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I Can't Stand Myself

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    I can't stand myself that I am fat and ugly. I always look and the mirror and cry. I feel unwanted and unloved. All these skinny girls with their hot boyfriends. I tried becoming...
    upsidedownworld upsidedownworld 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Who Am I. - Who am i? I can't stand This person. I can't stand who I am, what I look like, how I treat others, how I think; I can't stand any of it. Everyday I feel like a burden...
    Xocrayolacat Xocrayolacat 16-17, F Jun 26, 2013

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    Breaking The Stigma - i sat today and thought in a stupor because thats all i can do for the first two hours of my day because of the medications i take i am 34 and my health just...
    seemyheartnotmysin seemyheartnotmysin 31-35, M May 12, 2013

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    Why Am I So Ugly? - I seem to be getting uglier every year. I have days where I can't stand the sight of myself if I catch my refletion in a window or whatever. My family say I...
    blankspace2011 blankspace2011 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    Prepared - Sometimes it's best to look at the ugly and be ready to make the best decision. I challenge you to look at a hypothetical and try some new thinking, no automatic...
    hateable hateable 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Trapped - i ******* hate this. i feel like I've messed up every single relationship I've ever had and theres nothing left but broken pieces. and theres nothing particularly wrong...
    foreverthesweetthings foreverthesweetthings 13-15, F Apr 17, 2012

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    I've spent the past few years of my life trying to really get a grasp of what kind of person I want to be and I've been trying my hardest to strive for it but occasionally I keep...
    Slamrish Slamrish 22-25 Dec 4, 2013

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    Like Me - If you are like me you like solitude.  You find yourself hiding every day from the people who who view you as an outcast.  You hate your body, your style, the...
    Cheezitt Cheezitt 31-35 1 Response Oct 11, 2010

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    Ewww Im So Ugly - i literally cannot stand myself. no advice works. nothing. i really hate it. i look in the mirrow and i start to cry. one day i threw up at my refelection. im not...
    LiveLoveLaugh6 LiveLoveLaugh6 13-15, F Oct 9, 2012

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    Binge Eating No Willpower - I get so sad and angry I can't stop and maybe I'm a hypocrite but sometimes I can't help and pay attention to what people say. I hate how this is...
    Sora Sora 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2007

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    I Can't Stand Myself -      I will first tell you how I used to be because my past makes my pain sharper. I used to be perfect. I liked my life, I was the top...
    siuan1 siuan1 18-21, F Nov 1, 2010

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    Screwed Up - I'm the most ******-up person I have ever known. Sure, from the outside, it may look like my problems are trivial (and I agree that I could have WAY worse ones), but...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2010

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    I Can't Stand That I Am Ugly, Stupid And Completely Worthless - I look at myself in the mirror and i feel like dying, i swear i do. I see pretty people everywhere around me, see...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    I Suck And People Suck More! - I so sick and tired of life man, really. Im a lazy ************ and way to flexable with myself. Im constantly spotting problems with myself that I...
    mikeiacono mikeiacono 22-25 1 Response Dec 26, 2010

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    Depressed - 19 y.o., almost 20, fat, single, no talent, ugly, stupid. I'm at the point where i almost stopped eating but the barely necessary not to feel pain, stopped caring about...
    VikingHaag2 VikingHaag2 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    I am Totally The Ugliest And Most Worthless Person On Ep - i cant stand myself  i never look in a mirror  i can shave without a mirror now dont own a mirror why would i want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2011

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    Envy Me, I Found Out I Am Already For The Holidays - Yesterday was my birthday. It went about as bad as they always do. I'm not great about my birthdays or some aspects of the...
    hateable hateable 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 30, 2012

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    Ever since I can remember my parents have been fighting with each other. I can't stand it when they do. My father always gets defensive and over dramatic and says horrible things...
    RachelRosieanne RachelRosieanne 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    To be honest, I just can't stand seeing happy couples being luvy in public these days. Not that I hate luv, it's just been a hard few years. Earlier I posted bout me not trusting...
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    I can't stand thrift shop at all. Nope. I can't.
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    When I was younger I used to try to spend time with my dad and eh would always yell at me to go away and not to talk to him. now just recently, He has tried to have a relationship...
    RachelRosieanne RachelRosieanne 16-17, F Apr 5

