I Cant Stand My Dad

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    My Dad Is Unable To Relate To Me

    so my dad has always bought me everything i want...but recently i got suspended from school and now he hates me. he will talk to my brother and my mom and then just ignore me like im invisible. than i ask him to go on a SCHOOL field trip and it becomes a whole big deal. he says...
    laylasmith1410 laylasmith1410
    1 Response Apr 18, 2011

    A Battle of Epic Porportions

    I wish I could say  it wasnt always liek this, but truth is it always has been like this. I suppose when I was a child and didnt know any better, I wanted to be a good daughter and spend time with my workoholic father. My dad worked alot when I was growing up, he works in...
    cherryalakei cherryalakei
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2009

    He Doesnt Even Care..

    Well here it goes.. Ive never really told anyone this well because I try and act like it doesnt bother me and that Im not hurting inside. I dont want people to know that Im weak. I want them to look at me as a person that upholds herself and doesnt let stupid things bring her...
    deleted deleted
    May 10, 2011

    Cant Wait To Live On My Own Without My Dad.

    Hey, i'm 20 year old and i ******* hate my dad, yes he has BPD , but ofc he wont even realise that, he used to beat the **** out of me , yell at me, manipulate me, insult me,  i would get beaten just because i didnt understand my homework, dude, you cant beat up your 8 years...
    never90 never90
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2010

    Three Years of Hate That Will Never Stop

    He cheated on us. Not just my mom but both my brother and I also. I'll never forget the sound of my mom crying the night that she found out. I'll never forget how easy it was for him to go on vacation with his new family while I was sitting at home, in pain, after my surgury. Or...
    Anndei Anndei
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2007

    He Is Vile.

    I literally cannot stand my dad. He is vile, arrogant, irresponsible, selfish, careless, a scrounger, a waste of space, control freak, abusive, responsible for the death of my mother, could not be bothered to take care of me when i was small because my mother was far too ill to...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    My dad is a liar! I can't believe him

    and trust him anymore!!!! He always promises us and doesn't keep his promises I hate that!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015


    My father is so horrid. My mom has found things to suggest cheating, some very plausible(texts on his phone and pics etc) And he won't admit it And my poor mom really wants to believe he didn't do this So she keeps holding onto him But even if that's not bad enough, He doesn't...
    Mtb337 Mtb337
    1 Response Sep 2, 2011

    Making Our Own Family Connections

    I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me. I never had much of a family or was stable enough when I was younger to maintain healthy relationships however over time I have been...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector
    36-40, F
    Nov 4, 2013

    My dad is blaming me

    for something I didn't do and I'm ready to show him how mad I am at him.
    Caroline9852 Caroline9852
    16-17, T
    1 Response Aug 22, 2015
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890
    26-30, M
    Feb 19

    I haven't seen my dad in 6 years,

    and when I was a baby he would beat my mom when or when she was not holding me .also my sisters dad would beat my mom in front of me when I was 7 and both of my dads are always in jail.i always say to mysel that I am better without them and I am
    Butterballduck Butterballduck
    16-17, F
    Mar 22, 2014

    My List.

    Never been there for me other than to make me miserable. A drunkard. Crackard. *Made that one up* And Of corse you had to marry a *****. Divorce sweet ol mom then marry a snotty bitchy annoying liar. Wtf is wrong with you?! * Throws dart at picture of you and her* I mean really...
    Emoskittlezrockz Emoskittlezrockz
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 23, 2011

    I love him but oh my god I can get rid of him

    in a heart beat. He wants to take my engagement ring and sell it. Like seriously no!! It's mine and it means a lot to me.
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2014

    All That Hate I Feel For Him Is Still There

    I feel so full of emotions i feel i cant get out another way but to write and let people know who have gone through the same things, Ive been reading some other stories and i think most are little rich kids who hate their dads because they block **** on their computers when i was...
    SimplyMe2 SimplyMe2
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    I Just Need To Let It Out

    I don't usually tell anyone anything. I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to at all. I definitely won't talk to my parents because they don't seem to care enough, and that's the problem. My dad is a complete jerk and I don't know why my mom ever married him. He constantly...
    pathetictroll pathetictroll
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    Sometimes He Makes My Blood Bo...

    Sometimes he makes my blood boil, other times I wonder what I would do if he wasnt there!
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet
    26-30, F
    Jun 18, 2007

    It's a "Love/hate" Relationship.

    There are times where he ****** me off so much, like how he doesn't really take any interest in my affairs - school, life, work.  My mom and dad are divorced so my siblings and I go out to eat with my dad every Wednesday, and my sister and I are always left to have our own...
    Jaggie Jaggie
    Sep 28, 2007

    Without a Doubt...

    I believe it is officially impossible to have a healthy relationship with my dad. I didn’t always feel this way, but the older I got the more I realized that he would never change. He would never devote himself to being a better person. Not even for his own sake...
    MeridianSplendor MeridianSplendor
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 26, 2008

    Well I just got in another fight with my dad

    over something so stupid like usual. He asked me something and I said what because I couldn't hear him and he said nvm really hateful. So all I said was I'm not In the mood then he starts yelling at me.. I'm tired of not having a normal dad he acts like an angry drunk but minus...
    nikkileigh21 nikkileigh21
    16-17, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    Do you ever have that father figure in your life

    that never takes no for an answer? It's like I don't even have a choice. For example he asks me: Hey what's up! You're going to Atlanta with me and I'm buying your plane ticket! Me: What if I don't want to go? Dad: Why not? Me: ...... No comment. See he never takes no for...
    SuckerPunch35 SuckerPunch35
    16-17, F
    Apr 3

