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I Cant Stand My Dad

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    If This Man...

    if this man died, most of my problems would be solved. I hate him more than i can explain. He has done nothing but hurt me over and over. I wish I could forget him. I can't wait till he does die, than he can't hurt me anymore.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    I haven't seen my dad in 6 years,

    and when I was a baby he would beat my mom when or when she was not holding me .also my sisters dad would beat my mom in front of me when I was 7 and both of my dads are always in jail.i always say to mysel that I am better without them and I am
    Butterballduck Butterballduck 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I Just Need To Let It Out

    I don't usually tell anyone anything. I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to at all. I definitely won't talk to my parents because they don't seem to care enough, and that's the problem. My dad is a complete jerk and I don't know why my mom ever married him. He constantly...
    pathetictroll pathetictroll 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2012

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    Cant Wait To Live On My Own Without My Dad.

    Hey, i'm 20 year old and i ******* hate my dad, yes he has BPD , but ofc he wont even realise that, he used to beat the **** out of me , yell at me, manipulate me, insult me,  i would get beaten just because i didnt understand my homework, dude, you cant beat up your 8 years...
    never90 never90 18-21 2 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    My dad is a mama's boy.

    My grandma is 93 years old. He picks her up from my aunt's house everyday so that she won't be alone. He cooks and looks after her everyday. In midst of this, he fails to love me. It became evident he doesn't care about me. Every time I bring food home, he immediately gives it...
    jjyc028 jjyc028 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's a "Love/hate" Relationship.

    There are times where he ****** me off so much, like how he doesn't really take any interest in my affairs - school, life, work.  My mom and dad are divorced so my siblings and I go out to eat with my dad every Wednesday, and my sister and I are always left to have our own...
    Jaggie Jaggie 22-25 Sep 28, 2007

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    Sort of

    well, i have this splitting thing going on right now.  i both love him and hate him.  he's done some pretty rotten things, things that i feel rage about if i let it bubble up.  but i also think he's a person worth knowing.  my very first memory, in fact, is of...
    pandora1999 pandora1999 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2007

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    My dad is a Christian.

    I have to pretend I'm one two even though if you ask me the devil sounds better if that stuff were real. Btw I'm an atheist.
    epicmonk3ydude epicmonk3ydude 18-21, M Mar 17

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    He Is Everything I Hate About Myself ...

     If my father was just another guy and not related to me ... If he didn't expect me to be his daughter and act like one ... then we would be okay. I wouldn't respect him, he would still be a little annoying, I would still think that he had been an ******* in the past but I'd...
    Morgaine1708 Morgaine1708 18-21, F Nov 16, 2008

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    Sometimes He Makes My Blood Bo...

    Sometimes he makes my blood boil, other times I wonder what I would do if he wasnt there!
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet 26-30, F Jun 18, 2007

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    He Is Vile.

    I literally cannot stand my dad. He is vile, arrogant, irresponsible, selfish, careless, a scrounger, a waste of space, control freak, abusive, responsible for the death of my mother, could not be bothered to take care of me when i was small because my mother was far too ill to...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Sometimes, Everyone Thinks Dad Is A Pain

    Well, yeah I love my Dad. I honor and love him a lot. He's right behind me right now, sitting in front of the warm fireplace and holding the TV remote. I sometimes really love my Dad a lot, when I was a really little kid I used to imagine that he was a big grizzly bear (it helps...
    iEatFood iEatFood 13-15 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Well, I Love the Guy But We Re...

    Well, I love the guy but we really don't get along too well.  He is a very conservative republican type and I am not.  We never discuss anything of importance b/c it will turn into an argument.  I always avoid conversations with him unless they are about the...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2007

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    My Dad Is Unable To Relate To Me

    so my dad has always bought me everything i want...but recently i got suspended from school and now he hates me. he will talk to my brother and my mom and then just ignore me like im invisible. than i ask him to go on a SCHOOL field trip and it becomes a whole big deal. he says...
    laylasmith1410 laylasmith1410 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    A Look In His Eyes and All My Hate Is Back Again..