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    I thought it was weird that I can't stand cigarette smoke and yet I enjoy cigars now and then. But I see, from the groups people are in, that a number of others here are the same...
    arcanuum arcanuum 61-65, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    There is this song called #SELFIE, and I find it quite annoying, to be honest I actually would prefer songs by Justin Bieber and all those hated artists. I just can't stand this...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand every song by Beyoncé
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand blurred lines
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand any song that is by Miley Cyrus or Taylor Swift.
    Djcman331 Djcman331 13-15, M Apr 4

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    Sometimes I can't stand others I love them and I'm tired of watching 4 series of that lame tv show
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F Apr 6

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    She's a two face B**ch! And a gold digger. Can't stand her.
    INeedMore INeedMore 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know what I need to do. I know how to do it. I know why it needs to be done. But I just can't get myself to do it.
    elcinqogrande elcinqogrande 26-30, M Apr 1

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    I am a beautiful brown skin Puerto rican Egyptian woman who's proud of her skin color of her roots if you only judge me and others like me based on color your ignorant your foolish...
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My BIL is truly a piece of work. He thinks because he's Ivy League trained, he's above everyone. He (and my MIL) have no respect for people- they say whatever they want without...
    UpsetNAlone UpsetNAlone 31-35, F Apr 6

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    Soo the homewreckers are blocking me.. Cause I'm authentic n they hate... their forums are full of homewreckers n not at from a woman in a committed relationship.. Even tho that's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 day ago

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    Argh. Note to self: you can't trust high school girls. Infact the only females you should trust are your sisters aunties and mothers (or older woman who are pretty much your second...
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I think a lot of people have this problem. Like it have friends that are forced to go to church. In my eyes that's abuse. No? You should be able to choose your religion. That is a...
    Janellesings Janellesings 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    No I can't! Even if it's my done to me and I see it happening to another girl I feel really uncomfortable and tbh a little bit disgusted with the men.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I find it absolutely disgusting when I see these much older men hitting on young girls especially underage girls. I mean we call ourselves superior species and boast of being...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    When I want to express my loneliness, my rage, my sorrow, my emotions, I just isolate myself. Something inside me is saying that I can't tell anyone about these wretched emotions...
    AlyssaTM AlyssaTM 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I find it challenging to be honest with my family because I am different from them and I think differently than them. I know that my family judges atheists, and political liberals...
    Growlin Growlin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    When I touch myself, it doesn't feel good. It is hard for me to get to my **** and I have tried rubbing, touching, pressure, and more but still no ******. I feel like a failure...
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    Forgive any breach of protocols, I'm new. I need some advice. I'm 44, handicapped due to an accident. I have 3 children by two different moms. I recently asked my gf to move in...
    eyemanmd eyemanmd 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    I don't understand some people? I like to think of myself as a nice person I rarely judge and try to see the best in people. So why do people feel the need to be so cruel? I got a...
    guessitsjustmexo guessitsjustmexo 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm currently attending grad school for a degree while working full time. I'm extremely swamped. But I have never forgotten my husband duty. I cook 75% of the time, and I do...
    seandm seandm 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    In summer, I HAVE to be in the pool or at the beach 24/7 to cool myself down! I wish it would snow in my country in winter!
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I cannot stand it. Every morning when I'm going to school I walk past another school where I find the teachers out back smoking. I can honestly say I lose a lot of respect for...
    kittensjpg kittensjpg 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    It all started when I started dating my now husband about 15years ago. My sister in law didn't want her brother with anyone unless she had say in who it was. Well when she didn't...
    laidbackgirl laidbackgirl 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The only country song i cant stand tim magraw his new song it sounds like trash
    curvybitch curvybitch 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Let it Go so ******* annoying even for Disney standards
    ttremain ttremain 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hey guess what?! This is called the EXPERIENCE project. A place where people can reach out to others and share there EXPERIENCES and ideas and feelings and thoughts! Maybe people...
    bellhasdreams bellhasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mom married my stepdad when I was four or older. At first it seemed fine, but they start fighting more and more. The last few years my stepdad just seems to yell and curse some...
    starfallingandfreezing starfallingandfreezing 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Every time I see those posts of someone saying "I hate humanity" and asking for advice on dealing with it, all these people keep saying "Oh, who hurt you?" and "Oh, I have faith in...
    CrimsonRaven CrimsonRaven 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    I work with a bunch of corporate lifer, clock-watching Jedi slackers. They fill their days with 60-minute meetings with long attendance lists but no agendas. What little time they...
    needlessthings needlessthings 31-35, M Mar 27