings, has a son he doesnt take care of...
    jussicahh jussicahh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2011

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    1 Year

    My BIL came to Australia 3 years after we moved here. We decided that he should stayed with us. At the beginning was difficult (getting used to a new person in the house). He is not very helpful and he doesn't care about anything of the house, apart from giving money for the rent...
    1year 1year 26-30 2 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    I Hate Him Because He Treat Me Like Crap.

    He is my sister's husband. And for some reason he hates me. I have no idea why, I haven't done anything bad or said anything bad about him at all. I always try to be positive and friendly. So everytime I see him I say:Hi or Hello! But pretens that nothing happened. It's so...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    He Is Just Freakin Annoying

    First i didnt think the guy was so freakin childish. The beast moved in with us just because he and my baby are best friend and thats his brother. He drives my crazy with his wwe,video games, and he always talking about how girls play him . For god sake he's 22 years old 6'1 tall...
    gettosmash212 gettosmash212 18-21 1 Response Mar 25, 2009

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    I can't stand my brother-in-law

    because he's always around. If he could just go away I wouldn't have to hate him so much.
    MissNiss MissNiss 26-30, F Mar 1

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    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F Mar 3

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    He's Really My Arch Nemesis

    I don't even know where to begin because of the plethora of emotions that are surronding my mind right now.  All of I know is that I will be keeping this fairly short as this is my very first story.  My sister has been with my brother in law for a little over 6 years now and...
    stylishprincess100 stylishprincess100 26-30 1 Response Mar 5, 2012

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    My Brother In Law, Why Can't He Just Go Away!

    My brother in law hates me, i've never done anything to him. He is single, 28 years old, no job, no car, 2 kids (no custody). He always comes over to my house when i'm not home and eats my food, and uses my cable (my husband is there). He calls my husband 8+ times a day to come...
    ilovemyboys2011 ilovemyboys2011 22-25 1 Response Aug 31, 2011

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    My brother in law seems to have no problem

    taking advantage of my wife and I. We took him, and his girlfriend (with their baby), in when they were having hard times. The idea was for us to provide a shoulder to lean on while he goes to school to better himself and get setup and mature. We took on extra obligations to...
    TheAmericanDream TheAmericanDream 22-25, M Dec 23, 2013

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    I don't know what to feel right

    now I am so angry so creeped out so UGH annoyed. I'm gritting my teeth and my heart is beating fast I want to scream.. I'm not on Facebook but my hubs fb was up on the computer and I sat down and saw a pic of our baby posted by his brother. Ok. Fine. The caption said "my...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 3 Responses May 26

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    I Cant Stand My Boyfriend's Brother, What Should I Do?

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we live together and we get along great and love each other very much but the problem is his younger brother. He is extremely self centered and really just a complete loser. He lives alone in their moms garage which is...
    esteel esteel 22-25 5 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    A Real Big Burden

    My sister hand her husband's been married for about 10 years I think and I've tried so long to get along with him but it's very hard. Everytime you think you are making progress he does something to make you mad and your back at square one. What I don't like about him is very...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Sep 23, 2011

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    I Can't Take It Anymore!!!

    Let me tell you a bit about my BIL, "Ronnie." He is a year older than me (which makes him almost 35) and a little over a year ago realized his "dream" of joining the Army. Incidentally, the reason the military never accepted him before is that he is overweight...
    sickofitallforreal sickofitallforreal 31-35 2 Responses May 31, 2009

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    Just So You Know -

    Let me get this out first - most of you may relate: In case you are wondering, let me finally put your mind at ease - I have found the only person ever alive that has ever EVER, gone to college, gotten married, had a baby and a job. You can stop looking now. It is my brother in...
    liljayhawk liljayhawk 41-45 2 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Understand...

    Almost a year ago, my husband decided to let his younger brother (age 22 at the time) move in with us because he was in a bit of trouble back home.  At first, I wasn't 100% in this event taking place as we were just about to move out on our own for the first time in our 3...
    FeelingAlienated FeelingAlienated 22-25 6 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    insufferable arrogant know it all.

    I think it has something to do with his nationality as well. ***** is a manipulative ******* and is turning my sister against us. and my sister is being pulled in. sigh I just wish I could have a stable income and get out of their household and never look back
    Efoile Efoile 22-25, M Nov 30

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    Not Even My Brother In Law.

    My older sister has been with him for like 10 years now. To the rest of my sisters hes like an older brother because hes so kind, has manners, and all that. But now that Ive been living with him and my older sis for two years now, hes soo different than what he used to be. hes...
    starsfall32 starsfall32 18-21, F Oct 2, 2012

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    My Brother In Law, The Dead-Beat Burnout.

    I can say the biggest emotion I have towards my brother law is pity: because of the pathetic, brain-dead unemployed mess that he is. That and fear, because I know that eventually he will wind up as a burden on my family, when my Wife and I have no choice to take him in. In his...
    dukeofurl dukeofurl 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    Overstepping His Bounds!

    Alright I first want to get off my chest... I HATE MY BROTHER IN LAW! He is an aggrogrant *** that ALWAYS THINKS he is right. It all started probably in 2002. My husband's brother desided to stop talking to my husband and to myself because he didn't...
    kab82 kab82 26-30 5 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    He Won't Go Away!

    My husband's brother, my brother in law (BIL) won't go away! When I met my husband, he and his brother both moved in with me. My husband and I fell in love and planned to marry. We moved to a bigger house and the BIL came with us. The arrangement was that he would leave after a...
    dbeauty dbeauty 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Always At Our House

    Our weekends are spent with my BIL.  I don't hate him but I do resent him.  He arrives either Friday night or Saturday at some point and then stays through Sunday evening.  We never have our weekends to ourselves.  I think it's rude that he never gives us...
    madmoney madmoney 36-40, F Jan 24, 2010

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    So Frustrated

    so I can not stand my soon to be brother in law and his wife! they are so over bearing and have a hard time keeping some suggestions inside their head! my fiance and I have been together for three years and are very happy together! We...
    frustrated6 frustrated6 22-25, F Sep 1, 2013

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    Brother-in-law For Sale, Cheap

    This holiday season, I'm offering up a brother-in-law for that Special someone. Everytime he comes over for a visit, I have to make sure I don't have an international t-shirt on and change if I do. He goes absolutely crazy when he sees one. Then, I have to hide my checkbook, keys...
    darkalley darkalley 56-60, M Dec 20, 2012

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    My BIL is truly a piece of work.

    He thinks because he's Ivy League trained, he's above everyone. He (and my MIL) have no respect for people- they say whatever they want without filter and then just laugh it off. But he was far away for a while... But after failure to hold down a job in one place without...
    UpsetNAlone UpsetNAlone 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I'm sorry it's long I know.

    He has nobody except me and my husband because he is too arrogant to have any friends nobody wants to be around him. The only reason he keeps a job is because my husband hired him when he got fired from every other job he's had due to his arrogant attitude. He is a leech and...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 26

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