    I really begin to think he's not that bad after some days in which he hasn't drunk (well at least not until being drunk.. cause he doesn't drink anything except alcohol (no water or something)) But then he begins to drink again and his eyes begin to be that yellow again and you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 2, 2007

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    Hideous

    My father is so horrid. My mom has found things to suggest cheating, some very plausible(texts on his phone and pics etc) And he won't admit it And my poor mom really wants to believe he didn't do this So she keeps holding onto him But even if that's not bad enough, He doesn't...
    Mtb337 Mtb337 16-17 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    Three Years of Hate That Will Never Stop

    He cheated on us. Not just my mom but both my brother and I also. I'll never forget the sound of my mom crying the night that she found out. I'll never forget how easy it was for him to go on vacation with his new family while I was sitting at home, in pain, after my surgury. Or...
    Anndei Anndei 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    I Really Hate Him

    He used to be a great dad...once! Now everytime he talks to me, he makes me feel like a f******* failure. He constanly has a bloody anger issue and shouts at me for the most insignificant things which just makes me feel like s***. All he cares about is my grades and looking like...
    pissedoffperson pissedoffperson 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    He Is An Alcoholic and He&#...

    He is an alcoholic and he's abusive. That's all I care to say about it right now.
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F Aug 10, 2007

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    Without a Doubt...

    I believe it is officially impossible to have a healthy relationship with my dad. I didn’t always feel this way, but the older I got the more I realized that he would never change. He would never devote himself to being a better person. Not even for his own sake...
    MeridianSplendor MeridianSplendor 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 26, 2008

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    Only Cares About Her.

    My dad has been in a relationship with a skanky, good for nothing, disgusting, piece of ****, **** for the past six years. He has put all of his kids, me and the FOUR they've had, on the back burner to die.  He doesn't care about us AT ALL.  First, when he...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    A Bully Who Loves To Upset And Frighten Me

    Ever since, I was a child I was exposed to my father's uncouth behavior. He would grab each of my siblings and I - pin us down, and bite our bums. It may sound odd to make such a statement, but as a five year old child I was afraid of my father; I had his teeth marks on my rear...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    I Hate You Dad!!!

     I hate you Cause you make me cry I hate you And I want you To die I hate you And I have no clue When u r around I don’t know what to do I hate you Cause you’re a jackass And i think you see I expect you every time Saying boo Now I’m afraid I have to pee...
    RehamGhorayeb RehamGhorayeb 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2010

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    He's A Hypocrite, Was Violent And Still Is Verbally Abusive

    When i was very young my father used to be very loving, i remember kissing him goodbye on his cheek before he went to work. However, his anger issues started to surface when i got older- he would quarrel with my mother more and more frequently and eventually also beating her. I...
    waynewx waynewx 18-21 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    I Can't

    I can't stand my dad at all. I haven't seen, talked, or heard of him in such a long time. I don't really care about him, and he doesn't care about me. I hope to god I never see him ever again.
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2009

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    Making Our Own Family Connections

    I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me. I never had much of a family or was stable enough when I was younger to maintain healthy relationships however over time I have been...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F Nov 4, 2013

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    He always takes money away from me

    and always leaves me broke. Man what the hell?!
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Why Can't He Think Before Opening His Mouth?!?!

    Okay... I DO love my dad, he lets me get away with murder, and he is generally a nice guy... but there are times he can be so TACTLESS and cruel, its beginning to really get to me...   All he ever tells me is how much my breath stinks, and how I have REALLY bad B...
    LaneyAngel LaneyAngel 26-30, F 4 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Just Cant Stand Him!

    i really cant stand my dad, i dont get on with him at all, i dont talk to him, i dont stay in the same room as him for longer than 5 minutes and we cant keep a conversation up past hi and buy. i still have to live with him, unfotunatly him and my mum are still together, no mater...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    He Made It This Way

    When I was younger it used to bother me that all of my friends had their fathers around them constantly, even if their parents were not together.  I never understood how anyone could treat a child the way he has treated me.  Since I can remember he has made false...
    cclovesjj cclovesjj 16-18, F Oct 7, 2007

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    A Battle of Epic Porportions

    I wish I could say  it wasnt always liek this, but truth is it always has been like this. I suppose when I was a child and didnt know any better, I wanted to be a good daughter and spend time with my workoholic father. My dad worked alot when I was growing up, he works in...
    cherryalakei cherryalakei 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2009

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    Ugh!