    So we're on vacation in Cincinnati,

    visiting distant family and whatnot. He gets upset because I listen to music too much, and that I'm antisocial, he says its "disrespectful". He also said to me that I make him and his family look like a bunch of queers because I wanted to sit in the rain and enjoy it. I mean...
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    Actually he's my step dad

    but he's been around since I was four. Today I decided the only good thing about this man is he took care of my mother after her divorce from my father. I can't stand who he is and how he acts. I don't get why my mother loves him. He makes thugs tense and is always tense. He...
    babybop12 babybop12
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2014

    If This Man...

    if this man died, most of my problems would be solved. I hate him more than i can explain. He has done nothing but hurt me over and over. I wish I could forget him. I can't wait till he does die, than he can't hurt me anymore.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

    I hate my dad so much right

    now that I want to cry. We got invited out of town to a family friend's son wedding so we got all the bags packed and five minutes before leaving my dad said we weren't going anymore uuuugggghhhh. What makes it more embarrassing is that his friend had already paid for the hotel...
    oohlalaglitter oohlalaglitter
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    I hate that my Dad flirts with me more then he

    acts like a Dad to me. Feeling very uncomfortable around him lately.
    KylieKestnerx KylieKestnerx
    16-17, F
    6 Responses May 21, 2014


     Well I'm sure many people have it a lot worse-off than me, but I still can't stand my dad sometimes. One day he'll be all "I'm so proud of you" the next day I'm about to walk out the door in my chorus dress for a concert & he asks where I'm going when I've...
    jenaboo jenaboo
    16-17, F
    Mar 31, 2008

    My dad is a prev . One time I just came home

    and he made me lay on the ground and he sat on me and I was shouting and screaming but he just jumped and jumped on me and two of my shirt's buttons opened and I was trying to get out to my room but I was too weak . My dad treats us like **** all what he do is give us money and...
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    My father is disgusting.

    I am thankful that he's not abusive and does well at his job and pays for food and shelter and a nice life etc but he has absolutely no manners and for some reason he loves making others feel bad, especially me. He is disgusting because he always smells horrible (I don't think...
    pretendingagain pretendingagain
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2014

    Dear God!

    I am I the only adult male who wants (sometimes) to knock his dad right the hell out? He raised me as a single dad, and did as well as you could expect from a jerkoff like him. (see I had a Dad but I didn't group). He understands nothing. Critiques everything, which is funny...
    EricS EricS
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    Just Cant Stand Him!

    i really cant stand my dad, i dont get on with him at all, i dont talk to him, i dont stay in the same room as him for longer than 5 minutes and we cant keep a conversation up past hi and buy. i still have to live with him, unfotunatly him and my mum are still together, no mater...
    sezy sezy
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2007

    Why Can't He Think Before Opening His Mouth?!?!

    Okay... I DO love my dad, he lets me get away with murder, and he is generally a nice guy... but there are times he can be so TACTLESS and cruel, its beginning to really get to me...   All he ever tells me is how much my breath stinks, and how I have REALLY bad B...
    LaneyAngel LaneyAngel
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2009

    I Can't

    I can't stand my dad at all. I haven't seen, talked, or heard of him in such a long time. I don't really care about him, and he doesn't care about me. I hope to god I never see him ever again.
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2009

    My dad seems to be a really nice guy!

    ! But he's really not. He's abusive to my mother! He makes her feel like the worst person in the world. She was the salutatorian of her high school class and had a 30 on the ACT and she still thinks she's stupid..because he says so. He makes the most rediculous rules. Ugh
    mywhol3world mywhol3world
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2014

    Sometimes I just can't.

    The way he stares at me- sometimes I think he's a perv.. The way he touches my little sister too...*shudders*
    deleted deleted
    Oct 27, 2015

    A Bully Who Loves To Upset And Frighten Me

    Ever since, I was a child I was exposed to my father's uncouth behavior. He would grab each of my siblings and I - pin us down, and bite our bums. It may sound odd to make such a statement, but as a five year old child I was afraid of my father; I had his teeth marks on my rear...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Aug 6, 2011

    This may turn into a rant.

    For my whole life, my dad hasn't been there like other dads to their daughters. My dad would always get drunk or just not care about his family. I don't get along with my dad whatsoever because we just clash. He always says something that would put me over the edge. I have even...
    CrypticIris CrypticIris
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 8, 2014

    My dad is a Christian.

    I have to pretend I'm one two even though if you ask me the devil sounds better if that stuff were real. Btw I'm an atheist.
    epicmonk3ydude epicmonk3ydude
    18-21, M
    Mar 17, 2014

    I was feeling so relaxed

    and loving that the house was finally quiet. My dad always sucks out my good energy the second he's in the same room as me. It's awful, he's just so disgusting and loud. Totally killed my mood. I love it when he's at work, I feel like the negative energy goes away with him
    bribri590 bribri590
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    My dad is a mama's boy.

    My grandma is 93 years old. He picks her up from my aunt's house everyday so that she won't be alone. He cooks and looks after her everyday. In midst of this, he fails to love me. It became evident he doesn't care about me. Every time I bring food home, he immediately gives it...
    jjyc028 jjyc028
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    Hate Him So Much

    growing up he was hardly around,always working and that meant i never really knew him. then my parents divorced. i live with him and for various reasons even though i love my mum so much i know i shouldn't go back to her-i don't let it be an option. He's always so angry,mostly...
    ineedsomeonetolisten ineedsomeonetolisten
    4 Responses Apr 22, 2011

    He's A Hypocrite, Was Violent And Still Is Verbally Abusive

    When i was very young my father used to be very loving, i remember kissing him goodbye on his cheek before he went to work. However, his anger issues started to surface when i got older- he would quarrel with my mother more and more frequently and eventually also beating her. I...
    waynewx waynewx
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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