I Can't Stand My Husband

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    Work At Home Husband

    He is now "working from home" and has taken over the house. He is loud, curses at the computer, always looking into what I am doing, commenting on everything. He monopolizes the phone, asks where I am going, looks at my calendar to see what I am up to. I feel like I have lost...
    miserable2012 miserable2012
    56-60
    4 Responses Aug 20, 2012

    I can 't stand my husband I can't stand my

    husband etcetera....So i married a jerk .he only cares about themselves if i say anything about how i feel i get screamed at he actually screamed in my ear so loud on purpose .he has a lot of problems .thinks that he is perfect .he thinks that acting like an ******* is...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Feb 4

    Reason # 3 – He’s A Bitchy, Overly-sensitive, Childish Spendthrift

    His mood swings are unbearable. He nags and b i t c h e s like you would not believe. He is extremely sensitive – his feelings get hurt if I raise my voice at him or if I use the tiniest hint of sarcasm. If there is such a thing as menopause for men, he is definitely going...
    LivLyfLuv LivLyfLuv
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2011

    Reason #2

    He can be incredibly stupid at times; actually most times. He's not completely stupid, he just lacks basic common sense. Here is just one example: we're having some home renovations done and work begins next week. We both work outside of the home so he suggested giving the...
    LivLyfLuv LivLyfLuv
    36-40, F
    Apr 13, 2011

    So my husbands mother says nasty things about

    my family members. How is this my fault???
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Jan 17

    So my husband is a complete *** because.

    He shows no respect for any of us but yet he thinks he deserves respect in return . You get what you give to people . Why the heck would you let your family disrespect me all the time . But you expect me to kiss their behinds . Would you like people who did nothing but...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 4

    There comes a time when enough is actually too

    much to withstand. Fussing and fighting over most anything to very little to just fighting over nothing. One day I took my grocery cart with a bag of my belongings and my child (toddler) sitting on top of the bag for an 8 hour walk in the hot July heat to get to a relative's...
    Applleicing Applleicing
    46-50
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    So my mother in law lies a lot

    and tries to intimidate you to say what she wants you to say . I think my husband is a big jerk .because I have noticed him picking up on her evil ways and I can not stand him for it .you do not try to intimidate people to do want you want them to do that's a control freak and...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    So when God needed an a.

    h. My husband just stepped right up he is the biggest jerk ever!!!!! Will he ever take my side on anything.
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Dec 16, 2015

    I married a huge jerk always yells all the time

    and he wonders why no one in the house wants to hang out with him .selfish jerk it's always about him he is always complaining and I am so sick and tired of it I wish that I didn't marry him we have nothing at all in common .never includes me in anything. 22 plus years of...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Jan 4

    Loud And Confrontational Husband At Me And Son

    I've been married for 15 years to my spouse. We have a 6 yr old son who is my life and the best thing that has happened in our marriage. I feel like I've always been the provider for our child and our home. I can't communicate with my spouse without him yelling loud at me and...
    Cantlovehimnomore Cantlovehimnomore
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    My husbands mother the first day

    that I meet her. Didn't like me .so she made up lies saying that I cursed when I did not . She wanted to cause trouble. My sister in law blamed me for something that I didn't even do and wanted to get me back so she tried to get my dog hit by a car . And I didn't do anything...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 29

    I Cant Stand My Husband

    Where do i begin ? ...he treated me wonderful when we were dating...the marriage has been crap since day one.....i took marriage vows so i stayed....the longer we are together (10 years now) the more i cant stand the man.....if i leave i need to start all over at 50 years old...
    touchessky touchessky
    46-50
    4 Responses May 28, 2011

    Loud At Me And In Front Of Our Son

    I've been married for 15 years to my spouse. We have a 6 yr old son who is my life and the best thing that has happened in our marriage. I feel like I've always been the provider for our child and our home. I can't communicate with my spouse without him yelling loud at me and...
    Cantlovehimnomore Cantlovehimnomore
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    So his sister opened my back gate knowing my

    dog was in the yard .I guess hoping he would run off and get hit by a car ,tried to steal from me and broke my computer and you really need to ask why I don't like her .REALLY!!!!!!!!!
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    Me: (making dinner with the baby trying to

    climb on the stove and whining trying to climb up my legs) hey babe, can you please hang with the baby for like ten minutes while I get dinner on the table? Husband: (zoned out on toddler tv show) sure. He never moves a muscle and I finish dinner and get it on the table while...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    It's Like Groundhog Day Here

    Nothing ever changes. My husband of nearly 5 years seems intent on driving me completely crazy with his lazy behavior and negative attitude. Nothing is ever his fault and he is always playing the victim card to explain why he couldn't get something done, despite the fact that his...
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2013

    He Has Issues...

    ...and so he is MR. NEGATIVITY!!! No friendships...always talking people down behind their backs...constantly finding things wrong with everyone and the world. It's so had for him to see the upside of life. Complain complain complain...Plus he is always right!  Just ask him!He...
    peep100 peep100
    51-55
    3 Responses May 29, 2012

    If divorce wasn't so expensive I would be out

    in a flash. I think that's why divorce is so costly, to make you stop and evaluate if the marriage is really worth it. We made the promises and vows, it's just so damn hard to remember how much you love your significant other when they complain about every little financial...
    CrystalShip1208 CrystalShip1208
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    Reason #1

    We've been together for 12 years, married for ten. I'm not sure when I figured it out but I can't stand him about 90% of the time and the reasons are ENDLESS. I'm hoping that writing about it will be cathartic for me until I come up with a real solution. Reason #1 - he is...
    LivLyfLuv LivLyfLuv
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2010

    25 Years Later And I Cannot Stand My Husband Anymore!!!

    My husband and I have been together for 27 years and been married for almost 25 and I cannot stand him anymore!!! It's so hard just to be physically in the same room, not to mention the same house. He was really great when I first met him, but now he's turned into a 49-year old...
    sickomen sickomen
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Aug 22, 2013

    The End Of The Road

     It feels like I am trapped in room with no windows or door. Every which way I turn, it is blackness. I am all alone...I get so frustrated and angry when he comes home. He is 35 no job, limited education, and wants to be an artist. He believes that making bigfoot videos...
    alice60058 alice60058
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2009

    So my husbands family are always jerks to me

    but all year round not only on christmas ,and my husband knows it.He says that we do not have to have diner with his family so we have diner as a family at home .then they go off to his mothers house .i stay at home .but my jerky husband seems like he has to try and ruin the...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Dec 21, 2015

    A New Low - We're Fighting Over Condiments!

    Hubby loves to entertain - I used to love it too, but not anymore. Planning a simple holiday dinner with him is more like planning a wedding for 500 guests. He second guesses everything I do which makes me defensive and leads to a fight. He denies it but he wants to be in control...
    LivLyfLuv LivLyfLuv
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    He is such a jerk complaining to me about not

    sleeping at night and then having to go to work telling me I don't know what it's like .so when I said to him that I do know and explained that for two years when our son was little he wanted to drink a bottle all night 2 or three times through the night so I do know because...
    pink26 pink26
    41-45, F
    Dec 5, 2015

    So I am pretty sure I am passive aggressive

    or something because I am afraid to say what it is I want so instead now I just sulk. I can’t stand my husband he has left me so many times but we have young children so I always take him back because of that and the fact that he says if I wouldn’t have done whatever he...
    andylynn39 andylynn39
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2015
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