     Well I'm sure many people have it a lot worse-off than me, but I still can't stand my dad sometimes. One day he'll be all "I'm so proud of you" the next day I'm about to walk out the door in my chorus dress for a concert & he asks where I'm going when I've...
    jenaboo jenaboo 16-17, F Mar 31, 2008

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    Dear God!

    I am I the only adult male who wants (sometimes) to knock his dad right the hell out? He raised me as a single dad, and did as well as you could expect from a jerkoff like him. (see I had a Dad but I didn't group). He understands nothing. Critiques everything, which is funny...
    EricS EricS 26-30, M 4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    All That Hate I Feel For Him Is Still There

    I feel so full of emotions i feel i cant get out another way but to write and let people know who have gone through the same things, Ive been reading some other stories and i think most are little rich kids who hate their dads because they block **** on their computers when i was...
    SimplyMe2 SimplyMe2 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    A**hole

    I will say this VERY grudgingly: My dad has his good points, as well as anyone and myself.  He will help you out and one of his qualities that always oversteps the line is his overwhelming wllingness to share his knowledge. His overinflated ego and severe lack of accepting...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F May 30, 2009

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    What Could Have Been

    My father has always been a raging, authoritarian, angry man. He was strict, harsh, and demanding. He didn't play, laugh, or smile. And he didn't know how to love his children. I was born a sensitive, timid child. So you can only imagine what effect a father like mine would have...
    infinitedreamer infinitedreamer 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Hate Him So Much

    growing up he was hardly around,always working and that meant i never really knew him. then my parents divorced. i live with him and for various reasons even though i love my mum so much i know i shouldn't go back to her-i don't let it be an option. He's always so angry,mostly...
    ineedsomeonetolisten ineedsomeonetolisten 16-17 4 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    I am 3 weeks away from my wedding and the whole experience has been so horrible I have fallen out of love. The only feelings I have for him right now are hatred, annoyance and...
    acisin acisin 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Uhg, it's like they expect me to be clueless about everything even when I'm the one who would bring up the idea. Like today, my dog spilt her food all on the floor And so I pushed...
    bethepea bethepea 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    like its so ******* creepy, when a guy thats old enough to be my dad to be trying to talk to me, it disturbs me. like seriously stop being a P-E-D-O-P-H-I-L-E!
    pudgyXadorable pudgyXadorable 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    My mum is the type of mum where if I say "can you pick me up some ____?" she'll get it. But the moment I say "Mum, I need you." , "Mum, I'm not feeling good." , "Mum, I need your...
    jheyjuneice jheyjuneice 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I can't stand twerking nor the t-shirts with this word written on it either. It's embarrassing.
    Andreawantstodie Andreawantstodie 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Happy Easter. I woke up to watch my siblings open their Easter baskets, and now I'm headed back to bed. When I'm asleep is the only time I'm not crying. I hate crying. Especially...
    kashleym kashleym 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    I dont understand why ppl feel the need to be fake...is their anyone real on earth? Or is everyone playing childish games?
    artloverbri artloverbri 22-25 Mar 21

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    My wife and I are just over a year of marrage, and i am sick of the way she treats me. I work so hard, i have a 48-hour weekly schedule. She thinks she can tell me what to/to not...
    MiserableandAbused MiserableandAbused 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Pathetic. That's all I have to say lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm beginning to question just how many of my 'friends' on here that I talk to are actually real. I mean understand fake username, perhaps fake photo or no photo but what i'm...
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 10 Responses Mar 24

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    Why are looks more important than the real person in the inside?
    Littlemonster77777 Littlemonster77777 13-15, F Mar 30

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    We all judge. You can't help it! As soon as you see someone you make assumptions based on how they look or sound or what they're doing. That's human nature.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    I can't help my partner. He's always so depressed and i feel there is nothing i can do to help him. He wont even talk to me anymore.
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Ya whether it's an adult, a teen or just a lil kid. It makes me feel like they're helpless and I need to go up to them and offer what I can whether I know them or not. I don't...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I always feel that if I can help I should and if you cry you just need someone there to make sure you don't end up a sobbing mess on the floor
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Yes I make bad choices in my life I regret some I made good choices too I love god and I am not as bad as some people act like I am
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    *cough* my boyfriends mom *cough* She knows nothing about me, and still judges me. Ugh.
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I think it's slutty and not lady like.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5